ubunja:
Why would anyone be angry that broke men are good at sex?
Why is it so offensive to some dudes that men without shiit are superfvckers?
Why does it irritate so much?

If it was "Handsome men are better in bed", or "Short guys are better in bed", would it be better for you all?

Same reason women married and single will get down with convicts and prisoners...

Now am asking the Nay sayers here...why would an IG model get down with a convict who's doing time in prison when she has a whole army of Simps in her Dm's who are willing to spend to have her??

ubunja:
yes sir. Good broke dick confuses women. There are even memes on that. As you have said, They don't know what to do with you. Do they date you? But You're broke! Do they drop you? But that dick good! Lmfao.

There is Hausa adage that says a woman can stay with you without a good food, but can't stay without a good dick

Itzlinda:



There is Hausa adage that says a woman can stay with you without a good food, but can't stay without a good dick

And being broke means good dick?

GrammarNazi1:

And being broke means good dick?

Nope there are many broke guys with poor sexual skill.
Just that those with a good one seems to be on higher side of the divide.

They do all they can to stay longer. Including using sex enhancements pills.

Sapy442:
Same reason women married and single will get down with convicts and prisoners...

Now am asking the Nay sayers here...why would an IG model get down with a convict who's doing time in prison when she has a whole army of Simps in her Dm's who are willing to spend to have her??

... I saw this story as well.

Itzlinda:
Nope there are many broke guys with poor sexual skill.
Just that those with a good one seems to be on higher side of the divide.

They do all they can to stay longer. Including using sex enhancements pills.

This argument should have died down by now. Those that want to believe what they want should be left alone; this applies to both side. Don't entertain anyone still trying to prolong discussion. Let everyone agree to disagree.

Sapy442:


Same reason women married and single will get down with convicts and prisoners...

Now am asking the Nay sayers here...why would an IG model get down with a convict who's doing time in prison when she has a whole army of Simps in her Dm's who are willing to spend to have her??

and that's just the thing. The more men simp, the more women go to men with extreme/hyper Masculinity, eg thugs.
And there's even a web site for dating prisoners. I forget the name.

Now something somehow related-
I remember some time back a western lady saying the rise of male weakness is fueling a corresponding rise in females entering the BDSM scene. BDSM being that whole bondage thing of ropes, being tied up etc. She was saying the more men simped, the more women were driven into that subculture. For some time it didnt make sense.

But it's true. The weaker men are, or the more they simp, then the more women will seek out situations where they were more aggressively controlled. Like for balance.

Itzlinda:


Nope there are many broke guys with poor sexual skill.
Just that those with a good one seems to be on higher side of the divide.

They do all they can to stay longer. Including using sex enhancements pills.

With all due respect, how does being broke translate to being better in bed than those who are not broke?

Itzlinda:


Nope there are many broke guys with poor sexual skill.
Just that those with a good one seems to be on higher side of the divide.

They do all they can to stay longer. Including using sex enhancements pills.

How did you come to this conclusion?

larryking540:
kings we need to be more careful,we have more of damaged ladies or females in our society than the normal ladies,be careful how you relate with them , asking about their past life isn't a bad idea and where they where 5 years ago ,as a Sharp guy ,you can connect the dots even when all doesn't seems right

the likes of chidinma are still hovering around in town waiting to explode

No woman (nigeria) will tell u the truth about their past all what you will get is a coock-up storie women are good in this wot to do instead is to environment which a woman was brought-up and spent most of her days realy matters alot
EXAMPLE A
A girl dat still in her prime yrs and very attractive(fairskin) that are mother own a resturant&bar in metro area in the city
EXAMPLE B
A girl that help are mother sell raw-foods &condiments in popular marlet in up-town
EXAMPLE C
A girl who is a fresh graduate social- media celebrity wannabe with no job that are parent are civil-servant.

babyfaceafrica:
How did you come to this conclusion?

It is the case of fighting for survival. That's the only asset they get hook women. So they do all they can to utilise that, including using sex enhancements drug or herb.

You also only get good at sex by doing a lot of it. Broke guys have time to be chasing and fucking those girls in the neighbourhood everyday while you don't have that time as a hustler.

Tbh my mind is fixed about making money 90% of the time not women. Those broke guys you see can spend 3 days together with a woman in a hotel fucking her and having fun. You get that kind of time.

