₦airaland Forum

Gloriagee:
He should go back to a cheating wife who contributes nothing and disrespects him. Maka why but more disturbing is the violent relationship between the two. His wife is really annoying but he could end up behind bars for a really long time and what of the impact of criminal records on his job search?

Sister, Nothing is stopping him from getting another good job in Canada. There are bank jobs available all day, everyday, especially with his wealth of experience.
3 days in jail will not impact his job search. He needs a conviction for a criminal offence for that to happen.

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Gloriagee:
Yeah, we are on the same page. I feel if he goes back to the wife now with no reconciliation and with so much anger on his end, 3 days behind bar can escalate into a conviction so I was countering the poster that said he should go back to his wife.

Ok,

QorQe:
Can we talk?


You will see the transformation if we interact.

Knock on me on WhatsApp.. Check my siggy


You can build a 100k Usd per annum company of your own and rebuild your life.

Do not trust this guy. Shine your eyes.

Almaigaa:
Do not trust this guy. Shine your eyes.

Na so. Does his existence worries me. Did I bother commenting on the issue since then?

sokkatua:
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... loves him right in front of me . I lost my cool and I ended up in jail for 3 days . Right now I m not allowed to go back to the house or contact my daughter whom she now claims is not mine .I have decided to return to Nigeria with the 25k left in my account,i cant go back to prison again because PRISONERS OFTEN TARGETS ANYONE ACCUSED OF HARMING A WOMAN OR A CHILD. I'm appealing to anyone to please hook me up with a job or any hustle in Nigeria.

Even prisoners who are supposed to be hard men are simps and slaves of the plantation.

MALIGNANTGuest:
FRANKLY speaking that woman never loved him.
That's means my wife is a rare gem.
You don't know what you have until you lose it.
I had about 3M when I was marrying my wife.
After marriage she personally gave me 7M to support the project I was doing back home.
Although she's based in the States.
I joined her few years ago.
Despite joining her, her character hasn't changed for one bit, she keeps performing wonders.
She clears bills without any altercation.
Although I give full scale support now.

Love and cherish her. Such women are very rare

Martinez39s:
Even prisoners who are supposed to be hard men are simps and slaves of the plantation.

Continue shouting simp upandan, Martin, meanwhile na your fellow redpiller put hin guyman inside wheelchair over pussy

Ishilove:
Continue shouting simp upandan, Martin, meanwhile na your fellow redpiller put hin guyman inside wheelchair over pussy

ChumáZ and his friends are simps and a shame to the world. They are not redpillers; redpillers don't waste the life of any man because of a woman.

Ishilove:
Continue shouting simp upandan, Martin, meanwhile na your fellow redpiller put hin guyman inside wheelchair over pussy

Those guys are certified simpletons.

A guy with redpill knowledge will never fight another dude over a lady. Redpill refines (improves) and redefines one.

Twoclans:
@ OP please what exactly do you want to come and do in Nigeria .The country has cast ohhh,let me just tell you.

My humble solution to your problem , go back to your wife.Try and turn a blind eye to her trouble and behave yourself .Whatever you do make sure you dont leave canada.

If you come back to Nigeria without Money,naija babes will show you their true colour.

Laughing, did you just give that advice? He should go back to his wife like to go and beg abi wetin or you refuse to digest what he wrote up there? He should turn his eyes away and just watch his wife cheating? Funny you askes him to behave himself. I'm sure if he's your brother yiu go para say hes a simp or be cursing d wife by now. Abeg these is not an advise plls.

