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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Moneysoldier007(m): 12:56pm On May 18, 2021
Short story on my birthday,

I have been single for the third year in a role. I have a few shorties I get down with but there's this particular one I have been fucking for a year plus.

We are not dating but been fuckinggggg randomly depending on our personal madness, I call it madness cos this is what we do,

'Whenever we see its always a banger, the vibe is everything for me, she brings me that happy vibe, great sex, plus she's got a big ass, sexy as fuckkkk"

No matter how much I like you, how pretty you are, my duty is to make you feel lower than me and give you low self esteem, so once she leaves I wouldn't call or WhatsApp, not even to ask if you got home safely.

It pisses her off cos we just had like a weekend of fun and excitement together but I tell every woman the same thing when leaving my place.

"CALL ME WHEN YOU GET HOME".

But every time they over believe themselves and feel they've over bleeped your brains out so you should be calling them every sec to check up on them and shit, so they always want to tempt you by either not purposely letting you know they arrived home safely and just to drag a reaction or attention out of you, but I can't be that man cos I am fuckingggggg stingy with my attention.


Back to the story, we could stay for like another two or three months and once she visits we are fucking everywhere in the whole house.

Two weeks before my birthday we were together at my place having a home chilling, wild sex, highness weekend, it dawned on me I needed a date for this birthday cos the plan was to chill at Oniru Beach till dawn with a few quality friends, myself and Waywardpikin been talking about where I'd want the venue to be prior to even before this time.

I asked her to be my date cos she was the best one amongst others I would rather have on a day like that.

She was the one who finally became in charge of the preparations, we deliberated on what was to be needed and the amount of friends I had in mind, if she'd want to invite anyone too, so I sent her the funds to take care of the Asun and other stuffs while I handled all the liquor and ganja that would last a night till at least early dawn.

We have been running into this conversation back and forth and truth is as a woman I was already seeing the signs from the punchlines she's been dropping me all through this period that the question "what are we now?" after my birthday would surface, simply put a full blown relationship would follow suit.

The problem is the last thing I want in my peaceful life right now is a woman, I just wanna make more money, Bleep the only bitches I am attracted to cos I have told myself I ain't ever having sex with just any kitten cos I don't know about other Niggas I feel extremely bad and worthless when I Bleep a bitch I am neither into nor find attractive, it's a sex done with hate and piled up konji.

I just want to live a free life, enjoy myself and have as much fun as I can cos finally life is what you make out of it, then when I finally feel the need to settle down I can now sit down and bring out my list of bitches, scrutinize them and see who's been there the most, made the most sacrifices , passed my shit test and tolerated enough of my shittt and the one I enjoy her company the most cos I swear they are all fucking the same, they just come with different vibes, put up 5 babes and give them the same test and watch them come out with almost exactly the same result, then just select someone, at the end of the day it's a cold and lonely world out there, you need someone by your side when age starts kicking in, so on a personal level this is what women are created for, help mates, to look after you, you need someone there to say,

"Honey are you OK?,

Honey what would you love to have for dinner?,

A kiss on the forehead,

A peck,

Warm hugs,

A part at the back,

Having someone to wake up to next you"

These are what makes us human and not feel alone especially when age begins to creep in.


At around 3am in the morning after my birthday while still at the beach, we had already plans to Bleep at the beach, there was too much fun going on we couldn't make it happen, so I dragged her away while we were still sited with friends to the water side and this was actually the first time I was really having her time since we arrived at the beach the previous evening, I had friends to keep up with and as the celebrant it was my duty to make sure everyone was happy and ok without trying to treat anyone special than the other.

I needed to just come out plain cos I speak my mind, you don't have to like it, all you just gotta do is deal with it.

I was like

"Babe, do you think we need to talk?

Her :" I don't think we need to but we are here already, so I'd like to hear what you want to say,

Me : I know we've been seeing each other back and forth for a long time now and you've been with me back to back two weekends and for everything and stress you've been through for me this period, I appreciate it but from here going forward I am sure you'd be wondering what happens now or what are we doing "

Her : Yes but it already seems like we dating,

Now this was the part I needed to clarify before someone gets emotional and start hitting me up with calls and shit cos I value my space, my privacy, my sanity and freedom, I don't take them for granted, my attention is my pussy so I make sure when I give it to you, you appreciate it, I am the fucking prize, Bitch we don't chase, are you money?.


While this conversation was going on we were deep inside the beach, holding each other close, staring into each other's eyes, who knows she might have thought I wanted to officially ask her out or propose.