It is just like the case of a poor man kids that his father has no money to pay for him to write waec in the magic centres and he wants proceed to university.. He's definetely going to study hard to make sure he pass waec with flying colours.

It is just survival instinct... The broke guys are funnier, understand women because they spend a lot of time with them.

Even the club you go to pick women and pay them handsomely for sex, there are broke club workers there that are having sex with those ladies for free.

Because they always together during the day time when you are bustling to make money.

GrammarNazi1:

With all due respect, how does being broke translate to being better in bed than those who are not broke?

the same thing we have been telling you all from the start. Broke men are best in bed NOT BECAUSE THEY ARE BROKE, but because of the LIFESTYLE they live.
Because they don't work they've nothing better to do than spend the whole day screwing. Which makes them appealing to women because 1)they have time for sex which hard-working responsible men don't have, and 2) they have time to perfect their skills. Simple. No conspiracy theory or anything. Also, they're never tired for sex because they spend their day doing practically nothing. Unlike working men who come home exhausted ready to drop on the bed and sleep at once. It's just common sense really. I don't know why you guys are missing the point.

Women are not saying men must be broke or money doesn't matter. Guys with money simply live a life that's good for making money but bad for sex. It's why the gateman ends up screwing the madam

. Eg it's common for a woman to make advances for sex from her working husband, only to be told by hubby, "I'm tired, I had a long day!", or for the wife to be told, "I can't do this now, I have a busy day tomorrow, I need to sleep early!"
See, with a broke man who doesn't have any job to speak of, all these excuses never happen. Broke dude is always ready to tear pussy - no drama no excuse no story.

It's why Gold Diggers are told not to worry about sex when it comes to rich men because rich men don't even have time for sex. See!
Nothing to be angry about here gents. Please.

From YourTango.com

4 Reasons Broke Guys
Are Waaaay Better In
Bed, Says Science

Kiarra Sylvester Self 06/08/2015

I'll never claim to be the most sexually
experienced woman in the world but like
many other women I have my theories
about men and their sex habits.
The most compelling: Broke men are
much better in bed.
Don't believe me? Here are four reasons
(backed by science!) that prove it:

1. They make up for what they lack.
My personal theory is simply that, "broke"
men are better in bed because they feel
the need to overcompensate for their lack
there-of. When I asked relationship coach
and YourTango expert Arianna Jeret for
her expert opinion — she stated, "If a man
makes a lower income than other men he
thinks might pursue her, he is going to
want to show her that he has some
impressive skills in the bedroom. But I
would call that working with what you've
got, not overcompensating."
She also added, "They're more likely to be
more focused on quality of life than a life
of luxury — and that quality of life
probably includes great, frequent sex."

2. They're less stressed about work.
A study found that 56 percent of men who
bring in less money than their wives
claimed to have "hot" or "very good" sex
lives, in comparison to their higher earning
counterparts. Why? They have less to
stress about when it comes to work.
Jean Hannah Edelstein, a relationship
author says, "I wouldn't advocate that
men rush out and quit their jobs to
improve their sex lives but it's another
reason for them to join women in the
campaign for gender pay equity."
Oh, not to mention 90 percent of these
lesser-earning men also said their
marriages were "happy."

3. They're less likely to cheat.
Another study found that people of a
higher social class are more likely to
cheat and lie. I don't know about you, but
one of the biggest turn-ons in bed is
confidently knowing that your guy only
has eyes (and hands and other things) for
you. Think Jack from Titanic: His loyalty
was top notch, was it not?

4. They check their ego at the door.
Jeret says, "Men who make a lower
income are also less likely to feel entitled
to be the only one satisfied because they
don't have the same feeling of being
'owed' by her." And isn't it always
refreshing to know he won't place your
pleasure on the same pedestal as a
precious trust fund?


Moral of the story: Don't be so quick to
write someone off because they aren't
breaking the bank. Chances are they're
breaking ... uh, other things. *wink*

[quote author=SALLYBERRY01 post=103428568]

You're really observant; I did'nt even take notice of it. You'll fit the role of an intelligent officer. � �

Well done!