Hmmm, tears roll down my eyes as I read through this story. I have been in your shoes, but my saving grace was God delivered me before we tied the knot, if not it would have been a a marriage of disaster. We were already in premarital counseling before everything was exposed. I am grateful to God, the girl who told me no sex before marriage was busy knacking people up and down, girl I spent money on, sent school fees to, helped her family the girl changed towards me when I lost everything, she became disrespectful and insulting towards me, her family changed towards me too. She was calling guyz in my presence, picking suspicious phone calls in my presence her mum was even aware and she never caution her daughter. Some family are just evil may you not meet such. My BP was going up at 32 chai na wa oooo, I saw hell was wrecked financially and all the girl could say was because of the money I spent on her I don't want to let her go when I was trying to fight for the relationship. But my pastor told it's not worth it I should let her go. I have to let her go, the family I was there for in rain in storm showed me their true colour that money is there god. I have heard my own share of experience of failed and bad relationship. I believe I am not married yet because God is protecting me from some set of persons that don't fit my life. In all I never had sex with her at all I am glad I did not, it was money I lost not my life this happened in 2017. I later discovered that the mum was a runs woman following men from one place to another to survive. I choose not to mention the tribe but it's well I let go n let God.
My brother shits happens in life I was brought down to ground zero from that experience before her I was with my University gf for 7yrs she woke and said mother Mary told her she should not marry outside catholic that was how that one ended wasted 7yrs of my time with her, went to this one wasted another 2+yrs with her making 9,yrs had another relationship LDR and that one was destroyed because of money and greed to the point of her collecting money from my close friend I was not aware until God exposed her. 2yrs relationship all making 11yrs I wasted. My Joy has been knowing God and been with him even though most times I didn't listen to the voice of warning I had to pay for it.
In the midst of everything I had to pick the piece of my life and even went back to teaching in a school registered a company and started from somewhere, now I work n run my business as side Hussle soon I will face it squarely. My brother allow God to help u, I saw hell in the hand of the Esian Girl chai. The heart of man is desperately wicked. I am not in any relationship for now just facing my work and business. Love is truly scarce in Nigeria except God leads a man, I never see wife. I still dey pray for my wife.
God help u bro, just plan to move for m her, pray to God and he will lead you on how to Go.
For singles please becareful who you choose as a wife or husband. Love is beyond words it's beyond money it takes God to find your own spouse it's better late in marriage than death in marriage.
Shine your eyes... Check well

Twoclans:
@ OP please what exactly do you want to come and do in Nigeria .The country has cast ohhh,let me just tell you.

My humble solution to your problem , go back to your wife.Try and turn a blind eye to her trouble and behave yourself .Whatever you do make sure you dont leave canada.

If you come back to Nigeria without Money,naija babes will show you their true colour.

He should overlook adultery. What nonsense advice.

Twoclans:
@ OP please what exactly do you want to come and do in Nigeria .The country has cast ohhh,let me just tell you.

My humble solution to your problem , go back to your wife.Try and turn a blind eye to her trouble and behave yourself .Whatever you do make sure you dont leave canada.

If you come back to Nigeria without Money,naija babes will show you their true colour.

Please don't take this advise cos the way i see things, u both might end up killing each other am sorry to say this, esp if u av a very low threshold for nonsense. If there's someone she listens to or respect like her folks , then u can explore the option of reporting her to her them ..
I will advise you park out of that house and go live somewhere for the time being to allow u cool your head. That things are not moving fine for now is not the end of the world bro. Continue working hard and pray and all will be well and like one person suggested, pls don't bother coming back to Nigeria, the country don cast! and pple like us are looking for ways to jakpa and the reverse is not an option at all..

Ishilove:
Love and cherish her. Such women are very rare

Ishi they are not rare and you know that.
Men have a way of focusing on the few bad experiences to paint all women bad.

cococandy:
Ishi they are not rare and you know that.
Men have a way of focusing on the few bad experiences to paint all women bad.

My dear sister, I want to believe I have been brainwashed into believing they are rare because of their incessant whining on Nairaland

sokkatua:
Hi fellow Nairalanders, I want to share my story with you. I have been living in Canada for over 20 years, unfortunately, a Nigerian girl whom I love very much broke my heart in 2005, I was disillusioned and almost died from the depression. In 2007, my father, God rest his soul decided to introduce me to his doctor, a fresh graduate of the nation's premier university. I instantly fell in love with her, we would talk for hours, my phone bill was astronomical, unfortunately, in 2008 I was arrested in a caribean country for attempted smuggling. My wife patiently waited for me till I got out in 2012. We got married and had a daughter, but because of my criminal past, I could not sponsor my wife and daughter till 2019, so I had to travel to Nigeria every year to visit them.
To cut the long story short, i spent almost 15K dollars altogether, everything was great in the beginning but then I lost my 60k a year job in 2020 and that was the beginning of the end of my marriage. My wife would leave home for two days claiming she's working overtime, she would cook for my daughter but not for me , we longer communicate in the house, she refuses to contribute anything towards mortgage or bills because according to her, it's man's job to pay for everything even though I m only making minimum wage working as a concierge. A particular guy drops her off every time she goes to work and when i asked her who he is , she went into a tirade questioning my rights to question her.I tolerated her effrontery till three weeks ago when she was boldly telling a guy she loves him right in front of me . I lost my cool and I ended up in jail for 3 days . Right now I m not allowed to go back to the house or contact my daughter whom she now claims is not mine .I have decided to return to Nigeria with the 25k left in my account,i cant go back to prison again because prisoners often targets anyone accused of harming a woman or a child. I'm appealing to anyone to please hook me up with a job or any hustle in Nigeria.

