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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by maasoap(m): 8:31pm On May 15, 2021 |
Studio247: OnlyDeCapPlease: Tell her, empty complimentaries. E go soon clear for her eyes 2 Likes |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Nobody: 8:36pm On May 15, 2021 |
DaddyRochie1642: He is definitely complimenting small girls in the street.... |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by maasoap(m): 8:38pm On May 15, 2021 |
Nolajane: She can get a divorce now. I'm sure that one of those men complimenting her will marry her and continue with the complimentary business. Lol |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Fiscus105(m): 8:50pm On May 15, 2021 |
infogenius: if you ask this trouble maker, seeking for compliments now, when last she kneeled down for her husband and also throw the same question for her , the last time she kneeled down for her pastor. I'm very sure it will hard in her month to say word too. 1 Like |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Tchalz(m): 8:59pm On May 15, 2021 |
He does it at your back... |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by profilemessages: 9:04pm On May 15, 2021 |
Digressing when i first entered my new compound the women there asked me " why your stomach big like this? later they asked "cant you greet us? later they asked " why arent you romantic? later they asked " cant you fxck? later to their fellow women " you sure say this man's di ck dey work like this? IF I DEY GO PRAY EVERYTIME they will say " its like this guy has offended GOD OH" TO THE TOPIC the older women grow, the greedier they become and the more entitled to your properties and attention they will become she is shit testing you to know how much she still worth, the moment you put her in her right place she will come to her senses . TOTO PEOPLE, NO WONDER ABOKI GUYS ALWAYS LOCK THEM INSIDE GATE MAY GOD SAVE US FROM WOMEN(VAGINA PEOPLE) |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Richthekid: 9:15pm On May 15, 2021 |
Women want everything without giving almost nothing but Sex and headache 3 Likes |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Nobody: 9:45pm On May 15, 2021 |
AfroKnight:Lol I swear. Her wahala dey for compliment. Awon compliment of the season 1 Like |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Mysticbabe: 9:53pm On May 15, 2021 |
Studio247:my dear it can be really frustrating. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Happy2020: 1:14am On May 16, 2021 |
You knew this BEFORE marrying him, so why are you complaining now? Smdh Nobody is perfect. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Happy2020: 1:16am On May 16, 2021 |
I agree and I am a female. Women want the moon and the stars and want to offer lazy pussy in return. Richthekid: 2 Likes |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Origin(f): 4:08am On May 16, 2021 |
No human being should be built like that. And you do not need to seek compliments from him. That is a sign of his immaturity and low emotional intelligence. Dig deeper and you will find ego and a lack of appreciation, and just a tiny bit of jealousy. Such a person can not appreciate other people's successes. But if he does not complain about your faults, then he is not investing his emotions into that relationship. Meaning his wife is just invisible to him. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Spectaclesawe25: 7:38am On May 16, 2021 |
daddytime: Flesh and blood have not revealed that to you. You Sabi men wella. People like you always laugh best! |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by TWoods(m): 8:10am On May 16, 2021 |
This thread is extremely sad - Jesus washed the feet of His disciples, he complimented them, encouraged them, strengthened them when their faith was weak... that same Jesus asked us, husbands, to love our wives as HE loved the church... Philippians 2:3 Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. “Husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church because we are members of his body” (Ephesians 5:28-30). The bible is super clear... nourishing your spouse not only involves meeting your financial obligations to her, but it also includes building her up, feeding her soul, making her feel important, heard, loved, and supported. Compliments are hard - I know, I'm a Nigerian, we are not used to it or raised to compliment others, but I learned - there is power in your words that you may not understand. Always remember, YOU are the most important person to your wife... regardless of how strong she is emotionally, she craves your approval, she wants to know that she means more to someone, she wants to walk on clouds, knowing there is someone who thinks the world of her. Love is not simply paying the bills... if that was the case, Jesus would not have bothered to wash the feet of the disciples, encouraged them, prayed for them, ate with them, told them that they would sit down with Him in paradise... He could simply have come, died on the cross, and be done with it. When your wife has to come to a social forum to ask why her husband has not complimented her in 7 years, you have failed as a husband. When fellow men tell her to get over it and be grateful she has someone who married her, we have failed as a society. I am not perfect... but if there is one thing that drives me, it is knowing that anywhere my wife goes, i want her to be one of the few who says "thank you Jesus for my husband" under her breath when others are busy complaining about their husbands. If that means making sure i compliment her 5 times a day, so be it. Compliment a woman and she will move heaven and earth for you. Nobody refuses to water the soil and then acts surprised when seeds do not grow. 3 Likes |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by BackToLife: 8:13am On May 16, 2021 |
Studio247:He erroneously thinks complement would get to your head. You want real solution? Tell this to Someone he respects a lot and listen to. NLanders would not really help you, but that person would talk sense into your Husband since he honours the person. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by maasoap(m): 10:16am On May 16, 2021 |
Origin: All these bitterness because of an African man who doesn't know how to compliment his wife's beautiful face? May be you don't know that an average Nigerian man finds complimenting boring and annoying! So, her husband is just a typical Nigerian husband, let her know that before she does stupid thing that she will later regret |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by BluntCrazeMan: 6:03am On May 17, 2021 |
Ritzybeauty:Babe,, you're so beautiful |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Ritzybeauty(f): 7:21am On May 17, 2021 |
BluntCrazeMan:Thanks dear |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by KardinalZik(m): 4:21am On May 19, 2021 |
OnlyDeCapPlease: Oga, drinking isn't a bad habit. The bad habit is DRUNKENNESS. Similarly, beating the wife is a bad habit. But beating the kids (especially to reset their brains when it is malfunctioning) to correct them is not a bad habit. Thank you. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 11:26am On May 22, 2021 |
KardinalZik:
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