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Yes, I was accused of infidelity by my ex when I was still married to him. No evidence, nothing, just constant paranoia accusations to the extent that he follows me around. Tried several times to vindicate myself to no avail. I had to leave eventually for my sanity sake. Marriage no be by fire by force.

Orlaoluwayimika:
It was a funny bitter experience.

We were in 300L in the Uni then and we had a 7 AM test on a Friday morning. After the test, a female colleague sitting nxt to me went to eat so she left her bag on the seat (the lecturer was still in class at that time so she dashed out).

Lecturer left around 8.30AM or there about and next class was 9 AM. Usual thing everyone stood up for gist and the likes. This lady had not come back at this time and the guy sitting in the 3rd seat while standing up mistakenly hit her bag that was placed on the middle seat (it's a foldable chair) and everything inside it fell. Right there the bag was picked up and everything was packed inside her bag.

I also went outside to catch some gist with my friends before the 2nd Lecturers arrival. 2nd Lecture had commenced before she came back and lo and behold immediately she came back I told this lady her bag fell while she was away but we had packed the things that fell out inside her bag so she could chk if there was anything missing and probably chk the floor or something.

Monday morning whilst in class preparing for the 1st lecture of the day. This lady just walked up to where I was sitting few metres away and beckoned on me with a tone that gave me the instinct something was up.
I went to her and she strtd the whole story of an Infinix fone was in her bag and she didn't see it when she got back to her hostel in the nite.

Mehn I choke when she strtd the whole story so the next thing I asked her was but I told u ur bag fell while u were away on Friday. I expected if she had valuables in her bag that was meant to be the 1st thing to check and she didn't until nite.

This lady strtd drama that she was going to report to a lecturer blabla. I told her to pls go ahead cos the whole thing was just funny to me and I remained unperturbed.

I was in the library when I received a call from Student union Security Council that I shld report to there office that same day (students as well but if u love urself just adhere to their call)
I was very well familiar with there modus operandis so I called a class mate who apparently was their Gen Secretary at that time to inform him of what happened but he didn't pick so I sent a text but he didn't see it until I had gotten to there office.

We were at there office - questions were asked we both talked but the fools handling the case I guess were carried away because it was a lady that was involved.

The fools there seized my phone went tru all my social media app to see if I had chatted anyone in recent time that I had a fone to sell.
Those fools with the lady inclusive came to my house in town scattered my whole room to check if the fone was in my house (I allowed all of this cos I just wanted to proof to this girl I didn't take her fone- in fact I paid everyone's T-fair to my house and back to campus)

It was when we got back to school that the Head of Security Council who had just gotten to the complex inquired about what was happening and the whole story strtd from the beginning again.
The guy was the one that dismissed the case.
He asked the lady if truly I told her - her bag fell when she was away and she confirmed I did.

He said if u had valuables in ur bag that would be the 1st thing u would ve looked for and it is almost unbelievable that u didn't rmba tru out the day until late evening.
He concluded she must ve lost the fone somewhere and was just trying to look for someone to take responsibility for it.
I went to SUB with my friends the nxt day to do little cwazy for them for the useless harassment melted on me the previous day but I had to allow it just to prove my innocence to this crazy girl.

She was still not satisfied with this - midnight she sent one yeye msg that she was outside in the middle of the night naked laying some form of curse that whoever took her fone was going to die in 7days time
Come and see me in those 7 days omo I careful die to cross road sef I dey look not just right and left I dey look up and down make we no go die for devil to shame us for wetin we no do.


Apparently the mistake I made was to notify her that her bag fell and she also felt it was my responsibility to look after the bag in her absence as per say na bag I com watch for school.

Each time I rmba that case, I am always sad and it still bewilders my imagination that what could ve given this lady so much assurance that I took her fone. We nva spoke till we left school cos of that incidence

TOSIN I didnt take ur fone ooo I hope the person that took it died from ur curse I just really hope so.

Juicewrld27:
after them go dey rush carburator cleaner to maintain an erection

Carburetor cleaner

Carlmax:
Carburetor cleaner

traditional herbs

Thank God am alive today, if no be God I for no dey here today.

Some years back, I went to watch football one Saturday morning. But on getting to the field I noticed one elderly woman pointing at me and my friend. So immediately told the guy that we should leave that place.

