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| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by akin9ja78(m): 2:35pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Get skills and be free with everybody |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Bullman(m): 2:36pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
GeneralKoko:Have money ![]() |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by cbrezy(m): 2:37pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Stupidquestions:You're Fvvvking Right bro, I'm facing this problem the OP is facing and I'm currently working on myself and I've accomplished few things you mentioned and by God grace I'll do more, you're Wise. |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Telldem1(m): 2:37pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Elidrisy20:hmmm self maintenance ![]() |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Nobody: 2:37pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Stupidquestions:take
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| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Oshokalo: 2:38pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Stupidquestions:everything u mention here,except changing girls,that's me my attitude,but u know children of the world will still find fault in everything u do,but that's the truth |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by robosky02(m): 2:38pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Stupidquestions: |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by ednut1(m): 2:39pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Make money |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by colestephan86: 2:39pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
GeneralKoko:Playful carefree people don't often get respects. To be respected , you must respect yourself and that means you don't contribute to everything or talk on all issues |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Stupidquestions: 2:40pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Oshokalo:Sure it doesn't matter.....but deep down, they respect you. Me personally I like someone who keeps to himself, appear controlled and proud..these are the people I'm drawn to |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by geesilver(m): 2:41pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Leave all those talk, Go and make money first even your village people go dey respect you pass the king..... Try this. |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by pansophist(m): 2:42pm On Jul 17, 2021*. Modified: 3:04pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Stupidquestions:How did you manage to write what I have in my brain ? How dare you? ![]() Good advice. You don talk am finish. Consider becoming an imam, oh no pastor is better because money de there. Twale baba ![]() |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Nobody: 2:42pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Cheapgadget:You want to lose respect abi?
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| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by saal: 2:43pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Hmmm, first thing to do and get respect from people is to mind your own business, period. |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by brightDdon(m): 2:44pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Stupidquestions:You are a force to reckon with. |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Karleb(m): 2:45pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Be scarce. Respect others. |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Nobody: 2:46pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
personal59:
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| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Dpaulie(m): 2:46pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Respect yourself and hustle legitimately to be financially free or buoyant |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by criuze(m): 2:46pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Don't die pleasing people Shun inferiority complex Strongly believe in yourself and be upright Love your God and be relevant in life |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by InspectorLawal(m): 2:47pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Stupidquestions:respect boss I salute you but your number 11 spoil this your nice write-up |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Stupidquestions: 2:48pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
InspectorLawal:It's just an additional..not the most important |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by anungangampu: 2:48pm On Jul 17, 2021*. Modified: 3:52pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
, @GeneralKoko Lol. Massive success and Massive focus. Don't listen to any alternative. Nobody really respect anybody, we just admire or reject anything that mirror back how we see ourselves. So no matter what you do people will still interpret you from how they see themselves. So the question is, How can you know exactly how people you want respect from see themselves ? Lol. No way, Unless you can enter into their brain to decode their past, their present and their future, which only God can do. lol The better truth is, when you are successful and focused, respect naturally stop being a thing you remember. Another is spiritual or mentally or whatever everything in life is geared to respect a focus and successful person. Put that in front of you and stop chasing shadows. Another is, like ur name might suggest you might be in the force or military. You really need to understand that, respect is an Ego gamble. Ego always want more and doesn't exactly know what she want. So looking for respect because of your badge or work doesn't really work unless you want to be a sadist or tyrant. The best solution is 1. Understand human nature. Respect those that respect you. 2. Don't look for respect to please your Ego. You can't have enough. 