Ok

The very minute she lets out her first loud fart in your presence......The "see finish" phase begins.

No time is too long bro. Love ND mutual understanding is what matters. Don't be pressurised into marriage pls. Hussle and make enough money first ooo

Shouldn't be longer than your dick size...

Speaking to the guys.

Women should decide on their own.

Abeg free us. Lazy youths and relationship wahala Mata no go ever finish. It's like Nigerian government borrowing from China, e no go ever end........
Abeg let's discuss something better, like how to be productive and rich, then nah women go follow us like bees. I like the slogan " Get rich or die trying".........

Lol

There is no specific date and year and I am married to my child hood friend from the same state, town and village. We date for 12 years. Yes I mean 12 years and wedded on 30th DEC 2016 and till date she is everything and we still love and cherish each other.

12 years + 5 years officially means 17 years of togetherness with amazing 3 kids.

There is no formular my brother, what works for me might not work for you and what works for you might as well not work for me.

For us to achieve that height we avoided friends and only sticked together to avoid evil advisers

You're so sweet

seunny4lif:
I had a long distance relationship for 2 years and it’s was crazy
Calling her and if she is not picking can cause a lot of 2 weeks fighting.
Mine will be online on FB and yet wouldn’t pick my calls or call me.
I was in love but it was driving me crazy

Fast forward to a 1 year later again, I promised myself, not to call her again and I deleted all her contacts on my phone but only for to broke my promise myself, I was calling and texting her for not picking.
It’s was hell.
Fast forward
I wicked her back by get married and having my own family

Wetin una dey think
Na her I marry oooh and we have 3 kids now.
God forbid I do long distance relationship again
That thing was a punishment jooor

It will largely be relative according to age.

Well, if you ask me, I'll say anything beyond two years is getting too long.

But this would also mean that anyone not ripe and ready for marriage shouldn't date. Yet I started dating at 18!

At the end of the day, everyone would do what works for them.

Quite seriously though, with what I know now... long relationships are problematic in so many ways.

It may seem fun and all... BUT...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hNnpOkbMMy8

for guy it doesn't matter how long once you've test her, abeg no marry someone you've not tested in many ways


Test: when she needed cash and you've the cash, sometimes pretend you don't have but show concerns, her reaction will judge the level of her endurance, also test the Level of her fantasy, loyalty and responsibilities. once she passed then take her to the altar


for the lady, the time matters because men can be complex sometimes, we love to be care for and when you're dating a guy and she met another caring but cunning lady, you could lose such guy


so before entertaining the guy with your pussy, ensure she's not demanding for your body than his readiness to settle down with you.


if you're dating a guy that's proposing marriage to you and he's not showing you his family and not willing to meet your family within 3-4months in the relationship, just know you're a sex toyy in his hand



finally, if your guy is financially fine, capable of taking care of a home and he's not showing a sign of settling down, no matter how young you might be as a lady. you're with a well to do guy for more than 2 years and up to 2years and he's not showing readiness of settling down, you're only investing on nothing

I ain't gonna subscribe to any long relationship again

seunny4lif:
I had a long distance relationship for 2 years and it’s was crazy
Calling her and if she is not picking can cause a lot of 2 weeks fighting.
Mine will be online on FB and yet wouldn’t pick my calls or call me.
I was in love but it was driving me crazy

Fast forward to a 1 year later again, I promised myself, not to call her again and I deleted all her contacts on my phone but only for to broke my promise myself, I was calling and texting her for not picking.
It’s was hell.
Fast forward
I wicked her back by get married and having my own family

Wetin una dey think
Na her I marry oooh and we have 3 kids now.
God forbid I do long distance relationship again
That thing was a punishment jooor

Lmao.. Baba you dey love oo.

Long distance isn't for everyone.

To be honest, relationship depends on understanding, believe and definition . Many see their proposal to a lady turn down.

No true relationship is worth dating more than six month. Ladies know who they want to marry , same to guys .

Relationship these days were just for sex or money. Don't ever date a lady or a guy for more than six months without seeing seriousness in both sides.

Probably both don't met their various specification. A true relationship does not take
time lead go to marriage.

