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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Eaglesence: 10:45pm On Aug 07, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
I am a young lady in my mid 20s. I don’t live with my parents. I live alone because I work in another city different from where my parents live. My problem now is immediately I get back home from work, I begin to feel lonely. Because of this, I like to close late from work just to keep my mind busy. I close early only if I have other errands to run or if I am very tired.

When I get home, I speak with my parents who try their best to keep me company. But there is still lots of time left before I go to bed. In the height of my boredom, I come to nairaland. Then I go to other blogs to read the news. I read all the news blogs I normally follow. I check out my chats on WhatsApp and Telegram. Usually there isn’t anyone chatting with me because everyone is busy with their lives. I go to Youtube which I have become tired of watching. And at some time I’m just bored to my mind. I don’t like to impose myself on anybody and so I only chat with people who come to chat with me including neighbours.

Sometimes I just want someone around that I can talk to but I’m alone by myself. Single people, how do you cope with boredom. I mean single people who are really single not the ones cohabiting or visiting their partners. Some tips will be very helpful right now.

The end is here. Dig deep into the word of God, preper your spirit soul and body to be rapturable. Get into conversation with God and tell your worries to him, He will sort you out but remember the Bible says; seek ye first the kingdom of God and His Righteousness, every other thing will be added to you. While you wait to see his miraculous hands, train yourself in prayer and fasting. Go on fcbk or youtube and search for Apostle Michael Orokpo. And listen to his messages, that servant of God is loaded.

Now, thats how i spend mine.

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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Kudducini(m): 10:45pm On Aug 07, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
I am a young lady in my mid 20s. I don’t live with my parents. I live alone because I work in another city different from where my parents live. My problem now is immediately I get back home from work, I begin to feel lonely. Because of this, I like to close late from work just to keep my mind busy. I close early only if I have other errands to run or if I am very tired.

When I get home, I speak with my parents who try their best to keep me company. But there is still lots of time left before I go to bed. In the height of my boredom, I come to nairaland. Then I go to other blogs to read the news. I read all the news blogs I normally follow. I check out my chats on WhatsApp and Telegram. Usually there isn’t anyone chatting with me because everyone is busy with their lives. I go to Youtube which I have become tired of watching. And at some time I’m just bored to my mind. I don’t like to impose myself on anybody and so I only chat with people who come to chat with me including neighbours.

Sometimes I just want someone around that I can talk to but I’m alone by myself. Single people, how do you cope with boredom. I mean single people who are really single not the ones cohabiting or visiting their partners. Some tips will be very helpful right now.
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by bolrew: 10:49pm On Aug 07, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
I am a young lady in my mid 20s. I don’t live with my parents. I live alone because I work in another city different from where my parents live. My problem now is immediately I get back home from work, I begin to feel lonely. Because of this, I like to close late from work just to keep my mind busy. I close early only if I have other errands to run or if I am very tired.

When I get home, I speak with my parents who try their best to keep me company. But there is still lots of time left before I go to bed. In the height of my boredom, I come to nairaland. Then I go to other blogs to read the news. I read all the news blogs I normally follow. I check out my chats on WhatsApp and Telegram. Usually there isn’t anyone chatting with me because everyone is busy with their lives. I go to Youtube which I have become tired of watching. And at some time I’m just bored to my mind. I don’t like to impose myself on anybody and so I only chat with people who come to chat with me including neighbours.

Sometimes I just want someone around that I can talk to but I’m alone by myself. Single people, how do you cope with boredom. I mean single people who are really single not the ones cohabiting or visiting their partners. Some tips will be very helpful right now.
Honestly isn't easy, am facing the same thing right now
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by lookingfly: 10:49pm On Aug 07, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
I am a young lady in my mid 20s. I don’t live with my parents. I live alone because I work in another city different from where my parents live. My problem now is immediately I get back home from work, I begin to feel lonely. Because of this, I like to close late from work just to keep my mind busy. I close early only if I have other errands to run or if I am very tired.

When I get home, I speak with my parents who try their best to keep me company. But there is still lots of time left before I go to bed. In the height of my boredom, I come to nairaland. Then I go to other blogs to read the news. I read all the news blogs I normally follow. I check out my chats on WhatsApp and Telegram. Usually there isn’t anyone chatting with me because everyone is busy with their lives. I go to Youtube which I have become tired of watching. And at some time I’m just bored to my mind. I don’t like to impose myself on anybody and so I only chat with people who come to chat with me including neighbours.