"Babe, like this I am sure you already know what we have for one another, some people have friendship, some relationship but what we share is vibeship, when we are apart is like we're enemies and would barely talk to each other but whenever we are together it's always a bang, if we are not in a relationship we cannot break up, I am scared to be in a relationship with you, not scared for me but for you cos if we do I'll hurt you, I am bleeped up in the head, with huge walls around me " I politely said but in a very calm romantic tone while looking at her eyes the whole dammnnnnnnnn time.

She looked at me for a couple of secs without saying a thing then finally echoed,

" Ken, I feel the same way too and I understand, let's leave things as they are so we don't spoil anything but do you see a future between us? "

In trying not to dash her hopes and to continue eating from the cookie jar comfortably without stress and at any given time, I had to tell her what she wanted to hear, we run the game, the game don't run us,

" There's nothing wrong with you, I am open to anything and everything, when the time is right we'll both know".

As soon as I said that I just reached for her lips and started kissing her, let the conversation end like that. we stayed there for a while kissing and doing things apart from sex and the same time me pressing her big ass before we finally went back to join the rest.

By the way if we no dey inside relationship, you no fit come dey count how many years we don dey date.

If you want to shoot yourself in the head take a woman serious and if you want to get the best out of a woman always treat her like a child, it makes her constantly want to prove herself to you cos to me nothing matters more than money or more money.


Happiness comes and goes but what if you filled your life with things that matter??.

IT IS WHAT IT IS.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 12:58pm On May 18, 2021
ubunja:


The reason many guys are forever angry, I think, is because they follow relentlessly negative YouTube channels like Coach Greg Adams. Gents those men who have gone through especially bitter divorces, their brand of the Red Pill is too red it's almost black. Watch their content with care. Yes they got game and truth, but they're just too negative overall.

I would recommend guys like C Boogie, Cousin T Taw who actually like women, and even some AMS and especially the Roommates and Aba & Preach, not forgetting Kevin Samuels who is more or less the Face of the RedPill at the moment.

Otherwise some channels must not be followed for long periods of time like Sandman or Turd Flinging Monkey (if he still exists). Those are mgtow channels 100%. Just go there briefly from time to time. Otherwise you'll find yourself always angry and pissed because their anger is manifesting in you.
And you quoted her? undecided undecided

We all agreed to leave her alone na.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 1:02pm On May 18, 2021
Moneysoldier007:
Short story on my birthday,

I have been single for the third year in a role. I have a few shorties I get down with but there's this particular one I have been fucking for a year plus.

We are not dating but been fuckinggggg randomly depending on our personal madness, I call it madness cos this is what we do,

'Whenever we see its always a banger, the vibe is everything for me, she brings me that happy vibe, great sex, plus she's got a big ass, sexy as fuckkkk"

No matter how much I like you, how pretty you are, my duty is to make you feel lower than me and give you low self esteem, so once she leaves I wouldn't call or WhatsApp, not even to ask if you got home safely.

It pisses her off cos we just had like a weekend of fun and excitement together but I tell every woman the same thing when leaving my place.

"CALL ME WHEN YOU GET HOME".

But every time they over believe themselves and feel they've over bleeped your brains out so you should be calling them every sec to check up on them and shit, so they always want to tempt you by either not purposely letting you know they arrived home safely and just to drag a reaction or attention out of you, but I can't be that man cos I am fuckingggggg stingy with my attention.


Back to the story, we could stay for like another two or three months and once she visits we are fucking everywhere in the whole house.

Two weeks before my birthday we were together at my place having a home chilling, wild sex, highness weekend, it dawned on me I needed a date for this birthday cos the plan was to chill at Oniru Beach till dawn with a few quality friends, myself and Waywardpikin been talking about where I'd want the venue to be prior to even before this time.

I asked her to be my date cos she was the best one amongst others I would rather have on a day like that.

She was the one who finally became in charge of the preparations, we deliberated on what was to be needed and the amount of friends I had in mind, if she'd want to invite anyone too, so I sent her the funds to take care of the Asun and other stuffs while I handled all the liquor and ganja that would last a night till at least early dawn.

We have been running into this conversation back and forth and truth is as a woman I was already seeing the signs from the punchlines she's been dropping me all through this period that the question "what are we now?" after my birthday would surface, simply put a full blown relationship would follow suit.

The problem is the last thing I want in my peaceful life right now is a woman, I just wanna make more money, Bleep the only bitches I am attracted to cos I have told myself I ain't ever having sex with just any kitten cos I don't know about other Niggas I feel extremely bad and worthless when I Bleep a bitch I am neither into or find attractive, it's a sex done with hate and piled up konji.

