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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by unmask: 12:16pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
chatinent:only ground is divorce really? What of threat to life? You people should learn to think beyond what is in the bible or Koran 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by sowilli: 12:17pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Pecoleee345:the last paragraph tho. Yes. They have some psychological damage that make them see men as neccessary enemy. They are scared their husband/ male partners will leave them just as their father left or abandoned their mother. They tend to follow older men. Most are damaged pyschologically and never come to respect their male partners. I have been in such situation and it was difficult keeping on. Its workable. You have work to do tho. 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by crazymommy(f): 12:18pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
dacblogger:The same mindset is the reason why so many Nigerians still voted for buhari.....rubbish mindset......madam the devil you know and the angel you do not know..none of them is better.....the best is make sure you know the angel too and balance it up....and a psychologist won't say what you are saying....you are a fake psychologist...a good psychologist will first of all care about the sanity of the man in question...he/she will first of all focus more on the present psychology of the man and not talk about the marriage for now....bye 6 Likes |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by crazymommy(f): 12:20pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
dacblogger:See someone that calls herself a psychologist??lol.. whoever taught you psychology is the person that really needs to see a psychologist.....psychologist ko psychopath ni.... 5 Likes |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Timekeeper: 12:22pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
crazymommy: I love you crazymom 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Timekeeper: 12:23pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
dacblogger: Are u a psychopath Cox I doubt if you are psychologist 4 Likes |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by CUMIN: 12:24pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
TWLifestyle: I'm a man .... Please stay away from any man that thinks the world revolves around him. Or any man that believe there are a lot of women in the world that he can change you if you effed up...for your sanity. We have psychologically disturbed people in both gender. You not a psychologist, don't solve their issues. 4 Likes |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by kabaarikabaari: 12:26pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Pecoleee345:so u think single mum can't raise kids?. wat about single fathers ? can dey raise kids? if any woman curses or abuse u den there must be a reason for that. is either u are a serial cheater or u are running from ur responsibilities. New generation men I hail o. are u d only man? abeg free d lady make she meet her prince charming. if u divorced her den what. what a world........ 3 Likes |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Hotguy27: 12:27pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Op This is pathetic. However, I believe you can still work on the marriage and make it a success because I can see you sound like someone with a mature mind. I'm also looking at it that if you have children already and you decide to divorce now, it may give room for your children to be raised by a divorced (single) parent and your children may transfer their anger to their own partners later on. My advice is that you should start having a periodic (e.g. monthly) one-on-one review of the strengths and weaknesses in your marriage with your wife with effort on sustaining the strengths and finding solutions to your weaknesses together. Personally, I don't subscribe to seeking the services of marriage counsellors if actually both of you are mentally sound. You will both be more proud if you can resolve your challenges yourselves. A 3 year old marriage is at the last stage of the volatile period and if you survive it you can survive future challenges as there will always be issues in any marriage. Quit if you think it is too toxic to remain in the marriage especially if you can't handle it anymore. |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by eedimo(m): 12:33pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
chatinent:This one loud |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Morningstarrr(m): 12:36pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Pecoleee345:I’ll keep saying this. The only way to know the kind of woman that you intend to marry is through cohabitating for a minimum of six months. The religious/holier than Christ people can go to hell for all I care. 2 Likes |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Aaaaarghmed(m): 12:38pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Pecoleee345:the thing is tiring because society doesn't want men to react to anything a woman does.they feel it's normal for a woman to abuse you and when you hit dem.they wud say woman beater.if you argue with a woman,society wud say you are behaving like a woman.A man bottles up a lot of things that's why you see women live longer than men these days.e no easy 2 Likes |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Nobody: 12:38pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
