I'm the last born in the family, all the members of the family had gotten married except me.
I'm 32 now, just rounded up my study. I'm into farming, school works and doing catering work as well. I'm financially balance. I have not gone into a relationship before, I just ignore that aspect because I believe in the principle of "one thing at a time".

Now that I'm through with my study and I have something doing, I'm planning of going into a relationship and get married at least by 2023 but I'm perceiving there's going to be a problem between me and my family.

My family is very selective, very selective... There was a time a friend started visiting me anytime I went to the village, my mother notice it and told me that the girl is not welcome in the family, she gave me her reason too, I told my Mom she is just a friend and nothing more.

Today my neice got married, I invited my crush and she came to the wedding and I introduced her to my family as my friend, when the ceremony was going on, my sister told me and I quote "this girl you brought is not acceptable, she is too old for you, "common" she is just 27 and am 32... I told my sister that we are just friends and nothing more, then she said better...

I don't want to have any issue with my family in marring a girl but I'm afriad problem might be inevitable because I won't want my family to choose who or who not to marry, I have never had issue with my family before, they love me very much and we are living happily.

One mind is telling me to follow my heart another mind is telling me don't let a woman bring issue between you and your family...
Gosh! family get wahala! What is wrong in marring a girl of 27 years and I'm 32. (5years different)

I'm not ready for any family wahala...
Please how do you handle this kind of issue.

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Kuku marry a girl for your family na since they are the ones to make your happiness forever.

They love indeed, pele Continue with them till you reach 40 years, then they will know which lady is your type

My brother don't worry what you hate is what you'll finally become

Hmm, this is a complicated issue. What reasons do they give? Hope it's a valid one? Because if you choose wrong irrespective of their stand, you'll be the one to bear more of the consequences.

Since you're the last born, it might prove a bit difficult making a stand in order not to go against your family members. Sometimes what they see might not be clear to you yet until you get into it. When a man is in love, he tends to make irrational decisions. Reason with them and try to make a conclusion.

Since you're a man, you have an advantage. Marriage is not to be rushed into most especially in this generation. You also carry more of the responsibilities.. But in all, never let a woman come between you and your family, or you'll regret it deeply.

Just marry someone you truly love coz your marriage is all about you and your future but I will advice that you marry a really good and wise woman. If you marry a good and wise woman that will apply wisdom in all things, she will be able to win over the love of your family members in no time. Trust me

Na you one marry her abi na your family one marry her?

Orisirisi.

Let them continue to help you waste your time bro.

Cos I know that certainly, even if they bring a wife for you, she won't be your choice.
And the ones they're seeing with you isn't their choice.

You see say this wahala just dey start so?

adadike:
Just marry someone you truly love coz your marriage is all about you and your future but I will advice that you marry a really good and wise woman. If you marry a good and wise woman that will apply wisdom in all things, she will be able to win over the love of your family members in no time. Trust me

are you married?

adadike:
Just marry someone you truly love coz your marriage is all about you and your future but I will advice that you marry a really good and wise woman. If you marry a good and wise woman that will apply wisdom in all things, she will be able to win over the love of your family members in no time. Trust me

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So at 32 your family are still influencing your decision in life...Age is truly just a number, grow up please and stop being a child.

Your case get as e be

When a guy dey fûck pussy real good, the pussy go they behave one kind. To be honest, you sound like a pussy being fûcked by your family. Seems you're enjoying the fûck.

You want us to join the fûckery?

Pls avoid marrying old torn newspapers ok
Flee from them.........
Your family members are doing a great work for you not to be a simp
Kudos to them

TheUndercover:
Hmm, this is a complicated issue. What reasons do they give? Hope it's a valid one? Because if you choose wrong irrespective of their stand, you'll be the one to bear more of the consequences.

Since you're the last born, it might prove a bit difficult making a stand in order not to go against your family members. Sometimes what they see might not be clear to you yet until you get into it. When a man is in love, he tends to make irrational decisions. Reason with them and try to make a conclusion.