I just want to live a free life, enjoy myself and have as much fun as I can cos finally life is what you make out of it, then when I finally feel the need to settle down I can now sit down and bring out my list of bitches, scrutinize them and see who's been there the most, made the most sacrifices , passed my shit test and tolerated enough of my shittt and the one I enjoy her company the most cos I swear they are all fucking the same, they just come with different vibes, put up 5 babes and give them the same test and watch them come out with almost exactly the same result, then just select someone, at the end of the day it's a cold and lonely world out there, you need someone by your side when age starts kicking in, so on a personal level this is what women are created for, help mates, to look after you, you need someone there to say,

"Honey are you OK?,

Honey what would you love to have for dinner?,

A kiss on the forehead,

A peck,

Warm hugs,

A part at the back,

Having someone to wake up to next you"

These are what makes us human and not feel alone especially when age begins to creep in.


At around 3am in the morning after my birthday while still at the beach, we had already plans to Bleep at the beach, there was too much fun going on we couldn't make it happen, so I dragged her away while we were still sited with friends to the water side and this was actually the first time I was really having her time since we arrived at the beach the previous evening, I had friends to keep up with and as the celebrant it was my duty to make sure everyone was happy and ok without trying to treat anyone special than the other.

I needed to just come out plain cos I speak my mind, you don't have to like it, all you just gotta do is deal with it.

I was like

"Babe, do you think we need to talk?

Her :" I don't think we need to but we are here already, so I'd like to hear what you want to say,

Me : I know we've been seeing each other back and forth for a long time now and you've been with me back to back two weekends and for everything and stress you've been through for me this period, I appreciate it but from here going forward I am sure you'd be wondering what happens now or what are we doing "

Her : Yes but it already seems like we dating,

Now this was the part I needed to clarify before someone gets emotional and start hitting me up with calls and shit cos I value my space, my privacy, my sanity and freedom, I don't take them for granted, my attention is my pussy so I make sure when I give it to you, you appreciate it, I am the fucking prize, Bitch we don't chase, are you money?.


While this conversation was going on we were deep inside the beach, holding each other close, staring into each other's eyes, who knows she might have thought I wanted to officially ask her out or propose.

"Babe, like this I am sure you already know what we have for one another, some people have friendship, some relationship but what we share is vibeship, when we are apart is like we're enemies and would barely talk to each other but whenever we are together it's always a bang, if we are not in a relationship we cannot break up, I am scared to be in a relationship with you, not scared for me but for you cos if we do I'll hurt you, I am bleeped up in the head, with huge walls around me " I politely said but in a very calm romantic tone while looking at her eyes the whole dammnnnnnnnn time.

She looked at me for a couple of secs without saying a thing then finally echoed,

" Ken, I feel the same way too and I understand, let's leave things as they are so we don't spoil anything but do you see a future between us? "

In trying not to dash her hopes and to continue eating from the cookie jar comfortably without stress and at any given time, I had to tell her what she wanted to hear, we run the game, the game don't run us,

" There's nothing wrong with you, I am open to anything and everything, when the time is right we'll both know".

As soon as said that I just reached for her lips and started kissing her, let the conversation end like that. we stayed there for a while kissing and doing things apart from sex and the same time me pressing her big ass before we finally went back to join the rest.

By the way if we no dey inside relationship, you no fit come dey count how many years we don dey date.

If you want to shoot yourself in the head take a woman serious and if you want to get the best out of a woman always treat her like a child, it makes her constantly want to prove herself to you cos to me nothing matters more than money or more money.


Happiness comes and goes but what if you filled your life with things that matter??.

IT IS WHAT IT IS.




Nice wordplay

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DEMZEE(m): 1:05pm On May 18, 2021
Some people here need sense

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Joker09(m): 1:07pm On May 18, 2021
Haven't we all agreed not to reply trolls?
All this shalaye to a troll isn't necessary. Similar to what Glycolysiss was doing. That troll even hate Martinez39s to the bone marrow. grin.
Mtchww

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DEMZEE(m): 1:08pm On May 18, 2021
TheDarkGamer:


I guess so, but that's not what I was going for. But it depends if you think "mild feminism" is bad. I think the problem is that what we are seeing nowadays is radical feminism on social media. It is far from the idealistic meaning.

I feel feminism should focus on how females can improve on their femininity and support society and not try to be masculine or repress males which is what modern-day feminism is.