3. Don't blame it on your past or present because nobody actually cares whether you are getting enough respect or not unless you are massively successful. 4. Respect comes with discipline and time. I was disrespected in my teenage days and even all my 20s but today, even without massive success, I know better and seems everything is falling into place. 6. Read books and aim for self development and skills. You would find out even the greatest of the greatest were once disrepected and yet got their respect back by sheer focus and success in what they are doing. |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by helicoptarr: 2:51pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Be yourself. Originality is absolutely attractive. However, it's more important to be loved by God. It's the ultimate. That'll birth flourishing, which people can't resist. Even your descendants will benefit from your being loved dearly by God. Cheers! |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Yeecar(m): 2:52pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Reduce your interactions with people. |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by coolh3ad(m): 2:53pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Sugardick:Gbammm!!! |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by olurili(m): 2:55pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Stupidquestions:wish i can buy you a bottle of beer,you are full of wisdom,that your number,i do it alot |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by MARINEMONEY(m): 2:56pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
GeneralKoko: |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by redirect(m): 2:58pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
#DON'T TALK ANYHOW. #DON'T EAT ANYHOW. #DON'T LAUGH ANYHOW. #DON'T WAKA ANYHOW. #RESPECT YOUR SELF. |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by pansophist(m): 2:58pm On Jul 17, 2021*. Modified: 6:09am On Jul 23, 2021 |
What I do that makes people respect me. 1. I own my shit. One thing you'll never see me do is to borrow money from you, or expect you to pay my bills (eg if we go out), or by just becoming a burden to people. Never. I'll rather sweep Oshodi expressway to Mile 2 and get paid, than beg for money. My life motto is that I must be able to carry my own weight at least. 2. Self-treatment. I don't eat, drink, or digest any rubbish because it's sweet. So smoking, drinking beer and soda, and any unhealthy substance is a no-no. You are what you eat. If you eat junk, you'll look like junk. If I lift my shirt right now, you'll see clean six-packs. No joke. Eating for nutrition instead of taste is a key to self-respect. Let food by thy medicine. And the best part is that you'll be fine and healthy. 3. Useless friends - I get mentioned a lot on nairaland for example, but if you don't have a sense I won't waste single energy responding to you. I have few friends, and they matter. If I call three of my friends right not that I need cash, four will respond positively. That doesn't mean I ask, just telling you the quality of friends I keep. If you keep idiots as friends, you'll suffer from idiotic problems. 4. Keeping to my lane - in fact, it is only on nairaland I write a lot but in real life, I'm a damn introvert. I'll be looking like I did not know anything but my brain has done all the quadratic equations and guessed accurately what anyone is up to. So yea, do not go where you're not invited and keep to yourself. Don't talk anyhow. It's tempting I know, but just shut up man. 5. Competence - this is the most important one. You must be good at something. Pick one thing and do it well. It can be anything, but it's easier if you're passionate about it. For example, when I was in school, I was known as the best writer and speaker. Like seriously it's impossible to sleep if I handle the mic. Dem no born you well. Try am. You can't. I've always been interested in how the human mind process words, and calibrated my speech in such a way that sparks your interests and brings out that childlike curiosity that has been beaten away by the suffering of adulthood. When you're good at something, people will come to you for it. And it brings confidence. You'll feel good about yourself and your ability, and respect will come naturally. 6. Exercise. I hold the opinion that you can't feel confident if you know deeply that you're not physically attractive. When you can easily get in and out of relationship and have options scattered around you, you'll have confidence as it signifies your value. Think about it, why do young girls of maybe 17, that are broke, have no achievement in the real world but have ego the size of aso rock? Yea you guess right. They are at their prime, naturally attractive, hence the confidence. They know the value they hold, and it let them navigate life with pride. As a man, you can tap from it too. Go lift heavy weight man, eat healthy and rock a bad ass beard. Fine like mad. Even if you're an idiot, your confidence will sky rocket. 7. Self-disappointment - stop it. You said you'll visit grandma but didn't go, or that you'll loose weight but slack. Or your new year resolution dumped. Come on man. If you disappoint yourself, then its impossible to respect yourself. Do shit you want to do, dutifully. And do things that are hard. The only way out is always through it. If you can't rely on the promise you gave yourself, why would someone else do? Treat yourself like someone you care for. It's hard I know, but its the way out. Would have written more, but I'm tired. Digest this one first. Later jare. ![]() |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by babyfaceafrica: 3:00pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Stupidquestions:This is very false... I respect people who focus on their lives not gals....everyone can go out with angal, how many guys can stay alone? |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by babyfaceafrica: 3:01pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Stupidquestions:who respects a man that can't kip his pants on?..Loose men don't get respect |
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