₦airaland Forum

Maryjane001:
I hardly regret it if I turn down a guy. My reasons being :
- Not ready for any relationship.
- Peace of mind.
- Not being an independent lady.
- Scared of heartbreaks and time wasters.
- I don't go into relationships for fun or all that. I take my time and if I get into a relationship, we must have laid down plans and defined rules with the possibility of getting married in the nearest time. Relationship is a serious issue for me. Not your regular girl.
- Maybe the guy doesn't meet my expectations or the kind of person I would love to have as a husband. Yes...I just said that.
To the guys I v rejected, no hard feelings but i 'm quite picky and won't necessarily waste my time being in a non-productive relationship.

Fiscus105:
At the bolded, it shows you have regretted even if it was 1 in 10

If God could say it in scripture that he regretted created man how much less ordinary mortal

Prechgold1180:
how about your sisters and remember your mum was once a girl
Can I say she is ...

Prechgold1180:
Well am kinda asking because of my friend
She got a guy that was crazy about her
The guy asked her to be his girlfriend but normal girly forming and all she said no to the guy , hoping that the guy would keep pressing and disturbing

2 days back the guy introduced another girl to my friend as his girlfriend that they actually started dating yesterday

My friend has been feeling so sad and confused , because she actually likes the guy

Well who doesn’t like him ??
He is good looking and has money with a nice ride

Now the question is
Have you ever regretted saying no to a guy
And what will you advise my friend to do
Let go or fight for love

Maryjane001:
I hardly regret it if I turn down a guy. My reasons being :
- Not ready for any relationship.
- Peace of mind.
- Not being an independent lady.
- Scared of heartbreaks and time wasters.
- I don't go into relationships for fun or all that. I take my time and if I get into a relationship, we must have laid down plans and defined rules with the possibility of getting married in the nearest time. Relationship is a serious issue for me. Not your regular girl.
- Maybe the guy doesn't meet my expectations or the kind of person I would love to have as a husband. Yes...I just said that.
To the guys I v rejected, no hard feelings but i 'm quite picky and won't necessarily waste my time being in a non-productive relationship.

BlckBoy4U:
Almost 8months after the #Endsars protest, lemme tell you what has changed. SARS ended and do you know ever since then till now there have not been any news hitting FP of police killing the Nigerian Youth or illegal arrest with impunity cuz Guys dress nice and uses an IPhone?? well if I'm wrong dig out the thread and correct me. why I'm telling y'all this is not to believe anyone who tells you Endsars protest achieved nothing.

Moreso, Do you know either you come out to protest or not Hunger is coming to hit us all next year due to food crisis cuz why? our farmers can't really go to farms without getting hacked to death. Just Incase you feel ur rich and it doesn't concern you, next year you'll pay X5 to buy food. Now how bout those who can't afford to buy food, what would be their fate? About last year a crate of egg sells for #900 today it's being sold for #1500 cuz farmers are closing farms, bad government policy. don't say Egg is of less concern. It applies to many Agricultural product. My people Garri don dey nak 1k. it's gradually becoming the food of the rich in this same Nigeria.

By 2023 you'll be scared to come out of ur house to vote cuz by then the security situation in Nigeria will be too worrisome, and many Nigerians here who are championing the slogan "Protest does not change anything" will still be the one to say "Our Vote doesn't count" same people will still sit at home without risking it to vote and expect divine change from Heaven to happen in Nigeria. Also with Nigeria's situation no one is sure of living till 2023 (Remember that senator who said Nigeria would experience terrible Food crisis in 2022 cuz our Farmers are being hacked to death on their farms, bandit attack never end, it's getting worse daily) And besides, every machinery they got to install who they want would be used that day, so man take ur mind off 2023. our vote din change anything in 2019 Infact lot of us were intimidated and they still gave us the Buhari we din want. Don't wait till 2023, Let ur voice and ur match be heard June 12th it's time to tell Buhari #We are tired.

Do you know this problem keep getting worse cuz you n I is scared n fearful to talk? do you know its also our right to hit the street and demand for a better governance?? If this June 12th protest was only a Lagos thing we might say it's not a serious one yet, but as at now over 20states has given locations. Nigerians in UK, US, Germany, France, Brazil, Canada has also given locations. Do you want to be left behind?? Just Incase you forget, if you are to big or scared to come out and protest then feel to Big to complain or criticize when the hardship n oppression gets tougher

#Join the moving train
#Come out #June 12th and tell Buhari #We are tired
#You and I can bring bout a change if we refuse to be cowards, fearful and docile
#Come out #June 12th and protest, You and I deserve better #We are not Animals

richmond500:
Lalasticlala I deh beg u with two snake heads, no move this nonsense go front page

Zila306:
Why would the guy come with his new girl to introduce to your friend? The guy na obote. You wey come de wind us say na your friend, na bigger obote.

Propheticdavid:
"men are like wine" what do you mean by that..i want u to explain pls.

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Prechgold1180:
Well am kinda asking because of my friend
She got a guy that was crazy about her
The guy asked her to be his girlfriend but normal girly forming and all she said no to the guy , hoping that the guy would keep pressing and disturbing

2 days back the guy introduced another girl to my friend as his girlfriend that they actually started dating yesterday

My friend has been feeling so sad and confused , because she actually likes the guy

Well who doesn’t like him ??
He is good looking and has money with a nice ride

Now the question is
Have you ever regretted saying no to a guy
And what will you advise my friend to do
Let go or fight for love

HustlePro:
my brother, one said she cant date someone that is not financially stable. I say no wahala. I move on.

na who no know him worth go dey make girls word affect am. I know figures I control and the worth of projects that I am working on. we go meet one day.

FRANKOSKI:
NOW YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE JUST 2 BOOBS AND A CUNT. PRIDE IS YOUR GREATEST WEAKNESS NTOOORR

Joelobioha:
this ur talk carry the weight I swear

HustlePro:
Just do you, bro. Acquire skill, be smart... the thing is, an average Nigerian girl date based on finance because of the economic situation of the country, while there is nothing wrong with that, using it to ridicule someone just because they ask you out is the height of disrespect.

You see, money in the bank is not the true test of the wealth of a man but the knowledge he has. I say this because some men get one lucky lottery hit and start flaunting it. You will think that they are really rich. When they lose that money, it is often hard to rise up again because they didn't really understand wealth creation. Now, a girl who meets such a man would use it to judge you who isn't up there yet. If you are working on a better project, she wouldn't know because of the instant gratification that she seeks.

Money comes and goes... but these Nigerian women are not interested in that. It is all about money now now now. A guy who would have made over 300M in his lifetime is currently owing me just 50K. After dragging so much, the wife had to open to me that dude is broke. My joy is, i know his wife had a genuine love for him and it was not the money she saw because he didn't pay much attention to her initially but she stood.

There are also men with money but with very very bad character, such that women who end up with them can't live, can't leave or can't do anything but live in frustration because of the money.

rimijoshua:
The most painful part of it is,whenever you say hi to them,they reply with Ok...that response bring a sense of disgust...or how are you?...and the response is ok...how was your night..ok
I no get time...

Prechgold1180:
small shakara u ought to understand

frank950:
Asin eeh �
Imagine if the poor guy doesn't have money and a ride.....

Joelobioha:
i gas screenshot this savageness..

Joelobioha:
i gas screenshot this savageness..

TOMSY:
Lol. He's goodlooking, has money and has a nice ride equals LOVE.