But before we could take few steps, I heard a shout ' hey hey come here' behold the man was calling us to come.
On getting close to them, to my surprise the woman started should in Yoruba language 'awon ni' awon ni, meaning it's them!

My people, before I go no, people started trooping out with different kind of arms and tools to carry out jungle justice.
Interestingly, at that point we don't even know what we are been accused of.

But God used that man to calm the crowd down, and we were ask to seat on the floor, and the man started interrogating us.
All this time the woman was still shouting and singing that we have been caught. That' we are armed robbers, that we are more, we still looking for the next house to rob. Omo naso I weak o. Arm robber ke

The story long o, but let me cut it short.

After the man interrogated us, he refused the crowd from leaching us, when the woman see say her plan no work, na she still call police to come arrest me and my friend.

We spent day in police cell leaving our family looking for us

So many people experiencing same thing. No relative is staying in my house and my kids will never live with any relative. No live in housemaids either. Now that you are a man, when you have your own kids make sure you protect them.

Topmaike007:
Yes that's wheh I was a little boy around 10 years of age. The story goes like this



The weather was cool on Sunday evening and we just returned from church. When we were returning from church the thought of me seeing my parent was running through my mind and the cold breeze that touched me that afternoon remind me of how I was brought to Lagos from Ile-ife in Osun State, my pregnant aunt carried me on her shoulder when I was crying that I won't follow her down to Lagos she carried me all the way from isale ilode down to Oja Ife where we board taxi down to lagere then we took taxi down to ojota in Lagos, as this thought was going through my mind I heard someone calling me Mike as I look back I saw that it was my friend chidozie at sighting him I felt the worm in my stomach demanding for food.

When we got home I was given money to get bread that we will use to drink tea to sustain ourselves before my cousin finish preparing our lunch. Channels television was the best television station for children That year because every Sunday afternoon is always filled with intriguing movies that captivate the souls of we children that will act police and thief later, as we were watching power rangers that afternoon In our sitting room i could hear my aunt asking her husband if she help her to see #60.

As my aunt drew closer to us at the sitting room we all knew that it won't go well that day, the next thing I had was Mike who took #60 from my purse, as a little boy I tried to let her see my innocence that I wasn't the one that took the money from her purse. That day I was beaten to the point that I nearly died, then when I saw that she still insisted that I took the money then I told her I took the money and that was when the main beaten started and from that day onward anytime her children steals from the house the blame will be on mike.

Even as a man now I still felt that pain at one corner of my soul.

Ausval:
Yes ooooo

My aunty carry me go church for family prayers ...Na so the pastor accused me say I be witch and that I used to fly at night ..I was shocked can I be a witch and I don't know ??

Na so the man begin dey fire prayer ,they press my neck they blow my chest say i must confess

Before I knew it my aunty don join am before I open my eyes all of them don hold broom

The pastor Begin they tell my aunty to flog her way to breakthrough ..na so beating start for me ooo..see flog see broom

Omo I jejely confessed ooo say I be witch and na me be the cause of all the problem ,before these people go use broom end my young life

I come even begin to dey make cat sound mew mew mew mew ooo so that them go believe and leave me as all my back don already dey bleed

Na so dem free me ..I run for my life go back go meet my mama for village

But guessed what ?...the witch is a big boy now and all his family is extremely proud of him

Also my aunty now want her first son to come live with the witch so that the witch can send him to school .

Laugh wan kill me

My own experience was in the presence of my crush. Back then in university days, had this fine Fulani girl I use to crush on. Naso I friend her na. One night, we were chilling in one corner in school area jisting, that's how I stood up to pick something, I can't really remember. Omo before I knew it, I MESS o. Not the silent one o, the loud one. Naso shame wan kill me. I just dey apologize like mumu.

Anyways, that was when man was still simping hard. If I like now I mess, if you like, kill yourself. e no concern me

Didi2d:
Thank God am alive today, if no be God I for no dey here today.

Some years back, I went to watch football one Saturday morning. But on getting to the field I noticed one elderly woman pointing at me and my friend. So immediately told the guy that we should leave that place.

But before we could take few steps, I heard a shout ' hey hey come here' behold the man was calling us to come.
On getting close to them, to my surprise the woman started should in Yoruba language 'awon ni' awon ni, meaning it's them!

My people, before I go no, people started trooping out with different kind of arms and tools to carry out jungle justice.
Interestingly, at that point we don't even know what we are been accused of.