Sometimes I just want someone around that I can talk to but I’m alone by myself. Single people, how do you cope with boredom. I mean single people who are really single not the ones cohabiting or visiting their partners. Some tips will be very helpful right now.
get tv, charge your laptop and phone and download food movies. I am a dude, I have a couple of ladies i constantly do chat with online. So if am not watching movies, news, chatting online, I am doing something to keep me company. Matter if fact, i don't have male friends. Weekends, I visit the parks and relax and on Sundays go to church.

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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Starz825(m): 10:50pm On Aug 07, 2021
The world is too boring to be alone...
Try a relationship today.
Make he also be with your sense sha

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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Fortez: 10:55pm On Aug 07, 2021
You are still young and don’t need to complain because you are in your category which is single

For us adults as a single adult I enjoy my life to the fullest because marriage is a scam . I just plan to impregnate a fortunate damsel and take care of my baby

I fuvvvkk different hoess everyday and party in my house front yard every now and then . Keep myself busy with games indoor when I am not working and live my life watching time flies

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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Nobody: 10:55pm On Aug 07, 2021
evy800:
Singleness with money isn't on the same level with singleness without money u are fighting two battle on a single front.


I used to read lots of books, listen to music to keep myself busy when I was sure of my life's trajectory now that I'm not so certain I use all that time to take certification courses that will help to improve my income cos I cannot survive being broke and lonely grin grin grin
take I like this comment, I notice I only feel single when am broke,

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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by ogkrakkid(m): 10:57pm On Aug 07, 2021
It's sweet but a bitter after taste..I just tire mehn....but this females no loyal nahh

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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Mblem(m): 10:57pm On Aug 07, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
I am a young lady in my mid 20s. I don’t live with my parents. I live alone because I work in another city different from where my parents live. My problem now is immediately I get back home from work, I begin to feel lonely. Because of this, I like to close late from work just to keep my mind busy. I close early only if I have other errands to run or if I am very tired.

When I get home, I speak with my parents who try their best to keep me company. But there is still lots of time left before I go to bed. In the height of my boredom, I come to nairaland. Then I go to other blogs to read the news. I read all the news blogs I normally follow. I check out my chats on WhatsApp and Telegram. Usually there isn’t anyone chatting with me because everyone is busy with their lives. I go to Youtube which I have become tired of watching. And at some time I’m just bored to my mind. I don’t like to impose myself on anybody and so I only chat with people who come to chat with me including neighbours.

Sometimes I just want someone around that I can talk to but I’m alone by myself. Single people, how do you cope with boredom. I mean single people who are really single not the ones cohabiting or visiting their partners. Some tips will be very helpful right now.

Ops!! ... My current life now
But have never felt lonely
Infact time isn't enough for me
..
I do my personal development when am back from work.
Then on weekends church activities
I'm really closer to God now than before.

So I will advice you join a department in your church and be very active.
You will testify about the turn around

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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by BlackZeus17: 10:58pm On Aug 07, 2021
I missed it then,.. Well if u are still bored you can dm on whatsapp let's start with this gist first cos I need to know where una dey see this feelings and love..

Zero eight one zero 4.5.7 four 6 four 4

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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by HalpyBee(f): 10:59pm On Aug 07, 2021
evy800:
Singleness with money isn't on the same level with singleness without money u are fighting two battle on a single front.


I used to read lots of books, listen to music to keep myself busy when I was sure of my life's trajectory now that I'm not so certain I use all that time to take certification courses that will help to improve my income cos I cannot survive being broke and lonely grin grin grin
smiley On point

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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by BlackZeus17: 10:59pm On Aug 07, 2021
wallrichy:
Blackzeus,

You are a bad digger of sacred Stories. You ought to be an undertaker. I love your gig, the absolute digger of niggers Stories. Lol..


s



Lol we gat to be sure if you're not the one chasing nighas away

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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Slimsinner: 11:00pm On Aug 07, 2021
Guess I've met my kinda human �� mine is not different from yours, but I thank God for the kinda compound I stay, there's always light. So I don't joke with subscribing my decoder. Cause it is my best companion. Whenever I get back from work, I on the t.v and switch to music channels I will be singing and dancing along untill I feel sleepy.
My T.v
My companion ��

