I have been dating a girl over a year now, she has been so nice to me over this one year, I was in another relationship before I met her... she was so nice to me that I had to dump the other girl which I dated from 2014 till early (2020... about 6 years)

Right now, I don't know what to comment on my relationship anymore.... she helped me stop crack and other hard drugs which I was taking...(I appreciate that from her)


Before I met her she has a 6year old daughter which is now 7... ever since I met her.. I've been doing my best, I Normally spend my money in hotels and clubs but now it ends in the house... I love her daughter like she's mine, and she knows that... I pay her fees..


BUT HERE IS THE PROBLEM



I'm a hot tempered person, words annoy me rather than action... I destroy things when I'm angry... I'm just 27 years old and she's 28... a programmer by profession..m I own a land and a personal car today...


She's respectful and does what a woman will do to satisfy every man, but most times when I'm broke, there's always trouble in the house... and I feel loved when I have money...


I have never hit a woman my whole life till I met her, now I'm used to beating and shouting... now she's even telling me I talk too much when I'm complaining..

This was never my life...


Please I need options..m what do I do, I've just few hours ago hit her, because I saw her texting someone and she rescued to open her phone... causing damage on her left eye .... please what do I do....


I don't want to kill someone because I now feel I'm obsessed about her... I'm confused


Modified:

My old relationship was worst... I found love and care in this lady...

You need a good counseling or you need not to be deceiving yourself again! Act up like a matured man! Sit and talk one on one with her to know the areas where she could be of help. You know the solutions too. If you are smoking or drinking, you need to stop too. Best wishes

go find a councilor

Just pray you don't end up in Kirikiri Prison Weeping and gnashing your teeth

Pls, chat on WhatsApp. 08033843822.

You are beating a woman that is not even your wife and you are here saying thrash about it, why not let her go and get a new girl. Continue hitting her till she pulls a Chidimma Ojukwu on you, I am patiently waiting for that story on front-page.

Those crack and other hard drugs you were taking, this is the effect o. You took something for over 6 years, you think the addictive demons behind them go leave you go like that? Our people say e no dey finish for mad man brain, e go remain small sparks once once. You know say you agree to date am under the influence of crack. Now crack no dey your matter again, your eyes don dey open small small. Laslas, you go divorce her before wedding. No hit am o because you go go prison without being under the influence of crack and other drugs. A whistle is enough for the wise

No, you need sense

Leave that lady. The beating will not stop. When you claim to love someone and you still hit her, there’s something wrong with the union.

The crack and other hard drugs must have really destroyed you for you to ditch a younger girl to go play daddy to a 7-year old and her older mom at 27.
What better way can we confuse dumbness for love.

Have you ever considered that you were an inexperienced 20year-old when that lady was spreading her legs wide in a labour room to push out a fvcking baby?

Only you can help yourself.
You know your triggers and you know your weaknesses.

From what I've read, being broke makes you a monster and it is only when you are broke that she starts being shitty.
But the beauty of this fvck is that you get broke from catering to her and her kid and not from living your youth to the fullest with other viable ladies.

But we shouldn't blame her for being shitty, you're just her fvckboy who pays the bills and plays dad to her child whose own father doesn't want anything to do with.

Yet you're emotionally at her mercy that your world revolves around another man's outcast.
Biko ditch that girl and look for an asset.
She's not just a liability, she's a master player and you my friend are her pawn.

mtcheew.. deal wit it.. u dumped a girl u have been dating for 5years for anoda girl for wat reason abeg? and u nw expect ya life to be meaningful... ntorr

RadioMOUTH:
I have been dating a girl over a year now, she has been so nice to me over this one year, I was in another relationship before I met her... she was so nice to me that I had to dump the other girl which I dated from 2014 till early (2020... about 6 years)

Right now, I don't know what to comment on my relationship anymore.... she helped me stop crack and other hard drugs which I was taking...(I appreciate that from her)


Before I met her she has a 6year old daughter which is now 7... ever since I met her.. I've been doing my best, I Normally spend my money in hotels and clubs but now it ends in the house... I love her daughter like she's mine, and she knows that... I pay her fees..


