infogenius:


Can I ask you a question?
Sincerely tell us when last u complimented ur husband.
How often do you compliment him?

That's how one woman was saying her husband doesn't show her affection through text or voice calls.
I asked her to tell me when she did same, she was looking at me like...

GBAM!
I'm surprised your post is not acknowledged by many but it's the truth.

Women don't know that you get what you give in a man.

Maybe because people tell them, they are wired to receive.
We know that's a lie

Compliment him and he'll compliment you.

infogenius:

That's how one woman was saying her husband doesn't show her affection through text or voice calls

I can be so lovely, but I'm stingy with the bolded .

There are some things I regard as bf-gf r/shp stuff. I may be wrong though.

FarahAideed:
Cheating done dey hungry u

Considering her post below, I may agree with you on this comment.

Praises spoilt kids.... that is your husband's philosophy.

ANOTHER NEEDY WOMAN.

He houses you, feeds you, bleeps you, and gave you kids. But you still complain.

The Need to be Appreciated is a genuine
Human Need.

This lack of appreciation between two
Partners is a major cause of cheating and divorce in Marrige.

I have a suggestion, if you want him to
Compliment you, try to give him genuine
Appreciation first.

Honestly, i really believe people should
Study human behaviour.
Especially the Principles of Influence.

Truvel:
Compliments Of D Season.

lol! Obiadima d husband d low

UDUJ:


Learn to use punctuation marks when writing. Your write up is atrocious

Chai!

You get bad mouth sha!

Okwa no atrocious

Truvel:
Compliments Of D Season.

I can't stop laughing @dis your response to the OP that didn't tell us if she also compliment her husband of 7years! SMH @OP.
FUTURE IS FEMALE AFTER MALE.

Ladies are wired to crave for attention even after 7yrs of marriage you can't stop the crave.
Very complex beings.


@SeniorWriter

Your English sef fit dey make your husband vex.

Studio247:
Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this I have been married now for 7 years.

And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways.

The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.

Several times I spoke to him about it
But he will flare up.

And for me I feel appreciating and complimenting.
Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.

I don't know

When You were dating Him, did He compliment You?

Studio247:
Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this I have been married now for 7 years.

And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways.

The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.

Several times I spoke to him about it
But he will flare up.

And for me I feel appreciating and complimenting.
Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.

I don't know

There are many of them behaving locals

He sees you but won't appreciate your look because of complex in him

The current men we have appreciate women and that makes us feel happy

But the local breeds doesn't do so because they don't appreciate good things

Just look good, get your compliments from outside and glow your world

Probably he isn't the romantic type and he may not know that the female gender gets turned on more by what they hear, even if they are lies.

And he may love you and the kids deep down inside. Not every man is the same.

If you've tried talking him into it and he doesn't seem to wanna key in, then perhaps you should let things rest a little. The Oyinbos most times value these sundries over true love and care from the spouses and that's why divorce isn't seem far away from 'em.

If he is faithful to your marriage, treats you fine and takes good care of the family, I think you shouldn't trade him for morsel of compliment that may not even put food on the table.

Some husbands compliment their wives on the surface but in actual fact face-fvck and "face-compliment" the wives while thinking of other women outside. The wives would not know about the cheating husband and so they keep giggling away sheepishly.

Have you stopped to think if those men that compliment your looks outside give same compliments to their spouses back home?

Seniorwriter:


I can't stop laughing @ dis your response to the OP that didn't tell us if she also compliment her husband of 7years! SMH @OP.
FUTURE IS FEMALE AFTER MALE.

Ladies are wired to crave for attention even after 7yrs of marriage you can't stop the crave cravings.
Very complex beings.

Fixed

No be only compliment na component

Studio247:
Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this I have been married now for 7 years.

And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways.

The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.

Several times I spoke to him about it
But he will flare up.

And for me I feel appreciating and complimenting.
Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.

I don't know

You madam, how many times have you complimented him for taking care of the family...

Men are busy thinking and working their asses out trying to make life better for their families especially
for you women and all y'all think about is verbal compliments...which compliment is bigger than providing for the family.

Come woman better leave your husband alone so he can focus on more important things.

stupidmod3:
wetin go b?

E go be for her husband

Are u doing things you should have done as a wife, mother or an ordinary person and you are expecting a compliment.
How many times have you thank him for marrying you and after 7yrs he has never go for any other woman but you.
Continue your duty as a good wife and mother, surely he will always compliment you with LOVE and a happy ending.
And, please think of something else.

I suspect you may have married either a Man from a different generation than yours or a Man who lacks communication skills cos of some underlying issues.

Handle him with care though, such men are fragile.

Studio247:
Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this I have been married now for 7 years.

And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways.

The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.

Several times I spoke to him about it
But he will flare up.

And for me I feel appreciating and complimenting.
Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.

I don't know

“I need to get married”
“Time is not on my side”

Now you’re “married” and “happy” at long last? Why you dey disturb people?

No relationship can survive without efficient and effective communication, and for communication to happen in the first place, you both need to understand each other's love language(s).
The Five Love Languages are:
Words of Affirmation
Quality Time
Physical Touch
Acts of Service
Receiving Gifts.
Since he doesn't speak your language, try and learn his own love language and I believe from there, you should be able to teach him yours.

Studio247:
Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this I have been married now for 7 years.

And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways.

The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.

Several times I spoke to him about it
But he will flare up.

And for me I feel appreciating and complimenting.
Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.

I don't know

I think it comes natural. Some men are keen on complimenting the opposite sex. For me, it comes naturally,
I'm like a fashion adviser to my wife. She always try to get my approval in everything she buys I have a good fashion sense by the way.
For some other male folks, you may have to put a gun to their head before they say something.
I was complimented a female colleague and she almost burst into tears. She told me later that her husband has never complimented her for once.
Just bear with him. Na im way be that

Cheating done dey hungry u

Over billing cause am maybe him too dey pay bill

I don't get people sha.. shebi u no date am before marriage Una go come NL dey use style find side partners under the guise of advise.

Please it is urgent, someone should help me to unmasked this number 09157052664 (the name of the registered user, topprint and the area it base) someone using the number is a big thief

For me , it's now I am regretting that I have not showed my wife much love, untill I lost her at child birth.

I wish I have the opportinity to meet her again, then I will always tell her she is right even if she is wrong.

Does he fvck u good?if yes
Dats ur compliment rite dere

FarahAideed:
Cheating done dey hungry u

Na wetin she just come here to find no mind those fabu tales.. we know them

He may not appreciate you directly but may appreciate you in your absence (telling his friends). I think he feels when he does that it may get over your head.

Studio247:
Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this I have been married now for 7 years.

And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways.

The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.

Several times I spoke to him about it
But he will flare up.

And for me I feel appreciating and complimenting.
Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.

I don't know

People talk most times when things are not going right. complimenting you in everything you do right is a very big task to me, except when the negatives in you are more than the positives in you then, that would be to encourage you, else if he does that every time, you'd probably be unsettled any day he forgets to do that.

Studio247:
Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this I have been married now for 7 years.

And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways.

The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.

Several times I spoke to him about it
But he will flare up.

And for me I feel appreciating and complimenting.
Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.

I don't know

In my little mind I would say either he is the type that don't know how to sing praise.
Or there is one quality he really admire in a woman but u lack it, that's if he frowns at u sometimes.
Like me if u like kill urself but if u are not educationally sharp, forget it, u don fall my hand
Mind u in not married o, so u shouldn't take my comment serious