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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by AfroKnight: 10:44am On May 15, 2021 |
SmellySperm: Thank you bro. Man has been doing other things but na compliments she dey target. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Nobody: 10:45am On May 15, 2021 |
Has he ever complimented another woman before? If no, then he's not the type. Let him be. I know a man who doesn't compliment the wife but when he sees other girls he goes " fine girl". Now that is where there is a problem. But as long as he's the same, compliment wise to other women, you have nothing to worry about. Face your life and channel your efforts to other things he likes if youre hell bent on getting his compliments. *Petty things getting in the way these days.* 1 Like |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by UDUJ(m): 10:46am On May 15, 2021 |
Fastlinkpro: So sorry to hear this bro. From your post I can see you really loved her. Stay strong. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by nautybride: 10:46am On May 15, 2021 |
Chai! Fellow woman dey find trouble where there is none. Na compliment man go chop. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by moneyissweet(m): 10:48am On May 15, 2021 |
He is just an asshole of a husband, don't mind his stupidity. As far as people outside appreciate you,his own doesn't count. Some people don't know the value of what they have until another person took it away from them. Studio247: 1 Like |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by BlueAir: 10:49am On May 15, 2021 |
Never overpamper a Nigerian woman. I don learn that one from m woman DaddyRochie1642: 1 Like |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by SURElee(f): 10:50am On May 15, 2021 |
Was he complimenting you before marriage? Begin to sow compliments in his life and it will become a part of him. Slowly but surely he will catch up. Don't just complain. Be the change you want to see. Begin to give and you will in turn receive it from him 1 Like |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by specie103(m): 10:50am On May 15, 2021 |
The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman Try buy the book for your husband. The book might help him. The Big idea is that... 1. We have been led to believe that if we are really in love, it will last forever. However, once the experience of falling in love has run its course, we return to the world of reality and begin to assert ourselves. 2. Some couples believe that the end of the “in-love” experience means they have only two options: a life of misery with their spouse or jump ship and try again. 3. However, there is a third and better alternative: We can recognize the in-love experience for what it was—a temporary emotional high—and now pursue “real love” with our spouse. 4. Your partner’s complaints are the most powerful indicators of her primary love language. 5. There is nothing more powerful than loving your partner even when they’re not responding positively. The 5 Love Languages 1. Words of affirmation 2. Quality time 3. Receiving gifts 4. Acts of service 5. Physical touch 1 Like |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by amadil14(m): 10:51am On May 15, 2021 |
DaddyRochie1642:Truth. I think that is the issue I'm facing. I compliment my wife so much and today I'm regretting it |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by MuyiBinary: 10:51am On May 15, 2021 |
Studio247: There's no marriage without it's own shortcomings. Either accept the situation or find a peaceful way to resolve it. Do not create trouble where none exist. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Monzze: 10:53am On May 15, 2021 |
Upon all the wahala wey dey this kwantry.. both physical and spiritual. Na compliment be OP itch... Shior. Studio247: |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Focusmind: 10:53am On May 15, 2021 |
Definitely, outsiders out of ameoba will always compliments you more than your partners. My wife experiences that compliments a lot from outsiders. It doesn't mean that I don't compliment her. When I give her money to buy fine wears and she goes out with her friends, she would always get compliments. If your husband is doing his job very well, please don't stress him so much about this part of responsibility. 1 Like |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by BIGNAME2020: 10:54am On May 15, 2021 |
Studio247: Complement of the season
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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Nobody: 10:55am On May 15, 2021 |
While studying my Mind, i have noticed that several emotions go together. Hate, Ingratitude, Cynicism. Love, Gratitude, Optimism. Showing gartitude makes everything better, even the small things. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WPPPFqsECz0 |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by guru90: 10:55am On May 15, 2021 |
Na wa oooh... Every thing in marriage must not be issue at all.... Please no appreciation under this Buhari regime.... Man de cut his coat according to his size now.. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by peacettw: 10:55am On May 15, 2021 |