BUT HERE IS THE PROBLEM



I'm a hot tempered person, words annoy me rather than action... I destroy things when I'm angry... I'm just 27 years old and she's 28... a programmer by profession..m I own a land and a personal car today...


She's respectful and does what a woman will do to satisfy every man, but most times when I'm broke, there's always trouble in the house... and I feel loved when I have money...


I have never hit a woman my whole life till I met her, now I'm used to beating and shouting... now she's even telling me I talk too much when I'm complaining..

This was never my life...


Please I need options..m what do I do, I've just few hours ago hit her, because I saw her texting someone and she rescued to open her phone... causing damage on her left eye .... please what do I do....


I don't want to kill someone because I now feel I'm obsessed about her... I'm confused

Better go see a therapist.

RadioMOUTH:
I have been dating a girl over a year now, she has been so nice to me over this one year, I was in another relationship before I met her... she was so nice to me that I had to dump the other girl which I dated from 2014 till early (2020... about 6 years)

Right now, I don't know what to comment on my relationship anymore.... she helped me stop crack and other hard drugs which I was taking...(I appreciate that from her)


Before I met her she has a 6year old daughter which is now 7... ever since I met her.. I've been doing my best, I Normally spend my money in hotels and clubs but now it ends in the house... I love her daughter like she's mine, and she knows that... I pay her fees..


BUT HERE IS THE PROBLEM



I'm a hot tempered person, words annoy me rather than action... I destroy things when I'm angry... I'm just 27 years old and she's 28... a programmer by profession..m I own a land and a personal car today...


She's respectful and does what a woman will do to satisfy every man, but most times when I'm broke, there's always trouble in the house... and I feel loved when I have money...


I have never hit a woman my whole life till I met her, now I'm used to beating and shouting... now she's even telling me I talk too much when I'm complaining..

This was never my life...


Please I need options..m what do I do, I've just few hours ago hit her, because I saw her texting someone and she rescued to open her phone... causing damage on her left eye .... please what do I do....


I don't want to kill someone because I now feel I'm obsessed about her... I'm confused

Anytime you're angry just leave home for fresh air. When you simmer down from being angry you can return home.

God have given you the best woman as your companion, please don't loose her. You'll regret if you do.

My candid advice.

Opemiposii:
mtcheew.. deal wit it.. u dumped a girl u have been dating for 5years for anoda girl for wat reason abeg? and u nw expect ya life to be meaningful... ntorr

Don't mind men, they keep falling for d whole nice girl card.

Opemiposii:
mtcheew.. deal wit it.. u dumped a girl u have been dating for 5years for anoda girl for wat reason abeg? and u nw expect ya life to be meaningful... ntorr

That's harsh.

JONSYN7154:
Anytime you're angry just leave home for fresh air. When you summer down from being angry you can return home.

God have given you the best woman as your companion, please don't loose her. You'll regret if you do.

My candid advice.

Baba d lady will cheat on him soon. Ladies who lack contentment get irritated and annoying when money dry. Instead to support they'll rather frustrate d man

JONSYN7154:
That's harsh.

do u even knw hw dat dumped girl would feel at all? put yaself in her shoe na

Pls I beg you men...if you're not financially stable...pls stay away from marriage...you will be more frustrated than ever...
Only if your woman is the one who understands.. when I say *understands*, you know what that means...

RadioMOUTH:
I have been dating a girl over a year now, she has been so nice to me over this one year, I was in another relationship before I met her... she was so nice to me that I had to dump the other girl which I dated from 2014 till early (2020... about 6 years)

Right now, I don't know what to comment on my relationship anymore.... she helped me stop crack and other hard drugs which I was taking...(I appreciate that from her)


Before I met her she has a 6year old daughter which is now 7... ever since I met her.. I've been doing my best, I Normally spend my money in hotels and clubs but now it ends in the house... I love her daughter like she's mine, and she knows that... I pay her fees..