Since you're a man, you have an advantage. Marriage is not to be rushed into most especially in this generation. You also carry more of the responsibilities.. But in all, never let a woman come between you and your family, or you'll regret it deeply.

Thanks a lot Sir
I really appreciate your advise.

adadike:
Just marry someone you truly love coz your marriage is all about you and your future but I will advice that you marry a really good and wise woman. If you marry a good and wise woman that will apply wisdom in all things, she will be able to win over the love of your family members in no time. Trust me

Noted and Thanks

Spider20:
Pls avoid marrying old torn newspapers ok
Flee from them.........
Your family members are doing a great work for you not to be a simp
Kudos to them

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How is 27 years old girl a old torn newspapers?

danietohbadt:
Na you one marry her abi na your family one marry her?

Orisirisi.

Let them continue to help you waste your time bro.

Cos I know that certainly, even if they bring a wife for you, she won't be your choice.
And the ones they're seeing with you isn't their choice.

You see say this wahala just dey start so?

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No oo
My family bringing a wife for me, no way!
It's won't work, I am just being careful, I don't want it to be on record that the first time I am having issues with my family is because of a woman.

danietohbadt:
Na you one marry her abi na your family one marry her?

Orisirisi.

Let them continue to help you waste your time bro.

Cos I know that certainly, even if they bring a wife for you, she won't be your choice.
And the ones they're seeing with you isn't their choice.

You see say this wahala just dey start so?

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No oo
My family bringing a wife for me, no way!
It's won't work, I am just being careful, I don't want it to be on record that the first time I am having issues with my family is because of a woman.

adadike:
Just marry someone you truly love coz your marriage is all about you and your future but I will advice that you marry a really good and wise woman. If you marry a good and wise woman that will apply wisdom in all things, she will be able to win over the love of your family members in no time. Trust me

just like I'll marry you soon because we love each other.
you're a good woman so to marry you is a must.
can't wait to insert my amu inside your otu
chaiiii it'll be the best moment of my life

Adadike say yes naaa
I'm crying like this
please naaaa

Nazgul:
So at 32 your family are still influencing your decision in life...Age is truly just a number, grow up please and stop being a child.

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Let me assume you don't understand the topic at hand, but one thing is sure, family will always be part of your life and if they are part of your life they have some degree of influence in your decision.

Irijosa777:
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Let me assume you don't understand the topic at hand, but one thing is sure, family will always be part of your life and if they are part of your life they have some degree of influence in your decision.

Your family will interfere and influence decisions that can change your life positively or negatively when they feel you aren't matured enough to know what's best for yourself.

This is the most ridiculous thread I've ever read in my entire life.
Your parents are still making decisions for u?
At your age??
Lol......!!!

Irijosa777:
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No oo
My family bringing a wife for me, no way!
It's won't work, I am just being careful, I don't want it to be on record that the first time I am having issues with my family is because of a woman.

I understand, but the truth is you're the one going to marry the woman. Get a woman of your choice and that's it. Your family has to accept who you bring and equally respect your decisions.

You can't be tossed around like a coin all because of finding a suitable wife

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you this dumbass, must all your existence on earth center on politics?
Get yourself a meaningful life please

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be using your brain for once na ibughi tata. What is my own with Abba Kyari? You yourself, are you not corrupt? How many people will even reject such gift in Nigeria? Biko go and sit down . My chief duty is to Igbo land and onye ulo ya n'agba oku anaghi achu oke

Reex12:
are you married?

no

adadike:
Yes I'm married to Achalugo

that's my baby

adadike:
be using your brain for once na ibughi tata. What is my own with Abba Kyari? You yourself, are you not corrupt? How many people will even reject such gift in Nigeria? Biko go and sit down . My chief duty is to Igbo land and onye ulo ya n'agba oku anaghi achu oke

can we discuss our traditional marriage already

Remember we are one

AchalugoNwa:
that's my baby

no dey spoil market for me o. Inugo?

adadike:
no dey spoil market for me o. Inugo?

so I'm a bad market
nsogbu adiro

Your family got no right to tell you who to marry.