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How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by badboyTee(m): 11:13pm On May 31, 2021
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Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by SenecaTheYonger: 11:17pm On May 31, 2021
Nah you dey make all this small small girls dey lose respect for grown up men.

Just look at what you’ve done. Going to press her breast like say na inanimate object.

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Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by ZUKKYY(m): 11:19pm On May 31, 2021
grin start packing your clothes you're leaving nx week

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Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by SUPERPACK: 11:23pm On May 31, 2021
badboyTee:
Just created this new account on nairaland so I can be able to ask for advice and post this .

Have been staying with my uncle in Lagos working for more than 10 months and living perfectly fine with him alone most times because the wife do goes to her school she still doing her N.C.E programs Each time she comes home we do relate normally.Everything seems fine though the wife school are on holiday now so she stays at home mostly and she is heavily pregnant



There is this girl my uncle wife sister ( around 16 or 17 years old) she does come to stay with my uncle wife now because my uncle wife is pregnant so she needs someone to assist her since she has come the girl relates normally with me before not until the day my uncle and his wife weren't around I thought I would be the only one to stay home that night until the girl came from church that evening and said she came from church that my uncle and the wife aren't coming that day.. ......though my uncle has called previously that he isn't coming ...I stayed indoor that evening from Around 8pm till 12 the girl I think is dating one of our streets guys because I was just peeping out from the window in the room seeing her discuss with a guy throughout that night till 1:00 in the midnight that she came in to sleep.


While she slept on a couch in the sitting room I was in the room sleeping I didn't know the devil that came into me I moved to where she slept and tried rubbing her body ,pressing her boobs I thought she was pretending to be asleep that she should have felt my hand since I was rubbing not until she shouted at me that "Are you mad? I tried second time to seduce her to no avail so she got angry and locked herself in my uncles room and slept till in the morning there......my uncle quickly came back with his wife the second day there saw her come out of their room ...........

Now if I do little mistake my uncle just behaves abnormally and says all kinds of things though he hasn't talked about the matter with me since then I feel the girl told him something for him to be behaving like that to me and the wife also changed completely to me I feel weird in the house and the girl also doesn't accord me again like before what can I do to be sure if she told him or not or any advice nairalanders ?? ?
What is lost is lost that is why self control is good.

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Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by badboyTee(m): 11:23pm On May 31, 2021
ZUKKYY:
grin start packing your clothes you're leaving nx week
very stupid comment !!
Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by lilvicky68(m): 11:24pm On May 31, 2021
You for just masturbate save yourself from unnecessary nonsense..

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Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by Ochason(m): 11:33pm On May 31, 2021
Since the act was only between both of you, then just act normal if they confront u deny it and act as if ur just hearing it for the first time. If u accept that you did u will loose everything that you have worked for and the Truma of it will disturb for years.

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Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by badboyTee(m): 11:36pm On May 31, 2021
Ochason:
Since the act was only between both of you, then just act normal if they confront u deny it and act as if ur just hearing it for the first time. If u accept that you did u will loose everything that you have worked for and the Truma of it will disturb for years.
Thanks bruh

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Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by MajesticKris: 11:44pm On May 31, 2021
Hehehehehe hehehehe hehehehe hehehehe hehehehe hehehehe GUY YOU FUNNY SHA!!!


WHAT!!! grin

Chai.. nothing go make that Girl Ever give you complete respect..

Infact you don be NEW TOPIC FOR SHE AND HER MAN...

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Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by mmadu4: 12:15am On Jun 01, 2021
child abuse anyways no small girl for naija sha
Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by Nobody: 12:28am On Jun 01, 2021
Oga wetin u go find for her breast? Abi na milk?

Just pretend nothing happened and if they confront you,mk sure you deny with the last blood in you grin you can even scatter things in house to prove your innocence grin

Solution: masturbate when next you're horrny to avoid reoccurrence

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Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by Moee(m): 12:29am On Jun 01, 2021
U Need to bring one white fowl, one big male goat, Four Tubers of yam and one bottle of Seaman Schinnaps for total Cleansing. The Gods are angry with u...

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Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by SportsHD: 12:44am On Jun 01, 2021
badboyTee:
very stupid comment !!
So if konji too hold you, you for rape her? Oga pack your load come dey go. Go dey rape girls for your ipob and army infested village.

