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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by NiRfreak(m): 4:23pm On May 20
Solsix:

There is nothing wrong with you, at the right time you will get your partner
At the right time? You mean when he's 50 abi?

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Patrioticbreed9(m): 5:51pm On May 20
Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady takless of sex,i stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady.Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast,its so embarassing,some of my friends think i am impotent or gay how will i marry,guys how do u do it.

bro i can relate.

i stammer too

that akward moment you start making strange face's just to talk to a lady.

but i managed to get rid of that feeling,my solution was confidence

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Loverboy3333: 5:54pm On May 20
TheUndercover:
I find it funny when people attach every problem to money.

Yes the problem is money and low self esteem, reverse the case and see how things will go

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Jesterinjay(m): 5:58pm On May 20
In J cole's voice' And i ain't never did this before nooo' grin

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Propheticdavid: 6:50pm On May 20
Jeon:


If this is true about the sex thing. Then you should be proud of urself.
From age 1 to 31 you kept THE TEMPLE OF THE MOST HIGH GOD PURE
dont jump into conclusion...he is practically a virgin,but no adult can claim to be a perfect virgin.
virgins watching porn,masturbating,smooching,using eyes to UnCloth a girl,and having sex in their mind.,
any virgin engaging in all these stuff are practically a virgin not perfectly a virgin.

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Jeon(m): 7:01pm On May 20
Lilpen3758:
hypocrite

Hypocrite for where?

How wish I'm like you I wouldn't advice him to be pure. Rather I will have diss him or call him all negative names

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Jeon(m): 7:02pm On May 20
Propheticdavid:
dont jump into conclusion...he is practically a virgin,but no adult can claim to be a perfect virgin.
virgins watching porn,masturbating,smooching,using eyes to UnCloth a girl,and having sex in their mind.,
any virgin engaging in all these stuff are practically a virgin not perfectly a virgin.

Nah you sabi

I have said what I want to say.
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Lilpen3758(m): 7:06pm On May 20
Jeon:


Hypocrite for where?

How wish I'm like you I wouldn't advice him to be pure. Rather I will have diss him or call him all negative names
You are a virgin too? ooh no
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Zyxzzzz: 7:07pm On May 20
just go and become a reverend father

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by akwatu29: 7:08pm On May 20
You are definitely not okay
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by pretydiva(f): 7:08pm On May 20
We are on the same boat op cheesy. Your not alone

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by olisaEze(m): 7:08pm On May 20
Certainly not!

Pls visit the nearest olosho joint at ur current location. All the girls there understand "stammer" fluently if it’s backed up by cash.grin

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Jayrow08: 7:08pm On May 20
LET ME SEE UR PICTURE
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by pretydiva(f): 7:08pm On May 20
akwatu29:
You are definitely not okay
He's 100% ok

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Echara: 7:09pm On May 20
illicit:
U have a big problem

It's a lie. He doesn't have any problem. He didn't say he doesn't have sexual urge.

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by gbolswag(m): 7:09pm On May 20
To be sincere its not normal...hope u are masturbating sha

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Zinpat: 7:09pm On May 20
Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?

No sex at 31, u r very much OK. Not being able to talk 2 a girl is what u need 2 work on.

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by aBrokeRichDude: 7:09pm On May 20
Nope Lailai u re not ok

Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by lugo99(m): 7:10pm On May 20
go join Reverend Father na..

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Okortor: 7:10pm On May 20
You need not to worry, alot of stammerers are doing well today.. just relax and try not to rush yourself while talking.
You are a great child. Trust me.
Stay safe.

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by makemoneywbsite: 7:10pm On May 20
Not a big deal. Sex is meant for married people. Just that the world and its people are debased. Some of us kept off sex for the purpose of marriage. That's the right thing and principle for those who respect the body God gave them.

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by illicit(m): 7:10pm On May 20
Echara:


It's a lie. He doesn't have any problem. He didn't say he doesn't have sexual urge.

For him not to have been closer to any girl before now is a big problem
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Trutherme: 7:11pm On May 20
Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?

Since you are Ibadanpikin, try to relocate from ibadan to Lagos or Akwa Ibom.

Please come back and share your experience 6 months after grin grin

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Itzwilliamrex: 7:11pm On May 20
Na soapy dey sweet you be that.

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by makemoneywbsite: 7:11pm On May 20
Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?

Not a big deal. Sex is meant for married people. Just that the world and its people are debased. Some of us kept off sex for the purpose of marriage. That's the right thing and principle for those who respect the body God gave them. Pray to God. Your own woman will come. That's if you're a Christian sha. People either marry their own husbands or wife or end up with a beast.

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Sexev: 7:12pm On May 20
You are very okay

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by AmazingELixir: 7:12pm On May 20
Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?


cheesy cheesy cheesy

Op I'm jealous of you...wish I were a virgin like you

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Echara: 7:12pm On May 20
NiRfreak:

At the right time? You mean when he's 50 abi?

Is it your business? Even if he's 100 before getting a partner, na ur partner?

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Reex12(m): 7:13pm On May 20
your abnormal

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you sound alot like my cousin back in 2019,I came to spend a week with him in lagos later I found out baba never press breast before talkless of doing the do , I vex change am for am dat day, how can a 26yrold man deny himself the pleasures of a woman in the name of introvert...I carry am go ocabique that night lodge for hotel, lavish ontop woman, I tear e eye that day no be small grin

Till today baba can never forget how he popped his cherry grin

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by NamelessOGBENI(m): 7:13pm On May 20
Padi mi,

You're perfectly okay, last time I checked 'Sex ain't life' don't let anybody make you lose your rep based on wrong advice....

Na now I understand the whole gist, as for Eves matter, no too over think am, yarn like say na normal guy man you wan reason. Dem bi human being like you, remember say nobody be alien.

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