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Jimmy17:
"close to what extent, best friend?Boyfriend? ..and I said boyfriend....

NeduLuiZ:
I've said this constantly to folks around me,a woman can not properly raise a man,it's not by her choice but rather a limitation nature placed on her!

Siblings,one raise by dad and the other by mom.

DieRich5:
this man Reno na fool
1) doing of drugs is against the law............if man do drugs ND rape a girl, everybody go say mk he die for jail
2) after the killing she nor report herself to police.........in USA if your friend kill ND u know abt it and police leta kn, both of u re going to jail
3) wrong or right, u kill com still collect him money........ cast close, nothing can stop u from going to jail

Emotionss:
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This is exactly what I am talking about.

When a man commits a crime we scream for his head but when I woman commits that same crime you see people mostly men defending her and blaming the victim.

aomine:
AOMINE IN DAAAAA HOUSE, OK IMAGINE THIS SOMEBODY ACTUALLY HAVING TIME TO BE FRIENDS WITH A GIRL WHEN THERE'S GRIND TO GRIND AHHHHHHH, SEE EHN ITS ONLY THE WORST KIND OF SIMPS THAT ALLOW THEMSELVES TO BE FRIENDZONED CUZ THE FRIEND ZONE IS NOT FENCED WITH TITANIC WALLS RATHER A PICKET FENCE YOU CAN GET OUT WHEN YOU WANT IF YOU STAY NA YOU DO YOURSELF

CaveAdullam:
2. Women are in truthful partnership to the sisterhood but men aren't to the brotherhood.

Thanks.

Jimmy17:
Hi, I need advice...I noticed my course mate giving me the green light, before the that we've never had an interaction... following that we became friends...I've visited her place...she's also visited mine but nothing ever happened...so a day ago when we met, she refused to show me a document on her phone saying only her n her parents can see it...when we were speaking today on WhatsApp...the document came up...and I told her when we become close...she will show me...then she said "close to what extent, best friend?Boyfriend? ..and I said boyfriend...then she said we can only be best friends...and I told her that ' I have no interest in being her Best friend...then she asked me what I had interest in being...I told her boyfriend
.then she told me that she likes me but only as a friend.
My question is what do I do now?
What did I do wrong?
And how to prevent such from happening again?
@ubunja

Martinez39s:

Jessepaid:
Withdraw from her for now and wait..


If she still reaches out, make your move

Zabiboy:
Yo guys...
I'll drop some self-improvement words about "The power of the Mind"
It's actually a broad stuff and really really complicated but it helps alot physically ( during workouts), mentally ( how you react/act ), sexually (controlling your sexual urge) and otherwise..
As always, it'll be as short and simple as possible

CaveAdullam:
On this one, the feminist coven are still sleeping or probably still imagining how one of their own messed up big time. If a woman kill a man it's self defence against rape and it's good. But if a man kill a woman, it's crime against humanity and he must rot in hell. What a crazy society we live, full of bunch of idiots!

A stupid girl commits murder and instead of people to make sure the court of law brings justice and send her to jail, they're all debating on her facial look, smoking video, big butts pictures and her age. No one is even talking about the struggle the victim had with death before he finally gave up the ghost. No one talks about the amount of supplications he made for his life to be spared. He would have gave his all for his life but that tiny little b!tch: CHIDINMA OJUKWU, took his life like a broad day blood sucking evil vampire. The man is guilty of infidelity quite alright, but that doesn't warrant his gruesome death!

The way many people are even rooting for her as if it's a political campaign explains that the society we live is in a simping state of mess. Crime is crime and anyone found guilty must pay for it.

So unfortunate that the late billionaire didn't see this coming or probably miscalculated and fell for her innocent looks. Hell is not worth competing with a woman's fury when it starts manifesting; it's innocent but deadly.

Brethrens be wise as a serpent around serpents and wise as serpent around doves. The doves of this day have claws of wolves.

Well done!

KiNg0G:
It's fûckin rude for a girl to ask a guy this question....means she already placed herself above you... during all your meetings n all

This where the fûcked up leads to bro..... left to me if an object ask me this kinda question... it's an opening for me to display whose the man here...bro... like for real.... you had an opportunity to redeem your simp assx but you lost it bro.

She be blocking my assx off the next minute bro... if she cant deal with my response!.. trust me.







For real bro she should be asking you "WHAT ARE WE" not the other way round.

Emotionss:
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Most men don't know that A woman can be fuccking 10 different men a week and still claim to be single and searching...

The way men interpret singleness is different from how women interpret theirs.