We are in the same boat and personally, I no longer notice cos I am my most ardent cheerleader. Also note that there are some friends/people who may do the same or even go as far as bringing your confidence down a notch just to feel better about themselves. So, the earlier you learn that your confidence/self-esteem lies entirely on you and not on other people's perception of you, the better. 4 Likes |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by alexola20(m): 10:56am On May 15, 2021 |
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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Samchik: 10:56am On May 15, 2021 |
He is not really the romantic type or not the type who bears it all. Don't force him but start complimenting him any time he is looking nice....see him reciprocate in no time. 1 Like |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by streetfabulous: 10:58am On May 15, 2021 |
Naturally, anything the mind focuses on will be magnified. First think on and appreciate everything good about him and your marriage. Second, many atimes you may have to give more of what you want. Try complimenting him also and do it more often with sincerity. Third, don't be too thirsty for anybody's compliment. It makes you emotionally vulnerable and easy to deceive. Your husband's lack of compliments is better than a thousand fake compliments from so called friends and others. As for me I prefer doing the compliments than waiting for others to compliment me. 1 Like |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by MilkANDpepper: 10:58am On May 15, 2021 |
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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by valentineuwakwe(m): 10:59am On May 15, 2021 |
you cause the whole thing in the first place..why won't a man appreciate good thing not to talk of his own wife? Perhaps you were doing things to please him and win his love but him no send.....maybe you thought by doing those things, spending unnecessarily and trying to woo him with such will make him live you more and appreciate when you guys where dating but e no work as he carry am enter marriage... Just do kill yourself. ..those outside who knows what you put into the family daily will appreciate you. Cheers! 1 Like |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by semyman: 11:00am On May 15, 2021 |
You never know with women He compliments you now you can turn to another thing |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Bahose(m): 11:01am On May 15, 2021 |
Studio247: |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Seniorwriter(m): 11:02am On May 15, 2021 |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Bimpe29: 11:02am On May 15, 2021 |
It's really not normal but could be objectively looked into. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Jinad50: 11:03am On May 15, 2021 |
OnlyDeCapPlease:i really like your contribution. 1 Like |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Omoluabiii(m): 11:05am On May 15, 2021 |
I thought you did courtship before getting married right? These re what you should ve check during courtship, and if he pretends you will know, and quickly address it then, before saying yes to marry him. You said yes to an unappreciating man, thats who he is, enjoy the ride cos thats him. 1 Like |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by NaijaNaWaa: 11:05am On May 15, 2021 |
Studio247: You probably put him off and maybe his mind is no longer there. Be patient and see if things change |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Jinad50: 11:06am On May 15, 2021 |
Foodqueen:complimenting yourself can make u appear proud sometimes. U must be patience to allow your praise come from somebody elses mouth. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by rajiedreez: 11:08am On May 15, 2021 |
Was he complimenting you during courtship? If no then he might feel that since you had no issue with it during those years of courtship then why bring it up now. And again does he feel uneasy or jealous when others compliment you in his presence? If not, then he see no big deal in compliments. And also, as he doesn't compliment you, hope he does not talk you down or degrade you in public if not also. Na him way of life be that. No big deal |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by flokii: 11:10am On May 15, 2021 |
@OP you dey chop complimemts? As country hard reach, where people can barely survive, it's compliments this hanty is getting headaches over. If your husband isn't complimenting you, wake up in the morning and compliment yourself abi? So far he is taking care of his family and paying the bills, I see no issues. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by breezeng: 11:13am On May 15, 2021 |
Complimenting you for what. Is it for a good job at home or on bed is it your dressing. There are many ways to compliment a woman's effort. It is not only by saying whaooh, whaoooh you are good, you are sweet you are this, u are that. Most of such gesture are deceitful and unnecessary with some matured men. It is not only when you paint your face, wear mascara, tights, make ups etc that makes your man appreciate u. Some men like it simple and natural. Your man be among such men while you are the whaooh type. Try to fish out what he appreciate and not what you like doing and you will see changes. 1 Like |
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