Barbiturate:
Mr olushola, why would you have a gf when you have a wife at home?
You want her to respect you by not confronting your gf but you disrespected her first, by having an affair outside your marriage, throwing all your wedding vows to the gutters. You should be ashamed of putting this up at your age

DontBullshitMe:
Polygamy over infidelity (having side chicks).

Only cowards have side-chicks.

peacettw:
I really don't understand why wives bother themselves confronting women suspected or confirmed to have relationships with their husbands.

I don't get it. Are you perhaps incapable of having a relationship of your own as well? Or is this activity restricted to the men only?

Why not concentrate on your children and most importantly work on yourself. Expand your circle, make new friends, do a postgraduate study or develop a skill, travel, enjoy life as God intended. In summary, leave that house and work on boosting your self esteem.

Your happiness cannot surely be dependent on one man. It makes no concievable sense. And if he flagrantly displays his relationship to this world like this fool in question, sweetheart, please find someone that will make you happy. It mustn't necessarily culminate to a sexual relationship with the said person.

I am sure your husband will understand especially since he expects you to do so as well.

Barbiturate:
Mr olushola, why would you have a gf when you have a wife at home?
You want her to respect you by not confronting your gf but you disrespected her first, by having an affair outside your marriage, throwing all your wedding vows to the gutters. You should be ashamed of putting this up at your age

cococandy:


How do they prepare for grave?
Nairalanders won’t kill me

Barbiturate:
Mr olushola, why would you have a gf when you have a wife at home?
You want her to respect you by not confronting your gf but you disrespected her first, by having an affair outside your marriage, throwing all your wedding vows to the gutters. You should be ashamed of putting this up at your age

laiperi:
Find out the beginning of one wife one man introduced by Catholic Church to corner a man's wealth after his death.

Which country has one woman one man or which country denies children of other women child support?

Actually, these are children of polygamous families all over the world spewing hypocrisy of serial monogamists.

BTW, it take a while to be wealthy enough to afford a second wife if you are wise, like it comes with gray hair.

deji17:
Only an Atiku supporter will say this with full confidence. They are mostly criminals. From smugglers, to drug mules, corrupt civil servants, armed robbers, bandits etc. PDP is a congregation of evil people. That is why people with any iota of decency are dumping the evil party.

Beancounter93:


Well, the problem is the husband's side chick will bring in something nice...an STI....including HIV.

One of the first ever HIV postive person I met was a woman...who was faithful to her beloved husband...who kept a side chick, who had other..men...one of whom dashed side chick HIV, which she dashed the man, which she dashed the woman...who was compltetely and totally failthful to her husband.

Infact when I met the woman, she was dying from the HIV.....

And many STI's are also difficult to treat as well, and can be very uncomfortable.

Plus, if they have children, you think the kids will forgive their father for betraying their mother?

If you want to be a polygamist, be honest about it from day one...like one woman I read about who married a polygamist...the guy told her from day one that he was going to marry other women...and she agreed, and they are happy.

Not like the case of a man who marries under a system that assumes monogamy, and he then comes and keeps a side chick.

Princedapace:


oga, polygamy is not a crime. He maybe a muslim, he maybe a traditionalist. When will u christains even begin to stop juging everyone based on ur new testament standard? Even jews dont see crime in polygamy. It is strictly for christains in new testament.

Most of una role models in the bible had more than one woman and many side chicks. He has done no crime having a side chick

Klass99:


This cracked me up so bad , you're a mad girl.

simplesearch:


God's authority supersede any religious fallacy and man-made laws. Polygamy or any form of absurd marital relationship or sexual orientation is forbidden by God.

pocohantas:
This man has a word of advice for wives who go about fighting side-chicks.




A king I stan.

What do you think?

Princedapace:


oga, polygamy is not a crime. He maybe a muslim, he maybe a traditionalist. When will u christains even begin to stop juging everyone based on ur new testament standard? Even jews dont see crime in polygamy. It is strictly for christains in new testament.

Most of una role models in the bible had more than one woman and many side chicks. He has done no crime having a side chick

DontBullshitMe:
Polygamy over infidelity (having side chicks).

Only cowards have side-chicks.

Kondomatic:
Says the man that disrespects his wife and dishonors his marriage.

Nonsense and UK medical trip.

If you like upgrade the side chick to "Town-Hend" las las she will still catch you with another "just friend" that you upgraded to her former position and the circle continues.

I will still be here to type "pele" when a daughter of second Timothy finally bathes you with acid.


What do I even know?.

cococandy:
Now is he talking to his wife or is he talking to us? Because this does not concern us. He should calmly explain this to his wife at home and have them both come to agreement on the openness of their marriage.

Or..... is he still single , fantasizing about an imaginary wife that he hopes to mistreat when the time comes? We may never know.

olabrinks:
See this agbaya supposed to be preparing for grave he is talking about side chick this and that. Na wa

simplesearch:



God's authority supersede any religious fallacy and man-made laws. Polygamy or any form of absurd marital relationship or sexual orientation is forbidden by God.

pocohantas:
This man has a word of advice for wives who go about fighting side-chicks.




A king I stan.

What do you think?

ChiefSosa:
Some people never grow up, they just grow old. His white hair would've fooled people into thinking he's sensible. If you respect yourself, your marriage, your wife and possibly kids, why would you go about having a side chick? This is not about being an "Alpha male", this is just about COMMON SENSE. If you met your wife with her Side guy in public, would you be quiet?
Life isn't so complicated as y'all make it seem. When I'm single, I can do as I like with anyone I please, as long as its consensual and of age.
When I'm in a relationship, I stick with one female. Nobody forced me into a relationship and nobody will force me to stay if I lose interest. If I want kids without sticking to one woman, then I have baby mamas. If I'm married and I want more than one person, the I go to polygamous marriage or have an open relationship, that'll be done with the consent of my partner. Aye o le f'eni to ni gbagbo pe aye o le

simplesearch:


Just name one person in the old testament who served God and went the way of polygamy without sorrow and regret at the end of the day?
Not a single one, from David to Solomon to Jacob to Abraham, it was unmitigated sorrow for all of them. Jesus put an end to polygamy, or divorce in the new testament. So as a man look before you leap, and as a woman you can't remarry if you desert your marriage.

olabrinks:
See this agbaya supposed to be preparing for grave he is talking about side chick this and that. Na wa

Twoclans:


With magnoliaa at all my sides I willl talk

When the era of attacking side chics was raining I said it countless times ,as a wife never attack a side chic physically or verbally in a public place.It never pays you as a wife to do that.

With the covid lockdown and movement restriction who else has noticed that attack on side chics is on an all time low. Madam has gotten enough dick thanks to lockdown and 95% are pregnant so oga can be with side chic in peace now.

I stand with him the only problem is that 95% of side chics do not want to be upgraded to a wife.Who wife help?.I will rather be a side chic to Dangote than be a wife to nwAmaikpe of nairaland.

Good side chics are important for a mans sanity,regardless of our disdain for side chics the truth is that side chics keeps a man sane.They will always have a place in the society.