HornyTave:
Whenever a woman does a thing you don't like,
' change it immediately for her / him '

Yesterday I was on phone with a female friend and made a remark jokingly, her reply made me ask her ' When that wan start? wetn you mean by that ?'
If I had apologized for the joke, even it wasn't funny or she didn't get it, then I've downgraded my self. I'm polite, I'm not nice. Nice people are fools. My brother used to tell me ' when people call you a nice person or good boy, then know you're a fool '. The society respect Polite people and take Nice people as fools.
Women especially like nice guys, they know they can subtle and subdue you to their wills, like The One Ring, they can corrupt you.
painfully, many men don't have minds of their own, they follow the trend.

Zabiboy:
1/4
Have you ever been sick and a doctor told you to not stay down but instead get up, go around and do your normal stuffs?
Or you are doing a workout ( say press-up) and you normally do 20 for example and then you discover that at number 16, you still have enough energy but once you get to 19, all your energy just get drained?
Or you are in a position where everybody around you is kinda tensed or nervous and you are just cool and normal?
IT'S ALL ABOUT THE MIND
I personally believe we dont Practice to be perfect, but we practice to Train the mind...
Thats why a poor man who was once rich will act TOTALLY different from a poor man who has never been rich or a young tennis player playing in a final will be shaking whilst an andy Murray will be so relaxed...
....typing

Zabiboy:
4/4
So anyways, just to finalize,
The Mind is the most under-utilized part of the human body.. If you can get your mind to replace that feeling you get from something you are addicted to with another event/thing, you'll discover you can do without virtually anything except oxygen...
No SEX/SEXUAL PLEASURE Has given me the kind of joy and satisfaction i get when i help someone else especially if the person was able to rise with the little I gave..
Why? Because of how i'v trained my mind..
I was able to put my mind in a condition where what turns men on ( bikini, porn, ass, cleavage, nudes etc) become irritating to me and turns me off..
What worked for me might not work for everyone tho but there is something about the mind i feel everyone needs to discover and benefit from

BSdetector:
What are the political views of redpillers in the house? I know this isn't politics section, but you guys seem disinterested in topics related to politics?

DaniWhizbang:
One of my favourite quote is "Mindset is everything" and this post is a testament to that.

For people seeking to understand this on a broader perspective, please try and read Psycho Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz. In this book, you will learn how to transform your mind and achieve great success with your goals.

FRANKOSKI:
ANAMBRA MEN ARE THE MOST REDPILLED IN THE WHOLE AFRICA.

LIVINGICON:
Our mind is a microcosm of the universe. This mind is so powerful, more powerful than the physical body. MIND OVER MATTER is a body building slang that lay emphasis on that fact. During work outs, once the mind starts to fail or doubts itself, it most surely manifest in the physical. On some days you could do 4 sets 20 reps bench press, on other days you could do just merely 2 sets 20 reps. It's all in the mind.

That is why as a man, u must be very careful of what you read, listen to and see. U must guide your mind jealously. I have loads of motivational audio messages that i listen to daily to kickstart each day. To get myself pumped up. I hardly listen to news anymore cos they pollute the mind. Those shits drain the mind faster than leeches.


Success or failure it begins from the mind.

Have a wonderful week ahead.

SOZINN:
@ CaveAdullam please recommend books for me to read.
Or anyone, please.

Saviolamemphix:
Dis Aomine in d house sounds strange can't u just state ur opinion without using that tag

TheDarkGamer:
Warning! You may find this post irrelevant.

Today makes it about a year since I've discovered the Redpill. It has changed my life in so many ways, not only concerning inter gender dynamics. I have a better mindset now, setting goals for myself and imbibing positive values in my life. The books have also increased my knowledge vastly on various topics.

I want to share my story and how I discovered this thread as a source of motivation to others. From my last message, most already know my age. I'm a teenager and I graduated from Secondary school last year. I understand that some people may not want to read this or tag it as a nuisance, it's alright. You can move on from here.

Before I start my narration, I'd like to give you a description of myself so that you can fully comprehend what I'm going to say here. I'm actually not tall in stature, not as short as you might imagine but I'm not of average height. I've come to terms with that because it's hereditary and my parents are not tall. I also have a fit body and people around me generally say I look handsome, so it seems so. The last thing I want to say here is that I'm actually quite intelligent, top 3 in class type. Now, this information may seem unnecessary to you reading this but if there was a way I could narrate this without saying all this, I would. I'm quite an introvert.

Now, I was thinking deeply recently and I discovered that the way our society right now affects not only adults but children and teenagers. Without finding out about the Redpill, my past experiences wouldn't have made any sense. Now, I have some knowledge about things, I'm still learning and I do my best to diplomatically share the red pill to boys around me and my ex-classmates. It's been going great actually. All this wouldn't have been possible without finding this redpill thread, I'm very grateful.

