Rozcol:
You still don't get it,there are certain things any lady should not overlook in a relationship, a man who doesn't priotize your needs clearly shows you are not part of his life and if you eventually marry such man he won't care about your needs and that of the kids and besides my friend is not materialistic but a reasonable man should know what to do.There was a day they went out together and he stopped to buy some banana and my friend wanted some as well,he bought his own and paid and stretch forth his stingy hands to collect money from my friend to pay for her own,who does that?stop taking sides and hit the nail on the head

breathelove:
Girls out there, have you ever asked yourselves why men are usually wealthier than us women. We attend the same school, we have the same laptop they use for yahoo and we even collect money from them. We keep listening to the same advice from foolish friends and celebrities. If collecting money for sex or a relationship was the way, half of all Nigerian girls would have been richer than E money.
many girls have been collecting this money since they were teenagers yet their lives remain the same.
My advice, find real value guys, seek mentorship and connection, not money. Learn to give value. Don't bargain with sex. Never make sex a form of exchange or currency. If you do, like it or not, you are a prostitute.
Follow the guy who is stingy with his money but generous with his knowledge. You have been collecting money all your life yet you remain a dependent.

Rozcol:
I've never seen his type,my friend is a soft person because if I'm the one I'll tell him to go away direct

Rozcol:
You still don't get it,there are certain things any lady should not overlook in a relationship, a man who doesn't priotize your needs clearly shows you are not part of his life and if you eventually marry such man he won't care about your needs and that of the kids and besides my friend is not materialistic but a reasonable man should know what to do.There was a day they went out together and he stopped to buy some banana and my friend wanted some as well,he bought his own and paid and stretch forth his stingy hands to collect money from my friend to pay for her own,who does that?stop taking sides and hit the nail on the head

Yansham:
Only broke girls call their boyfriend stingy. Na so one idiot I met wanted me to pay for her uber ride home when I used danfo. The day she was to come to my house, she asked that I order uber for her to and fro. I told her to sit down in her house.

Laslas she called me a broke ass nigga.

Rozcol:
He knows my friend is very reserved, he will quickly grab that we planned it.Can you imagine he's hinting on proposal, I mean who marries a hardcore stingy man

Rozcol:
You still don't get it,there are certain things any lady should not overlook in a relationship, a man who doesn't priotize your needs clearly shows you are not part of his life and if you eventually marry such man he won't care about your needs and that of the kids and besides my friend is not materialistic but a reasonable man should know what to do.There was a day they went out together and he stopped to buy some banana and my friend wanted some as well,he bought his own and paid and stretch forth his stingy hands to collect money from my friend to pay for her own,who does that?stop taking sides and hit the nail on the head

Worldwise:
Because the guy is not doing fatherly role as a boyfriend now makes him a hard-core stingy..

By the way, let her tell him point blank... you are too stingy, you can't marry him.. it ✂️if off

Rozcol:
You still don't get it,there are certain things any lady should not overlook in a relationship, a man who doesn't priotize your needs clearly shows you are not part of his life and if you eventually marry such man he won't care about your needs and that of the kids and besides my friend is not materialistic but a reasonable man should know what to do.There was a day they went out together and he stopped to buy some banana and my friend wanted some as well,he bought his own and paid and stretch forth his stingy hands to collect money from my friend to pay for her own,who does that?stop taking sides and hit the nail on the head

Rozcol:
He came with his ride

YngDenzel1:
A man stingy towards his kids? Una dey really dey craz for this nairaland, bomb dey ur head

Rozcol:
Not as easy because some family and friends are aware of the relationship

Rozcol:
I've never seen his type,my friend is a soft person because if I'm the one I'll tell him to go away direct

Rozcol:
Please help my friend suggest very good flimsy escuses to dump her hardcore stingy but very good boyfriend.

He's very good on all other aspects but his stinginess is beyond human comprehension and my friend don't want to appear as been materialistic.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was when she demanded if he could get her pads and some few stuff on his way to her place and when he eventually bought and brought the items to her, he calculated everything he bought and was waiting to be paid which she eventually did and imagine he got the nerves to collect the money from my friend (Just some few thousands), he's very rich so brokenness is out of it.

We've exhausted all the escuses we thought would work out to dump him but he somehow have ways around them (very annoying) and my friend wants to be diplomatic. Please your suggestions are highly welcomed. Thanks

slimman007:


I still stand on my word that you or your friend is a leech.Why this entitlement mindset so rampant among Nigerian women so are you telling me that the guy hasn't been giving her money since they have been together or you expect anytime she makes demand it must be fulfilled either he has it or not.l am only hearing from one side haven't had from the guy so I won't conclude yet all I am advocating here is you should be financially independent,remember that guy is not married to her so there are limit to what he can do for her now

Rozcol:
...he calculated everything he bought and was waiting to be paid which she eventually did and imagine he got the nerves to collect the money from my friend (Just some few thousands), he's very rich so brokenness is out of it.

Rozcol:
My friend is financially very OK but there are certain things that portrays a red flag in a relationship, his own is just too much,he's too stingy

CHoccolaTE:
Your friend has not seen life that is why she is still wondering how to handle this kind of person.
If she is too soft to tell him to get lost forever she can use sense to dispose of him

If he comes to her house let her prepare or order very delicious chicken and fried rice and soft drinks and start eating it alone without offering him anything.

If he asks her for some she should tell him she is not his wife so he must pay before he can eat food that she prepared.

Me sha, where I wicked reach I go show that guy pepper until he runs away by himself.

Make sure your friend does not marry him ooo, because he will be stingy after marriage. If she complains after marriage he will remind her that she knew his behaviour while they were dating and she married him like that so why is she complaining now.

Stingy people irritate me, and they can be so entitled.

Rozcol:
He came with his ride

Rozcol:
You still don't get it,there are certain things any lady should not overlook in a relationship, a man who doesn't priotize your needs clearly shows you are not part of his life and if you eventually marry such man he won't care about your needs and that of the kids and besides my friend is not materialistic but a reasonable man should know what to do.There was a day they went out together and he stopped to buy some banana and my friend wanted some as well,he bought his own and paid and stretch forth his stingy hands to collect money from my friend to pay for her own,who does that?stop taking sides and hit the nail on the head

Kondomatic:
You're not financially responsible if young women do not think you're stingy.







Kondomatic 1985

Creamyebony2017:
Female friends doesn't even ask for refund...
How do you leave a guy that doesn't want to leave you? Start another relationship ! Tested & trusted method