Just after sex

U have said it All, no more no less

Kastonkastroll:
Doesn't matter how long. Some relationships might last for four years before marriage while the marriage itself wont last up to a year. Some of our parents never did anything like relationship before they tie the knot and you will find out till today their marriages are still intact.

And op dont kid yourself, In this our modern time, only love doesn't sustain any marriage. You'd be surprised that majority of girls only want to marry because of the financial security that comes with the marriage. Know this and know peace

The Lord will deliver una

Lol, my situation right now. I'm breaking up with her tonight though. Long Distance Relationship na wash, I'm not trying that again, never! This one doesn't even call me at all, she claims she prefers using her airtime for data. Ok fine, reply to my text messages, at least it's just #4, NO! I've really tried for these past four months but right now, I can't come anymore. I will only date when I'm ready to get married now. Maybe in the next five years, I need to focus on my life. It wasn't a waste of time though, I learnt a lot of lessons from it. I wish her the best.

seunny4lif:
I had a long distance relationship for 2 years and it’s was crazy
Calling her and if she is not picking can cause a lot of 2 weeks fighting.
Mine will be online on FB and yet wouldn’t pick my calls or call me.
I was in love but it was driving me crazy

Fast forward to a 1 year later again, I promised myself, not to call her again and I deleted all her contacts on my phone but only for to broke my promise myself, I was calling and texting her for not picking.
It’s was hell.
Fast forward
I wicked her back by get married and having my own family

Wetin una dey think
Na her I marry oooh and we have 3 kids now.
God forbid I do long distance relationship again
That thing was a punishment jooor

Anything above 4 years is too much for me. Most guys will use the style called I go marry (IGM) and chop chop the babe turn turn, from the left, right, back, centre and side ways...

Any relationship above 3 years is a waste of time


The reason why many marriages normally wreck at infancy is that, after spend so many year in relationship, they might have tired about the relationship, since no single spark anymore.

But for relationship that is short-leave, provided the 2 are good individual o, that feelings and sparks will power the marriage at preminary which is stage that frigile most in marriages

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guys / men don't have problem concerning this because even at the age of 48 they can still work and produce any substance .they problem lies on women because of their short sexual productivity .

Am in a long distance relationship which is burning like fire ,she used to tell me "after school get ready to marry me and take me to the city ooo"

6 months and/or a year is okay

Until both parties get tired of each other


Instead of forcing it then call it off

olabimpe4321:
Pls 4d sake of Almighty God try to help me and my son out pls, we have been passing a lots of suffer ness and hunger since i lost my job, with even having nothin now to eat pls, and may God shall not fail&dissapoint u at any situation u find urself in ur entire lifetime and joy, success and blessing shall never depart from your lifetime, and may God in his glory continue to be always blessing&satisfying you with all ur wants &heart desires in this life to the fullest amen, even if its to eat with it and this my acct, pls GT, bank., 06, 38, 66, 98. 65, Olabimpe joseph, and u shall not beg to eat for all d remaining rest of ur lifetime, and all ur efforts in this life shall not be in vain amen

The father of the baby

Sibling of the father of the baby

Oprah Winfrey has been in a relationship with her man for over 40 years now...

I swear mine cut off communication for 4 mouth out of 2 years
Mine was just pure wickedness and she told me herself after we got together
Fear women and she was young.
She was only 19 years then
I do catch them young

Emeraldfynest:
Lol, my situation right now. I'm breaking up with her tonight though. Long Distance Relationship na wash, I'm not trying that again, never! This one doesn't even call me at all, she claims she prefers using her airtime for data. Ok fine, reply to my text messages, at least it's just #4, NO! I've really tried for these past four months but right now, I can't come anymore. I will only date when I'm ready to get married now. Maybe in the next five years, I need to focus on my life. It wasn't a waste of time though, I learnt a lot of lessons from it. I wish her the best.

That thing kill faster than COVID

Odunharry:

Lmao.. Baba you dey love oo.

Long distance isn't for everyone.

Sweet ke
Baba I no want that kind love again

Monben:
You're so sweet

1 day to 3 month how unah take see am