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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by lilvicky68(m): 9:00pm On May 20, 2021
Lilpen3758:
this two days self na olosho I dey Bleep upon say my mouth dey sweet pass Maggi
Lol..you dey try give them their daily bread..but calm down sha nothing come out..

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by BRATISLAVA: 9:01pm On May 20, 2021
YoungAncient1:
I am 33 and a virgin and I am very ok. What's the big idea man?

Incel or what? With the way this forum is mad on sex, posts like yours are strange.
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by lilvicky68(m): 9:02pm On May 20, 2021
YoungAncient1:
I am 33 and a virgin and I am very ok. What's the big idea man?
Lol..I wonder how many soap, oil and Vaseline go don suffer for your hand..
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Lilpen3758: 9:04pm On May 20, 2021
lilvicky68:

Lol..you dey try give them their daily bread..but calm down sha nothing come out..
nothing brother...... sad
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Blacklotus: 9:12pm On May 20, 2021
Jeon:


If this is true about the sex thing. Then you should be proud of urself.
From age 1 to 31 you kept THE TEMPLE OF THE MOST HIGH GOD PURE
You mean temple of the Lord dey for the gbola region
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Indispensable85(m): 9:13pm On May 20, 2021
BRATISLAVA:


Are you male or female? And why the delay?


I'm male..... For religious reasons of course.
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by sgtponzihater1(m): 9:13pm On May 20, 2021
No sex no problem
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Benzemma(m): 9:14pm On May 20, 2021
Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?


You are not alone, I will be 30 by December. Sometimes when I telly friend that I have never had sex with any girl, they will begin to call me liar. But deep down in me, I know am not lying. Not that I can't toast a girl and make her fall for me, but because I promise myself that I will never sex any girl I might end up not marrying. So I must be sure 100% that I will marry you before and that is after doing everything I supposed to do on her head. But when am saying it like this, people will think that am lying to them. One may ask don't I experience sexual urge? Yes I do but, I don't allow it control me.

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by HRMK: 9:14pm On May 20, 2021
if u neither masturbate nor av sex in dreams,a lot is wrong with u!
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Kennyking1234: 9:14pm On May 20, 2021
lamentor78:
Buy shares from brothel , invest in Oloshoness
olosho&brother 500
O&B 500 lol
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Illuminatiship(m): 9:15pm On May 20, 2021
Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?
obviously you are not okay you are mad see a native doctor
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Nobody: 9:20pm On May 20, 2021
You better be checking your prostates regularly. Sperm build up can cause issues in the future.
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by rollandben(m): 9:24pm On May 20, 2021
Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?
You are not okay o
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Wizmj4real(m): 9:25pm On May 20, 2021
Listen man
The highest outcome is a NO
No girls will kill you for toasting her
Just free your mind and be blunt

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Benzemma(m): 9:27pm On May 20, 2021
tayooluwole:

You have a problem and the problem is MONEY


It is not money, it is more about personal decision. Am in the same shoe with him. Even the first time I would have had sex with a girl, something came to my mind and remind me of the promise I made to my self, I quickly got up. Even we are already romancing each other, but I said know it can't control me. So I have to do just romancing and kissing. That is why am not doubting the guy. You might think the am being afraid, No. And this girl is the first and only girl I have loved in my life. I don't have any other friend except her.

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by romunu(m): 9:28pm On May 20, 2021
My broda, don’t worry yourself, no be everybody marry for bible.Just chill .
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by micflo28(m): 9:29pm On May 20, 2021
Please find a tight p*ssy and f*ck and stop trying to trend. No award for not banging.
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:29pm On May 20, 2021
darichlife:
Am proud of you young man if what you claim is true, sex is designed for procreation and pleasure but not as a sport.

Guys look around your and see, men who loose their virginity late a more focused, determined, strong wiled and confident and achieve more than those who engaged in hendonic lifestyles earlier.

I have three friends who lost their virginity in their thirties they all got admission same time with our age groups but presently they have the best jobs and less drama lifestyle, only one drinks alcohol presently and it's occasionally.

What am driving here is that when we are growing up in our teens and building relationships with the opposite sex we loose focus and this affects our performance physically, mentally, psychologicaly and spiritually in some cases.

That's why sometimes I Envy some sincere deeperlife family too beautiful to emulate.

Guys please use the energy you use in chasing women when not physically and financially ready to pursue a career path.

Peace
Best advice
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Nobody: 9:37pm On May 20, 2021
pretydiva:
We are on the same boat op cheesy. Your not alone

Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by fof1: 9:37pm On May 20, 2021
Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?

WHY NOT...?
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Atlantean(m): 9:38pm On May 20, 2021
Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?
I am 36 and in the same boat with you. Look forward to better days.
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by NiRfreak(m): 9:44pm On May 20, 2021
Echara:


Is it your business? Even if he's 100 before getting a partner, na ur partner?
Not as if I care about marriage or his being married, but this is 31 year old that never fvvcked...he needs to fvvck not until he gets to 50 by which time his preqq may refuse to rise again
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Nobody: 9:46pm On May 20, 2021
luminouz:
Yes you are


I was 40 before I fuqed any woman

*Sighs*

Not easy

Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Toks2008(m): 9:47pm On May 20, 2021
Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?

I have a friend who is above 40 and has never had sex.
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by luminouz(m): 9:49pm On May 20, 2021
[quote author=Volkswagen90 post=101899050][/quote]

Believe this, you will believe anything

James Hadley Chase...


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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Casper21: 9:53pm On May 20, 2021
Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?

Tell me the truth, do u watch porn and masturbate? If yes, it's adding to reduction of grey matter in the brain which affects the hypothalamus responsible for speech flow, articulation. But if No, then you have a lot chemical activity happening in your brain that needs to be slowed down. Either by taking weed, anti depressants medication, changing the way you talk. Also I know lots of severe stammerers that date the hottest chick. It all comes down to the individual confidence in life. Believe that you owe no man explanation for being who u are, they either accept it or get out.
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by biyams(m): 10:08pm On May 20, 2021
Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?
same here bro.... am 30 on April 29th, have never dated and never have sex....I don't even get that feeling of porn or something... buh am beginning to also get worried cos I need a relationship that would end in marriage now or sooner.

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Blessingrose(f): 10:12pm On May 20, 2021
Wow... I'm speechless
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Nosa111(m): 10:17pm On May 20, 2021
Be happy, sex is overrated. Nothing Dey there. Your right partner will come
Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by INCREDIBLE007(m): 10:28pm On May 20, 2021
shocked
bros you are very okay

I'm 27 and 7 months
no sex at all
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Ibadanpikin: 10:35pm On May 20, 2021
thatsleepboy1:
Liar from the pit of hell.

MODIFIED: For those of you quoting me that he's saying the truth, check his profile very well and y'all will agree with me that this guy is 21 and not 31.
Check my profile picture and confirm my age.
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by tosan245(m): 10:38pm On May 20, 2021
https://www.instagram.com/p/COUuzkRJ60-/?utm_medium=copy_link

Nothing is Wrong with you, you are Unique especially in our present day world.
There are folks home and abroad that would like to hold conversations with you in this regard.
Be very proud of your self.

Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?

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