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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by breathelove(f): 11:48am On Jun 12, 2021 |
So many girls have lost the man of their dreams because they listen to their friends. I don't know why it's hard for girls to give their friends good advice. 4 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by neyyoh: 11:49am On Jun 12, 2021 |
A leech and a friend, dumping the guy will be the best thing that ever happened to him. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by LeHMaR(m): 11:50am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Asking for refund on things bought is kinda petty shaa whether for inter or intra gender, especially if you didn't make it clear that they'll be paying you back.. Moreover, you have to say everything that was bought first and how much was spent and requested for, don't use pad and come and make people bias here.. because if all that stuff was ₦5k or below, most men would not ask for a refund and just forget about it.. Unless she clearly stated that she'll be paying back while asking, if that's the case, then i see no issue here.. He has a car and a good job doesn't mean there's money on ground.. He has a family (parents, siblings and relatives).. He might be saving for a business idea or even for wedding rites.. This is Nigeria and men are made solely responsible for everything.. Also, according to you they are both not materialistic and well to do and they love and care for each other but we know who's expecting to be spent on.. so much for the feminist movement, well that's a story for another thread.. so enough with that non entitled bullshit.. If she can't stay with him, leave.. They're wealthier guys out there who would spend on her, and actually non entitled girls out there too who would not expect.. Them both should keep searching.. But if after the break up, she now be seeing black flags on new boyfriend and you run to nairaland to complain, I now see it on FrontPage, na when i go get problem with you and that mod wey go move am come FrontPage.. Make everybody getout. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by ABANGWABOI(m): 11:50am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: He should add money he used to fuel the Car to and fro.. Let that girl pay it too.. We are in the era of equality.. she should be treated equally.. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by YngDenzel1: 11:52am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol:A man stingy towards his kids? Una dey really dey craz for this nairaland, bomb dey ur head 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Haabdul: 11:53am On Jun 12, 2021 |
For bleeps sake..... Where is it written that once a girl is in a relationship she's entitled to billing her bf..... You entitled nitwit better go and improve on your mentality of being self reliant,..,dumb dumb 5 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Omaticaya225(m): 11:56am On Jun 12, 2021 |
The screenshot explains it 2 Likes
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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by errigdee: 11:56am On Jun 12, 2021 |
See em don tie your friend...VOODOO believe or not |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Munzy14(m): 11:57am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: Not appear materialistic, when she is and garnished with entitlement. Try and contribute meaningfully to a relationship and not being oliver twist...honour agreements it helps keep your respect. Man go even buy sanitary pad join..chai...Ike a gwula..I pity the guy, If he mistakenly end up with her...na early retirement from earth. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by olaiyaO: 12:00pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Can't your friend come here herself and tell us the true story because I don't trust the complainer. I have seen a lady who was looking for how to end her friend relationship just because she's interested in the guy. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by eyinjuege: 12:00pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
They're not on the same page. She needs to let him know how she feels that he is stingy and why she feels that way, and she needs to let him know what she expects from her boyfriend and vice versa. If they both can make compromises, good for them. Otherwise they both can call it quits. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Munzy14(m): 12:01pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Kondomatic:Chai...no be lie sha.... 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by eluifranklin(m): 12:02pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol:What does your friend actually do in the relationship, does she cook and clean? Does she perform the duties of the woman in the relationship? Abi she's a Nigerian "feminist" that doesn't "cook nor clean" for no man, but will want him to foot the bills in everything, say the whole story 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Munzy14(m): 12:02pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Lilpen3758: |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Gbire111: 12:04pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
You seem to know a lot about "your friend" oo |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Daceline: 12:05pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Make una comot eye for person money nah. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by ibrocool(m): 12:06pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
The Op put us in the dark here. Let her tell the actual items and figure. A few thousand may be 5 or 6 digits. Don't get carried away with that. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Munzy14(m): 12:06pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
mosdii:Seeing you on this thread be like pikin them send go steal, na leg he go use break door... 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Regex: 12:07pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
ShootThemAll: Love never existed in the first place. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by lakes2017: 12:10pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
"...stingy but very good man. He is good in ALL other things " What does ur friend (and u ) really want ? The money or all other things ? She should work on the man since that is the only thing that is lacking except there is another thing to it. She work on him and he also work on her.....after then she can now make a decision. Is ur friend perfect ? Or somebody is on a standby ? |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Dottore: 12:11pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol:What has your friend offered to him apart from mutual sex sessions. Would she not have spent money If she had sent someone else to buy those things for her. Why are Nigerian ladies so filled with sense of entitlement when in a relationship. Oyibos carry flower up and down and their girls appreciate them but here the girls want us to carry their family loads on our heads that their own father and brother no fit solve. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Marpol2021(m): 12:19pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Why won’t you mind your business? The dude is the chairman of stinginess of west Africans Rozcol:
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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by candidbabe(f): 12:19pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
mosdii:Hahahaha |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Gambit23: 12:28pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol:he must av fuelled his ride nah? Hiw much? |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by hermesprogidy(m): 12:28pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
slimman007:This is exactly what I told a Nigerian lady some weeks ago and she picked offense. Nigerian ladies need to understand that a relationship is not an income generation program. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 12:37pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
slimman007:Maybe you didn’t read the subsequent post she made. She said they went out one time, the guy stopped to buy banana and she wanted to buy too but he paid for his own banana and asked her to refund him his money. How much is banana that a guy can’t pay for his woman? Abeg you guys should say the truth for once na |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by timjones1(m): 12:38pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
This gender with their entitlement mentality. I was hoping to see me and my friend have spent almost 50k on him without him returning the gesture. Make una getat.. You and your friend getat. You asked him to help you buy something, not that he wanted to buy it himself, you didn't know if it was money for something else he was supposed to do that day. He rightly asked for a refund. Fiam you tagged him stringy...Why must it be the guy spending.. Guys Spending on your girlfriend is not her right, it's. Privilege unless ofcourse she reciprocates, then don't stop at nothing to make her happy.. Dump him biko.. Tell him straight to his face. Grace found him on time.. Rozcol: |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 12:39pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
AutoChick4U:This is stupid! |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by goldman777: 12:39pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Slurity:Not the new kind of girls the present day Nigerian girls have turned into you,re lucky you didn't marry this modern girl olosho with self entitled mentality marry them and they will ask you for money before you can have sex with them even in marriage its a mentality that has to be quenched its already creating baby mama,s in this generation of girls.I witness a divorce case in court were a wife will ask her husband for huge amounts of money before sex its a mentality she developed with time with boyfriend's and crossed over into marriage and eminent divorce |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by IghoCentric(m): 12:40pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Kondomatic: Sense is too much in ur head.... I hail. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by emekalanka(m): 12:40pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Like what most ppl said before now, in relationships of this kind, women tend to depend solely on a man for every damm thing. For instance for some ladies, once a man asks for their number and calls them the next thing "house rent has expired, need to change wardrobes and all worth nuts why" I'm not saying that a boyfriend shouldn't be supportive but the female counterpart should equally contribute something meaningfully in the relationships. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Mrscarter(f): 12:41pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: But she is materialistic if its only his stinginess so y lie. She should just show him how shallow she is n tell him he deserve better n let him go. |
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