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My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by Sebastine1994(m): 10:20am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Please Nairalanders help me. I am the only child in my family, so I have adopted all nairalanders as my brothers and sisters. I want you to help me untie this godian knot that has given me sleepless night. please. My girlfriend and I both live and work in Abuja. we need to start saving up for our wedding, and we need to start cutting cost. I asked her to move in with me to reduce overhead expenses. Her house rent is 800k and mine is 1.2m. but she has refused to move. I can't move in with her, it's an abomination. Her excuse is that she loves me when she does not see me everyday. The answer seems kind of weird to me. she said her love for me would drop significantly if she moves in with me. that she likes her independence. Should I take this as a red flag or let it slide? She even suggest that as a couple, our love life would be strong if we live in different house, That I can come and visit her and go back. that it would strenghteen our love. to avoid see finish. How can we maintain this lifestyle assuming we married Can this girl be a wife material? lalasticlala mynd44 seun Dominique ishiluv |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by BitterSoul(m): 10:21am On Jun 24, 2021 |
She moves in with you now and you come give her belle, now you come notice say she be bad girl, you come notice say she no good as you been dey see am before. Now you come con tell am mek she pack comot for your house for midnight. She no get house again. She no get side boyfriends again. She carry belle so toasters go run away from her. You want to ruin her beautiful life with your selfishness. If you want her, go and marry her. Simple marriage is bae. Meanwhile, you can grow £20 up to £1000 in six weeks. WhatsApp the number on my signature to know how 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by Taywon: 10:23am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Oh God!! U both should not get married.... 13 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by Robertgreene1(m): 10:25am On Jun 24, 2021 |
interesting... But I don't think both of u re ready 4 marriage yet...ur girl isn't ready 2 give up her independence yet... probably a spoilt brat still going through d hoeing phase... as 4 u Mr man...u don't sound like a man dt can b man enough 2 enforce his will nd get things done his own way like a real man.. probably a spoilt brat(only child) too... so u folks js gotta grow up 1st B4 thinking of marriage cus marriage aren't 4 kids... Bella ciao... 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by aanuoluwami14(f): 10:25am On Jun 24, 2021 |
You are still a breast sucking kid. You need to grow up before going into any relationship. Pele 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by Nobody: 10:25am On Jun 24, 2021 |
RIP to love. I gave up along time ago "6 April' Why should she move in with you when you haven't yet put the ring on it? |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by Sebastine1994(m): 10:27am On Jun 24, 2021 |
SmellySperm: hey man, I have proposed and she has accepted. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by McLizbae: 10:27am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Na "legendary" wah o! |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by Bola146(f): 10:30am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Sebastine1994: Jesu mi o! It is well with your soul in Jesus name Amen! Pele 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by JONSYN7154: 10:30am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Sebastine1994:Let me ask you, WHAT WILL HAPPENE WHEN YOU FINALLY MARRY HER AND YOU PEOPLE ARE LIVING TOGETHER? That means her love for you will DIE na. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by Sebastine1994(m): 10:31am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Bola146:but I love her |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by McLizbae: 10:31am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Sebastine1994: Then you both should proceed to the court and cap it. Simple. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by Nobody: 10:32am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Sebastine1994:Acceptance isn't anything. If you really want her then marry her then she'll all be yours coz I no too trust that thing called love anymore 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by pyyxxaro: 10:35am On Jun 24, 2021 |
So that you fit de torture her kpekus steady abi Be kiaful oh 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by InfernoNig: 10:35am On Jun 24, 2021 |
[s]Her excuse is that she loves me when she does not see me everyday.[/s] So what happens when you marry her and she sees you everyday? Her excuse is a sign she is not faithful to you. Staying with you will spoil her paroles. Just saying. Ue your head. 11 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by DDDEnterprises: 10:36am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Moving in with you as a girlfriend, It's fine if she disapproves. but not living together as a wife?? Na which kind ideology be that one? So when you start bearing children, you'll now start diving how you place the children; "they'll stay with me on Monday, you take them on Tuesday" Then she'll hardly be performing wifely duties. You'll likely get a maid in replacement and then temptations will set in and you may end up sleeping with maid. on the other hand too, you not being around her may lead her to yielding to temptations of men and bringing them in as she likes. Oga, about her saying she'll extend that idea into the fold of marriage, you better disagree with her seriously before it becomes serious. 7 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by Romanoff(f): 10:40am On Jun 24, 2021 |
You both should stay in your separate houses and do a small wedding. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by ChilamNk(m): 10:41am On Jun 24, 2021 |
move out of that 1.2m house to a cheaper one to save cost..! Will you agree to that too? If you can pay 1.2 for rent while she pays 800k for hers then both of you can join hands in handling your weeding expenses. Both this ur thread be like one of those concocted stories..but watin I know sha 7 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by Womanizer(m): 10:44am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Sebastine1994: But you have not yet married her. If she moves in with you and you start fúcking her everyday you will eventually get tired of her before the wedding then start looking for one useless excuse to discharge her! 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by Komolafe89: 10:44am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Part term husband !!! Visiting lecturer I know I don't know we are having Visiting Kiddo husband |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by Sebastine1994(m): 10:45am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Womanizer: I am a gentleman. I am not like that |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by Womanizer(m): 10:45am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Sebastine1994: Story! |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by Sebastine1994(m): 10:46am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Komolafe89:I think that is the word for this insanity |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by GeneralPula: 10:49am On Jun 24, 2021 |
SmellySperm: Love is extinct.. There’s nothing like love in this our generation. The feeling of lust is what’s joining people together these days, nothing like love at all.. |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by Kobicove(m): 10:52am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Sebastine1994: Would you advise your daughter or sister to move in with a man who has not yet married her officially?! 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by donbachi(m): 10:53am On Jun 24, 2021 |
If fathers day dey hungry u to celebrate next year..do It the right way. |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by Sebastine1994(m): 10:56am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Kobicove: why not, so long as he has proposed 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by Nobody: 11:00am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Both of you are not fit and mature for marriage,go and grow up first. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by Trex4(m): 11:02am On Jun 24, 2021 |
What do you guys gain from concocted stories? Are they paying you guys? How much? From your former post it's says you're married already. 6 Likes
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Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by Nobody: 11:05am On Jun 24, 2021 |
GeneralPula:The bolded
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Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by bigpicture001: 11:10am On Jun 24, 2021 |
@Op, marry only who wants to marry, not anyone you are forcing into marriage... This lady is still not ready,her independent mind set still contends her 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Won't Cohabit To Save Expenses. Help Me. by Sebastine1994(m): 11:13am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Trex4: oga are you a child or a stalker. this is a platform for sharing problems. do you want me to hide problems. Haba. apply wisdom, it may not be my problem but my friends, I can seek advice for my friends too. live and let's live 3 Likes |
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