Hello, everyone this is happening in my life right now.
To my story now: my boyfriend makes me look like the one with the problem each time he does something wrong to me. Each time I ask my boyfriend to do something for me (maybe ask him to make a payment for something or help me get something) he doesn’t do it and at the end of the day when I complain about it, he makes me look stupid by not accepting his wrong and apologizing for it. I end up apologizing for the inconvenience. Please understand, he calls me to carry out activities like this for him, and I always do it selflessly. I have to beg and explain to him why he should do learn to do things for me selflessly without me constantly reminding him to do it. But he acts right all the time and never apologises for his wrong ��
What happened today is, he was supposed to pay a fee for me in a group that we both are members but my boyfriend didn’t pay mine even though I had pleaded with him yesterday to assist me make my payment as I will refund him the money after ( I didn’t have physical cash on my yesterday), Only for me to ask him if he paid and he said he wanted to know if I had pay. This may not mean anything to some of you who share the same understanding as him, but it does mean a lot and speaks of the kind of person you are, if you can’t act selflessly. If I can carry out selfless service for him, I feel he should do same for me. They’re numerous but I can’t put all of them down. Trust me I am foolish. I always go back to apologize for him hurting me. This same guy judges me for thinking or acting a certain way, always makes me feel like I have no good in me because of how i relate with people. PLEASE AM I THE MAD PERSON? I WANT TO UNDERSTAND! Sometimes I wish I had a backup boyfriend �����☹️☹️☹️

Na clap dey bring dance

Do him as he dey do you

He will understand

You need a backup boyfriend

Na now e sure me say you de find who go de help you pay your bills

Your boyfriend know why he de withdraw

Dump his ass and glow!

Forget the long talk
I don send you PM babe

NanciaKay:
Hello, everyone this is happening in my life right now.
To my story now: my boyfriend makes me look like the one with the problem each time he does something wrong to me. Each time I ask my boyfriend to do something for me (maybe ask him to make a payment for something or help me get something) he doesn’t do it and at the end of the day when I complain about it, he makes me look stupid by not accepting his wrong and apologizing for it. I end up apologizing for the inconvenience. Please understand, he calls me to carry out activities like this for him, and I always do it selflessly. I have to beg and explain to him why he should do learn to do things for me selflessly without me constantly reminding him to do it. But he acts right all the time and never apologises for his wrong ��
What happened today is, he was supposed to pay a fee for me in a group that we both are members but my boyfriend didn’t pay mine even though I had pleaded with him yesterday to assist me make my payment as I will refund him the money after ( I didn’t have physical cash on my yesterday), Only for me to ask him if he paid and he said he wanted to know if I had pay. This may not mean anything to some of you who share the same understanding as him, but it does mean a lot and speaks of the kind of person you are, if you can’t act selflessly. If I can carry out selfless service for him, I feel he should do same for me. They’re numerous but I can’t put all of them down. Trust me I am foolish. I always go back to apologize for him hurting me. This same guy judges me for thinking or acting a certain way, always makes me feel like I have no good in me because of how i relate with people. PLEASE AM I THE MAD PERSON? I WANT TO UNDERSTAND! Sometimes I wish I had a backup boyfriend �����☹️☹️☹️

His penis is sweet.

Maybe you can talk to his close friend to help you pass the message. Make him understand he's straining you emotionally, and you're close to breaking point.
If he doesn't change afterwards, then break up and see if he'll comes back and willing to come to terms.

He simply does not value you. Take a walk. You are just dating yourself.

I have tried to read all that you put up there. At some point I was trying to capture the part you will say, I'd pay for him too. But also so I carried out activities Bla Bla Bla. On a serious note. You need to have something doing, don't eye his wall*t.

annro101:
I have tried to read all that you put up there. At some point I was trying to capture the part you will say, I'd pay for him too. But also so I carried out activities Bla Bla Bla. On a serious note. You need to have something doing, don't eye his wall*t.

Did you read where I said I do same for him? Lol...I have my money, and I'm doing good love.

Godada:
He simply does not value you. Take a walk. You are just dating yourself.

I think so. Thank you so much...

If you are not comfy with the behaviour of your boyfriend, kindly walk out of the relationship instead of seeking for validation here. If people still put an end to a marriage, I wondering what's stopping you from walking away.






Indeed, you must be the foolish one.

NanciaKay:




Did you read where I said I do same for him? Lol...I have my money, and I'm doing good love.

my bad I never tried to be rude. But just talking base on how he may sometimes referred you as........... Just keep it real with him. Then you guys need heart to heart conversation. If he doesn't engage with much conversations then you can do that.. Safe and rethink

I Will read this epistle later!!

those that will advice you are on their way

My sister sey dat one sef join reach boyfriend?.... You better talk to ya leg

This is to all you female folks out there, if a guy/man loves u truely, e go treat u equally as himself. My sister use ur brain

Ode ni e.. But ko Kan mi