25k in dollars or naira?. Lesson to those in diaspora, ensure you have a project you run in 9ja that you can always fall back to when everything goes south.. what should we do now in this condition?

sokkatua:
Hi fellow Nairalanders, I want to share my story with you. I have been living in Canada for over 20 years, unfortunately, a Nigerian girl whom I love very much broke my heart in 2005, I was disillusioned and almost died from the depression. In 2007, my father, God rest his soul decided to introduce me to his doctor, a fresh graduate of the nation's premier university. I instantly fell in love with her, we would talk for hours, my phone bill was astronomical, unfortunately, in 2008 I was arrested in a caribean country for attempted smuggling. My wife patiently waited for me till I got out in 2012. We got married and had a daughter, but because of my criminal past, I could not sponsor my wife and daughter till 2019, so I had to travel to Nigeria every year to visit them.
To cut the long story short, i spent almost 15K dollars altogether, everything was great in the beginning but then I lost my 60k a year job in 2020 and that was the beginning of the end of my marriage. My wife would leave home for two days claiming she's working overtime, she would cook for my daughter but not for me , we longer communicate in the house, she refuses to contribute anything towards mortgage or bills because according to her, it's man's job to pay for everything even though I m only making minimum wage working as a concierge. A particular guy drops her off every time she goes to work and when i asked her who he is , she went into a tirade questioning my rights to question her.I tolerated her effrontery till three weeks ago when she was boldly telling a guy she loves him right in front of me . I lost my cool and I ended up in jail for 3 days . Right now I m not allowed to go back to the house or contact my daughter whom she now claims is not mine .I have decided to return to Nigeria with the 25k left in my account,i cant go back to prison again because prisoners often targets anyone accused of harming a woman or a child. I'm appealing to anyone to please hook me up with a job or any hustle in Nigeria.

Nah wah oh....marriage Nah scam this day...
Marriage of benefits and relationship of benefits....Nah cash and carry. the wife you marry....marriage is not about butts, cunts, and boobs of a woman Nah shine your eyes

Oga you have not submitted your resume or reached out to me.
Seems like you do not want a better job. Are you sure this isn't the reason madam is upset.

Your job as a man is to provide. If you cannot provide for your wife and kids, there is no love. The man that provides will get the so called love. It's just the way women and men are wired from God.

@ sokkatua have you seen Shokoloko's posts abi you and your wife don settle?

Shokoloko:
Oga you have not submitted your resume or reached out to me.
Seems like you do not want a better job. Are you sure this isn't the reason madam is upset.

GboyegaD:
What province are you? Move out of province, request paternity test for your daughter and pay child support if she's yours . You necessarily need not stress yourself and leave because of this.

Is this truly necessary?
Whether or not she is his blood, he has to pay child support given that he is married to her mother, adding to that he had sponsored the child to come to Canada. So, not paying child support isn't an option.

I wouldn't recommend going for DNA testing

TheCongo2:
Is this truly necessary?
Whether or not she is his blood, he has to pay child support given that he is married to her mother, adding to that he had sponsored the child to come to Canada. So, not paying child support isn't an option.

I wouldn't recommend going for DNA testing

If he was married to the mother as at when the baby was born, he is termed the father by default. However, he can petition the court if a DNA reveals he isn't the father. While it isn't wrong to be a daddy to the child, it should be at his own discretion.

If the child was born outside of the country, I thought the embassy would have conducted DNA to affirm the baby is his. But nonetheless, because he sponsored the child from abroad, I don't know if it is general however, in Alberta, he will pay until the child is 18.

GboyegaD:
If he was married to the mother as at when the baby was born, he is termed the father by default. However, he can petition the court if a DNA reveals he isn't the father. While it isn't wrong to be a daddy to the child, it should be at his own discretion.

If the child was born outside of the country, I thought the embassy would have conducted DNA to affirm the baby is his. But nonetheless, because he sponsored the child from abroad, I don't know if it is general however, in Alberta, he will pay until the child is 18 .

