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Can a bad resentful wife be a good mother?
Can a good caring father be a bad husband?

My mother was a bad wife and she was an even worse mother.
My ex wife was a terrible wife and predictably a terrible mother.

Yes. A bad resentful wife can be a good mother, she'd just turn the kids against the dad.

You need to pray and watch so you don't end up with a pattern.

All these are result of bad choices made. When choosing a life partner it goes beyond looks and money but most people are victim of bad choices hence the increase rate in divorce

It depends...

if the good qualities that she lacks that qualifies her as a bad wife are also relevant or applicable in her relationship and catering for children, then she'll make a bad mother too.

Yes. The kids will learn to tolerate a toxic relationship though.

fyneboi79:
Can a bad resentful wife be a good mother?
Can a good caring father be a bad husband?

My mother was a bad wife and she was an even worse mother.
My ex wife was a terrible wife and predictably a terrible mother.

You are going in. Cycles

Rozcol:
All these are result of bad choices made. When choosing a life partner it goes beyond looks and money but most people are victim of bad choices hence the increase rate in divorce

I don't think the op was looking for faults.he is making an ascertion!

does being a bad wife to a husband automatically mean that the same woman is a bad mother to her kids?

cooooooks:
Yes. The kids will learn to tolerate a toxic relationship though.

Doesn't seem to have worked for the op, unless I missed he tolerates his wife.

Funny thing with kids is they might copy the bad mother's behaviour or become completely averse to such behaviour.

A child might refuse to learn stealing from its parent's, for instance, while its siblings might become crooks.

Can a bad resentful wife be a good mother?
Yes. But she'll breed her kind unless the children are taken away from her at some point.

Can a good caring father be a bad husband?
Yes. If he doesn't love his wife anymore.

My mother was a bad wife and she was an even worse mother
She has personal issues that may shock you helplessness if you find out.

My ex wife was a terrible wife and predictably a terrible mother.
Yes unless...you probably missed the red flag earlier.

Good luck in advance.

fyneboi79:
Can a bad resentful wife be a good mother?
Can a good caring father be a bad husband?

My mother was a bad wife and she was an even worse mother.
My ex wife was a terrible wife and predictably a terrible mother.

baralatie:
I don't think the op was looking for faults.he is making an ascertion!

does being a bad wife to a husband automatically mean that the same woman is a bad mother to her kids?

No bad wife makes a good mother,however it depends on what you term as a good mother.A good mother should live by example by been a good wife.A bad wife does not make a good home and from records daughters from a bad wife also don't make good wives and good homes.

The way to reason this matter is simple!

A man can be a good husband but horrible at making love to his wife!

Because being a good husband is work

Being a good romantic man to his wife is an entirely different work

Rozcol:
No bad wife makes a good mother,however it depends on what you term as a good mother.A good mother should live by example by been a good wife.A bad wife does not make a good home and from records daughters from a bad wife also don't make good wives and good homes.

To be a good mother to her children is an art entirely differently from the act of being a good wife to her husband.
The two jobs are mutually exclusive and can be mutually inclusive based on some factors

Rozcol:
No bad wife makes a good mother,however it depends on what you term as a good mother.A good mother should live by example by been a good wife.A bad wife does not make a good home and from records daughters from a bad wife also don't make good wives and good homes.

To be a good mother to her children is an art entirely differently from the act of being a good wife to her husband.
The two jobs are mutually exclusive and can be mutually inclusive based on some factors

Now records shows that children from broken ,single parents have challenges but the results are dependent on availability of funds for the single parents and social supports groups!
It is totally a different record for co parents who are living together(despite that they are seperate and do not love each other,both put in the positive effort to make the child come out well

baralatie:
To be a good mother to her children is an art entirely differently from the act of being a good wife to her husband.
The two jobs are mutually exclusive and can be mutually inclusive based on some factors

They ain't mutually exclusive, it goes hand in hand,never marry a lady whose mother is a bad wife especially if she sees nothing wrong with her mom.My mom fiercely stops my elder brother from engaging a lady who's mom was a very disrespectful and notorious wife to her dad and he was sad but today he's so appreciative to my mom for saving his life because the lady later started exhibiting the traits of her mom having tactfully hide that aspect of her

Rozcol:
They ain't mutually exclusive, it goes hand in hand,never marry a lady whose mother is a bad wife especially if she sees nothing wrong with her mom.My mom fiercely stops my elder brother from engaging a lady who's mom was a very disrespectful and notorious wife to her dad and he was sad but today he's so appreciative to my mom for saving his life because the lady later started exhibiting the traits of her mom having tactfully hide that aspect of her

Ok

Rozcol:
No bad wife makes a good mother,however it depends on what you term as a good mother.A good mother should live by example by been a good wife.A bad wife does not make a good home and from records daughters from a bad wife also don't make good wives and good homes.

On point !

Rozcol:
They ain't mutually exclusive, it goes hand in hand,never marry a lady whose mother is a bad wife especially if she sees nothing wrong with her mom.My mom fiercely stops my elder brother from engaging a lady who's mom was a very disrespectful and notorious wife to her dad and he was sad but today he's so appreciative to my mom for saving his life because the lady later started exhibiting the traits of her mom having tactfully hide that aspect of her

Brilliant !

can be possible because people do change

Divoc19:
Can a bad resentful wife be a good mother?
Yes. But she'll breed her kind unless the children are taken away from her at some point.

Can a good caring father be a bad husband?
Yes. If he doesn't love his wife anymore.

My mother was a bad wife and she was an even worse mother
She has personal issues that may shock you helplessness if you find out.

My ex wife was a terrible wife and predictably a terrible mother.
Yes unless...you probably missed the red flag earlier.

Good luck in advance.

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