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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by evy800(f): 11:01pm On Aug 07, 2021
Volkswagen90:
take I like this comment, I notice I only feel single when am broke,


grin
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Sterope(f): 11:07pm On Aug 07, 2021
Actually, you are right
mrblessed:
That is not exactly true. Maybe you don't have the experience explained by the Op. There is a kind of liveliness that comes with staying with people, by hearing their voices, and knowing they are with you. Even if you have a lot on your hands in form of work, it won't suitable substitute for human presence.
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Olibboy: 11:08pm On Aug 07, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
I am a young lady in my mid 20s. I don’t live with my parents. I live alone because I work in another city different from where my parents live. My problem now is immediately I get back home from work, I begin to feel lonely. Because of this, I like to close late from work just to keep my mind busy. I close early only if I have other errands to run or if I am very tired.

When I get home, I speak with my parents who try their best to keep me company. But there is still lots of time left before I go to bed. In the height of my boredom, I come to nairaland. Then I go to other blogs to read the news. I read all the news blogs I normally follow. I check out my chats on WhatsApp and Telegram. Usually there isn’t anyone chatting with me because everyone is busy with their lives. I go to Youtube which I have become tired of watching. And at some time I’m just bored to my mind. I don’t like to impose myself on anybody and so I only chat with people who come to chat with me including neighbours.

Sometimes I just want someone around that I can talk to but I’m alone by myself. Single people, how do you cope with boredom. I mean single people who are really single not the ones cohabiting or visiting their partners. Some tips will be very helpful right now.
add me on WhatsApp. We have a group...I gat d whole universe in my ceiling i'mma set the mood
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by fynex(m): 11:09pm On Aug 07, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
I am a young lady in my mid 20s. I don’t live with my parents. I live alone because I work in another city different from where my parents live. My problem now is immediately I get back home from work, I begin to feel lonely. Because of this, I like to close late from work just to keep my mind busy. I close early only if I have other errands to run or if I am very tired.

When I get home, I speak with my parents who try their best to keep me company. But there is still lots of time left before I go to bed. In the height of my boredom, I come to nairaland. Then I go to other blogs to read the news. I read all the news blogs I normally follow. I check out my chats on WhatsApp and Telegram. Usually there isn’t anyone chatting with me because everyone is busy with their lives. I go to Youtube which I have become tired of watching. And at some time I’m just bored to my mind. I don’t like to impose myself on anybody and so I only chat with people who come to chat with me including neighbours.

Sometimes I just want someone around that I can talk to but I’m alone by myself. Single people, how do you cope with boredom. I mean single people who are really single not the ones cohabiting or visiting their partners. Some tips will be very helpful right now.



Same experience and it just gets worse sometimes and frustrating, but finding other meaningful things that makes you productive and effective still helps too.

...if you need a chat buddy you can holla me

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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Dbiz1111(m): 11:09pm On Aug 07, 2021
Ynix:


Get a TV, watch YouTube, watch comedies, read books, train online and practice new skills. I am 32 and that is all I do when inside. I have learned how to be alone for years now

Go and marry, motivational speaker oshi cheesy cheesy
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Vickym1(f): 11:11pm On Aug 07, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:


Thanks for the tip wink
U wlcm hun!
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Olibboy: 11:13pm On Aug 07, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
I am a young lady in my mid 20s. I don’t live with my parents. I live alone because I work in another city different from where my parents live. My problem now is immediately I get back home from work, I begin to feel lonely. Because of this, I like to close late from work just to keep my mind busy. I close early only if I have other errands to run or if I am very tired.

When I get home, I speak with my parents who try their best to keep me company. But there is still lots of time left before I go to bed. In the height of my boredom, I come to nairaland. Then I go to other blogs to read the news. I read all the news blogs I normally follow. I check out my chats on WhatsApp and Telegram. Usually there isn’t anyone chatting with me because everyone is busy with their lives. I go to Youtube which I have become tired of watching. And at some time I’m just bored to my mind. I don’t like to impose myself on anybody and so I only chat with people who come to chat with me including neighbours.

