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Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by tuna85: 9:00am On Aug 04, 2021
Great points, I agree with all grin
Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by 9jayes: 9:00am On Aug 04, 2021
Money no be everything sha
Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by lucky4west: 9:04am On Aug 04, 2021
make sense, deep lesson/teaching...your head de there my guy, u too sabi
Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by Temmylee02: 9:04am On Aug 04, 2021
virginprincess:
Yes Attitude is very important,and also the guy must have something tangible doing, because no girl wants to marry a broke guy .
werey how much dey ur aza cheesy
Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by Facidio: 9:05am On Aug 04, 2021
virginprincess:
Yes Attitude is very important,and also the guy must have something tangible doing, because no girl wants to marry a broke guy .

But guys can marry broke girls right?

That's was how I dumped one parasitic girl, each time she doesn't have transport to come over.....a place that won't cost her up to N300 to get to.

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Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by dimexy247(m): 9:07am On Aug 04, 2021
Well written.
Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by kvngmaxy(m): 9:08am On Aug 04, 2021
Nice one op god bless you for the advice
Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by Kindness218: 9:08am On Aug 04, 2021
virginprincess:
Yes Attitude is very important,and also the guy must have something tangible doing, because no girl wants to marry a broke guy .

House wife I greet you
Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by matm: 9:08am On Aug 04, 2021
Good advice.But one thing I have found in life is that there is no specific formular for life.What works for Mrs A might end in tears for Mrs B.I have seen people who meet all ur advice but are in tears today.
Just find out what works for u and follow it looking unto God.

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Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by Veliyy: 9:09am On Aug 04, 2021
Nice
Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by Tenshades(m): 9:09am On Aug 04, 2021
Oozing mouth odour...early morning odoriferous kiss...

Baby I love you...gbuaaaaaa...feelings go just die....

Hahahahahaha grin

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Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by Seniorwriter(m): 9:10am On Aug 04, 2021
virginprincess:
Yes Attitude is very important,and also the guy must have something tangible doing, because no girl wants to marry a broke guy .

DaddyRochie1642:
Deep!

The 3 supreme Rules are

1)- Make money,

2)--Make more Money,

3)---Never forget rule number 1 grin

Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
If you no make money, don't forget that you're marriage won't be sweet at all..

AAAntz:
I TRUST NIGERIAN WOMEN

even if your father is gorrilla, grandma ape family baboons and you your self a monkey


just GET MONEY,

Story has finished,

NIGERIAN WOMEN WILL MARRY YOU!

@AAAntz your message is apt and shows that the poverty mindset of Nigerian girls makes most of them shameless!

The first most important rule is ability to comprehend your spouse.


@Seniorwriter
Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by Darkblood: 9:13am On Aug 04, 2021
virginprincess:
Yes Attitude is very important,and also the guy must have something tangible doing, because no girl wants to marry a broke guy .
You obviously can't read
Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by Lovelyn451(f): 9:14am On Aug 04, 2021
Apart from 1,3&4, I doubt your other points can be completely dealt with
Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by kense88: 9:15am On Aug 04, 2021
virginprincess:
Yes Attitude is very important,and also the guy must have something tangible doing, because no girl wants to marry a broke guy .
It goes both ways
Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by Kabaz2: 9:16am On Aug 04, 2021
A girl i would've dated recently liked me very much, had money but no attitude feminist thinking.Na so I Jappa before person go dominate me for house

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Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by computersoft: 9:16am On Aug 04, 2021
prettypraise:
Prepare yourself for marriage by doing these...

(1) Odour and Hygiene: At all cost, make sure you don't have mouth Odour and body Odour. Make sure you are simply neat also. You may not have much, but make sure you don't have nasty body Odour or mouth Odour. If you do, deal with it now before you marry. Body Odour and mouth Odour "can silence" the power of good character.

(2) Attitude: Train yourself on how to speak less, how to react wisely, and how to be nice to people. The day you start gaining self-control in reacting to ugly situations, that shows you've attained some level of maturity. Speak the truth, iron out what is wrong, correct it clearly, and be polite in the best way you can.

(3) Ex and Past: When you meet your original future partner, please close the doors to your ex and past. You need a new beginning. Sometimes people get what they probably longed for, yet may still go back to taste what they have left.