Feminism has its merits and demerits, like everything in life. For instance, those that want true patriarchy would have to force women not to work, not to go to brothels (which is partly to a man's advantage because they will want to pay for sex), abolish female education. Have you actually thought about that? Another example is that this society gives men an advantage because anybody can have sex but in a true patriarchal society, only worthy men and successful men will enjoy it. (Think of how marriages worked in the past. If you were useless and a "tramp", who would want to give their daughters to you. But now these hoes can give just about any man that sexual pleasure they desire).

What I don't support is females wanting to play in male sports teams because that is just plain lunacy, gynocentric laws, false rape case allegations, etc. True feminism does not support that and not all females out there support that.

Females should be feminine.


Wat are the merits of feminism??

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Joker09(m): 1:09pm On May 18, 2021
luminouz:

And you quoted her? undecided undecided

We all agreed to leave her alone na.

Bro I tire. Seems like everyone isn't into redpill here at the end of the day.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DEMZEE(m): 1:09pm On May 18, 2021
TheDarkGamer:


I understand your stance, so do you believe in partriachy and do you think that it's applicable in this society?

Everything in life can be abused. In patriarchal societies, men actually physically abused men and treated them like trash. The equivalent ( I think) is this modern day feminism. There are people that will abuse patriarchy as well as feminism. Life is not fair but we should try to maximise our advantages and cut our losses. It's also applicable to politics, people will abuse democracy and still abuse monarchy/dictatorship (I hope you get the reference).

It's actually confusing if you think about it. But it's fortunate that this is a forum where we can all share ideas and opinions.

Life is sexist and one gender has to dominate the other gender for civilization to b sustained.

The world is not utopia and will never b.

Good cannot exist without evil.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 1:09pm On May 18, 2021
luminouz:

And you quoted her? undecided undecided

We all agreed to leave her alone na.
quoted who? Agreed on what?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Moneysoldier007(m): 1:20pm On May 18, 2021
luminouz:

Nice wordplay

Thanks bra

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Mandela27: 2:11pm On May 18, 2021
Moneysoldier007:
Short story on my birthday,

I have been single for the third year in a role. I have a few shorties I get down with but there's this particular one I have been fucking for a year plus.

We are not dating but been fuckinggggg randomly depending on our personal madness, I call it madness cos this is what we do,

'Whenever we see its always a banger, the vibe is everything for me, she brings me that happy vibe, great sex, plus she's got a big ass, sexy as fuckkkk"

No matter how much I like you, how pretty you are, my duty is to make you feel lower than me and give you low self esteem, so once she leaves I wouldn't call or WhatsApp, not even to ask if you got home safely.

It pisses her off cos we just had like a weekend of fun and excitement together but I tell every woman the same thing when leaving my place.

"CALL ME WHEN YOU GET HOME".

But every time they over believe themselves and feel they've over bleeped your brains out so you should be calling them every sec to check up on them and shit, so they always want to tempt you by either not purposely letting you know they arrived home safely and just to drag a reaction or attention out of you, but I can't be that man cos I am fuckingggggg stingy with my attention.


Back to the story, we could stay for like another two or three months and once she visits we are fucking everywhere in the whole house.

Two weeks before my birthday we were together at my place having a home chilling, wild sex, highness weekend, it dawned on me I needed a date for this birthday cos the plan was to chill at Oniru Beach till dawn with a few quality friends, myself and Waywardpikin been talking about where I'd want the venue to be prior to even before this time.

I asked her to be my date cos she was the best one amongst others I would rather have on a day like that.

She was the one who finally became in charge of the preparations, we deliberated on what was to be needed and the amount of friends I had in mind, if she'd want to invite anyone too, so I sent her the funds to take care of the Asun and other stuffs while I handled all the liquor and ganja that would last a night till at least early dawn.

We have been running into this conversation back and forth and truth is as a woman I was already seeing the signs from the punchlines she's been dropping me all through this period that the question "what are we now?" after my birthday would surface, simply put a full blown relationship would follow suit.

The problem is the last thing I want in my peaceful life right now is a woman, I just wanna make more money, Bleep the only bitches I am attracted to cos I have told myself I ain't ever having sex with just any kitten cos I don't know about other Niggas I feel extremely bad and worthless when I Bleep a bitch I am neither into or find attractive, it's a sex done with hate and piled up konji.