Sometimes I just want someone around that I can talk to but I’m alone by myself. Single people, how do you cope with boredom. I mean single people who are really single not the ones cohabiting or visiting their partners. Some tips will be very helpful right now.
we can even chill out everyday and go home by 10 to 11pm

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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Amex2018: 11:24pm On Aug 07, 2021
Do you have any specific book in mind or any area you would want to read?

This will help. Thank you

MeghaneMorgane:


Please share the book. I’m interested. Thank you.
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Nobody: 11:27pm On Aug 07, 2021
Adadioranma79:
I really would love to talk to you. I'm single but not bored cos 75percent of the time, I enjoy my own company and space instead of having meaningless chats with some people. I am gainfully employed but I would love to go on these researches and programming. Maybe not as a means of survival but just so I know something outside my area of competence. I would really love to learn something new but truth is, I am confused as to what I should learn. Will be glad if you can help really


My life is shaped by those researches. So my life is divided into parallel existence. Half of the time I spend on money stuff to keep physical existence taken cRe of, the other half of the time on my parallel has been for the past 25yrs invested in researching the meaning of life. So I needed quantum physics, AI and programming so I spent my parallel free time on such researches and I kept going until I figured out that the more complex our research field, the more complex our neurotransmitters fire in the brain and so our conscious understanding bandwidth is increasing.

I seem to be lost on my free time, it is my time. The rest is spent chasing vanity called money and material existence.

So, I chase away human friendship to have my lone time.

I can do anything to have more free time.

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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Elvinho2244(m): 11:28pm On Aug 07, 2021
First of all....

Are you in Benin City?
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Nobody: 11:35pm On Aug 07, 2021
Fortez:
You are still young and don’t need to complain because you are in your category which is single

For us adults as a single adult I enjoy my life to the fullest because marriage is a scam . I just plan to impregnate a fortunate damsel and take care of my baby

I fuvvvkk different hoess everyday and party in my house front yard every now and then . Keep myself busy with games indoor when I am not working and live my life watching time flies

Awesome.

I organize party at home every Fridays and movies night every Saturday for family.

It's easier with family. Without family it's like watching time come and go but a sweet pretty lady who has your mindset is a cool k in the equation. I practically mind controlled and deprogram and reprogram my pretty angel. We party hard at home and do all crazy things and have a beautiful family. We do crazy shit, and I am all levels of shit.

Even if na scam why not be the scammer.and not the Maga mugu. Lol

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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Ninobraw(m): 11:37pm On Aug 07, 2021
Buy enough firms I mean interesting one
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Gkored: 11:39pm On Aug 07, 2021
Anyone going through a time like this is in bound to be tempted in so many ways, but be careful and true to yourself. Pray to God to send you help that suits you. And you will safely pass this period.

In essence, make judicious use of this time to prepare for your future rather than allow yourself to be swayed. God bless you.

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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Nobody: 11:51pm On Aug 07, 2021
Go and marry.... Or register with a nearby music school and learn how to play piano and guitar. By the time you know how to play these instruments you can always be playing at your free time. Play multiplayer games online with other online participants. Rally fury etc.

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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by panini(m): 11:55pm On Aug 07, 2021
I somehow knew I wasn't the only one feeling like this. I get home quite early after work and I have a lot of time. I don't watch TV, play games or watch random YouTube videos.
I tried reaching out to friends, some of which stay in the same compound with me, but they claimed to be busy..(even during their week-long breaks...) I guess people have different goals and lifestyles, so I realised I shouldn't impose myself to people who don't want to socialise.
I started working out and I'm trying to get the body I always wanted, I learnt how to cook some foreign meals using local ingredients and I'll soon register to a foreign language school (Je veux parler française tres bien).
To those saying you should take yourself out, how do you guys cope sitting by yourselves in eateries, cinemas, beaches and other places?

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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Nigeriainpeace: 11:59pm On Aug 07, 2021
That's the best time for you to pray, connect your spirit to the most high by playing worship songs.....the best thing for you to do my dear,pray for God to locate you to ur husband

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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by INCREDIBLE007(m): 11:59pm On Aug 07, 2021
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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by aribisala0(m): 12:03am On Aug 08, 2021
The undeveloped mind cannot tolerate silence or solitude .

It is like torture

So it seeks all kinds of "noise" to hide from itself . These takes the form of all kinds of obsessions; drink, drugs , religion , phones, sex anything to avoid yourself

sooner or later you must face yourself in stillness and silence and solitude and learn the lessons therein

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