Dabronze:
No woman (nigeria) will tell u the truth about their past all what you will get is a coock-up storie women are good in this wot to do instead is to environment which a woman was brought-up and spent most of her days realy matters alot
EXAMPLE A
A girl dat still in her prime yrs and very attractive(fairskin) that are mother own a resturant&bar in metro area in the city
EXAMPLE B
A girl that help are mother sell raw-foods &condiments in popular marlet in up-town
EXAMPLE C
A girl who is a fresh graduate social- media celebrity wannabe with no job that are parent are civil-servant.

if a lady whom you want to settle down with hid her past ,then its in your own good to find out yourself ,I will give u a very short story ,
I kw of a lady who lives this high class babe life in my state ,rolls with big boys bursting Hennessy and champagne most with guys who just hit the millions and guys just coming into town from over sea ,,she lives around a beer parlor where she also hangs around when she is less busy ,lucky for he a new dude came around town and got hooked up with her and this guy needed to settle down and fly back probably take her along,

but he needed to make enquiry about her , things were going smoothly but he still needed to ask questions from people around the vicinity,and that beer parlor was the best place to ask ,and someone had to reveal everything the guy needed to know a fellow guy man ,,,so the guy had a choice to make ,and he chose the part every redpillers will take ,and he ended the relationship quitely ..

so bro a ladvcsn hid her past but not for long ,if you choose to know ,the choice is yours and if you still don't want to know ,the choice is yours also ,but best you know if you suspect all her past doesn't make sense

Hi

Still believe all the crap here..

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1121122/Why-rich-men-better-bed--Women-orgasms-wealthy-partners-study-finds.html

My naija bros, you don't need redpill because it's your default settings.

What you need is to kick out cultural marxism..

Your biggest enemies = feminism + lgbt + new age freewill doctrines.

They're coming in full force to wreck ultimate carnage.

Why i don't have issues with hisbah police, it's needed but I'm sure my southern bros especially the educated will hate this comment and probably won't understand the depth of it .

Sex is everywhere now , cheap..and our society is going to get damaged beyond repair.

Do you like what black America/ south Africa is ?(blacks).

Just watch some good documentary series to educate yourselves

I'm not here to be liked, i will express my truths.

ubunja:
the same thing we have been telling you all from the start. Broke men are best in bed NOT BECAUSE THEY ARE BROKE, but because of the LIFESTYLE they live.
Because they don't work they've nothing better to do than spend the whole day screwing. Which makes them appealing to women because 1)they have time for sex which hard-working responsible men don't have, and 2) they have time to perfect their skills. Simple. No conspiracy theory or anything. Also, they're never tired for sex because they spend their day doing practically nothing. Unlike working men who come home exhausted ready to drop on the bed and sleep at once. It's just common sense really. I don't know why you guys are missing the point.

Women are not saying men must be broke or money doesn't matter. Guys with money simply live a life that's good for making money but bad for sex. It's why the gateman ends up screwing the madam

. Eg it's common for a woman to make advances for sex from her working husband, only to be told by hubby, "I'm tired, I had a long day!", or for the wife to be told, "I can't do this now, I have a busy day tomorrow, I need to sleep early!"
See, with a broke man who doesn't have any job to speak of, all these excuses never happen. Broke dude is always ready to tear pussy - no drama no excuse no story.

It's why Gold Diggers are told not to worry about sex when it comes to rich men because rich men don't even have time for sex. See!
Nothing to be angry about here gents. Please.

From YourTango.com

How about this study which shows that women enjoy sex more with rich men?

Why rich men are better in bed: Women have more orgasms with wealthy partners, study finds

Money can't buy you love - but it can lead to better sex, scientists say.


A controversial study claims that a woman finds lovemaking more fulfilling if her partner is wealthy.

The finding adds to the evidence that for many females, money, status and success remain a key ingredient in sexual attraction.

The link between money and sex, and the apparent sexual attraction of fabulously wealthy men, has been debated since the dawn of civilisation.

Often it is assumed that women involved in such relationships do it for the lifestyle - and put up with the sex. But the latest study suggests otherwise.

Evolutionary biologists Dr Thomas Pollet and Prof Daniel Nettles, of Newcastle University, used the world's biggest study into lifestyles to look at the link between wealth and enjoyment of sex.

The Chinese Health and Family Life Survey includes information on the sex lives, income, education and other personal details on 5,000 people across China, based on interviews and questionnaires. Among these were 1,534 women with husbands and boyfriends.