See how you just molest person pikin. Military suppose don use you do shooting practice for village. All these for no dey happen.

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Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by Tajbol4splend(m): 12:57am On Jun 01, 2021
Omo, if what guys think when they see young girls come to pass immediately, no young girls will be virgin before 16

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Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by budaatum: 12:59am On Jun 01, 2021
badboyTee:
Just created this new account on nairaland so I can be able to ask for advice and post this .

While she slept on a couch in the sitting room I was in the room sleeping I didn't know the devil that came into me I moved to where she slept and tried rubbing her body ,pressing her boobs I thought she was pretending to be asleep that she should have felt my hand since I was rubbing not until she shouted at me that "Are you mad? I tried second time to seduce her.

To be clear, you tried to rape some small girl!

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Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by heykims(m): 1:09am On Jun 01, 2021
U fuccked up but deed is done anyway.
I'll advise u call the girl aside, apologise and ask her if she told anyone.
Then, if u have the means, plan on how u can leave ur brother's house.

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Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by Wawelexy(m): 1:23am On Jun 01, 2021
Denying would make things worse. Call ur uncle and his wife, explain to them, deeply apologize and promise never to do such. As for the girl, no give am chance to disrespect u, always bone face with her(but no be quarrel i mean o). For now avoid any kind of discussion with her, with time she would forgive u and give u ur regards.

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Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by EverythingFit: 1:40am On Jun 01, 2021
Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by rex444(m): 5:01am On Jun 01, 2021
That's what happens when the fayrouz bottle in between our legs take decisions for us... It is what it is

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Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by youngvikthor(m): 5:11am On Jun 01, 2021
You have Lost you respect ,for just 5 or 10 minutes of pleasure,what to do just pack out the house simple

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Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by StonedLex(m): 5:24am On Jun 01, 2021
badboyTee:
Just created this new account on nairaland so I can be able to ask for advice and post this .

Have been staying with my uncle in Lagos working for more than 10 months and living perfectly fine with him alone most times because the wife do goes to her school she still doing her N.C.E programs Each time she comes home we do relate normally.Everything seems fine though the wife school are on holiday now so she stays at home mostly and she is heavily pregnant



There is this girl my uncle wife sister ( around 16 or 17 years old) she does come to stay with my uncle wife now because my uncle wife is pregnant so she needs someone to assist her since she has come the girl relates normally with me before not until the day my uncle and his wife weren't around I thought I would be the only one to stay home that night until the girl came from church that evening and said she came from church that my uncle and the wife aren't coming that day.. ......though my uncle has called previously that he isn't coming ...I stayed indoor that evening from Around 8pm till 12 the girl I think is dating one of our streets guys because I was just peeping out from the window in the room seeing her discuss with a guy throughout that night till 1:00 in the midnight that she came in to sleep.


While she slept on a couch in the sitting room I was in the room sleeping I didn't know the devil that came into me I moved to where she slept and tried rubbing her body ,pressing her boobs I thought she was pretending to be asleep that she should have felt my hand since I was rubbing not until she shouted at me that "Are you mad? I tried second time to seduce her to no avail so she got angry and locked herself in my uncles room and slept till in the morning there......my uncle quickly came back with his wife the second day there saw her come out of their room ...........

Now if I do little mistake my uncle just behaves abnormally and says all kinds of things though he hasn't talked about the matter with me since then I feel the girl told him something for him to be behaving like that to me and the wife also changed completely to me I feel weird in the house and the girl also doesn't accord me again like before what can I do to be sure if she told him or not or any advice nairalanders ?? ?
What you did was very bad. But the best way to know if she has told your uncle is through his wife. Watch her reaction to you. If they know, she'll definitely change the way she relates with you. Women are known for that. But believe me, you might end up seeing she changed when actually she did not.
On the other side, I don't think she told them because your uncle would have confronted you no matter what. And that's the right thing to do. And even if he doesn't want to confront you, his wife will make him.

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Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by Kondomatic(m): 5:55am On Jun 01, 2021
I don't understand how some guys reason. Someone was sleeping and you decided to grope her, it's not like you people are dating or anything.

A girl that's not up to 18 yet.


Okay, she woke up and asked if you're mad and you decided to seduce her. She gave you a chance to walk away like the mad person you were that moment but you blew that too.


