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ahnie:
You people are really giving it to this woman bumper to bumper not giving her a breather.

Let her just kuku deactivate her account.
Mehn the blasting is chest gripping.

The houses have been seeing are 1-2bedroom flats, which ranges 80-100k, I can't afford this cos whatever loan the school would be giving me

Michelle55:
Yawns! All these shalaye ko necestri

You kept repeating same scenarios over and over again, infact I don know everything wey happen to you from the beginning to this very page by heart and I can tell it all even with my eyes close.

Until you learn to value yourself, nobody will, know this and know peace.

You both deserve each other, you gave birth to the first one and you saw the condition of things at home, instead of closing your legs to hustle and make something for yourself, you decided that bringing in another baby would make everything alright. Who does that in this modern age?

I don't feel pity for you at all, your pride won't let you return to your people and the annoying part is that he isn't even married to you yet you subjected yourself to all these torture. For what exactly? Dem bury una placenta together ni? Abeg, carry this ya sob story park well jare. Iranu oshi!

Ishilove:
I had to go back and read this part of Lizzy's post again. In fact, I read the whole post again and again, and my own deduction is that the houses available are too expensive. This means she likely looked for cheaper ones but couldn't find. Only the more expensive ones are available for obvious reasons.

I stand to be corrected, but that is my own deduction.

Lizzyangel:
Thanks for this.
I won't deactivate my account cos of this present predicament of mine, I'd rather guard it zealously for reference purpose.

Anything that won't kill you in life will make me grow stronger.

This thread had just been an eye-opener for me.
I've been a fool all along, I've been used. Reading those words from Folykaze sent shivers down my spine.

Oh! Had I known I was being used, I wouldn't have sacrificed so much in a relationship I thought was being a strong woman behind a successful man, I wasn't born with a silver spoon in my mouth but my parents made sure we never lack, knowing folykaze had changed me completely, my pride , my ego, my health my reasoning, my vision, all got shattered cos I devoted myself for a stranger, I went extra mile for the sake of this relationship, except from not fornicating, I've done the worse, I knelt down for people not up to my age in begging for money to bail him from the state police hqtrs, I buy foodstuff on credit and won't meet up to the paying date and received many insults from sellers, I've begged for money online to save myself from dying while pregnant and there was lockdown, what made me believe so much in him? I mo longer feel insulted by abuses from people cos my ego has been long gone, but reading those words from him got me uncontrollably crying.

I never asked my boss to call you, he called to hear your part of the story, he was aware all along that you never called despite not knowing how or where we've been living in the past six days.

Folykaze my Lord will judge you. For everything you've made me gone through, I leave you to KARMA.

Lizzyangel:
I never even asked for the rent as I'm having some loan on me, I only asked for help to enable me get other things that we might be needing before I settle down, I was prepared for insults and abuses from Nairalanders but was shocked to log on and see FOLYKAZE's comment. I nearly fainted. I wasn't prepared for that.

But all the same, I'm not going to give up. No matter what may come my way.

Ishilove:
I had to go back and read this part of Lizzy's post again. In fact, I read the whole post again and again, and my own deduction is that the houses available are too expensive. This means she likely looked for cheaper ones but couldn't find. Only the more expensive ones are available for obvious reasons.

I stand to be corrected, but that is my own deduction.

Mustiboy:
Aunty Ishi, I deem you as a very compassionate and understanding person, but this Aunty Lizzy seems not to be heeding to people's advice and is hell-bent on doing what pleases her.


That's what I find irritating.

Lizzyangel:
If you an online family member can be this upset of my stupidity and rain abuses on me like others on this thread, what do you expect me to see and hear from my own blood relatives? Is it until I commit suicide that you'd know how pained and guilty I am?

Oh!

Ishilove:
That's the point. Her life, her choices. Doesn't really affect anyone here in the long run so let her do as she pleases.

Ishilove:
That's the point. Her life, her choices.. Doesn't really affect anyone here in the long run so let her do as she pleases.

Rozcol:
crackhaus I hope you won't let me undergo such kind of stress,I bet you can't try that.dorrrrrr

budaatum:
Begging, or should I call it scamming, on NL does sounds like their modus operandi! Did they not get us to pay for the birth of their child too?

Someone post links to their prior beggings so its known please.

oloriadekunle21:
Hmmm This lady In question is my colleague, by d grace of God my school is d best paying school in Our base. To some extent she can take care of her needs but wen husband is not helping it will look as if u re not working.

I just pass by her class nw and saw her crying, and she told she posted on NL this mrn and she's been criticised that's wat brought me here to check and I saw everything people I've been saying.

No1: The so called husband is just a boy.
He left his family to d hand of an unknown and he's sleeping conveniently in his house without thinking of his children.
No 2: I blamed d lady for dropping her account number her, u guys once begged NL for help which dey gladly did and some re seeing ur story from d beginning as a format to beg and u re nw making it look like it's true.