But God used that man to calm the crowd down, and we were ask to seat on the floor, and the man started interrogating us.
All this time the woman was still shouting and singing that we have been caught.

The story long o, but let me cut it short.

After the man interrogated us, he refused the crowd from leaching us, when the woman see say her plan no work, na she still call police to come arrest me and my friend.

We spent day in police cell leaving our family looking for us

Talk what you were accused of na.

Long post... but nothing meaningful or a lesson to learn from

Oyin2212:
My own experience was in the presence of my crush. Back then in university days, had this fine Fulani girl I use to crush on. Naso I friend her na. One night, we were chilling in one corner in school area jisting, that's how I stood up to pick something, I can't really remember. Omo before I knew it, I MESS o. Not the silent one o, the loud one. Naso shame wan kill me. I just dey apologize like mumu.

Anyways, that was when man was still simping hard. If I like now I mess, if you like, kill yourself. e no concern me

read the headline again

I just got admission and was introduced to one family by a friend. So I stay on campus and go to the house on weekends. So I needed somethings and asked the guy I was used to and he said he didn't have meanwhile there was one #500 on the sewing machine by the door. Since he didn't give on, that Sunday evening, I returned back to school and the following weekend, the guy called me to his room and asked if I saw any #500 the last time I visited, I told him yes and then he asked if I took it cos they couldn't find it. So I told him I didn't take it. I was so surprised he called his friend to tell him I stole money and he inturn called my elder sister to tell her. That embarrassment is still annoying me. I just avoided the family like plague.

Born2winKingOG:
Talk what you were accused of na.

Long post... but nothing meaningful or a lesson to learn from

The woman said, me and my guy are armed robbers, that we robbed her in the night

angelfallz:
Are you the kind of person people can push around? I find it hard to believe that someone who is not a pushover would be accused like that.
Also, do you dress well? do you carry yourself well? It is easy to accuse people who dressed shabbily of petty stealing, it easy to accuse people who carry themselves suspiciously of petty stealing

Exactly my thought bro....how can you look at a good looking, well behaved, young man and accuse him of stealing phone,shey na ment?..The poster should check himself very well...he needs to really compose himself

Shi2malaga:
My mum accused of smoking, because I usually have dis serious migraine when am overstressed, it's very annoying, anytime the migraine start instead of medication the first thing my mom will say is "no b everybody head de carry am" , she has made my aunt, uncle n neighbors think I smoke, n I don't funny enough I don't drink alcohol. Pls I need advice on wat to do cause e de pain me

carry your matter go health section

BlackLaw:
I remember when I just started school, we were taught a punishment where you hold someone's leg and they hold your's - with the both of you standing until one of you falls. The person who falls first, takes the flogging.
Well, when I got home that day, I called a girl (let's call her Rose) aside and tried the punishment with her. Less than 2 seconds after I grabbed her leg, she started crying and before you could say Jack, I was surrounded by her family.
To this day, I don't know how the story quickly turned to that I was trying to rape the girl. Omo those guys beat me silly, strip me naked and were parading me round the area until they were intercepted by my people.
The experience scarred me for life, from then to this day, I don't play with or around girls. Girlfriend sef I don't have.
I was just 5 years old.

That was effed up what they did to you. I’m sorry. The little child you were didn’t deserve that.

Juicewrld27:
traditional herbs

Huh! Okay �

Juicewrld27:
read the headline again

Oh you're right

Slurity:
I was accused of stealing #50 when I was a child, continuous beatings for days running to weeks without stop until I confessed to stealing the money and my dad bought new razor blade to give me mark at my back which makes the story unforgettable till today, I have to remind my father that I did not steal the money again after over 18years. The second one is even with a witness that insists he saw me stealing meat from the pot, any allegation that never happens and my parents believed my step brother and not me. I almost shed tears writing all these because it's hurt to the bone. It is better you don't marry at all than to have children from different women because you are only preparing a potential hard life from those children and also yourself.

Sending you hugs and healing from the trauma. I hope sharing this story and allowing yourself feel the emotions again releases any trapped pain and let’s healing begin.

statistics1:
It Was a terrible experience.
Immediately after the covid-19 lockdown.resumed back to the office and a colleague raise alarm of lost phone. Searched everyone and everywhere. Phone no show. Next thing I'll hear, i was accused. Her reason being that "i wasn't seriously helping her do the searching the way she wanted". Thought it was a joke until evening when the husband called and told me to either bring the phone or tell him where to meet. Long story short. I had to involve the police before the matter rest o. But the depression/shame wasn't easy even till now.when ever i remember,i always pray to God to expose the thief so i can act the way i would have wanted to..

