budaatum:
Those with better fathers would not agree with you because not all fathers are like your own father just as you might end up a better parents than your parents were unless you refuse to learn from your parent's mistakes and errors.

juniorboma:
Igala eche?

budaatum:
Those with better fathers would not agree with you because not all fathers are like your own father just as you might end up a better parent than your parents were unless you refuse to learn from your parent's mistakes and errors.

emorse:
I'm sorry to hear all these but be careful what you wish for bro. Things aren't always as they appear.

Parrie:
Use your father do ritual...simple

Parrie:
Use your father do ritual...simple

Facts111:
I sometime belive it's the second wife who is using "kayamata" on him. .
My point is he care less about us. I am 22, i wrote jamb last year but was denied admission. All through my primary and secondary education was sponsored by some pastors who my mother ran to for help. My yonger brother was to write WAEC last year but my deadbit dad refused to pay. I cried the day he sent 30 thousand to a prostitude in my presence. This is farming season i have to work for people 6 days for 5 thousand while my dad is earning 150 thousand plus in a month. He recently parked the second wife and her children from kano to ogun state (IFO). Now am emotionally down. My mom and yonger ones are looking up to me. I wanted to learn handwork, u no capital. I somethme thought about sucide ....

Facts111:
Good afternoon nairalanders...
Please forgive me for any grammerticle erorr.
Am a young boy of 22years. My dad married 2 wives and i happen by chance to be the first son of the first wife. The second wife gave birth to six children while my mom who is the first wife gave birth to five. 3 boys and 2 girls ( though the 2 girls later died of a chronic hearth disease ). What brought about this thread was that my dad refused to take care of us and our mom ( the first wife ). My mom is a devoted christain who hardly goes a week without fasting and prayer. The second wife is a typical traditional worshiper who comes home yearly to worship her great grand fathers grave ( 'IBEGWU' according to igala belive )... He took the second wife with her six children to kano ( sabongari area ). He sponsor the first son through school (now in HND1 ) while me and my mom live in the village. He's a police man (inspector) who is currently in ogun state (ibese dangote cement company). ... Typing

Facts111:
Good afternoon nairalanders...
Please forgive me for any grammerticle erorr.
Am a young boy of 22years. My dad married 2 wives and i happen by chance to be the first son of the first wife. The second wife gave birth to six children while my mom who is the first wife gave birth to five. 3 boys and 2 girls ( though the 2 girls later died of a chronic hearth disease ). What brought about this thread was that my dad refused to take care of us and our mom ( the first wife ). My mom is a devoted christain who hardly goes a week without fasting and prayer. The second wife is a typical traditional worshiper who comes home yearly to worship her great grand fathers grave ( 'IBEGWU' according to igala belive )... He took the second wife with her six children to kano ( sabongari area ). He sponsor the first son through school (now in HND1 ) while me and my mom live in the village. He's a police man (inspector) who is currently in ogun state (ibese dangote cement company). ... Typing

Parrie:
Use your father do ritual...simple

Ngo24:


Most Igala men who are police officers are like that... May God help you in Jesus name

frozen70:


Just assume that you don't have a father and you won't feel his stupidity anymore

A time will come when he will need you, just handle him the way he did to you

DarkPheonix:
That is how most police are, very useless sect of people, shey it is just two wives your dad has some will have wife in every state they are posted to.

BlessedOne259:


I understand your situation but being fatherless is worse. Although your father doesn't contribute to your welfare, the fact that he is alive protects you are your siblings from your extended family. You might even get some support not necessarily money from his friends and siblings (if he has any).

I know it is very painful but I will advise you, your siblings, and your mum to carry-on without expecting anything from him. You folks should support each other. You can write JAMB again. Many of us went through that. You will win if you don't quit. This situation will make you stronger and better. Some of us went through harsh times people may not understand as a result of being fatherless.

I wish you the very best!

Facts111:

Thank u sir/ma for this hearthly advice. Yes i have borrow money and register jamb. Thank u