jbreezy:
Forgot to add this...I once cheated sometime ago and she forgave me am d from the chat, I got to know she still really loves me.

You still get small piken sense.

jbreezy:
So the story goes like, my gf and I have been dating for 2 years now. I really love her cos she's so interesting, extremely caring and so good to me. She's a pretty one too. So I finished school ahead of her (We were in same school).

But we couldn't let each other go because we already love each other, so we continued the romance. I loved her after and I really gat plans to marry her even though I'm like 5 years older than her. I was going to wait till she finishes school (She was in 200 level when I left). So I went to visit her in school and out of curiosity, I checked her whatsapp chat...I read her chat with her very close friend (the best place to find the truth) Well well well...There was this gist about her having sex with a friend. Then another was about her trying to date a guy..It really broke me, but till today, I haven't challenged her...

Actually, I would have broken up if I dont love her up to this level cos I hate it when I'm being cheated on... But I don't think I'm ready to lose the girl..

So I met a very pretty lady lately... We've been talking and she's really been giving me all the greenlight a normal guy needs to see... This one is more mature (I felt like my gf is still probably at what y'all call the hoeing stage cos she's 21)... So I've been contemplating on leaving her for this one, by bringing up the cheating part (something like a chess game)...

Seriously, I still think I love her, and would have married her if she didn't do that... So I'm lost between challenging her and giving her another chance (cos she's going to obviously beg) or challenge her to leave her...Thanks and sorry for the long essay

Ur just a bloody simp

What do you want us to do now?

jbreezy:
Hahahahahahah actually, when she caught me, I vowed never to cheat on her again and I never did..Had to leave all my girls just to make things right between us

You've broken the alpha rule. Never change because of a woman.

jbreezy:
Okay then...let's make them explore

Good deed, more so you never can tell how many people ur mature lady had been with before you or still secretly still seeing...
My bet is forgave her and do more conversation btw you both cos u never can tell wats going on in her mind as per her fears and uncertainty about you too...

Werey oni love ...

All these small simping direction-less kids on Nairaland

He go soon clear for Ur eyes.

When dem bring another child for u and u raise till u av no strength of Ur own again.

You already know what you want. Fellow your heart.

Kaybae:
, honestly u are right, that was why I said I don't support cheating, its better to be heard on the side of man than woman, you can't say because your man cheat you will also roll into that, but am only trying to let him know the pain on the both sides is always same. So why did we do it to our partners?

Mtcheew!!! What a useless post. It's better to hear it from the man. I'm not sure you're a lady. Fake people everywhere.

A cat is a cat and will be forever be a cat a mewing cat.no amount of puffing up could turn a cat into a goat
a cat is a cat and will forever be a cat a mewing cat
Dear op,it will do you good if you can see past your emotions and face the reality...
she cheated on,the cheating mindset is in her already and it will spread like a cancer and there is nothing you can do to remove it...it's like a slave being branded with hot iron..you can cover the slave up with cloth but the scars will be there underneath...
wake up bro.love is not enough at times..
but if you want to shed premium tears,u can forge ahead.

Both of you are lost in lust miles away.......... Far away if u like Faraday.........

It sha wee end in premium tears

Do not over work yourself, you both had once cheated. For me, base on my principled personality, i would not accept a cheating woman back as i would not do what i would not like be done to me either too. There are many women out there that are loyal, moreover, she is in the university, and at her prime age to explore things, allow her have her way, before she claims you denied her, her youthful age exuberance and kept her in bondage. I do not like dating undergraduates to start with sef. Give her a benefit of doubts, but do not have high expectations bro, she is likely to still cheat. I remember then in my school days, one girl had a serious relationship from home, only to be dating one guy in my lodge who has repeatedly told me he does not love the girl and only just eating her, infact, this guy would hurt this girl in her private part, the dumb girl still would not go till it ended in premium tears, and the girl till now, never marry. My ex once told me i do not give her the freedom she wanted, so let your babe enjoy life. There are many women out there to offer you the loyalty you need.

Abalado:


U just made a mistake by saying spoil her with gift,I do bought my girl a lots of gift still she has another boy friend but the guy never sleep with her bcs he do Dubai,what if the guy they nija nko,he for don wos am

women are insatiable.

jbreezy:
So the story goes like, my gf and I have been dating for 2 years now. I really love her cos she's so interesting, extremely caring and so good to me. She's a pretty one too. So I finished school ahead of her (We were in same school).

But we couldn't let each other go because we already love each other, so we continued the romance. I loved her after and I really gat plans to marry her even though I'm like 5 years older than her. I was going to wait till she finishes school (She was in 200 level when I left). So I went to visit her in school and out of curiosity, I checked her whatsapp chat...I read her chat with her very close friend (the best place to find the truth) Well well well...There was this gist about her having sex with a friend. Then another was about her trying to date a guy..It really broke me, but till today, I haven't challenged her...

