HRHQueenPhil:


U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

andronite:
HI guys,

My friend who is a US citizen, single, no kids, no wife, and has been working in the US for close to 10 years. Things have gone well and he was planning to settle down this August. So he came to Nigeria about one and half years ago to do introduction and engage his high school sweetheart. Note, this is also when they officially / seriously started dating . All has been well, and the both of them, their families were preparing for the wedding in August. However, last week he just discovered that his fiancee recently went to visit her ex boyfriend. When he confronted her, she said she went because she was bored, and she refused afterwards to change her phone number (he wanted to stop them communicating), saying she didn't sleep with her ex, and she only went for a hangout in his house.

My friend has cancelled the wedding as we speak, and everybody is begging him to re-consider. Between, the lady's age is within the range of 33 to 36. And my guy is between 37 to 40. He is confused as we speak, because he is taking a hard line on the issue, he doesn't want to start his marriage life on a wrong foundation. At the same time, he is feeling hurt because of her unseriousness.

What should he do?

uthlaw:
even my family (💯% yes) perfect in what aspect...ask any Yahoo guy around you, how faithful are whites!

HRHQueenPhil:


U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

HRHQueenPhil:


U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

andronite:
HI guys,

My friend who is a US citizen, single, no kids, no wife, and has been working in the US for close to 10 years. Things have gone well and he was planning to settle down this August. So he came to Nigeria about one and half years ago to do introduction and engage his high school sweetheart. Note, this is also when they officially / seriously started dating . All has been well, and the both of them, their families were preparing for the wedding in August. However, last week he just discovered that his fiancee recently went to visit her ex boyfriend. When he confronted her, she said she went because she was bored, and she refused afterwards to change her phone number (he wanted to stop them communicating), saying she didn't sleep with her ex, and she only went for a hangout in his house.

My friend has cancelled the wedding as we speak, and everybody is begging him to re-consider. Between, the lady's age is within the range of 33 to 36. And my guy is between 37 to 40. He is confused as we speak, because he is taking a hard line on the issue, he doesn't want to start his marriage life on a wrong foundation. At the same time, he is feeling hurt because of her unseriousness.

What should he do?

fineberry:
I need not read your writeup op.



Went there to do what please!!!

Fiscus105:



We are talking about woman infidelity now, when it's time for men, we talk about it too

I think it's not good enough to start shifting goal post at middle of match.

Lady going back to her ex to relax because she is boring is total bulshit

Why can't she settle down with ex and leave innocent guy.

She wants to eat her cake and have it same time.(want to eat uk based money and rock ex same time, who does that ?)

HRHQueenPhil:


U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Any of my ex that comes to visit me in my house will be banged, no exceptions

HRHQueenPhil:


U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

na2016:


The first thing I did when I saw this comment was to look at the gender, I wasn't surprised when I saw "female". When you want to marry, allow your would-be husband to do this same thing...id*ot!!!

HRHQueenPhil:


U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

HRHQueenPhil:


U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

Megatron77:
Ur friend picked the wisest option and for the lady she jst displayed the lowest of the low qualities ever recorded. asin who visits their ex after being engaged na dem de coz bad market 4 us.... lols

HRHQueenPhil:


forgiveness is a rare virtue and d secret to many lasting relationship, men do worse so it's not becos they are not caught that makes them righteous.. it's so disgusting .can we stop pretending

HRHQueenPhil:


U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

IghravweIG:

Will you just STFU?

HRHQueenPhil:


U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

Prince001:


Say what? Forgive what? That means u concurred that she might have visited her ex cos they still doing something together. Woman sides each other when it comes to infidelity.
Bros that asked question, Trust me, she won't be faithful! Lastly most women in Naija wanted to go out with u when u are living abroad cos of d opportunity that may come with it!!
I'm talking from experience I just left Naija early this month cos I came to visit and I've been in Europe for 20yrs now. Naija gals knows how to pretend and fool u but some of them forget we are all Nigerians we all smart lol.
Tell ur guy to follow his heart that he shouldn't listen to anyone telling him to let go of what d gal did! Cos at d end of d day na u go face the outcome of ur decision not the people begging or pleading on her behalf!!!!!!!!!