I just want to live a free life, enjoy myself and have as much fun as I can cos finally life is what you make out of it, then when I finally feel the need to settle down I can now sit down and bring out my list of bitches, scrutinize them and see who's been there the most, made the most sacrifices , passed my shit test and tolerated enough of my shittt and the one I enjoy her company the most cos I swear they are all fucking the same, they just come with different vibes, put up 5 babes and give them the same test and watch them come out with almost exactly the same result, then just select someone, at the end of the day it's a cold and lonely world out there, you need someone by your side when age starts kicking in, so on a personal level this is what women are created for, help mates, to look after you, you need someone there to say,

"Honey are you OK?,

Honey what would you love to have for dinner?,

A kiss on the forehead,

A peck,

Warm hugs,

A part at the back,

Having someone to wake up to next you"

These are what makes us human and not feel alone especially when age begins to creep in.


At around 3am in the morning after my birthday while still at the beach, we had already plans to Bleep at the beach, there was too much fun going on we couldn't make it happen, so I dragged her away while we were still sited with friends to the water side and this was actually the first time I was really having her time since we arrived at the beach the previous evening, I had friends to keep up with and as the celebrant it was my duty to make sure everyone was happy and ok without trying to treat anyone special than the other.

I needed to just come out plain cos I speak my mind, you don't have to like it, all you just gotta do is deal with it.

I was like

"Babe, do you think we need to talk?

Her :" I don't think we need to but we are here already, so I'd like to hear what you want to say,

Me : I know we've been seeing each other back and forth for a long time now and you've been with me back to back two weekends and for everything and stress you've been through for me this period, I appreciate it but from here going forward I am sure you'd be wondering what happens now or what are we doing "

Her : Yes but it already seems like we dating,

Now this was the part I needed to clarify before someone gets emotional and start hitting me up with calls and shit cos I value my space, my privacy, my sanity and freedom, I don't take them for granted, my attention is my pussy so I make sure when I give it to you, you appreciate it, I am the fucking prize, Bitch we don't chase, are you money?.


While this conversation was going on we were deep inside the beach, holding each other close, staring into each other's eyes, who knows she might have thought I wanted to officially ask her out or propose.

"Babe, like this I am sure you already know what we have for one another, some people have friendship, some relationship but what we share is vibeship, when we are apart is like we're enemies and would barely talk to each other but whenever we are together it's always a bang, if we are not in a relationship we cannot break up, I am scared to be in a relationship with you, not scared for me but for you cos if we do I'll hurt you, I am bleeped up in the head, with huge walls around me " I politely said but in a very calm romantic tone while looking at her eyes the whole dammnnnnnnnn time.

She looked at me for a couple of secs without saying a thing then finally echoed,

" Ken, I feel the same way too and I understand, let's leave things as they are so we don't spoil anything but do you see a future between us? "

In trying not to dash her hopes and to continue eating from the cookie jar comfortably without stress and at any given time, I had to tell her what she wanted to hear, we run the game, the game don't run us,

" There's nothing wrong with you, I am open to anything and everything, when the time is right we'll both know".

As soon as I said that I just reached for her lips and started kissing her, let the conversation end like that. we stayed there for a while kissing and doing things apart from sex and the same time me pressing her big ass before we finally went back to join the rest.

By the way if we no dey inside relationship, you no fit come dey count how many years we don dey date.

If you want to shoot yourself in the head take a woman serious and if you want to get the best out of a woman always treat her like a child, it makes her constantly want to prove herself to you cos to me nothing matters more than money or more money.


Happiness comes and goes but what if you filled your life with things that matter??.

IT IS WHAT IT IS.




Same thing with me boss
TRP has made me to fear being committed to any woman.damn I'm so unsure how my future would be after now,you check left, right,up and down,they all the same they just want ur commitment then they fuuuckk u up afterwards

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 2:18pm On May 18, 2021
Mandela27:
Same thing with me boss
TRP has made me to fear being committed to any woman.damn I'm so unsure how my future would be after now,you check left, right,up and down,they all the same they just want ur commitment then they fuuuckk u up afterwards
just a question: do you regret coming across the Red Pill? Because at some point most of us do. Even though briefly.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 2:36pm On May 18, 2021
ubunja:
quoted who? Agreed on what?
The moniker you quoted is a dud.

He/she has been trying to derail the thread by his/her antics. Always looking for attention. She/he seems to be infatuated with martinez though. Always calling him anderson or some shiit like that.

It was agreed here that we won't quote him/her again under any circumstance.

Seems you weren't active on the thread then

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 2:37pm On May 18, 2021
Joker09:
Haven't we all agreed not to reply trolls?
All this shalaye to a troll isn't necessary. Similar to what Glycolysiss was doing. That troll even hate Martinez39s to the bone marrow. grin.
Mtchww
You sure it's hate?