BUT HERE IS THE PROBLEM



I'm a hot tempered person, words annoy me rather than action... I destroy things when I'm angry... I'm just 27 years old and she's 28... a programmer by profession..m I own a land and a personal car today...


She's respectful and does what a woman will do to satisfy every man, but most times when I'm broke, there's always trouble in the house... and I feel loved when I have money...


I have never hit a woman my whole life till I met her, now I'm used to beating and shouting... now she's even telling me I talk too much when I'm complaining..

This was never my life...


Please I need options..m what do I do, I've just few hours ago hit her, because I saw her texting someone and she rescued to open her phone... causing damage on her left eye .... please what do I do....


I don't want to kill someone because I now feel I'm obsessed about her... I'm confused

can't she understand you can't be having money every time? Maybe you should be open with your finance then she can give better advice how you can manage it then when you broke after that time the respect will still be there because I don't understand attitude of some girls when a guy is broke ....its not as if you have but don't want to spend oooo . sit her down and talk to her if you still like her

Bros what I see here is that anytime you are broke you get angry about it that's why you take it out on her, a lady stabbed her BF while he was asleep, he used to beat her like you do to her. Be very careful cos females these days don't care, she can even poison your food just because of the beating alone you do to her. Why even date someone you are taking care of her responsibility, I am sure that's why you are mostly broke cos you should channel that dough on something else.

Opemiposii:
do u even knw hw dat dumped girl would feel at all? put yaself in her shoe na

I understand. OP only ask for advice ma.

Opemiposii:
mtcheew.. deal wit it.. u dumped a girl u have been dating for 5years for anoda girl for wat reason abeg? and u nw expect ya life to be meaningful... ntorr

Old relationship was worst bro

AutoChick4U:
Baba d lady will cheat on him soon. Ladies who lack contentment get irritated and annoying when money dry. Instead to support they'll rather frustrate d man

Not all ladies and beside knowing that she have a child out of wedlock and yet the guy still accepted her she'll do everything to make the relationship work.
Not every men want a woman with child. You and I know it.

JONSYN7154:
I understand. OP only ask for advice ma.

Thanks

AutoChick4U:
Don't mind men, they keep falling for d whole nice girl card.

I swear to God...

BarrSly:


No geeee that’s not the way to go about things. These are your f@ck ups:

1. Dating any girl at all past/present
2. Dumping your first chick cause I’m very sure that girl was with you before the money and the fame.
3. Dating a second hand Value chick with a baby and I’m very sure the baby daddy’s still digging her guts out.

This is what you should do:

1. Get out of that relationship no one helped you stop crack or whatever the power to stop lies within you.
2. Get out of that house and if the house is yours then kick the bitch out cause she’s already showing bitchy tendencies trust me it was her baby daddy she was talking to that’s why she refused to show you the phone.
3. Get your ass straight and avoid any clingy b!tch.
4. When you are sure you are ready (maybe already developing your land) get a baby mama and at the end live happily ever after .

Remember no more clingy b!tches.

1. Stopping certain things sometimes you need help

2. Girl born no make her second hand my brother... I beg you

3. She's not clingy

NwaAmaikpe:




Only you can help yourself.
You know your triggers and you know your weaknesses.

From what I've read, being broke makes you a monster and it is only when you are broke that she starts being shitty.
But the beauty of this fvck is that you get broke from catering to her and her kid.

Biko ditch that girl and look for an asset.
She's a liability.

Thanks, indeed... a hungry man is an angry man... but no woman is a bitch

Carchoice:
Leave that lady. The beating will not stop. When you claim to love someone and you still hit her, there’s something wrong with the union.

Anger is just my problem

SUPERPACK:
You are beating a woman that is not even your wife and you are here saying thrash about it, why not let her go and get a new girl. Continue hitting her till she pulls a Chidimma Ojukwu on you, I am patiently waiting for that story on front-page.

I really want to stop bro... I love this lady, she has done alot for me