It gets to a point i was even asking myself " did you steal the phone? Where did you keep it"
Wrong accusation can kill o.

I hate to be in place and someone will be saying my phone is missing, then he/she starts searching every persons that is around.

Orlaoluwayimika:
It was a funny bitter experience.

We were in 300L in the Uni then and we had a 7 AM test on a Friday morning. After the test, a female colleague sitting nxt to me went to eat so she left her bag on the seat (the lecturer was still in class at that time so she dashed out).

Lecturer left around 8.30AM or there about and next class was 9 AM. Usual thing everyone stood up for gist and the likes. This lady had not come back at this time and the guy sitting in the 3rd seat while standing up mistakenly hit her bag that was placed on the middle seat (it's a foldable chair) and everything inside it fell. Right there the bag was picked up and everything was packed inside her bag.

I also went outside to catch some gist with my friends before the 2nd Lecturers arrival. 2nd Lecture had commenced before she came back and lo and behold immediately she came back I told this lady her bag fell while she was away but we had packed the things that fell out inside her bag so she could chk if there was anything missing and probably chk the floor or something.

Monday morning whilst in class preparing for the 1st lecture of the day. This lady just walked up to where I was sitting few metres away and beckoned on me with a tone that gave me the instinct something was up.
I went to her and she strtd the whole story of an Infinix fone was in her bag and she didn't see it when she got back to her hostel in the nite.

Mehn I choke when she strtd the whole story so the next thing I asked her was but I told u ur bag fell while u were away on Friday. I expected if she had valuables in her bag that was meant to be the 1st thing to check and she didn't until nite.

This lady strtd drama that she was going to report to a lecturer blabla. I told her to pls go ahead cos the whole thing was just funny to me and I remained unperturbed.

I was in the library when I received a call from Student union Security Council that I shld report to there office that same day (students as well but if u love urself just adhere to their call)
I was very well familiar with there modus operandis so I called a class mate who apparently was their Gen Secretary at that time to inform him of what happened but he didn't pick so I sent a text but he didn't see it until I had gotten to there office.

We were at there office - questions were asked we both talked but the fools handling the case I guess were carried away because it was a lady that was involved.

The fools there seized my phone went tru all my social media app to see if I had chatted anyone in recent time that I had a fone to sell.
Those fools with the lady inclusive came to my house in town scattered my whole room to check if the fone was in my house (I allowed all of this cos I just wanted to proof to this girl I didn't take her fone- in fact I paid everyone's T-fair to my house and back to campus)

It was when we got back to school that the Head of Security Council who had just gotten to the complex inquired about what was happening and the whole story strtd from the beginning again.
The guy was the one that dismissed the case.
He asked the lady if truly I told her - her bag fell when she was away and she confirmed I did.

He said if u had valuables in ur bag that would be the 1st thing u would ve looked for and it is almost unbelievable that u didn't rmba tru out the day until late evening.
He concluded she must ve lost the fone somewhere and was just trying to look for someone to take responsibility for it.
I went to SUB with my friends the nxt day to do little cwazy for them for the useless harassment melted on me the previous day but I had to allow it just to prove my innocence to this crazy girl.

She was still not satisfied with this - midnight she sent one yeye msg that she was outside in the middle of the night naked laying some form of curse that whoever took her fone was going to die in 7days time
Come and see me in those 7 days omo I careful die to cross road sef I dey look not just right and left I dey look up and down make we no go die for devil to shame us for wetin we no do.


Apparently the mistake I made was to notify her that her bag fell and she also felt it was my responsibility to look after the bag in her absence as per say na bag I com watch for school.

Each time I rmba that case, I am always sad and it still bewilders my imagination that what could ve given this lady so much assurance that I took her fone. We nva spoke till we left school cos of that incidence

TOSIN I didnt take ur fone ooo I hope the person that took it died from ur curse I just really hope so.

