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I recently hung out with a group of girlfriends I hadn’t seen in a very long time. I’d like to say that it’s because we’re all busy,so I was grateful to get the opportunity to catch up with my girls.

As usual, those ladies that were single lamented about their nonexistent relationship status. “Where were all the good guys?” “Why do they all live with their mama or have multiple baby mamas?” “How come they don’t have great jobs or make a lot of money?” I quietly sat there listening, not missing any of my single days. However, the more I listened, the more questions formulated in my head. “What constitutes as a great job?” “What is ‘a lot’ of money?” After all, those things are pretty relative, so I was curious to learn what types of guys they were attracting and why they felt these men weren’t good enough.

One friend said, “The doorman in my building asked me out on a date. Can you believe it? Like I’d date ‘the help’.” Suddenly, I began to understand why some of these women were still single.

“What’s wrong with the doorman?” I asked.

“Uh, he’s a doorman,” she responded, as if the answer was obvious.

I followed up by asking if it was just doormen she was against, or any man who was in a service/customer service type of job. After all, “the help” is not limited to doormen, maids, butlers, janitors or any other job that reminds her of “slavery” (her words, not mine). Service industries also include positions within sectors such as hospitality, sales, public health and any other position where your responsibility is to service or be of service to other people. But because those were still considered service industry jobs in a sense, were they too deemed not respectable? “Would she not date a man in any of those fields?” I thought to myself.

What Occupation would stop you from dating or marrying Someone?

Thief, lazy man or Yahoo plus

Bola146:
Thief, lazy man or Yahoo plus

lol... Is Yahoo boy not a theif... But u replaced that with Yahoo plus

Politics

Bola146:
Thief, lazy man or Yahoo plus

you specifically mention yahoo PLUS, omitting yahoo itself. weldone ma

If you are into medicine/health work or politics, it is a no no for me.

Bodyodour:
If you are into medicine/health work or politics, it is a no no for me.

lol

[s]None. Seriously. As long as it is bringing in stipends, we will build on it[/s]

On a second thought
Stealing, Gigolo, murderer.

Bodyodour:
If you are into medicine/health work or politics, it is a no no for me.

Medicine has many advantages

Divoc19:
None. Seriously. As long as it is bringing in stipends, we will build on it

You don't care to know what he does, even if it blood money

can date all professions as far as it brings moni bcox jobs seeking too hard this days but cnt marry all for d sake of the fear of d unknown
CNT marry a woman dts in military, a model, an actress, a politician, a lawyer n others i cnt remember

If she's a prostitute or into crime for a living.

Imagine if am Dangote's wife and someone tells me he is does blood money.

Zobah:
You don't care to know what he does, even if it blood money

Why no models or actress? I know musician could be part of your list too. But ?

paulolee:
can date all professions as far as it brings moni bcox jobs seeking too hard this days but cnt marry all for d sake of the fear of d unknown
CNT marry a woman dts in military, a model, an actress, a politician, a lawyer n others i cnt remember

Any man in armed forces.

Mortician

Divoc19:
None. Seriously. As long as it is bringing in stipends, we will build on it

Story...

Connected1:
If she's a prostitute or into crime for a living.

She would not tell you she is an ex-escort.

Ritzybeauty:
Any man in armed forces.

Why?

Anything illegal... If he's a soldier, police,...

so you will accept yahoo, but must not be yahoo plus ?

Bola146:
Thief, lazy man or Yahoo plus

Build on it.

bigpicture001:
Story...

Bodyodour:
If you are into medicine/health work or politics, it is a no no for me.

What's wrong with medicine/health work?

Police

Barber

Wotoporiously speaking

I don't have none

Cant marry a police women. i learnt their superior Bleep their toto irrespective of weather they are married or not

Teacher

Influencer, actor, marketer in banks, and working in a club

Any menial job.

Oh and if he calls himself an "entrepreneur"
- too obscure and vague