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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by slimman007: 11:11am On Jun 12, 2021 |
AutoChick4U: Nothing like sentiment here it is an obvious fact there are limit to what the guy you are dating can do for you and if you are a lady in a relationship and you are not helping out it means when you are marry you will be a liability and massive burden to the man.So ladies with such mindset should be avoided at all cost by men 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Ferdinandu(m): 11:12am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol:You and your friend are pack of typical entitled Nigerian lady. Please help me get these things I don't have money is different from help me I will refund you. The earlier that young man flee from both of you, the better for his life 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Ekwuemechidubem: 11:13am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Maybe you don't know his story |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 11:14am On Jun 12, 2021 |
ClearAll: These are red flags in relationships. This is why a lot of marriages don’t last, they saw signs during their relationships but they felt once they got married things would be different. ASSUMPTION is bad especially in relationships. That was why I told the OP to tell her friend to talk to the guy first 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by slimman007: 11:17am On Jun 12, 2021 |
McOluOmo: I am at home observing June 12 protest.Thank you 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Slurity(m): 11:18am On Jun 12, 2021 |
amazingspiderma:That is not a test at all, test comes once in a while and not every time. If the story of the op is correct, that guy is nothing but a stingy guy that will never change even as a husband. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Layyord(m): 11:21am On Jun 12, 2021 |
I'm sorry but what's yours to help in a relationship matter?( people wont stop mixing relationship with friendship) Do you plan to make your friend marry your brother?! You think there's a perfect guy out there or your friend has planned not to have more than enough!! Good guys are rare and i pray you don't regret it later sha |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:23am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: What are you seeking opinions on exactly? You don't need an explanation to break up. There's absolutely no need even telling him about his ways because he knows exactly what he's doing. Very objectively, no girl should be with a man like that, the attitude is uncaring and shows a lack of a sense of responsibility. He doesn't feel the least bit awkward about his attitude. It's because of the level of responsibility he's operating from. And I won't be surprised to learn that he's completely different with other girls. They may even consider him a cheerful giver. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by slimman007: 11:25am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Simran94: That lady can't say the man hasn't been providing for her in his little way is just that she sees that relationship as "POVERTY Alleviation PROGRAM" where all are needs must be fulfilled which is the typical emblem of an average Nigerian ladies.Once an average Nigerian lady agrees to date you automatically her financial needs must be met 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by mrkings84(m): 11:26am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Ordinary pad u are waiting for a guy B4 u can use it..... No be juju be that?? Stingy girls everywhere!! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Ishilove: 11:26am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol:Even people that are not intimately involved with me buy me things, not to talk of someone I am dating. How can he be so stupendously stingy? |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 11:27am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol:Lol.. I knew i was right. Anyways back to the topic; tell ur friend there's no need being diplomatic about anything. Appearing materialistic to who exactly. Is she living for people's validations or she wants to be happy? I done miss u oo 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Ten06(m): 11:28am On Jun 12, 2021 |
If he is very stingy and you can't leave him, which means he is using his rod to dig deep and uproot your sense from under The only solution is for you to start paying him anytime he dig deep 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by steffi01(m): 11:28am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Break it off, then you failed his test. You think you are only one who observe he's stingy towards you. He will be so disappointed though, thinking you might be different from other girls who are just there for the money alone. Determine your fate by dumping him, yeah go ahead. He would miss you though but he would have already realised you are not worth the energy. If u get sense, this is time to pull him closer and invest all in him.. That's showing him you love him not his money and watch what happens later. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Geenosko: 11:30am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: This story isn't complete. What was the deal? Could it be that your friend (which we assume is you) is a spendthrift and the guy isn't one who is a fan of unnecessary expenses? You said he's doing well financially so money is not the problem, why do I sense entitlement here? The money is just some" few thousands" abi why is she so pained if money isn't an issue for her? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by FarahAideed: 11:30am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: I am sure dude just has 2 thousand dollars and you say he is very rich ..please only use the term very rich for somebody who is worth abouve 25 million dollars |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by skywalker240(m): 11:31am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Teddyaiyez:Sir as a bonafide nairaland member, your supposed don tell you say na op be that her imaginary friend and that good na op de take am, my brother any girl wey call you stingy but good, as far as na Nigerian girl, omo Na be that guy get Master class for Dokemanticus na Ever wondered why most of them keep going back to that that their broke boyfriend's? Most of them can't even leave the relationship def. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by breathelove(f): 11:31am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Girls out there, have you ever asked yourselves why men are usually wealthier than us women. We attend the same school, we have the same laptop they use for yahoo and we even collect money from them. We keep listening to the same advice from foolish friends and celebrities. If collecting money for sex or a relationship was the way, half of all Nigerian girls would have been richer than E money. many girls have been collecting this money since they were teenagers yet their lives remain the same. My advice, find real value guys, seek mentorship and connection, not money. Learn to give value. Don't bargain with sex. Never make sex a form of exchange or currency. If you do, like it or not, you are a prostitute. Follow the guy who is stingy with his money but generous with his knowledge. You have been collecting money all your life yet you remain a dependent. 9 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by breathelove(f): 11:33am On Jun 12, 2021 |
omoyeni37:Thanks dear 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by SweetDipBenny(m): 11:34am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol:Mayb he's jus testin her patient. She sud try talk to him about it. U never can tell she sud hang in der |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Kondomatic(m): 11:36am On Jun 12, 2021 |
AutoChick4U:Every living human is an illiterate, one way or the other. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by oyejideogunjumo: 11:36am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol:How do you think he will fix those things which are personal? Is that what you call stinginess? The boy is not sure whether you will eventually marry him so he has to take his time. Do you want him take full responsibility and then regret it later. Don't scare him. Leave him to show who really is and in any area you think you need correction politely tell him. Not fixing your personal things like hair, undies , pads is not stinginess but purely not his priorities at least for now. You should even be ashamed to discuss that with him 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by seyoops4u: 11:37am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by emmanuelewumi(m): 11:37am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: Je should have calculated what he spent on fuel, wear and tear of the car 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Prettylima(f): 11:37am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Kondomatic:Point bro 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by jubrilELsudan: 11:38am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: YOU AND YOUR FRIEND AND SOME FAMILY AND FRIENDS AND YOUR STINGY COCONUT HEAD BOYFRIEND ARE ALL VERY STUPID.
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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by 21stDecember: 11:42am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Kondomatic: |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by nduchucks: 11:42am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Tell your friend to simply stop sleeping with him and stop responding to all lovie Dovie moves. They guy will disappear naturally. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by 21stDecember: 11:43am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Kondomatic:Correct one!! |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Craigbrown4076: 11:45am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Remijuice: Are you serious? She should start another relationship while being in the ongoing one? How would you feel if your girlfriend is a two timer? I wonder how some guys use their head. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Ghostmode2two(m): 11:46am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: Has he married your friend? Nigerian girls see relationship as a business venture to make money and get everything FOC. |
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