Not just in Alberta but anywhere in Canada

sokkatua:
Hi fellow Nairalanders, I want to share my story with you. I have been living in Canada for over 20 years, unfortunately, a Nigerian girl whom I love very much broke my heart in 2005, I was disillusioned and almost died from the depression. In 2007, my father, God rest his soul decided to introduce me to his doctor, a fresh graduate of the nation's premier university. I instantly fell in love with her, we would talk for hours, my phone bill was astronomical, unfortunately, in 2008 I was arrested in a caribean country for attempted smuggling. My wife patiently waited for me till I got out in 2012. We got married and had a daughter, but because of my criminal past, I could not sponsor my wife and daughter till 2019, so I had to travel to Nigeria every year to visit them.
To cut the long story short, i spent almost 15K dollars altogether, everything was great in the beginning but then I lost my 60k a year job in 2020 and that was the beginning of the end of my marriage. My wife would leave home for two days claiming she's working overtime, she would cook for my daughter but not for me , we longer communicate in the house, she refuses to contribute anything towards mortgage or bills because according to her, it's man's job to pay for everything even though I m only making minimum wage working as a concierge. A particular guy drops her off every time she goes to work and when i asked her who he is , she went into a tirade questioning my rights to question her.I tolerated her effrontery till three weeks ago when she was boldly telling a guy she loves him right in front of me . I lost my cool and I ended up in jail for 3 days . Right now I m not allowed to go back to the house or contact my daughter whom she now claims is not mine .I have decided to return to Nigeria with the 25k left in my account,i cant go back to prison again because prisoners often targets anyone accused of harming a woman or a child. I'm appealing to anyone to please hook me up with a job or any hustle in Nigeria.

single guys
If u live abroad n want to marry
Fear ur nig women
Dey wil Bleep u up n throw u out of ur own home n collect everytin u work for

Generally
Fear women especially d ones u show off wit because u marry dem

luminouz:
If you dey canada, link up with that bro and help save his mental life.

Unless the story as usual here,is a fuqin fake


N.B: See what I learned from his past posts below


This is your post of 2020.... Yet in your new story, you said you brought her to Canada in 2019.

Which kain confusion be this na?

I wanted to warm people about the story too but you have quoted the post already.

The whole story does not add up and many showing sympathy here are just part of the game while some are just gullible

sokkatua:
Hi fellow Nairalanders, I want to share my story with you. I have been living in Canada for over 20 years, unfortunately, a Nigerian girl whom I love very much broke my heart in 2005, I was disillusioned and almost died from the depression. In 2007, my father, God rest his soul decided to introduce me to his doctor, a fresh graduate of the nation's premier university. I instantly fell in love with her, we would talk for hours, my phone bill was astronomical, unfortunately, in 2008 I was arrested in a caribean country for attempted smuggling. My wife patiently waited for me till I got out in 2012. We got married and had a daughter, but because of my criminal past, I could not sponsor my wife and daughter till 2019, so I had to travel to Nigeria every year to visit them.
To cut the long story short, i spent almost 15K dollars altogether, everything was great in the beginning but then I lost my 60k a year job in 2020 and that was the beginning of the end of my marriage. My wife would leave home for two days claiming she's working overtime, she would cook for my daughter but not for me , we longer communicate in the house, she refuses to contribute anything towards mortgage or bills because according to her, it's man's job to pay for everything even though I m only making minimum wage working as a concierge. A particular guy drops her off every time she goes to work and when i asked her who he is , she went into a tirade questioning my rights to question her.I tolerated her effrontery till three weeks ago when she was boldly telling a guy she loves him right in front of me . I lost my cool and I ended up in jail for 3 days . Right now I m not allowed to go back to the house or contact my daughter whom she now claims is not mine .I have decided to return to Nigeria with the 25k left in my account,i cant go back to prison again because prisoners often targets anyone accused of harming a woman or a child. I'm appealing to anyone to please hook me up with a job or any hustle in Nigeria.

Twenty years? You ought to be a Canadian citizen even with your record. What do you want to return to Naija for?