I hope you get what you deserve soon, and that's some months or years of honeymoon in prison.

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Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by ukpahu(m): 6:02am On Jun 01, 2021
SmellySperm:
Oga wetin u go find for her breast? Abi na milk?

Just pretend nothing happened and if they confront you,mk sure you deny with the last blood in you grin you can even scatter things in house to prove your innocence grin

Solution: masturbate when next you're horrny to avoid reoccurrence
My man i sight you.
Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by Theboy21: 6:27am On Jun 01, 2021
cheesy cheesy grin Ha ha ha ha ha cheesy cheesy cheesy Bobby presser well done cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by infogenius(m): 6:46am On Jun 01, 2021
Op, how old are u?

U messed up big time.
Nevertheless, u can't kill urself as sh*t happens.
U've got really behave urself from henceforth so that u're not thrown out into the street.

When u can, sincerely apologize to the girl. Don't peep on her privacy again, it's none of ur business.

And finally if you are of age, u can get a female friend to share company with if need be.
Be a good boy and remain a good boy.

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Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by Nobody: 6:58am On Jun 01, 2021
This must be victorusa.He's not on this forum since i created this account to counter him.
Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by Nobody: 6:59am On Jun 01, 2021
Why are new accounts always used for stories as this, just curious wink
Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by Goldbw122(m): 7:12am On Jun 01, 2021
This is a serious case, that girl can put you in tight corner than u can ever imagine, just apologize and move out as soon as possible, or play dumb and tell her you where sleep walking and you don't know what you were doing so it is your choice and this is a choice of life.
Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by phemmyfour: 7:35am On Jun 01, 2021
badboyTee:
Just created this new account on nairaland so I can be able to ask for advice and post this .

Have been staying with my uncle in Lagos working for more than 10 months and living perfectly fine with him alone most times because the wife do goes to her school she still doing her N.C.E programs Each time she comes home we do relate normally.Everything seems fine though the wife school are on holiday now so she stays at home mostly and she is heavily pregnant



There is this girl my uncle wife sister ( around 16 or 17 years old) she does come to stay with my uncle wife now because my uncle wife is pregnant so she needs someone to assist her since she has come the girl relates normally with me before not until the day my uncle and his wife weren't around I thought I would be the only one to stay home that night until the girl came from church that evening and said she came from church that my uncle and the wife aren't coming that day.. ......though my uncle has called previously that he isn't coming ...I stayed indoor that evening from Around 8pm till 12 the girl I think is dating one of our streets guys because I was just peeping out from the window in the room seeing her discuss with a guy throughout that night till 1:00 in the midnight that she came in to sleep.


While she slept on a couch in the sitting room I was in the room sleeping I didn't know the devil that came into me I moved to where she slept and tried rubbing her body ,pressing her boobs I thought she was pretending to be asleep that she should have felt my hand since I was rubbing not until she shouted at me that "Are you mad? I tried second time to seduce her to no avail so she got angry and locked herself in my uncles room and slept till in the morning there......my uncle quickly came back with his wife the second day there saw her come out of their room ...........

Now if I do little mistake my uncle just behaves abnormally and says all kinds of things though he hasn't talked about the matter with me since then I feel the girl told him something for him to be behaving like that to me and the wife also changed completely to me I feel weird in the house and the girl also doesn't accord me again like before what can I do to be sure if she told him or not or any advice nairalanders ?? ?
Go n get your own apartment

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Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by Eillyeillz(m): 8:11am On Jun 01, 2021
At least you were honest enough to come out with it, but you really should learn some bit of self control. As for the girl in question just talk to her, if not for anything. At least for the fact she deserves an apology from you.

Believe me an apology goes a long way. And self-service next time you feel the urge.

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Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by 1Alex: 8:12am On Jun 01, 2021
ZUKKYY:
grin start packing your clothes you're leaving nx week
this is not a laughing matter but you made a point. We all make mistakes sometimes. Op, get ready to leave that house as soon as possible.

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Re: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by lilvicky68(m): 8:18am On Jun 01, 2021
Ochason:
Since the act was only between both of you, then just act normal if they confront u deny it and act as if ur just hearing it for the first time. If u accept that you did u will loose everything that you have worked for and the Truma of it will disturb for years.
Will that unpress the breast

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