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Is It Proper For A Woman To Take A Child(ren) Along With Her To Another Marriage / My Wife Is A Thief & Greedy: My One-Month Marriage About To Crash / My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help (2) (3) (4)
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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by bjtinz: 11:42am On Jul 17, 2021 |
Sigh# marriage. . . |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by olanewton01(m): 11:42am On Jul 17, 2021 |
Lastly men please avoid women raised by single mother they come with venom and naturally damage psychological...they will take revenge on you for their father's sins.[/quote] You've really pass through alot in her hands as your last paragraph advise indicated. Kindly let her go before things get out of hands. People that advised you to keep endures won't come to your aids if you kill another man's daughter... 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by pongwa(m): 11:42am On Jul 17, 2021 |
You seem to me like a weakling, I don't mean to be rude, even though your delilah of a wife has thrown more verbal jabs at you. Man up and tell her you are the boss ad an African man that you are. If your house is in disarray, you are the first culprit and if you can't control your woman, she might be the end of you. So man up ogbeni Pecoleee345: 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by cryptoglorious(f): 11:44am On Jul 17, 2021 |
So many times, we choose not to set our journey records straight! From the word go- stop getting involved in affairs that has no direction. Stop saying you are only there to enjoy yourselves while it lasts. It beclouds your sense of reasoning and make you end up walking out, if you can't fix it. Raymond0008: 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by bjtinz: 11:44am On Jul 17, 2021 |
alizma: Hmm |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by kay29000(m): 11:46am On Jul 17, 2021 |
Romanoff: "I know verbal and emotional abuse is as bad as physical abuse..." God bless you for acknowledging this as a woman. 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by pongwa(m): 11:48am On Jul 17, 2021 |
Pecoleee345:the bolded further shows your weakness and your evil self. You knew her weakness and yiu judged her instead of you to act as succour to her as a husband. You don't deserve her and I'm sure if we were to hear her own side of the story, "fowl yansh go open". My verdict 8s yiu are not a good person yourself 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by IJEYdiamond(f): 11:49am On Jul 17, 2021 |
I disagree with OP... abi na wetin una dey call.. this writer ni... saying one should aviod single mother kids or those raised by single mums... There some circumstances one cant change in life... Mine is that take the good and drop the bad and move on... Yes So men are suffering in the marriages no doubt about that.. Some still stay in there cos of what boths families that arranged it for them some what ...society will say.... but when it gets to the breaking point they will go their seperate ways... its just a time ticking bomb in such situations.. 4 Likes |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Yusufisraelj(m): 11:49am On Jul 17, 2021 |
BluntTheApostle: Absolutely, you made perfect sense, I'd expected more from him as the man. It is well. 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by IamGreen1(f): 11:50am On Jul 17, 2021 |
Elock1: People love foolish people, don't you know but I so much dislike them. @op pls divorce that woman for both of you sanity though it takes two to tangle. The best gift any wife can give her husband is peace and a great sense of understanding but with a touch of werey so that she won't be taken for granted because some of you are just a pleasureable pains in the ass so don't wife a slowpoke 4 Likes |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by bjtinz: 11:52am On Jul 17, 2021 |
Emma1Oj: I think he means they should stay apart for a while though still married. It gives room for quiet reflection. I've seen a few couples do this and it helped. |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Nobody: 11:52am On Jul 17, 2021 |
dacblogger:Abeg getat joor!......... Stop asking dummy questions 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Vireani79: 11:52am On Jul 17, 2021 |
Pecoleee345: You see this word LEAVE AM ...YOU NO KNOW SAY NA WOMAN the nigerian woman grew up using this as a get out of jail card. They know that no matter what they do People will say LEAVE AM..YOU NO KNOW SAY NA WOMAN.. This phrase has reenforced bad character This phrase is why the nigerian woman is an eye sore including my mother and sisters They are no good...the man is mentally pushed to hit them cos that's the language they understand And after you hit them They begin to gaslight You are called a useless man While she wears make up and tells the world how she has been supportive How she gave u beautiful kids How she cooks for you and takes care of the house You are made to look like the devil So if it will take u a divorce to have peace. Please do it fast They usually bring nothing to the table than pussy and strong head they call feminism. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by MansoryMX(m): 11:53am On Jul 17, 2021 |
UDUJ: If you stand a minute arguing with a woman you have wifed you will lose your sanity and go into a dark place you didn’t know is buried deep inside you. It’s best you walk away and go cool off as a man. 3 Likes |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by MansoryMX(m): 11:54am On Jul 17, 2021 |
pansophist: At first naaaa. But lately yes 3 Likes |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by cryptoglorious(f): 11:54am On Jul 17, 2021 |
What about Men that were raised by single mothers? It can also go this way. Are they guarantees that only people who were raised by both parents have 100 percent happy marriages? Much as that father figure is important, it doesn't guarantee even 60% Fidelity, morality and grooming! Environment and other factors too numerous to mention also contribute to how a child eventually turns out! Please let be guided. Besides not all single mothers are/were slots. Some became single by deaths or no fault of theirs. SpruceMediaNG: 4 Likes |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by murphyibiam15(m): 11:54am On Jul 17, 2021 |