Pls DNT judge her she's really going Tru HELL presently.

Lizzyangel:
Why won't you unfollow thread when you are aware of the havoc that will befall you on my responses on the trash and lies you wrote up here, the same "introverted deceit" you have been using to fool me that made me scared of sharing my story with people around and they won't accuse me of lying against your Gentle self.
I will choose not to reply all that you wrote up there but only one which is my schooling, right from my teenage, I've been a girl that like keeping records, I have a diary I keep things personal to me which made me have little friends and I barely share my personal story if situation doesn't warrant that, when the admission came, you told me not to go for it, that majority of the graduates out there are jobless, that I should rather go for a trade, I wanted to oblige, but my mum told me that as old as she is, she's benefitting from education which is bringing food to her table,she told me to see beyond today and she'd stand by me through and through, you said, since I insisted on going that you have no hands in it and less concerned, mum started sending money for the acceptance fee, the jamb and post utme was also paid by my mum, the acceptance fee made me believe she'd keep to her words, I walked up to you and said, okay, let's have a deal, since I'd be going to campus with your baby whom your mum told me to "carry my cross" there should be somethings you should be responsible for, his feeding and upkeep, he won't be sleeping on the street and I'm not going there to work, so we arrived at the conclusion that you'd be paying for the rent, 15annually and baby food, diapers and upkeep, which you have me 30k in my first year, I started my campus expenses diary, and left for campus, every week he'd be sending us 1k for upkeep which I always appreciated, if I ever ask for any other thing aside from the 1k weekly, he'll would be let loose, mum never gave up on me, after some months he started telling me that his parents and friends are telling him that I'd be having relationships with men on campus that he shouldn't trust me too much as I don't usually come home every weekend as I was told to....me that went to school with a baby, I mustn't come back home as a failure so I dedicated my time to making mum proud by going for tutorials and library during weekends and sometimes come to Ore, he gave my not coming frequently as an excuse for him going from one hotel or the other, which I never mind to avoid distractions.


When I graduated, I came back to your house house which was the mistake I'll live to regret doing, I started working again and you resigned from your filling station job and resort to online fraud which you were greedy and stingy not to spend the money on us telling me to keep hoping for you to raise more money to start up a business, hence, my salary should be going for the upkeep of the home while you save to make more money, I advised and cautioned you severally against the act you were embarking on and since then you chose to confide in your friends since I'm a pessimist against your fraudulent, you started spending too much on burial of a man who died as far back as 1988, I cautioned you as a wife to cut down on your expenses, as a caterer that I am and event planner, I broke down your budget to 180+ cos of your status, we're living in a boy's quarter and your mum's provision shop was not working well, invest the remaining 200+ on her, he raged and reported me to his parents and extended family that I don't want him to spend on his parents which created enemity among the parents and I,I even got the beating of my life 2days to the party, and called me names,then he came up with the sentence, *you ingrate, I was working at a filling station to sponsor your schooling" I quickly ran in to bring my evidence and receipt of house rent for the 3yrs I spent on campus, this caught him unaware which I already planned and prepared for due to my evaluation on the type of kiss&tell person he is.

His greed made him to invest everything left in his account on MMM after the burial with the hope of making more money, which got frozen in 2016 )17 since that time I've been shouldering responsibilities, though you contribute token once in a blue moon.


You started soiling your hands in the quest of making it quickly which you get arrested before it succeed and I'd be running from pillar to post to bail you, I became a regular customer for your sake which made the direct entry form and acceptance fee for degree I already paid for be on a hold till today.



I leave you ADEMOKUN FOLORUNSO FOLYKAZE to karma.

crackhaus:
Wetin concern me concern you fa...

pocohantas:
They might be that way offline. Let’s not rule out the presence of mad people in reality. How someone would think it is okay for a man to lock out his wife and baby is beyond me.

oloriadekunle21:
Hmmm This lady In question is my colleague, by d grace of God my school is d best paying school in Our base. To some extent she can take care of her needs but wen husband is not helping it will look as if u re not working.

I just pass by her class nw and saw her crying, and she told she posted on NL this mrn and she's been criticised that's wat brought me here to check and I saw everything people I've been saying.

No1: The so called husband is just a boy.
He left his family to d hand of an unknown and he's sleeping conveniently in his house without thinking of his children.
No 2: I blamed d lady for dropping her account number her, u guys once begged NL for help which dey gladly did and some re seeing ur story from d beginning as a format to beg and u re nw making it look like it's true.

Pls DNT judge her she's really going Tru HELL presently.

Rilwayne001:
It is the height of it. Dude is one hell of a stone-cold heartless man, and he didn't even deny locking them out?? Which means he did. Very wow!!

pocohantas:
Heya. And you quickly logged into the account you created a day after she opened this thread. Deliberately typing in shorthand to pass off as a different person. Whereas your tenses and punctuations are accurate.