Actually, I would have broken up if I dont love her up to this level cos I hate it when I'm being cheated on... But I don't think I'm ready to lose the girl..

So I met a very pretty lady lately... We've been talking and she's really been giving me all the greenlight a normal guy needs to see... This one is more mature (I felt like my gf is still probably at what y'all call the hoeing stage cos she's 21)... So I've been contemplating on leaving her for this one, by bringing up the cheating part (something like a chess game)...

Seriously, I still think I love her, and would have married her if she didn't do that... So I'm lost between challenging her and giving her another chance (cos she's going to obviously beg) or challenge her to leave her...Thanks and sorry for the long essay

Guy just forgive and forget, it's one of those things when girl is still in school and you are out of there, you said it that you have done the same, just tell her you know about her cheating on you but you forgive her and watch how she turns, don't be too hasty to end the relationship although it's painful when someone you love cheats on you.

OP, you're lucky your gf forgave you. If it's me, I will never forgive. Whether you are rich or poor. I don't care. It seems the people commenting on this group are cheaters and selfish people. You cheated and she cheated, so why complaining?. Do you know what she went through after she found out that you cheated?. Emotional and psychological trauma.

jbreezy:
So the story goes like, my gf and I have been dating for 2 years now. I really love her cos she's so interesting, extremely caring and so good to me. She's a pretty one too. So I finished school ahead of her (We were in same school).

But we couldn't let each other go because we already love each other, so we continued the romance. I loved her after and I really gat plans to marry her even though I'm like 5 years older than her. I was going to wait till she finishes school (She was in 200 level when I left). So I went to visit her in school and out of curiosity, I checked her whatsapp chat...I read her chat with her very close friend (the best place to find the truth) Well well well...There was this gist about her having sex with a friend. Then another was about her trying to date a guy..It really broke me, but till today, I haven't challenged her...

Actually, I would have broken up if I dont love her up to this level cos I hate it when I'm being cheated on... But I don't think I'm ready to lose the girl..

So I met a very pretty lady lately... We've been talking and she's really been giving me all the greenlight a normal guy needs to see... This one is more mature (I felt like my gf is still probably at what y'all call the hoeing stage cos she's 21)... So I've been contemplating on leaving her for this one, by bringing up the cheating part (something like a chess game)...

Seriously, I still think I love her, and would have married her if she didn't do that... So I'm lost between challenging her and giving her another chance (cos she's going to obviously beg) or challenge her to leave her...Thanks and sorry for the long essay

I read an intelligent piece yesterday related to this. The writer analyzed how a prostitute sleeping with men for money is better than a woman who sleeps with another man because her spouse starves her of attention, care and sex.

Brus are u saying pastor and pastor Mrs don't pray
about their marriage before they got married and still break up after some years... I have read countless marriage breakup of pastors who u all rush to for marriage blessing...

NaughtyBrainiac:
@jbreezy
I think you need to be very careful before taking any decision.

1. If you are the type that believes in prayer, please pray about both of them.

2. I want you to understand that the fact that you haven't caught the new Lady cheating doesn't mean she won't cheat or she's not cheating already

3. You need to sit the younger Lady down and ask her how many guys she has cheated on you with. They might be more than one.

4. Let her know you know everything that has been happening and ask her why she cheated despite knowing how much you wanted to have her as your wife.

5. It is possible she doesn't even see herself marrying you
It is possible she feels she needs to explore/have fun before marriage

It is also possible she will continue to cheat

All these information will make things clearer and probably be good enough for you to make a decision.

One of the 2 Ladies might be right for you and both of them might be wrong for you

Coolbadguy:



Guy just forgive and forget, it's one of those things when girl is still in school and you are out of there, you said it that you have done the same, just tell her you know about her cheating on you but you forgive her and watch how she turns, don't be too hasty to end the relationship although it's painful when someone you love cheats on you.

Lol...funny this is coming from a cool bad guy...thanks tho

jbreezy:
So the story goes like, my gf and I have been dating for 2 years now. I really love her cos she's so interesting, extremely caring and so good to me. She's a pretty one too. So I finished school ahead of her (We were in same school).

But we couldn't let each other go because we already love each other, so we continued the romance. I loved her after and I really gat plans to marry her even though I'm like 5 years older than her. I was going to wait till she finishes school (She was in 200 level when I left). So I went to visit her in school and out of curiosity, I checked her whatsapp chat...I read her chat with her very close friend (the best place to find the truth) Well well well...There was this gist about her having sex with a friend. Then another was about her trying to date a guy..It really broke me, but till today, I haven't challenged her...

Actually, I would have broken up if I dont love her up to this level cos I hate it when I'm being cheated on... But I don't think I'm ready to lose the girl..

