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Legendguy:
Lemme use this opportunity to share my experience expecially now that this chidinma and late afaga saga is circulating the media.
When I was in school, a federal University in the south west I was a friend to a girl, her name is Evelyn but her middle name is chidinma, very pretty and fair Igbo. When you see her, you would be wondering if she's an half caste but her both parents are pure igbos. She came from a broken family as well just as the chidinma saga but the only difference is that she and her other siblings lived with her money while the father was away from them.
During my friendship with her, I noticed lots of things about her. She date numerous guys, even dating international guys, aside local guys. She confound in me alot telling me about men she was hooked up with. There was a day she told to help her look for an hotel for her cos she got a hook up date from Ghana coming to Nigeria, I couldn't do that cos I wasn't around. The guy came from Ghana and he spent some few days before going back. This girl was raking in money because she gets lots of hooks all the time
What I'm trying to bring out here is that a lot of girls in Nigeria are typical example of chidinma in the murder saga.
Parents need to train their daughters with values and decipline. Train them in the way of the lord and train them to be contended with what they have.
It's been 3 years since I graduated from school, we were in same level but different department and she hasn't yet graduated.
Most girls that involved in this always loose academic focus and began to have extra years or have to sort sex for grade to graduate. About majority of girls in higher institutions are typical example of chidinma.
So what's the way forward to contain this menace in our society?

lilvicky68:
By stop naming our daughters chidinma..

Legendguy:
She confound confided in me alot telling me about men she was hooked up with

Legendguy:
Lemme use this opportunity to share my experience expecially now that this chidinma and late afaga saga is circulating the media.
When I was in school, a federal University in the south west I was a friend to a girl, her name is Evelyn but her middle name is chidinma, very pretty and fair Igbo. When you see her, you would be wondering if she's an half caste but her both parents are pure igbos. She came from a broken family as well just as the chidinma saga but the only difference is that she and her other siblings lived with her money while the father was away from them.
During my friendship with her, I noticed lots of things about her. She date numerous guys, even dating international guys, aside local guys. She confound in me alot telling me about men she was hooked up with. There was a day she told to help her look for an hotel for her cos she got a hook up date from Ghana coming to Nigeria, I couldn't do that cos I wasn't around. The guy came from Ghana and he spent some few days before going back. This girl was raking in money because she gets lots of hooks all the time
What I'm trying to bring out here is that a lot of girls in Nigeria are typical example of chidinma in the murder saga.
Parents need to train their daughters with values and decipline. Train them in the way of the lord and train them to be contended with what they have.
It's been 3 years since I graduated from school, we were in same level but different department and she hasn't yet graduated.
Most girls that involved in this always loose academic focus and began to have extra years or have to sort sex for grade to graduate. About majority of girls in higher institutions are typical example of chidinma.
So what's the way forward to contain this menace in our society?

Legendguy:
Lemme use this opportunity to share my experience expecially now that this chidinma and late afaga saga is circulating the media.
When I was in school, a federal University in the south west I was a friend to a girl, her name is Evelyn but her middle name is chidinma, very pretty and fair Igbo. When you see her, you would be wondering if she's an half caste but her both parents are pure igbos. She came from a broken family as well just as the chidinma saga but the only difference is that she and her other siblings lived with her money while the father was away from them.
During my friendship with her, I noticed lots of things about her. She date numerous guys, even dating international guys, aside local guys. She confound in me alot telling me about men she was hooked up with. There was a day she told to help her look for an hotel for her cos she got a hook up date from Ghana coming to Nigeria, I couldn't do that cos I wasn't around. The guy came from Ghana and he spent some few days before going back. This girl was raking in money because she gets lots of hooks all the time
What I'm trying to bring out here is that a lot of girls in Nigeria are typical example of chidinma in the murder saga.
Parents need to train their daughters with values and decipline. Train them in the way of the lord and train them to be contended with what they have.
It's been 3 years since I graduated from school, we were in same level but different department and she hasn't yet graduated.
Most girls that involved in this always loose academic focus and began to have extra years or have to sort sex for grade to graduate. About majority of girls in higher institutions are typical example of chidinma.
So what's the way forward to contain this menace in our society?

Juliusmalema2:
So are u any different? U were helping her book hotels for her wayward lifestyle, yet u have the guts to tell us to train our children in the way of the lord. Why did u not make effort to help her stop?