sokkatua:
Hi fellow Nairalanders, I want to share my story with you. I have been living in Canada for over 20 years, unfortunately, a Nigerian girl whom I love very much broke my heart in 2005, I was disillusioned and almost died from the depression. In 2007, my father, God rest his soul decided to introduce me to his doctor, a fresh graduate of the nation's premier university. I instantly fell in love with her, we would talk for hours, my phone bill was astronomical, unfortunately, in 2008 I was arrested in a caribean country for attempted smuggling. My wife patiently waited for me till I got out in 2012. We got married and had a daughter, but because of my criminal past, I could not sponsor my wife and daughter till 2019, so I had to travel to Nigeria every year to visit them.
To cut the long story short, i spent almost 15K dollars altogether, everything was great in the beginning but then I lost my 60k a year job in 2020 and that was the beginning of the end of my marriage. My wife would leave home for two days claiming she's working overtime, she would cook for my daughter but not for me , we longer communicate in the house, she refuses to contribute anything towards mortgage or bills because according to her, it's man's job to pay for everything even though I m only making minimum wage working as a concierge. A particular guy drops her off every time she goes to work and when i asked her who he is , she went into a tirade questioning my rights to question her.I tolerated her effrontery till three weeks ago when she was boldly telling a guy she loves him right in front of me . I lost my cool and I ended up in jail for 3 days . Right now I m not allowed to go back to the house or contact my daughter whom she now claims is not mine .I have decided to return to Nigeria with the 25k left in my account,i cant go back to prison again because prisoners often targets anyone accused of harming a woman or a child. I'm appealing to anyone to please hook me up with a job or any hustle in Nigeria.

Try relocating to America for a fresh start.

sokkatua:
Hi fellow Nairalanders, I want to share my story with you. I have been living in Canada for over 20 years, unfortunately, a Nigerian girl whom I love very much broke my heart in 2005, I was disillusioned and almost died from the depression. In 2007, my father, God rest his soul decided to introduce me to his doctor, a fresh graduate of the nation's premier university. I instantly fell in love with her, we would talk for hours, my phone bill was astronomical, unfortunately, in 2008 I was arrested in a caribean country for attempted smuggling. My wife patiently waited for me till I got out in 2012. We got married and had a daughter, but because of my criminal past, I could not sponsor my wife and daughter till 2019, so I had to travel to Nigeria every year to visit them.
To cut the long story short, i spent almost 15K dollars altogether, everything was great in the beginning but then I lost my 60k a year job in 2020 and that was the beginning of the end of my marriage. My wife would leave home for two days claiming she's working overtime, she would cook for my daughter but not for me , we longer communicate in the house, she refuses to contribute anything towards mortgage or bills because according to her, it's man's job to pay for everything even though I m only making minimum wage working as a concierge. A particular guy drops her off every time she goes to work and when i asked her who he is , she went into a tirade questioning my rights to question her.I tolerated her effrontery till three weeks ago when she was boldly telling a guy she loves him right in front of me . I lost my cool and I ended up in jail for 3 days . Right now I m not allowed to go back to the house or contact my daughter whom she now claims is not mine .I have decided to return to Nigeria with the 25k left in my account,i cant go back to prison again because prisoners often targets anyone accused of harming a woman or a child. I'm appealing to anyone to please hook me up with a job or any hustle in Nigeria.

please never return to Nigeria at this time its dangerous.Just take my advice and don't ask me why.

sokkatua:
Hi fellow Nairalanders, I want to share my story with you. I have been living in Canada for over 20 years, unfortunately, a Nigerian girl whom I love very much broke my heart in 2005, I was disillusioned and almost died from the depression. In 2007, my father, God rest his soul decided to introduce me to his doctor, a fresh graduate of the nation's premier university. I instantly fell in love with her, we would talk for hours, my phone bill was astronomical, unfortunately, in 2008 I was arrested in a caribean country for attempted smuggling. My wife patiently waited for me till I got out in 2012. We got married and had a daughter, but because of my criminal past, I could not sponsor my wife and daughter till 2019, so I had to travel to Nigeria every year to visit them.
To cut the long story short, i spent almost 15K dollars altogether, everything was great in the beginning but then I lost my 60k a year job in 2020 and that was the beginning of the end of my marriage. My wife would leave home for two days claiming she's working overtime, she would cook for my daughter but not for me , we longer communicate in the house, she refuses to contribute anything towards mortgage or bills because according to her, it's man's job to pay for everything even though I m only making minimum wage working as a concierge. A particular guy drops her off every time she goes to work and when i asked her who he is , she went into a tirade questioning my rights to question her.I tolerated her effrontery till three weeks ago when she was boldly telling a guy she loves him right in front of me . I lost my cool and I ended up in jail for 3 days . Right now I m not allowed to go back to the house or contact my daughter whom she now claims is not mine .I have decided to return to Nigeria with the 25k left in my account,i cant go back to prison again because prisoners often targets anyone accused of harming a woman or a child. I'm appealing to anyone to please hook me up with a job or any hustle in Nigeria.

Una no dey ever learn...
No bleeps given..

cocolacec:
Try relocating to America for a fresh start.

And you think it is that easy ?

TheCongo2:
And you think it is that easy ?

You believe this story?