Smells like Ile-Ife.
Which year?

aycorporat:
Back in the days in secondary School, it was a boarding school in the south west and in the night I felt the urge to poo.
There were surrounding bushes but I couldn't go out into the bushes at that time of the night and so I had to quickly do it somewhere and threw it away.
Then in the morning, there was a solid poo on the corridor of the hostel. Someone who saw me the previous night said it's me, I denied. Then I was in JSS1, then the seniors gathered and said I should remove my panties and they saw small traces and said I was the one. I cried that even though I excreted previously the night before, I wasn't the one who did that.
I was told to wash the whole poo and I cried while doing that. I knew deep within me that the culprit was somewhere close.
Senior Tope, you did a bad thing ooo

Hope it's not the same senior Tope in a school in Sapele

Juicewrld27:
that daughter of jezebel wanted to hand another mahns bastard on you need.

Lass lass the truth later came out when i stood my ground

Sorry

Juicewrld27:
my cerebellum is in pains reading this

Npmedia:
My neighbour accused me of having sex with her wife, last month omo I don't even no what to say with him, the truth is that am just a frd with his wife, but the so call guy harsh tag me with all sort of words, and to crown it up he as no prove, omo since that dat me and his wife are not in Good terms again and I learnt a very funny lesson.


Lesson I will NVR forget

Ure a fool, for been friends with a married woman...

Benprince25:
Ure a fool, for been friends with a married woman...

I'm guessing you missed the topic.
Have you ever been accused wrongly. He says his own story, and all you do is call him a Fool?

What the hell is wrong with you people?

missidy:
So many people experiencing same thing. No relative is staying in my house and my kids will never live with any relative. No live in housemaids either. Now that you are a man, when you have your own kids make sure you protect them.

never will I allow my children to stay with a relative.. The story I put up there is not even complete it got to a stage she packed my wet cloth and sent me back to my parent..

My case was not accusation, I prefer to use set-up, but I leave it in the hand of God!

if I tell my story, you will weep for me!!

BlackLaw:
I remember when I just started school, we were taught a punishment where you hold someone's leg and they hold your's - with the both of you standing until one of you falls. The person who falls first, takes the flogging.
Well, when I got home that day, I called a girl (let's call her Rose) aside and tried the punishment with her. Less than 2 seconds after I grabbed her leg, she started crying and before you could say Jack, I was surrounded by her family.
To this day, I don't know how the story quickly turned to that I was trying to rape the girl. Omo those guys beat me silly, strip me naked and were parading me round the area until they were intercepted by my people.
The experience scarred me for life, from then to this day, I don't play with or around girls. Girlfriend sef I don't have.
I was just 5 years old.

most you lie about your age??

mrcrabs:
Was accused by my neighbour that I stole her phone because I was receiving a call close to her parked car, I was having an argument with my ex then so I didn't bother noticing her car beside me, omo next thing people said I was the one they saw Last beside her car before I could say Jack police Don show carry me go station, my late mom was just crying because she could not believe a neighbour we have know for a long time could say such. So after much questioning they agreed to let me go on the grounds that her husband told her he will get her a new one and not that they believed I didn't steal the phone mind you both parents of the girl were present and didn't do shit even her younger brother that we both attened same school left me for dead. 4days letter a mechanic on the street told my mom that the phone had been seen that she forgot it in the bank and they had called her to come collect the phone,he knew this because she received the call close to a shop where he was relaxing. The family, the girl didn't come back to apologise until my late mom went to confront them and the father confirmed that it was true that they had seen the phone. We were advised to get a lawyer to sue them but I told my mom to let it go and let's move forward, we didnt speak to the family anymore till we left the house, if I see the girl been robbed, beaten, or in pains in any way I have promised my self to look the other way. I would have been jailed for something I knew nothing about. That's it guys ✌️

Your own painful

aycorporat:
Back in the days in secondary School, it was a boarding school in the south west and in the night I felt the urge to poo.
There were surrounding bushes but I couldn't go out into the bushes at that time of the night and so I had to quickly do it somewhere and threw it away.
Then in the morning, there was a solid poo on the corridor of the hostel. Someone who saw me the previous night said it's me, I denied. Then I was in JSS1, then the seniors gathered and said I should remove my panties and they saw small traces and said I was the one. I cried that even though I excreted previously the night before, I wasn't the one who did that.
I was told to wash the whole poo and I cried while doing that. I knew deep within me that the culprit was somewhere close.
Senior Tope, you did a bad thing ooo

So you no clean your nyash?

My course mate who happened to be my roommate accused me of taking his name to babalawo