U may not be saying the truth here a woman on her right sences can never abuse her husband my experience my husband is the verbal abusive type and each time he does that I always remind him that one day I may be force to retariate I have advice him severally that I will prefer a man to hit me than to abuse me and when his insult has gotten beyond control even he do abuse me in church on the street without thinking who was there then I started retairiating because of that he started liaring to people that I don't have respect for him and that he want to divorce of which I am ready on which action he chooses because he fail to tell people the truth, it's only an irresponsible man that can abuse his wife even before his in law my case was worse than that , and my regret was when we started he never shown this sign because I would have prefer him being a drunk and I will still marry him than abusive husband, this man I married him when he had nothing but because he is making it now he feels he can treat me any how so my brother be truthful u properly abuse her first and she might have warned u about it before she choose to be abusing u back thank u 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by SpruceMediaNG: 12:42pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
cryptoglorious: Why are you telling me all these Cynthia |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by ACE1010: 12:46pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Bro your last statement is something I can't get off mind It's a powerful massage |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Darkmode64: 12:48pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Pecoleee345:Juncture, not Junction. When you no be conductor 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by jeffsummers(m): 12:50pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Xxx123xxx:. Let me not call u a fool. Women have the ability to behave like angels during courtship but when marriage comes its a whole new ball game. 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Worksunlimited: 12:50pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
crossfire47: My brother! You get.. At times I wonder if women meet somewhere, be it social media or real life, to discuss and share the best way to frustrate a man and drive him crazy.. Everywhere you go, is the same issue.. If you go beer parlor, na married men full there.. Annoyingly, this women will tell you they see nothing wrong in their behaviour... 7 Likes |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by ComeToJesus: 1:02pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
I don't know how people cope with these Delilahs on the prowl. I can't stand bad attitudes especially coming from the one you profess you love. I'll just take you off you like I do to my jacket when it's hot. All those nagging, tensions and commotion s reduce the lifespans of men. Bible says he who finds a wife finds a good thing..... A wife must be a good thing before you even find it. If she's not a good one, she's not even qualified to be wifed. We, the men, bungle our search for a good thing and just settle for any daughter of Eve and turn around to start complaining. Take time to search well. Stop being superficial. You must dig, wash and sieve to find gold. Men don't want to do the digging. They want microwaved women. Real attracts real. Quality attracts quality. Razz attracts razz. Iron sharpens iron. Deep calls unto deep. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Ayemileto(m): 1:13pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Pecoleee345: You can't say you didn't see all the signs before marriage. You definitely ignored them. |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Belafonte(m): 1:16pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Romanoff: would you give this advice if the complainant had been a woman talking about how she was being constantly boxed by her husband? 2 Likes |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by crossfire47(m): 1:19pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
MansoryMX:its a good thing you found a temporary solution to her madness. my late aunt used to advise us then that the best way to handle a woman when they get nasty is just to walk out of the house and go cool off outside. but there are some that have evolved and now go the extra mile to either cease your car keys or prevent you from leaving the house when they start their wahala, only very few men can tolerate this. 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Romanoff(f): 1:20pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Belafonte: Like I said in my comment, unless it has led to physical abuse. I don't know how you missed that. |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 1:24pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
9.Better to dwell in a corner of a rooftop, Than in a house shared with a contentious woman. Proverbs 21 Vs 9 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by PristineDesk: 1:25pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by crossfire47(m): 1:27pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
ComeToJesus:Preach brother, preach!!!. that's just me in a summary. life on its own is stressful, not about to add more issues to it. |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Nobody: 1:29pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Pecoleee345:You are wise... |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Belafonte(m): 1:30pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Romanoff: This is what you said below: Romanoff: I know verbal and emotional abuse is as bad as physical abuse They are equal but you want them to be resolved differently? You want them to work through verbal and emotional abuse, but divorce is fine as soon as physical abuse is introduced? Okay 2 Likes |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Nobody: 1:34pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
People raised by a single mom are usually toxic in marriage, while People raised by a single Dad no wan send marriage sef. |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Romanoff(f): 1:34pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Belafonte: That what all I said in the comment? Please go and read again from top to bottom. |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Onlinebar: 1:36pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
alizma:Every guy should write this down somewhere |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by crossfire47(m): 1:38pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
VeeVeeMyLuv:He who has ears, let him hear |
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