Dr Pollet found that 121 of these women reported always having orgasms during sex, 408 said they 'often' had orgasms, 762 'sometimes' had orgasms while 243 had them rarely or never.

The researchers found several factors influenced the women's enjoyment of sex. However, one of the biggest turned out to be the income of their partner.

'We found that increasing partner income had a highly positive effect on women's self-reported frequency of orgasms,' Dr Pollet said in the journal Evolution and Human Behaviour.

Paul Daniels and Debbie McGee
Mutual attraction: Debbie McGee's relationships to the 'millionaire' Paul Daniels was the subject of a joke by spoof chat show host Mrs Merton. But a new study claims that a partner's income can actually influence how much a woman enjoys sex
The link between enjoyment of sex and partner's wealth was statistically significant even when they took into account other factors such as age, education, happiness, the length of relationship and health.

The scientists say the findings could be explained by bias in the study - that women who have frequent orgasms tend to overestimate their partner's income, or that women with 'high powered' partners exaggerate how much they enjoy sex.


'While we cannot rule out reporting bias, we note that the interviews took place away from the respondents' home, without their partner present and with the respondents able to input their responses directly into the computer if they so wished,' Dr Pollet said.

It is also possible that women who are highly susceptible to orgasms select partners who are wealthy, he said.

He added: 'The third interpretation is that more desirable mates cause women to experience more orgasms,' he said.

If this is true, a woman's 'capacity for orgasm' could have evolved to help her discriminate between males on the basis of their quality, he added.

The link between enjoyment of sex and wealth has also been found in studies in Germany and America.

Evolutionary biologists argue that every aspect of sex - from courtship to the quality of orgasms - is influenced by millions of years of evolution.

Although many people find the idea that women enjoy sex more with rich partners offensive, some biologists argue that the instinct makes evolutionary sense.

Women have to invest so much time and personal risk into each baby, it is crucial that they get the most successful and healthy partner so they can to improve the chances of their own DNA being passed on.

A man, in contrast, can father hundreds, or even thousands, of babies in a lifetime and so invests less in each child.

That means they do not have to be so choosy about whether their partner is socially successful.


The result of this battle of the sexes is that women are more influenced by the social status, intelligence, quick wits and success of a partner than men are, scientists argue. Wealth is usually an obvious indicator of success.

neyo0h:
Still believe all the crap here..

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1121122/Why-rich-men-better-bed--Women-orgasms-wealthy-partners-study-finds.html

In fact, I just copied the whole article for him, whereas he quoted his evidence from a less reputable site.

GrammarNazi1:

In fact, I just copied the whole article for him, whereas he quoted his evidence from a less reputable site.

They're not woke here one bit, cave remains my number one guy here because he seems to get the full picture.

The other guy, I can only hope he's brave enough to debate me without any sentiments, I'll teach him a thing or two.

Even if that strategy works the relationship will cause so much pain

aomine:
. AOMINE IN DAA HOUSE,THE PROBLEM IS MEN APPROACH WOMEN FOR RELATIOMSHIP HOPING IT WILL LEAD TO SEX IT USUALLY BACKFIRES THOUGH

GrammarNazi1:


How about this study which shows that women enjoy sex more with rich men?

Why rich men are better in bed: Women have more orgasms with wealthy partners, study finds

Money can't buy you love - but it can lead to better sex, scientists say.


A controversial study claims that a woman finds lovemaking more fulfilling if her partner is wealthy.

The finding adds to the evidence that for many females, money, status and success remain a key ingredient in sexual attraction.

The link between money and sex, and the apparent sexual attraction of fabulously wealthy men, has been debated since the dawn of civilisation.

Often it is assumed that women involved in such relationships do it for the lifestyle - and put up with the sex. But the latest study suggests otherwise.

Evolutionary biologists Dr Thomas Pollet and Prof Daniel Nettles, of Newcastle University, used the world's biggest study into lifestyles to look at the link between wealth and enjoyment of sex.

The Chinese Health and Family Life Survey includes information on the sex lives, income, education and other personal details on 5,000 people across China, based on interviews and questionnaires. Among these were 1,534 women with husbands and boyfriends.

Dr Pollet found that 121 of these women reported always having orgasms during sex, 408 said they 'often' had orgasms, 762 'sometimes' had orgasms while 243 had them rarely or never.

