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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Nobody: 11:47am On May 15, 2021 |
So of all the problems we are facing in this country and the ones been faced in marriages, all you could complain about is "lack of compliment" from your husband? Like seriously? It's just like expecting my father in the village to always tell my mother "I love u" or "I miss u". Those new generation fancy words are alien to them. Some men raised by such parents also find it difficult " complimenting" their spouse or girlfriends. But that doesn't mean the man doesn't love or care for her. 1 Like |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by anataala: 11:50am On May 15, 2021 |
It seems you want break your marriage you’re not dating, you’re Couples, how is that a problem If he’s fulfilling his obligations towards you I don’t think that a problem. Studio247: 1 Like |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by erico2k2(m): 11:50am On May 15, 2021 |
Studio247:Do you compliment him on lil things he does round the house? |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Goalnaldo(m): 11:50am On May 15, 2021 |
And I'm here wasting my compliments on people that absolutely do not have any emotional connection with me whatsoever. I remember some guys telling me if you get girl friend or you Marry, you go kill am with praises |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by TemmyT002(m): 11:56am On May 15, 2021 |
So why are you telling us? Go and tell your husband ńa. Abi irú kí leleyi bayi |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Nobody: 11:56am On May 15, 2021 |
Studio247: Studio247 Try reading a book called The 5 love languages Apparently, what makes him feel loved is different from what you call love Don't know, but if you ask him, he'll mentioned other things he's been doing at least, that's because words of compliments are not his primary love language You may not also be speaking his love language also possibly Try and read the book, the simple knowledge has turned many marriages headed for the rock around You'd be able to win him over I wish you the best of luck 1 Like |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Heavensent01(m): 12:00pm On May 15, 2021 |
in whatever advise you will get here I just want to remind you that misogynist get married too misogynist are always scared to be tagged gay and fall in marriage out of societal pressures no sane man won't compliment his woman except misogynist |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by mrkings84(m): 12:04pm On May 15, 2021 |
A white man once told my father that "little things are little but the effect of little things are great" |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by lucky4west: 12:04pm On May 15, 2021 |
ur husband is either not romantic or deep down in his heart he does not love u 100%.....but he wont admit that to you or any one....u will be surprised to see how easily ur hubby compliments others outside and for him to be reluctant to apply your love language even after been scolded for it or reminded speaks volume u may not believe me but that is a fact....why flare up when ur wify, life partner make a simple request or reminder that require little or nothing to do?.....deep down ur husband does not love you and if he does not 100% i can bet you on this on any amount....u may be shocked u were not the "ideal" woman he intended marrying but circumstances made a choice for him....sorry i have to be harsh but that is the way it is... |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by officialmario(m): 12:05pm On May 15, 2021 |
He doesnt love you, he just force himself into the marriage. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by jnrbayano(m): 12:06pm On May 15, 2021 |
daddytime: Best comment of the year by a country mile. Nice one |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by POTUT(m): 12:07pm On May 15, 2021 |
Studio247: Do you compliment him? Is he or has he been having a difficult financial flow? Is there something you know he desires but has been eluding him? Like a better paying job, or something else? He could be predominantly occupied in his thoughts about something (mostly financial) that he has time for nothing else but the success in that area. Instead of waiting for his compliment, you could reverse it by asking his opinion on your appearance, your dressing or anything else you want to be complimented on. Did he compliment you during courtship? If he did, then he is preoccupied now. If he didn't then it's his nature. Outsiders will always compliment. Don't be bothered by that. Don't you see how your president compliments other countries but calls his own 'lazy yoots'? Just laugh it off. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by victme1(m): 12:12pm On May 15, 2021 |
I advice you to leave him and go with people who complement you that makes you happy. 2 Likes |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by emelda86(f): 12:23pm On May 15, 2021 |
My dear that one na problem,u no get problem na abi u want come out make babes help u run am? |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by LordReed(m): 12:23pm On May 15, 2021 |
Studio247: Sounds exaggerated. You mean even the food he eats has never made him go "that was delicious"? |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Nobody: 12:23pm On May 15, 2021 |
Romanoff: You better change your mindset. Not everyone has time for that. Except a jobless man. Do you know what they call responsibility and honest living? To provide for your household in a country like Nigeria in a legit way needs a separate complimenting. Don't expect someone who works to make sure his family are happy to be complementing you unnecessarily. His job is to provide and your job is to keep the house together. Infact he needs more compliment than you. If you complement him he will definitely reciprocate. Try to make provisions and you will see him change but if he is the one doing all things, my dear he is your god. 1 Like |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by 79733139(m): 12:25pm On May 15, 2021 |
If that offense is big enough, divorce him or else accept it as his behaviour. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Secondt44(m): 12:26pm On May 15, 2021 |
I guess he's a man like me. I don't like how woman reason whenever you compliment then on anything. They may even capitalize on it |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Ikpongiton: 12:27pm On May 15, 2021 |
Studio247:but if he feed you well.make you dress well.make you smell fine and bleeps you well and does not cheat on you.then, what is your problem? |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Romanoff(f): 12:36pm On May 15, 2021 |
oldtruth: Well, my husband is not jobless and he loads me with compliments. 2 Likes |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by AmbassadoR100(m): 12:41pm On May 15, 2021 |
My dear relax. Whatever negative you put your mind to tends to make you negative too and weigh you down. Try and be positive and rise above the negativity! Since he doesn't compliment you, keep on doing whatever good you are doing. Good things speak for itself... If not everyday, it will surely.. someday! Don't ever ask him again for compliments. Try and be good to him always. Thank anyone that compliments you but don't look for it because of your good works. Every good thing you do, do it for God and not for human beings. He is one that will reward you. Look up to Him always! He always has a way of making things turn to your favor. Remain Blessed. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Handsomebb: 12:43pm On May 15, 2021 |
Studio247:[b][/b]And for ONCE not ones. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Nobody: 12:44pm On May 15, 2021 |
Romanoff: Wow! Lucky you. Honestly to be taking care of responsibility through honest loving in Nigeria can be frustrating. So, if your husband in making honest living, taking care of his responsibility and still complements you always, he is surely a rare gentleman. Don't lose him |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by smasher1(m): 12:49pm On May 15, 2021 |
Studio247: Although, what he did is not right, learn to understand him for who he is. He may never change, but learn to love him that way and disregard compliments, appreciation from others outside. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Karozy: 1:00pm On May 15, 2021 |
Studio247: Your man is just full of pride and ego.. he knows exactly what he is doing, he is wicked and selfish |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by lexy2014: 1:02pm On May 15, 2021 |
Studio247: Didn't u no he was like that before u married him? |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by wacoj(m): 1:07pm On May 15, 2021 |
Don't mind your yeye husband |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by orlaglobal234: 1:08pm On May 15, 2021 |
Madam don't stress yourself I'm in the same shoe with your husband because i don't know how to complement woman despite my wife complained to me several time about it but nothing change but I do complemented even appreciate her in my heart but i never let her know that i respect and value her effort and love her as well |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by portathena: 1:12pm On May 15, 2021 |
You are lucky sef ,some will look down on every thing you do,downgrade, commonize ...infact you will prefer to be ignored. |
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