I smell infatuation bro cheesy grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ade4dayo70(m): 2:40pm On May 18, 2021
luminouz:

Who is this bayi? Stop the motivational talk and do giveaway jor wink tongue
cheesy

King, I wish I could but dem hustle my bank account recently...I think I shared the story here sef.

No worry boss, we go plan one massive get together for this platform very soon...make senior men for here support this idea.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by TheDarkGamer: 2:42pm On May 18, 2021
DEMZEE:


Wat are the merits of feminism??

Not feminism per se, but on second thought. I've realized that the word feminism is gender-biased. The word should be equality. If you think about it, we say Red pill and not masculinity. But that's by the way.

Before I answer your question, I'd like to buttress the point that most people when taking a stance or opinion, don't look at various perspectives but only theirs, and they are mostly self-absorbed. From what I know, the real root of feminism (which I would now refer to as equality) originated from the patriarchal system. Like I said in an earlier post, women felt sidelined and oppresessed because they could not contribute to society. They were treated as inferior beings. The need for equality came because the world was changing and the most important advantage the male gender had over females (strength) was fading into obscurity. This was because farming, hunting, fighting wars with swords and blades, etc was being replaced by technological advancements which provided white collar jobs for women in which they felt they could partake of. Women (at least the good ones) proved that they could read, write, engage in intellectual debates etc and contribute to society. If you're being honest with yourselves, you know some women who are smart and who can fend for themselves and their families without selling themselves sexually.

The need for equality did not really come from physical abuse (this is a feminist propaganda for a fem-centric society) but to create equal opportunities for females and males in the society. Females have actually proven that they can handle the jobs that were termed "masculine". We have female pilots, engineers, doctors, teachers etc. This is a result of equality and not feminism or patriarchy. Females are also human beings and probably they feel that they need independence.

The problem began when females begin to aim higher and strive to dominate male from the "suffering" they had endured. They wanted to prove that females and males are the same. You may get confused here but like BLOODY SPERM said, the focus is in equal opportunity and not equality in a literal sense. Females are different and males are different. However, modern day feminists begin to create their own radical campaign which is "feminism" and it is different from equality in every way. It is an extremist ideal and its result is the fem-centric society we have and de-masculined males (simps/betas).

Now let me rephrase your question and answer. I will state merits of equality and not feminism.
- Equal opportunity for humans (males and females) to work and earn income.
-Independence from gender roles. ( I think that saying that males are superior to women is the equivalent stance of modern day feminism.)
Those are the major ones I can think of.

Now, the problem is that most people refuse to accept the truth because they only want a truth that favors them. I also know that most people reading this will vehemently oppose my opinion but we are each entitled to ours.

Another thing is that most people make the point of how many females do we have that created bridges, made extraodinary achievements in the society etc. I think that the problem is that females have just been freed from their dependence on men. Men have had thousands of years to create the society that we find ourselves in but females have just had the opportunity for barely a century (if it's up to that).

Most unplugged guys just read books like the Rationale Male and just vomit whatever they read in all aspects of their lives. Most of what Tomassi said applies in the area of sexuality. Another thing is that Rollo Tomassi lives in a fully feminised society and Nigeria is not fully feminised. A sign of intelligence is the ability to read, understand and discern information.

I support the redpill and I'm an advocate for its dissemination to men today but we should be facists or hold extremist views. Imagine if you had a daughter that wanted to get married in the future and the man she wanted to marry was emotionally abusive, did not believe women should have equal opportunities with men and he did believe that she should see other females because they might corrupt her. Invariably, she wouldn't continue schooling (if she wanted), wouldn't work (what if the husband loses his job), would be banned from seeing fellow females, etc. She would not like that and you probably would not but that's patriarchy for you.

We still have people on forums and threads that think that IF a man should get married, he should not marry a person that is more successful or smarter, etc, so as not to compete with him in the home and enable him to exert his "masculinity". There are still people here who believe women MUST belong to the kitchen and not take part in the financial matters in the family. Is that what patriarchy supports?

Personally, in my family, ever since my father lost his job, my mother has been the breadwinner ( I'm talking about paying million naira school fees, house maintenance, properties, etc. Not bragging but just giving a visual) and we exist peacefully. My father never shouts at her or abuses her but she still respects him and if need be, covers for him in public. She never ridicules him or makes him feel insecure, not because she can't but because she respects him and he treats her well. To be honest, most of the properties we have been because of her decision-making. My point is that this kind of situation can exist in a family without anyone abusing the other. This has also not made me have a biased stance concerning inter-gender dynamics too.

I think it all depends on your "frame". You don't have to force or abuse females but the way you carry yourself and your level of self-esteem play a part in it. Also, the type of woman you marry is a factor too and the women of this generation are different from the older generation, so that's something.