The researchers found several factors influenced the women's enjoyment of sex. However, one of the biggest turned out to be the income of their partner.

'We found that increasing partner income had a highly positive effect on women's self-reported frequency of orgasms,' Dr Pollet said in the journal Evolution and Human Behaviour.

Paul Daniels and Debbie McGee
Mutual attraction: Debbie McGee's relationships to the 'millionaire' Paul Daniels was the subject of a joke by spoof chat show host Mrs Merton. But a new study claims that a partner's income can actually influence how much a woman enjoys sex
The link between enjoyment of sex and partner's wealth was statistically significant even when they took into account other factors such as age, education, happiness, the length of relationship and health.

The scientists say the findings could be explained by bias in the study - that women who have frequent orgasms tend to overestimate their partner's income, or that women with 'high powered' partners exaggerate how much they enjoy sex.


'While we cannot rule out reporting bias, we note that the interviews took place away from the respondents' home, without their partner present and with the respondents able to input their responses directly into the computer if they so wished,' Dr Pollet said.

It is also possible that women who are highly susceptible to orgasms select partners who are wealthy, he said.

He added: 'The third interpretation is that more desirable mates cause women to experience more orgasms,' he said.

If this is true, a woman's 'capacity for orgasm' could have evolved to help her discriminate between males on the basis of their quality, he added.

The link between enjoyment of sex and wealth has also been found in studies in Germany and America.

Evolutionary biologists argue that every aspect of sex - from courtship to the quality of orgasms - is influenced by millions of years of evolution.

Although many people find the idea that women enjoy sex more with rich partners offensive, some biologists argue that the instinct makes evolutionary sense.

Women have to invest so much time and personal risk into each baby, it is crucial that they get the most successful and healthy partner so they can to improve the chances of their own DNA being passed on.

A man, in contrast, can father hundreds, or even thousands, of babies in a lifetime and so invests less in each child.

That means they do not have to be so choosy about whether their partner is socially successful.


The result of this battle of the sexes is that women are more influenced by the social status, intelligence, quick wits and success of a partner than men are, scientists argue. Wealth is usually an obvious indicator of success.

you see, now you're talking. This is the kind of critical analysis that we need on this thread, not people to just lash out with anger because they hate brokenness.

I have not verified your article but I'll agree with it. Although I wouldn't say this only applies to marriages with rich men only, but a secure marriage makes for good sex for women. And it's not the sex or the dick per se, but That safe space knowing any outcomes from the sex will be handled by her AND her loving husband creates a mindstate, for the woman, that fosters Orgasms.

I even wrote about it last year but most guys never paid much attention to the writeup. If you've time just skim over this Miseducation and you'll find the themes and the general spirit of it mirrors the article you posted:
https://www.nairaland.com/6281651/ubunjas-miseducation-2020-mans-commitment


While sex with a married partner does wonders for women, problem is, especially with rich men, THE SEX IS NOT HAPPENING BECAUSE THE MEN ARE ALWAYS BUSY. Which brings us right back to the issue of broke guys having time.

ubunja:
Men Want sex from women, Women Want a relationship from men.

Come to women for sex and nothing more. That's you fulfilling your masculine role. Let the women ask you for a relationship. Don't seek the relationship yourself. That's not your role. Just as it's not a woman's role to come to you for sex. Sex is your business not hers. When you make relationships your goal, you are operating in your feminine. Which is you trespassing on the woman's prerogatives. Like this guy below which the lady is referring to. Don't be like him...

I have to agree with u
WELL SAID

BLOODYSPERM:
I have never met a woman who didn’t care what others thought of her.They are so narcissistic and self absorbed that they constantly need attention and validation,even so-called feminist

This is so true. I once latched on a girl's weakness which I had carefully observed.

We were just few weeks into our dating and I was really annoyed when I found out that this girl secretly invites her ex to our area at night. Coupled with the fact that I and my friends have seen her with unknown guys in dark spots at night on two occasions.

I just pulled the trick: told her that she's been trending in the neighborhood for being very loose in the streets lately with random guys. (Although its kinda true but not to the extent of her trending in the streets

She was shocked and her mood changed instantly until she vanished from that area in the next three days. Up till today I don't even know her whereabouts.