So I met a very pretty lady lately... We've been talking and she's really been giving me all the greenlight a normal guy needs to see... This one is more mature (I felt like my gf is still probably at what y'all call the hoeing stage cos she's 21)... So I've been contemplating on leaving her for this one, by bringing up the cheating part (something like a chess game)...

Seriously, I still think I love her, and would have married her if she didn't do that... So I'm lost between challenging her and giving her another chance (cos she's going to obviously beg) or challenge her to leave her...Thanks and sorry for the long essay

If you find out this current one cheats, you will also leave her and that's how it keeps going

Forget about all those things, when you are ready for marriage you will get a wife

vibre:

Especially men that haven't even given engagement ring still wanting to colonise a pussy for themselves alone meanwhile they themselves are exploring other pussies. And there's no guarantee they'll end up marrying the girl in question.

Mehn. This shit irritates me to the core. Some boys don’t have an iota of sense I swear. If you don’t plan on marrying a girl then allow them to go and explore. Instead they’ll want to cage the girls down all in the name of a fvcked up relationship that is doomed. Guys please,if you’re not ready to marry a girl, don’t cage them because we want them to hoe around, we want our turn too!!! Don’t be stingy bastards.

Dis is somethng Similar to the post I just saw on Facebook few MINS....Before I login here.

The post Headline was...

"DO YOU STILL WANT TO FALL INLOVE AFTER GOTTING ALOT OF HEARTBREAK?"

Many were saying YES
And I'm sure,
You were also among.

Sebi u no wan get sense.... Run.

sweet7oyin:
A girl would only cheat when she dosent love you anymore
A guy can cheat and still love the girl
Why?
Cause a girl sees sex as ultimate show of love
Excluding sex workers.
A girl having sex with a guy is absolute show or vulnerability and love
While
A guy can have sex without any feelings at all
Infact sex is just sex nothing more.

So bro
You cheating and your girl cheating are two different things.
This might look bad on paper but it is reality.


Thats why polygamy is a thing and polyandry isn't.

Baba no dey deceive yourself with that ultimate show of love rubbish.

jbreezy:
Lol...funny this is coming from a cool bad guy...thanks tho

Men guy i will always tell you the truth no human being is perfect, i don't break relationship i just let it unfold it's self but before then i just set my mind and her it's 70/30 Incase she said no then my heart will be so free, no woman that i have dated can say i treated her bad or i broke her heart never.
Forgive her and talk to her and hold on the relationship and also be collecting your green light from the other but never said you should dok her oooo...

rapheal5:
Brus are u saying pastor and pastor Mrs don't pray
about their marriage before they got married and still break up after some years... I have read countless marriage breakup of pastors who u all rush to for marriage blessing...

Calm down, who told you pastor and pastor Mrs have better or stronger faith than a regular person.
Who told you Imam is better than a regular person?

People that have strong belief in certain things most times have it working in their favour.

For some people, it's their instincts and nothing less.

Some people believe in God and they know how to talk to him.

I stated it clearly, "If he believes in Prayers" and all you could process in Church, are prayers said only in churches?

My brother God has spoken to you through what you saw in her phone, Left for you to play ur part because the Lord loves you so much to avoid early BP development, use your head.

You do her no favour by keeping her or letting her go. Hundreds of guys are out there waiting for you to leave her sef.

Challenge her, listen to her response & make a decision. She might be the one pitying you

jbreezy:
So the story goes like, my gf and I have been dating for 2 years now. I really love her cos she's so interesting, extremely caring and so good to me. She's a pretty one too. So I finished school ahead of her (We were in same school).

But we couldn't let each other go because we already love each other, so we continued the romance. I loved her after and I really gat plans to marry her even though I'm like 5 years older than her. I was going to wait till she finishes school (She was in 200 level when I left). So I went to visit her in school and out of curiosity, I checked her whatsapp chat...I read her chat with her very close friend (the best place to find the truth) Well well well...There was this gist about her having sex with a friend. Then another was about her trying to date a guy..It really broke me, but till today, I haven't challenged her...

Actually, I would have broken up if I dont love her up to this level cos I hate it when I'm being cheated on... But I don't think I'm ready to lose the girl..

So I met a very pretty lady lately... We've been talking and she's really been giving me all the greenlight a normal guy needs to see... This one is more mature (I felt like my gf is still probably at what y'all call the hoeing stage cos she's 21)... So I've been contemplating on leaving her for this one, by bringing up the cheating part (something like a chess game)...

Seriously, I still think I love her, and would have married her if she didn't do that... So I'm lost between challenging her and giving her another chance (cos she's going to obviously beg) or challenge her to leave her...Thanks and sorry for the long essay

Guy dea is no beg she is single so are u.
U :ave have paid her, pride price ok.
Go do d right thing bro