A woman can get sex quite easily than guys, especially for guys who don't like prostitutes.
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And to be frank with myself, I realise I have lost motivation to pursue my interests while also fixated on my long spell without sex.
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I feel it's not normal, and it has impacted on my self image, even though I'm quite smart, outspoken and good looking in my early 30s.
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I don't like prostitutes or masturbation, and the time and energy it takes to bed a woman from the street put me off, cos of the pretence and all. I'm of the opinion that if I like a woman and she can't give me sex, then there's no need tagging along for relationship cos from my experience, I usually lose in that hard to fvck game.
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The question is, can this lack of sex or relationship be the cause for my low zeal and lack energy in many areas of my life?
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But I know I need sex from someone who will also reciprocate the emotions.
Laying with Prostitutes is sort of disgusting and doesn't align with my personal value at all. Just confused. I will appreciate honest comments.

I can relate, but the most important is ensuring your life moves forward career-wise. All this shall pass away

You get what I'm saying huh?

My brother a trial will convince you

Go and marry if you can't cope

Op stop asking nonsense question... No be everybody sex dey freak, sex is grossly overated! Ask married ppl dey go tell u, two minutes ur eyes don clear... Check well' boys without girlfriend(s) dey always get better savings compared to others

Cholls:
My brother a trial will convince you

Sure we get to do this once in a while, but the bad feeling I get after it actually worsens my self image...so I feel it's not a solution..and I try as much as possible to avoid it
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Being a man without sex is crazy honestly. Especially for people who don't like going to brothels...na fucckk up

Rozcol:
Go and marry if you can't cope

Marry who? Abi you go recommend for am

Rozcol:
Go and marry if you can't cope

Marry who? Abi you go recommend for am

Once I cum i come to my senses

For me it's most difficult in the first 3 months. After that i kinda get used to not craving sex, but then i will start having those nasty wet dreams.

I'm surprised lack of s3x slows down your drive and energy, this is because it does the opposite for me.

Rozcol:
Go and marry if you can't cope

Marriage doesn't stop a freak

fourboys:
Op stop asking nonsense question... No be everybody sex dey freak, sex is grossly overated! Ask married ppl dey go tell u, two minutes ur eyes don clear... Check well' boys without girlfriend(s) dey always get better savings compared to others

Fact!
Well, I really don't know why people get married.

Low key sex comes with one kind mad vibe as yet, the kind sex you will have and the next day you’ll feel renewed, you go Dey play song for head Dey dance Mehn mad vibes
But lack of it for a long time can be devastating sha for person weybdey used to it

And any one who says sex is overrated is because they are doing with useless people, if you bleep correct Toto wey your mind dey am, abeg forget, sex isn’t overrated

Na experience dey talk

It's nothing. I haven't, and didn't, die.

As for me, it’s natural..

Last time I had sex was in May & next will be in August. I only knack once in a while..

Sex can be a great distractor to a man’s cognitive mindset..

A man that’s wanting to achieve his goals as fast as he can needs to look away from having sex every now & then..

GeneralPula:
Last time I had sex was in May & next will be in August.

Una even get a fucking calendar.

We Wey we no knw anything make we dey here dey learn, ahbeg I need popcorn

Dem use fûck swear for una

Ishilove:
Dem use fûck swear for una

A real nigga is meant to bang minimum of 3 different pussy a week while still making dope Money.

Not a curse, it's how nature build men.., Some real nigga choose marriage, they add side chicks, some instead of side chicks, they marry 2-3..

The balance..

Na lies go full here

It's very easy take your mind off it
I know some girls will come to tempt you, but remember your aim.

Kuriosmynd:
A woman can get sex quite easily than guys, especially for guys who don't like prostitutes.
.
And to be frank with myself, I realise I have lost motivation to pursue my interests while also fixated on my long spell without sex.
.
I feel it's not normal, and it has impacted on my self image, even though I'm quite smart, outspoken and good looking in my early 30s.
.
I don't like prostitutes or masturbation, and the time and energy it takes to bed a woman from the street put me off, cos of the pretence and all. I'm of the opinion that if I like a woman and she can't give me sex, then there's no need tagging along for relationship cos from my experience, I usually lose in that hard to fvck game.
.
The question is, can this lack of sex or relationship be the cause for my low zeal and lack energy in many areas of my life?
.
But I know I need sex from someone who will also reciprocate the emotions.
Laying with Prostitutes is sort of disgusting and doesn't align with my personal value at all. Just confused. I will appreciate honest comments.

It's all in the mind... configure it properly, channel those thoughts and energy into other things and you'd see it's quite easy to stay without it for a long while.

Those who have kept themselves since this year should raise their hands.... It ain't easy coupled with d cold weather but I pray d wait better be worth it.

Bro, I'd advise that you don't think or chase after sex. Zero your mind and focus on building yourself.. Then watch it come after you

fourboys:
Op stop asking nonsense question... No be everybody sex dey freak, sex is grossly overated! Ask married ppl dey go tell u, two minutes ur eyes don clear... Check well' boys without girlfriend(s) dey always get better savings compared to others

U don't have to attack him or be insolent to him.
His Question is matured and valid.
Your response is of utmost importance to him.
Guide him using your experience.
MEN need to be liberated regularly.
VISIONLESS WOMEN are the greatest source of distraction to men from time immemorial.

Your ability to manage them and emerge successful makes you a man.
Make sure you keep them a far for now. But if you must take that bold step, make sure she has a reliable source of livelihood & common sense, if not please retrace ur steps & run 4ur life.

U can also assess her family, that will give you an idea the nature of challenges you are likely to entertain in the nearest future.
He should be focused.

DONFRANSKID:
It's very easy take your mind off it I know some girls will come to tempt you, but remember your aim.

which aim na katapot him dey shoot

Eminimore:

which aim na katapot him dey shoot

Yes

Guys sex can be a distraction no doubt

But pls have sex or do something else to make you come atleast 5 times a months ..


Prostate cancer is real

GeneralPula:
As for me, it’s natural..

Last time I had sex was in May & next will be in August. I only knack once in a while..

Sex can be a great distractor to a man’s cognitive mindset..

A man that’s wanting to achieve his goals as fast as he can needs to look away from having sex every now & then..

For fûck sake, you've got a fucking calendar..

BigDawsNet:
Guys sex can be a distraction no doubt

But pls have sex or do something else to make you come atleast 5 times a months ..


Prostate cancer is real

Fallacious statement,. Science only said frequent ejaculation in men where found to have lower cases of Prostate cancer not like it prevents it

CursedNsukka:

Fallacious statement,. Science only said frequent ejaculation in men where found to have lower cases of Prostate cancer not like it prevents it

So what was my message? Are we not saying the same thing... Never mentioned it prevents anything...I'm just trying to say you will have low chances of developing prostrate if you cum more often