I for one do not honestly understand the hullabaloo about "broke fucking good" and "rich guys fucking good"? Are we here to measure testosterone? We are here to help each other learn and grow and to be the best we can be.

Yes, everyone has their own definition of TRP. If A says broke guys Bleep good, that is his own definition, leave him be. If G says rich guys get and score more babes, by all means let him be. This topic has been over flogged and we should stop debating it.

If you like, pay $100 for ashawo, its none of anybody's business, it is his money, let him spend anyhow he deems fit. If you dont agree with someone, you dont have to belittle them or call them names.

Men, keep your egos in check. We should not be acting like them wussies or sissies. WE ARE MEN.

Thank you.

larryking540:

if a lady whom you want to settle down with hid her past ,then its in your own good to find out yourself ,I will give u a very short story ,
I kw of a lady who lives this high class babe life in my state ,rolls with big boys bursting Hennessy and champagne most with guys who just hit the millions and guys just coming into town from over sea ,,she lives around a beer parlor where she also hangs around when she is less busy ,lucky for he a new dude came around town and got hooked up with her and this guy needed to settle down and fly back probably take her along,

You only talk about the girl's advantage u never talk maybe the guy was happy after they get married

neyo0h:


They're not woke here one bit, cave remains my number one guy here because he seems to get the full picture.

The other guy, I can only hope he's brave enough to debate me without any sentiments, I'll teach him a thing or two.

You,neyoOh, I even prefer your former name "sef" "roll eyes", GrammarNazi1(will not correct my grammar mistakes o), babyfaceafrica, itzlinda, ichidodo, KiNgOG, Forwardeverly, should go and stand with Joker09 at page 580 and teleport those innocent readers to page 640(more pages though).

Ah swear down, you guys have good points and I have really seen it. Any man that chooses pvssys before life goals is not really redpill. Those guys that their d!cks stand at attention with zero kobo are the true sons of Adam. Money is a better motivation than pvssys. Anyway Las Las man must enjoy. Rich dudes still got skills too.

Ubunja is just stating why men must see the importance of time they consider was never important with their women. But of a truth, women can only choose between a man's romance and a man's pursuit of success. Rarely do any woman have both. A man can only have either time for worthy pursuits or time for worthless pursuits. But being redpill aware, you'll be able to cement the floor that would have made your woman have series of trysts with a broke man.

You all have a point, and you must bring those points to an equilibrium instead of arguing back and forth. Understand: even till page 1000, there can be no winner or loser if this argument persists. Please, lets bring maturity into play.

Learning doesn't have an end.

Nobody should mention me. Just take your own walking stick and torchlight to page 580 if you heard your name.

We move.

Itzlinda:



There is Hausa adage that says a woman can stay with you without a good food, but can't stay without a good dick

keep deceiving yourselves, what matter's most to any sane woman is comfort and security, of course there are some who think with their downbelow which they later live to regret

CaveAdullam warn your friend Martinez to stop insulting me directly or indirectly,I'm royal and as such he's committing a great offense.Warn him sternly thanks.

CaveAdullam:

You,neyoOh, I even prefer your former name "sef" "roll eyes", GrammarNazi1(will not correct my grammar mistakes o), babyfaceafrica, itzlinda, ichidodo, KiNgOG, Forwardeverly, should go and stand with Joker09 at page 580 and teleport those innocent readers to page 640(more pages though).

Ah swear down, you guys have good points and I have really seen it. Any man that chooses pvssys before life goals is not really redpill. Those guys that their d!cks stand at attention with zero kobo are the true sons of Adam. Money is a better motivation than pvssys. Anyway Las Las man must enjoy.

Ubunja is just stating why men must see the importance of time they consider was never important with their women. But of a truth, women can only choose between a man's romance and a man's pursuit of success. Rarely do any woman have both. A man can only have either time for worthy pursuits or time for worthless pursuits. But being redpill aware, you'll be able to cement the floor that would have made your woman have series of trysts with a broke man.

You all have a point, and you must bring those points to an equilibrium instead of arguing back and forth. Understand: even till page 1000, there can be no winner or loser if this argument persists. Please, lets bring maturity into play.

Learning doesn't have an end.

Nobody should mention me. Just take your own walking stick and torchlight to page 580 if you hear your name.

We move.

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