(4) Your Career Structure: You may not be earning a lot, but have a defined career before you marry. If you are an accountant, define yourself to be an accountant. If you are into supermarket and trading, define yourself into it. It doesn't make sense to be in different confusing career paths before marriage. You may have other side businesses or work, but make sure you are known for a career or job before you marry. Betting is not a career, Bitcoin is not a career, crypto is not a career, forex is not a career, online business may not be a career. Some of these may give you additional income legally, but never get a tangible career before marriage.

(5) Your Integrity: You Must begin to develop integrity. Do it consciously. When you fix an appointment, honour it or politely cancel it if you can't make it. Learn to be faithful. Don't expect people to be faithful to you alone while you cheat. You know how it hurts if you are thoroughly cheated on, so if you don't want to be cheated on, don't cheat on people... Don't devastate people and then beg for forgiveness, because may not be able to forgive if you too is devastated.
Very intelligent write up.
Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by Iniobong44(m): 9:16am On Aug 04, 2021
Nice points.... But I believe a man should work on his career first and foremost before getting married.... Love is not everything in marriage like money is not the key to marriage too but with money love becomes well established. Men abeg let your career path and what you earn be your top priority before you get married. The bills will always increase after marriage. � � Michael what is it?

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Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by tmoney2471: 9:18am On Aug 04, 2021
Last but not the least, don't forget to learn tailoring. You can't be broke with such noble profession.
Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by Skillsnigeria: 9:21am On Aug 04, 2021
Noted
Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by Marv650(m): 9:23am On Aug 04, 2021
DaddyRochie1642:
Deep!

The 3 supreme Rules are

1)- Make money,

2)--Make more Money,

3)---Never forget rule number 1 grin

Haven't you seen and heard enough stories that shows money is not the key to happy family life.

It's not the first rule, neither is it the second, or the last. More is needed for a happy marriage than money.

I've seen the rich stay happy in their marriage. I've seen the poor stay happy in their marriage.

And I can emphatically tell you it goes beyond money.

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Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by anonymuz(m): 9:23am On Aug 04, 2021
Clickguy44:
Nice points you touched.

Men choose women almost entirely based on their physical attractiveness.

Many high power men marry beautiful women without power and that are not known to the general public.

Women almost never do this. Women are mostly attracted to men by how much power they have, then looks
example, Jim Ovia
Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by Marv650(m): 9:24am On Aug 04, 2021
Mokason288:
All this things don’t matter if you deal with Poverty very well

Make money

Plenty money
Haven't you seen and heard enough stories that shows money is not the key to happy family life.

It's not the first rule, neither is it the second, or the last. More is needed for a happy marriage than money.

I've seen the rich stay happy in their marriage. I've seen the poor stay happy in their marriage.

And I can emphatically tell you it goes beyond money
Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by Sheriman(m): 9:26am On Aug 04, 2021
Earning money from Yahoo is not a career

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Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by Mokason288(m): 9:27am On Aug 04, 2021
Marv650:

Haven't you seen and heard enough stories that shows money is not the key to happy family life.

It's not the first rule, neither is it the second, or the last. More is needed for a happy marriage than money.

I've seen the rich stay happy in their marriage. I've seen the poor stay happy in their marriage.

And I can emphatically tell you it goes beyond money
tell your self please

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Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by seyz91(m): 9:28am On Aug 04, 2021
Confirm!
Mokason288:
All this things don’t matter if you deal with Poverty very well

Make money

Plenty money

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Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by Nobody: 9:30am On Aug 04, 2021
virginprincess:
Yes Attitude is very important,and also the guy must have something tangible doing, because no girl wants to marry a broke guy .

You're very right.
Even I, as a man, never wish to marry a broke girl. But if I find a broke but humble lady (not all these Instagram folks), I would still go for her.

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Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by highb01(m): 9:31am On Aug 04, 2021
Wow great reminder,nice wisdom to learn from
Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by dopedealer(m): 9:31am On Aug 04, 2021
POVERTY
POVERTY
POVERTY
POVERTY
POVERTY
Re: Five Things You Must Deal With Thoroughly Before You Marry by Thesaint141(m): 9:31am On Aug 04, 2021
kingphilip:
Make I sit down here see whether e go reach promise land.

Last but not the least, learn tailoring e get why

Na dat tailoring tin I dey consider now self,
God bless u.

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