I started Junior Secondary school as a typical nerd. Always reading, hardly talking, and keeping to myself most times. Despite my serious attitude towards academics and my introverted life, I had always been attracted to girls. I even got attracted to one the first day I came to school. Before that, I had zero experiences with girls because primary school was all fun and games. I had kissed once though. Even after liking this particular girl that caught my attention, I didn't let it get to me. She was one of the finest girls in my set but she was not smart. I made her know though, she also developed feelings for me but some natural instinct back then made me act somewhat masculine. I wasn't intimidated by her, called her out if she offended me and I certainly did not put her on a pedestal. She still kept coming though.

I also had an abundance mentality back then ( I don't even understand it but I hated being tied down to a particular girl). Despite getting the interest of my crush, I started becoming aware of another girl. I had back then and it was that the girl must be fair complexioned and smart, height didn't really matter to me. She was fair and very smart but she was kind of "holy" and had good moral values. Now, it might be some evolutionary biology instinct but she was the one I was attracted to more. The first girl could be likened to a typically beautiful and packaged modern-day girl and the other an equally fine, calm, restrained, and intelligent girl for a better understanding of what I'm saying.

At the end of the day, I didn't give both of them any special attention and the whole set knew I wasn't committed to either of them. In the new class of JSS2, the pretty-but-no-brains girl went on to date the most masculine boy in our set at that time. He had muscles, a mustache, was a player, etc at the time (I know what you're probably thinking, yes this was JSS2). However, the church girl would go on liking me until I left the school without really expressing wholehearted interest until SS1.

Nothing really sexual happened in my set until JSS3 when I was the watchman for one of the boys who did shows (secondary school word for sexual activity like runs etc). At that point in time, I hadn't seen anything like it and I was very surprised. They kissed, he sucked her breasts, fingered her and she gave him head. It was mindblowing. Why did I share this? This kind of stuff happens even in primary school, so those of you that have kids, try to find out what's happening. Even till now, my parents do not have any idea of any of my sexual activities, they only see the serious student, reading and writing books part.

Nothing much happened in my Junior Secondary School except that in my JSS2, I fell for my senior. I simped in that one actually. She was double my height but I gave her snacks and love letters. Till today, I don't really know how she felt about me.

Fast forward to Senior Secondary School, I changed schools to another expensive private school, but this one was way worse in terms of freedom. The old school was a Christian school and they made religion a focus of the school's tenets apart from academics. This tamed most students, there were few situations of "shows" between students. But now in my new school, things were a lot different. It was bigger, had more social events, teachers were not strict outside the classroom, etc. I had my old mentality about being good and all and when I arrived, I couldn't deal with the attention and I snapped. I came late in the third term and my new class girls started flocking around me. It got to my head and I didn't even socialize with the boys much and that haunted me till I left the school. I started becoming more interested in girls and had my first shows within a week of arriving. I lost all feelings for the girl and smashed (not sex) four more times until the novelty wore off. Girls began to cool their interest and most boys were jealous and hated me.

A quick word of advice: Please if you have kids in secondary school or you have relatives, make sure that they don't get in the bad books of the top dogs in the class. I mean those boys that usually run the set and have the attention of all the girls, they are tall, strong and they excel in sports. They don't have to socialize with them but just be diplomatic. If they owe you, your stay will be smooth. I'm talking about boarding school. They don't flog nowadays so apart from suspension and expulsion, you can't really make them suffer a good punishment if you report them. They will come for you in subtle but painful ways. Mine was heartbreaking and I almost left the school. They took my shoes before school or assembly in the morning, stole my keys and took things from me, poured toothpaste in my uniform, etc. It was bad.

I also refused to stick to a particular girl this time too. However, this began to go south from here. Interacting with others and watching movies and series that pedestalized females and made them seem like the prize began to have its effect on me. It felt wrong to not date girls after doing shows with them and I had to treat them like angels even if they did wrong. That's why you're not supposed to slap girls or shout at them even if they do the same to you. And you know how it is, the girls are more united than boys and the moment you offend one, the rest are our for you. Boys don't even make matters easy because some will support girls. Please let's try to change this mindset in our children and the people we know.

I cruised my way through SS1. In SS2, my classmates pressured me to date this junior girl that was in SS1 and I almost did. She was what you'll call a hoe. She had done shows with numerous boys, even her seniors. I actually had no problem with it and we began to flow. However, I noticed she was still interested in her classmate who had dated her thrice and dumped her. (You see that red pill theory applying here). I couldn't deal with it and I left her.

Now, this last one is going to be very stupid. I wrote Cambridge IGCSE exams and we had to come back during the summer for a learning extension. We came with mufti and it was fun. But my focus in this part is on two people. The most popular boy in my class and the hottest girl. They were dating at the time. I began to notice the girl and I hadn't talked much to her before that time. However, during one chemistry class, we suddenly began paper chatting and I jokingly indicated interest. She didn't discourage me, so we kept on joking like that and I even got to touch her sometimes (nothing intense). She had a huge backside and that was why I call her the hottest, not too beautiful but a good figure.