Well done o.

pocohantas:
Heya. And you quickly logged into the account you created a day after she opened this thread. Deliberately typing in shorthand to pass off as a different person. Whereas your tenses and punctuations are accurate.

Well done o.




He did not did anything jare.
They know what they are doing. Na Ondo Bonnie & Clyde be this.

Sanchez01:
My joy is that all their rants start and end online, compared their seniors in civilised countries who started the movement. I found the RedPpill philosophy interesting at some point that I got to read about what it truly means and the materials ended up confirming my fears; these guys are staunch misogynists and the "movement" is rooted in male supremacy. A dangerous one! The most extreme Red Pillers even believe rejection by a female is an act of test and that all women love to be raped: https://www.newstatesman.com/science-tech/internet/2017/02/reddit-the-red-pill-interview-how-misogyny-spreads-online

It is a very terrible school of thought and my strong opinion on it is that only those with dysfunctional mindsets will embrace the Red Pill theory.

https://www.newamerica.org/political-reform/reports/misogynist-incels-and-male-supremacism/red-pill-to-black-pill/

FlyingTOMATOE:
sounds like all those bj prodint format stories. Fantasy writers just have to get paid at the end of the day

Michelle55:

kuku kee me

Lizzyangel:
I never even asked for the rent as I'm having some loan on me, I only asked for help to enable me get other things that we might be needing before I settle down, I was prepared for insults and abuses from Nairalanders but was shocked to log on and see FOLYKAZE's comment. I nearly fainted. I wasn't prepared for that.

But all the same, I'm not going to give up. No matter what may come my way.

pocohantas:
He did not did anything jare.
They know what they are doing. Na Ondo Bonnie & Clyde be this.

Efewestern:
I think going back to your parents house will do you more good, no matter what, you father won't forsake you.

Rozcol:
Are you publicly denying me only to come apologize later?

crackhaus:
I have no doubt you have wet dreams every night when you imagine getting apologies from me.

Lizzyangel:
Hello everyone.
To God be the glory,schools resumed in Ondo state yesterday, I had to go back home on Sunday Evening to check if I can get Diye's uniforms and Kiishi's needs, the door is locked but I could find my way in through the exit door, resuming coupled with my current restlessness led to my tiredness and inability to update this last night.


I've searched round Ore looking for a room for my kids and I to live,as we're still living and being fed in a stranger's house for the past six days without a single call from folykaze to ask about his kid's welfare,(I guess it's a dream come through for him, victory at last!). So, I'm not comfortable living here, I don't like being a burden on others, though our host ain't complaining,but I shouldn't over-stay my welcome, they've really tried feeding, housing and clothing us for the past 6days, I pray that God almighty will continue to enrich their pockets and answer their prayers IJN.

The houses have been seeing are 1-2bedroom flats, which ranges 80-100k, I can't afford this cos whatever loan the school would be giving me, I'm to compulsorily pay back before the end of the term(3months) the minimum loan I was able to get is 50k,to be gradually deducted monthly, coupled with my kids tuition fees, my basic salary is 30k (extra lessons-exclusive)after the tax and compulsory savings reductions.


Restructuring may be hard and tasky ,but I'm surely moving on, if not for the urgency in my predicament, I'd have Done a thrift with my colleagues to enable me meet up my budget, but alas! I've been in a dilemma. I so much wish I could leave this my host's house before the end of this week.


This brings me to doing this again, I know many people will insult me again, and call me name, while few others that God will use will surely help us, for the sake of this innocent kids, please MAs/ Sirs, whatever God laid in your heart to help us with, it will go a long way in getting them an abode, their welfare is Paramount to me, right now I'm having the 50k loan gotten from school with me ,we'd be needing more for the rents, little consumables, foodstuffs, diapers and others,(I've got loan to repay monthly, salary may not be enough for now), no little amount from your side that will go un-appreciated ma/sir.

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I might not be able to reply mentions during the day cos, we ain't allowed to use phones in the classroom,but I'd definitely reply in the evening/@night.

I'd gladly accept every insult coming to me for begging for my kid's sake, I'm not going back,I've come this far, please HELP US!!!

FOLYKAZE:
With an heavy heart, I am sorry for coming back to you guys soliciting for fund for discharging my wife and new born baby from the hospital. It has been uneasy out there. I have tried selling some of my gadgets to raise money but people are unwilling to buy. And as we continue to stay back in the hospital, our bills pill up.

We are at University of Medical science Hospital (mother and child), had a baby through CS, and have been discharged since Saturday 27th July, but couldn't return home because we are yet to balance our bills.

The total bill excluding drugs, injections, and miscellaneous is ₦121,000. We've managed to pay ₦90,000, and left with balance of ₦31,000. At the moment, we are penniless and have no hope of getting the balance.

I have a mini laptop (Asus), TV (LG 26'inch) and mifi (zte universal). If you need any of these, I am willing to sell them. We would appreciate your support too. Thanks

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