I'm actually very distracted and tired of typing. My points may also be jumbled because I didn't edit them. But, in summary, I'm saying that women and men should have equal opportunities in life. Feminism is an extremist movement that should not be supported. For society to develop in that sense, laws should be enacted that ensure equal opportunity and in whatever areas that females cannot measure, then too bad. Females should learn to embrace their feminity and males should embrace masculinity.

But we should still apply our red pill theories in our lives because of the situation we find ourselves in because most women have also been socially conditioned to act solipsistic and manipulative.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 2:43pm On May 18, 2021
Ade4dayo70:

cheesy

King, I wish I could but dem hustle my bank account recently...I think I shared the story here sef.

No worry boss, we go plan one massive get together for this platform very soon...make senior men for here support this idea.
Lol....I was just joking with you. I like clowning people once in a while.

It's ok bro...I wish you good fortune to replace what you lost.

One love

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ikillbrokegirls: 2:51pm On May 18, 2021
Joker09:

Thank you for this. Seconded. I agree with all you said. I'm beginning to believe some ppl are not redpillers, they could be gamers, pimps, players or whatsoever. We should all learn to respect each other's opinions. There is no way you talk about the other gender that you won't come across as bitter, especially when their true nature is revealed, and it's normal to call them out and give appropriate examples to back up each redpill points, I don't see anyone really bitter here tbh. Guys even ignore the female trolls trying to derail this thread, bitter ppl won't have that amount of patience. Some guys are patriarchal and that doesn't mean they're toxic or bitter, we can't all stand for the same thing.
That is why i support DEMZEE opinions.

Am patriarchal To the bone. You can't see me around woman or talk about am just improving myself day-by-day am not on this thread to impress or game woman am just want to learn more about their nature that all.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Joker09(m): 2:56pm On May 18, 2021
ikillbrokegirls:
That is why i support DEMZEE opinions.

Am patriarchal To the bone. You can't see me around woman or talk about am just improving myself day-by-day am not on this thread to impress or game woman am just want to learn more about their nature that all.

And there is nothing bad in that, we respect your opinion and what you stand for, anyone against it has some deep personal problems.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 2:56pm On May 18, 2021
ubunja:


The reason many guys are forever angry, I think, is because they follow relentlessly negative YouTube channels like Coach Greg Adams. Gents those men who have gone through especially bitter divorces, their brand of the Red Pill is too red it's almost black. Watch their content with care. Yes they got game and truth, but they're just too negative overall.

I would recommend guys like C Boogie, Cousin T Taw who actually like women, and even some AMS and especially the Roommates and Aba & Preach, not forgetting Kevin Samuels who is more or less the Face of the RedPill at the moment.

Otherwise some channels must not be followed for long periods of time like Sandman or Turd Flinging Monkey (if he still exists). Those are mgtow channels 100%. Just go there briefly from time to time. Otherwise you'll find yourself always angry and pissed because their anger is manifesting in you.
Good to know ubunja,thanks.Some people will quench in anger because ubunja responded to my mention, I don't bite please.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Joker09(m): 3:04pm On May 18, 2021
I have never regretted signing up for the redpill and I never will. We should not make the redpill look like some toxic or hateful thing. Yes we put ourselves first. Some of us still relate with ladies well but we only deal with high interests now, we respect ourselves more and we realize our value now. We still have female friends we don't find attractive but still remain friends with them. Redpill is an awareness, there is nothing to regret here. Let's be guided.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 3:05pm On May 18, 2021
luminouz:

The moniker you quoted is a dud.

He/she has been trying to derail the thread by his/her antics. Always looking for attention. She/he seems to be infatuated with martinez though. Always calling him anderson or some shiit like that.

It was agreed here that we won't quote him/her again under any circumstance.

Seems you weren't active on the thread then
I see.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ikillbrokegirls: 3:07pm On May 18, 2021
luminouz:

The moniker you quoted is a dud.

He/she has been trying to derail the thread by his/her antics. Always looking for attention. She/he seems to be infatuated with martinez though. Always calling him anderson or some shiit like that.

It was agreed here that we won't quote him/her again under any circumstance.