That summer, her boyfriend broke up with her. He was my classmate and a good friend. He kept me out of trouble whenever guys wanted to deal with me and I made him laugh and we had a good conversation. We were not close but just there. When we came back to school, I started simping because I had spent my summer holiday chatting with her and thinking about her. In school, we got close and even kissed after some time. However, I noticed that she didn't want to date me. Remember, I'm the shortest boy in the class, so her case would have been understandable if she didn't want to date me. (Hypergamy at its finest, she broke up with her tall, sporty boyfriend and was using the short nerd as her support. I didn't just know this back then.) I noticed that I started focusing on her alone and stopped interacting much with other girls. (Scarcity mindset). I fed her so much attention that I was constantly thinking about her even when I was reading. From the outside, it looked like we were dating but only I and maybe her girlfriends knew what was going on behind the scenes. Till today, I get texts from my juniors and classmates asking how I got her. I thought I could change her and make her love me (Cap'n Save A Hoe) but despite my trials, it never worked.

She started getting interested in her ex and he started talking to her again. It made me feel sad and heartbroken but anytime I tried to stop, I always went back. I actually reduced my reading and became solely focused on her. But one thing I noticed was that anytime I was angry with her or I stopped giving her attention, she started disturbing me and making me feel special. I always asked to do shows with her but she never really got around to doing it with me. This was someone that had done everything except penetrative sex with her boyfriend (anal sex inclusive, most couples in our set did all kinds of crazy stuff. The only reason they didn't have sex was fear of pregnancy and the virgin issue). As time went on, I couldn't leave her even if I tried because I was so invested in her and I just couldn't. She eventually did shows with her boyfriend again and I would go on writing heartbreak poems and listen to Juice Wrld. Whenever other girls wanted to smash or were interested, I turned them down and made a big show of loving her because I expected her to do the same.

My newfound knowledge has made me know that women do not think as logically as men. They are wired to love you based on how you make them feel and no matter what you do, you aren't changing her. I wish I knew that then, I would have been a better person then. I still did well in academics but I stopped writing, became solely focused on searching the net for how to please women, etc. It was getting bad for me. While others were sneaking into girls' hostel and vice versa to do shows, I'd watch as the ex got to do shows with her and she'd act normal like nothing happened. Whenever I raised the topic, she was an expert at deflecting from the point and she wanted it both ways. I have no doubt that if I was taller and more masculine, I'd have her in my pockets, but I wasn't unfortunately. That's why she always went back to her ex for shows and used me for attention. The ex even advised me and told me that I was giving her too much attention, told me to limit it and focus on myself and I'd get here but I didn't seem to understand.

What I've learned here is true, we have to be masculine. Not only for females but for ourselves. I got pushed aside and bullied (not as intense as you might be imagining) because I wasn't masculine enough. I just let things go and gave them more opportunities to continue. I wish I had known about the red pill then.

Lastly, she even smashed her best friend (male) and that's when I saw how stupid I had been. I stopped talking to her but I couldn't gain back my lost year of school. Till today, I have some regrets but I'm better of now than I was before. I was even two years younger than her actually. I completely ghosted her after graduation but after some months, she hit me up on Snapchat and we've been talking. Things have changed and I've stopped pedestalizing her. I don't hate her or women in general. I'm not a misogynist but when you understand that you should hate the game not the player, you'd be more rational. Also, you might think this is nothing compared to what you have been discussing previously but for someone as inexperienced as me, this is a big deal. I lost my time and misplaced my priorities when I was supposed to be looking out for myself. I used to imagine dying for her then. Whenever I remember those days, I feel stupid.

Why did I post this? To give you a perspective of a teenager's view on inter-gender dynamics and to offer some advice. Everything about the red pill is actually true and has occurred at some point in my life, I just didn't acknowledge it. Girls at a young age want someone masculine and older to make them feel more feminine (They date seniors and older boy), they are hypergamous (searching for boys with more status, money, and power), they are emotionally manipulative (I was a victim), you can't save them (It's better you don't try), etc. We should all try to introduce this younger generation to the red pill because the way things are going, it's going to go downhill very soon.

I know this post is extremely long and it might offend some people, but I hope some others will see something to benefit from the post. I couldn't type everything I wanted to but I hope I got something through. This forum is actually a blessing to a lot of people. Men have to watch each other's backs nowadays. Women already have this inborn instinct in them and that's why they have each other's backs. Just like a cartel. We should try to spread the redpill as much as we can, I already do my part and I have saved some simps from ruin. Forgive the length of the post, it actually covers my 2000 words a day writing policy and I've even exceeded it.

Cheers.