Pricelessruby:
Pls don't generalised,

bigpicture001:


Sis, no offense intended...but I am very sure of what i am saying....ladies are so confused that they list stuffs they can't handle as the main criteria obstructing their smooth relationship....

If u must know, no single lady in Nigeria would love and cherish a handsome, loving, caring, communicating, non cheat ,non lieing and focus good guy if he has all this tribute without money.....

Saying that money matters the most than every other thing would make the lady to look like a misguided person...so all lady's dont usually mention the number one turn on to them...

I repeat again...u will still dump a guy like that even if he doesnt do those stuffs u claim u hate in a relationship.....

I know exactly what am saying.cuz av been there severally.

Pricelessruby:
I can't date a man that is not working, he must have something doing, I am saying this from experience, money matter in a relationship,
if he cannot afford 3 square meal, pay his house rent and having little money for expenses, then it a "no" I dated a guy that almost wreck my life and business, because he wasn't working, I was feeding him daily, clothing, and I invested money in poultry business, he told me, that he had done it before, and he had the experience regarding it, so I believed him and invested in it, but I never knew he was using my money for experiments, he lost all the birds, because he was feeding and giving them the wrong vaccine, I ran into debts, I was owning my sister 4 hundreds thousand, my mum 2 hundreds thousand and also owing some of my friends, I because a shadow of myself because of one stupid love, I have learn my lesson, money for me is number one in relationship, if you Don't have, pls start clear, before I started dating him, I have been brainwashed most expecially, "nairaland" that it is better to start with a guy that has nothing, painting ladies that are after money as bad girls, I use to blamed girls too that goes after money, but I don't anymore, because some do that based on experience, please never judge anyone until you have worn their shoes, thanks

tillaman:
well I don’t know what kind of a guy would sit comfortably while a lady feeds him, also what kind of man would have his woman invest all her money in a business he isn’t sure of, please don’t refer to him as a man the fact that he carries a schlong in between his legs don’t make him a man

Pricelessruby:
I can't date a man that is not working, he must have something doing, I am saying this from experience, money matter in a relationship,
if he cannot afford 3 square meal, pay his house rent and having little money for expenses, then it a "no" I dated a guy that almost wreck my life and business, because he wasn't working, I was feeding him daily, clothing, and I invested money in poultry business, he told me, that he had done it before, and he had the experience regarding it, so I believed him and invested in it, but I never knew he was using my money for experiments, he lost all the birds, because he was feeding and giving them the wrong vaccine, I ran into debts, I was owning my sister 4 hundreds thousand, my mum 2 hundreds thousand and also owing some of my friends, I because a shadow of myself because of one stupid love, I have learn my lesson, money for me is number one in relationship, if you Don't have, pls start clear, before I started dating him, I have been brainwashed most expecially, "nairaland" that it is better to start with a guy that has nothing, painting ladies that are after money as bad girls, I use to blamed girls too that goes after money, but I don't anymore, because some do that based on experience, please never judge anyone until you have worn their shoes, thanks

Pricelessruby:
So please don't generalised, to be candid, a lots of women have fall victim to such men, that doesn't mean men are the same, women are not the same too, thanks

Pricelessruby:
Pls don't generalised,

bigpicture001:


Did he later pick up in the bizness....? I love it you said all this and never mentioned he cheated ,lied, non communicated ,insultive etc...

Did he try to pay back. Was he truly focused on the bizness..? Trust me aside the debt he put u into, was he really a bad person..? Am not him but am sorry for what he made u pass trust....

I want to be ur friend..we have a similar story

tillaman:
look it’s not a big deal to some people if we support one another but for me it is, why don’t we just date and smash and make your own money while I make mine, the way girls are looking for rich dudes is the same way guys don’t want to date broke girls they even call them gold diggers!
I prefer to support her hustle with whatever I have, I won’t wait till she asks sef, so if we end up together then I might welcome the thoughts of getting a loan from her to execute projects which of course I have to pay back with interest

Pricelessruby:
I later discovered he was once married with two kids, he is a liar and a cheat

tillaman:
look it’s not a big deal to some people if we support one another but for me it is, why don’t we just date and smash and make your own money while I make mine, the way girls are looking for rich dudes is the same way guys don’t want to date broke girls they even call them gold diggers!
I prefer to support her hustle with whatever I have, I won’t wait till she asks sef, so if we end up together then I might welcome the thoughts of getting a loan from her to execute projects which of course I have to pay back with interest

Agricaddict:


I don't think people who have it know they do, until they are told, believe me that shiit is hard to take, I don't know how I would feel being told I have mouth odour

Pricelessruby:
I sent you an email, and you didn't reply

tillaman:
am sorry there’s a glitch with that address can you please reach me on delayedreflection1@gmail.com

michlins:
She asked me for house rent few weeks into getting to know her.

You earn less than 30k but live in s house you pay 160k as rent.

No be juju be that

Big juju my brother

michlins:
She asked me for house rent few weeks into getting to know her.

You earn less than 30k but live in s house you pay 160k as rent.

No be juju be that

tillaman:
am sorry there’s a glitch with that address can you please reach me on delayedreflection1@gmail.com

nokspos:
women hate lies but everything about them is lies, their hair is not theirs , their breast is not that big its bra, their face color is make up. they're not virgin , they were rapped.

SenecaTheYonger:


So what? That’s why they can’t stand themselves. That’s why they can’t date themselves. And that’s why they can’t date someone that reminds them of themselves.

So be a man and not a woman in male costume.

nokspos:
that's not the point, most cases a man only lies to someone he truely loves out of the fear of losing her. she eventually leaves her because of the same lies that makes up her entire body.

SenecaTheYonger:

him
I don’t understand your post. What do you mean by she eventually leaves her

nokspos:
that's not the point, most cases a man only lies to someone he truely loves out of the fear of losing her. she eventually leaves him because of the same lies that makes up her entire body.

Divoc19:
He talks anyhow. Like those body shaming kind of person in the name of joke.

He still wonders why I suddenly changed

Pearlqueen:
Lies, lies and more lies.

Lamanii22:
He calls me too much, always want to know what I use his money to buy, nigga literally acts like he owns me... He wanted to see me all the time but I am not someone who likes stepping out... I'm not someone that likes to be seen... it's not enough reason to unlove him..... But... My parents won't even allow me marry from another tribe so my love for him just went to the ditch.... He is cool anyway but not just my type...