Ibrahim3307:She's not any psychologist. 4 Likes |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Hullabaloon: 11:55am On Jul 17, 2021 |
Kondomatic: How can I like this comment more than once? You are the bomb bro 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Dpundict: 11:55am On Jul 17, 2021 |
My professor used to say "you can't force a willing husband on an unwilling wife and vice versa ". Your peace of mind is more than that marriage. 5 Likes |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by adebopo: 11:56am On Jul 17, 2021 |
Nonexisting1:abeg no kill us with Lafta |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by bjtinz: 11:57am On Jul 17, 2021 |
pongwa: Pls explain what you mean by "man up" 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Raymond0008(m): 12:00pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
cryptoglorious:I don’t get this auntie. So I should fixed it when the frustration lines are already showing. I do stand by my words, once my lover is stressing me definitely that’s the bus stop. 2 Likes |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Dextre(m): 12:02pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
chatinent: Oga please shift, let him have peace of mind. This is why men kill themselves, carry religion pin ursef for tyranny. 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by pongwa(m): 12:02pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
bjtinz:I mean he should find solutions to his problems or challenges instead of looking for a cheap way out. A divorce does not solve a problem once children are involved. The children would end up being raised by a single parent which is what the guy judged his wife for. Is he not a culprit now? |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Zenithpeak(m): 12:04pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Pecoleee345: Even if an Angel from heaven married to any lady with such character as depicted above will definitely misbehave one day and beat her up mercilessly. The sure antidote for her stupidity is to avoid her like a plague. |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by EaglesEyes1(m): 12:05pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Pecoleee345:Bro, there is no need replying to that self-claimed woman psychologist, is like talking to the photocopy of your wife. Bro, I was once in your shoes but not that too deep, she was my galfrnd then before I call it quit, she could abuse and curse for Africa. I would break up, she will come pleading she will change, cuz of my soft heart and hope that she could be better, we started again. She almost tricked me in impregnating her. She will be the doting galfrnd for almost three days and go back to her abuses and curses. During one of our quarrelling days she said, 'I know the kind of woman you want, the kind my mother was to my dad, and I will never be like my mom to any man.' My eyes opened that day, she lost her relationship to her dad when she was little cuz one of her stepmothers biwitched the dad from showing love and care to her,her siblings and mother except to the stepmother and her children, and the stepmother did horribe things i cant divulge. Till date she couldnt forgive the dad. One thing to men who want to get married is that if you want respect from your wives, then get married to women who loves and respect their dads so much but if u dont care about respect from your wives marry who the hell you want. You don't need to pass through bad experiences before you can learn but you can learn from other people's experiences. Be guided. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by NaBanga: 12:05pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Please do not hit a woman. Despite their mouths, they are weaker vessels. You could accidently kill her. I cannot advise you to divorce, because that is between you and God. However take a break from that marriage as long as you can. No one should be abused in the name of marriage. You are also being damaged psychologically and it will affect your children. Upon leaving, two things will happen. She will either ask you to come back, at which points you can make your demands. The second thing is that she will take on a lover and not call you back. Either will not end well for her. Life is for the living. So live your life and stop living in misery. 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by crazymommy(f): 12:07pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
MummyD2020:But if it was the man beating his wife I am sure you will not say we should hear from both parties.....let us stop this hypocrisy...because we are women do not mean we should be hypocrites... 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Gideonmi(m): 12:07pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Bliss955:honestly speaking |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by crazymommy(f): 12:11pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
pongwa:You people should learn to speak with wisdom....there are some weaknesses you cannot act as succour to...same way I cannot succour to a man that beats me physically is the way a man should also not succour to a woman that abuses him too...let us all stop encouraging bad manners all because of marriage......."do not judge" is the reason why Nigeria is where it is today...People do wrong things and we say "we should not judge them"........let us call a spade a spade... 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by unmask: 12:14pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Pecoleee345:Good to get a divorce, you only live once. But about Women raised by a single mother, that's just your experience don't generalise 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by unmask: 12:14pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
crazymommy:well said 1 Like |
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