Seems you weren't active on the thread then
Bro maybe he is not aware of the trolls i don't know maybe i should call he/she bi-sexual or transgender i don't know maybe you saw he/her post claiming anti redpill all he/she do everyday is stalk martinez39s calling anderson shít just for attention.
If you check her replies to ubunja's post you gon fully understand he/she is modafvcker hypocrite.
it my post, my time and my opinion i can't post what i know that will benefit redpillers on this thread if you noticed most of my post here is not about woman i post improvement tips such as mentally and physically. Remember am always on a monkmode. Thanks.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ikillbrokegirls: 3:14pm On May 18, 2021
Joker09:
I have never regretted signing up for the redpill and I never will. We should not make the redpill look like some toxic or hateful thing. Some of us still relate with ladies well but we only deal with high interests now, we respect ourselves more and we realize our value now. We still have female friends we don't find attractive but still remain friends with them. Redpill is an awareness, there is nothing to regret here. Let's be guided.
me also and i will never regret signing up for it. Redpill reveals a lot of true natures not just women its just for the both gender how you can relate with people, how to respect people and know when to take one step back. Thanks to the redpill.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 3:15pm On May 18, 2021
Ubunja wasn't here when I disclosed the identity of the tròll. However, Ubunja is more of a free spirit and he will quote anyone he wants; this is not me supporting him, it's just who he is. Finally, I don't like the way some people are talking to Ubunja and almost calling him names or questioning his red-pill awareness without understanding his post. Let's be calming down.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 3:22pm On May 18, 2021
luminouz:

The moniker you quoted is a dud.

He/she has been trying to derail the thread by his/her antics. Always looking for attention. She/he seems to be infatuated with martinez though. Always calling him anderson or some shiit like that.

It was agreed here that we won't quote him/her again under any circumstance.

Seems you weren't active on the thread then
I wonder why my gender is so much of a problem to you (not important). Luminouz(the snake man) When and how have I derailed here? Infatuated with Martinez(Anderson)? how did you come about that conclusion?or you are just part of the gullible ones easily misled,reasons why I wanted to meet him is best known to me and he declined (his loss anyways) how has that become an automatic Infatuation? Most of you ain't just smart or just a typical behavior of a bittered Nigerian man.My coming here to read about redpill is for a purpose(which i'm gradually achieving)and I never meant any harm whatsoever but you all should do a self assessment check and quit misinterpreting bitterness for your redpill. I'm so happy ubunja responded to me with a free and unbiased mind.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 3:27pm On May 18, 2021
ikillbrokegirls:
Bro maybe he is not aware of the trolls i don't know maybe i should call he/she bi-sexual or transgender i don't know maybe you saw he/her post claiming anti redpill all he/she do everyday is stalk martinez39s calling anderson shít just for attention.
If you check her replies to ubunja's post you gon fully understand he/she is modafvcker hypocrite.
it my post, my time and my opinion i can't post what i know that will benefit redpillers on this thread if you noticed most of my post here is not about woman i post improvement tips such as mentally and physically. Remember an always on a monkmode. Thanks.

Na true you talk jor

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DEMZEE(m): 3:29pm On May 18, 2021

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 3:31pm On May 18, 2021
Martinez39s:
Ubunja wasn't here when I disclosed the identity of the tròll. However, Ubunja is more of a free spirit and he will quote anyone he wants; this is not me supporting him, it's just who he is. Finally, I don't like the way some people are talking to Ubunja and almost calling him names or questioning his red-pill awareness without understanding his post. Let's be calming down.

Are you kidding me?
I was patiently waiting for you to come online to defend his lordship.
I wasn't wrong.
Dear, nobody is above questioning. grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 3:34pm On May 18, 2021
Joker09:
I have never regretted signing up for the redpill and I never will. We should not make the redpill look like some toxic or hateful thing. Some of us still relate with ladies well but we only deal with high interests now, we respect ourselves more and we realize our value now. We still have female friends we don't find attractive but still remain friends with them. Redpill is an awareness, there is nothing to regret here. Let's be guided.

Very very good point. I'm everything you said up there and more. Hate is not the redpill way(or at least the one I follow)...harsh truth is.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 3:38pm On May 18, 2021
SOZINN:


Are you kidding me?
I was patiently waiting for you to come online to defend his lordship.
I wasn't wrong.
Dear, nobody is above questioning. grin

We both know martinez likes ubunja and I have no qualms about it but you too should take a chill pill. You like calling him out ASAP cheesy. I'm beginning to think maybe una get issues before sef

It seems the thread is now being split into factions and I don't like it. I believe in cooperation,even if there is still individuality,in opinions and mindset

You both are great people. Make we move upwards and onwards together

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 3:38pm On May 18, 2021
See them displaying so much bitterness and I'm beginning to wonder if this place is filled up with underage men.Seriously most of you ain't getting it right and hence the reason some of you come up with disgraceful topics about redpill in the romance section.

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