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It may not necessarily be because she is married.
It may be a problem with her that whoever sleeps with her is lost in life.
Check the husband story na.
The more reason why I can't knack you when I don't have "fine" details about you, your family, your past and those you dated before.
Most especially my instinct don't lie to me.
If it's against you for no visible reason, I keep my guard up.

Barbiturate:
Ok, thanks. I'm in Lagos. Which of the location, when and what time do they conduct the deliverance?

Have you gone for the deliverance?

Nonyeadamu:
Have you gone for the deliverance?

No I've not

Barbiturate:
No I've not

Okay. But why na?

Thatsleepboy1 lives close to mfm so he can help you to make enquires.

God has already commanded us not to commit adultery... No Doubt about that!!!

Even David, a man after God's Heart, committed adultery and GOT SERIOUSLY PUNISHED... The SON from the adulterous affair DIED, and one of his wives was slept with openly by one of his sons (this second one, am not so sure exactly)...

Nonyeadamu:
Okay. But why na?

Thatsleepboy1 lives close to mfm so he can help you to make enquires.

Ok, thanks. Thatsleepboy1 pls do help me make enquiries

Barbiturate:
Ok, thanks. Thatsleepboy1 pls do help me make enquiries

I'm not around today. I'll try to ask this week but you stay close to sabo na so it'll be easy for you.

Barbiturate:
I never exploited her. If you read well, I had already started issuing her PO before I wooed her. I chyked her just the normal way a man woos a woman. If she had told me she was married, I wouldn't have continued and it wouldn't have stopped the POs

Personally, I think you slept with a wrong woman probably with bad luck... Remember you said her husband lost his job too. Some women are like that, they share bad luck like sweet once you sleep with them

Barbiturate:
No, I never did. I developed feelings for her like normal human beings do. I was attracted to her. I had started issuing purchase orders to her long before I got attracted to her. She was a good vendor.....so even if she had turned me down, the orders wouldn't have stopped. She likes me too. The problem was that she didn't tell me she was married.

I never took advantage of her. I have never ever taken advantage of any woman and I will never do that. Stop accusing me of what you know nothing about.

Some of you just judge people like you're so perfect and you're God.
Stop worsening my situation!

me


Bro are tins moving well for u nw?
I made same mistake.

ParpahSeventy:
It may not necessarily be because she is married.
It may be a problem with her that whoever sleeps with her is lost in life.
Check the husband story na.
The more reason why I can't knack you when I don't have "fine" details about you, your family, your past and those you dated before.
Most especially my instinct don't lie to me.
If it's against you for no visible reason, I keep my guard up.

Exactly bro...

Uchenna10:
me


Bro are tins moving well for u nw?

Not really

Barbiturate:
Not really

Huh,after so many yrs?

Have u tried going to spiritual places?

Uchenna10:
Huh,after so many yrs?

Have u tried going to spiritual places?

No. I only go to church on sundays

Barbiturate:
I will like to shed more light on this thread below:

https://www.nairaland.com/6499558/ever-bad-luck-after-premarital

Yes. Sleeping with a married woman/man can bring bad luck.

My Story:

She came to my office seeking to be a vendor for the company I use to work for. Black beauty, busty and good ass. After coming to meet me for about 3 times, I decided to make her a vendor with little supply; low PO(purchase order) value. After some days, I wooed her and invited her over to my place. I had asked ab initio, if she was married and she said No! No ring on her finger.

We had sex and after the sex I discovered she wasn't happy. I asked and she said nothing.
Later, I increased the value of the PO and even directed her to a bank where she could get loan for the supply. Bank marketers usually come to my office asking me to send down my vendors to their office for PO financing.

After some few months I was transferred to another state. She came to my new office with a bulgy pregnancy and I got so shocked. I immediately took her outside for questioning.
She said she was sorry for not telling me she was married. She said she did it cos she wanted the PO badly. Her husband lost his job and she wanted to do something to help out. She said she was pregnant the day we had sex and she was sad cos she cheated on her husband.
I prepared a PO for her to supply, with a very high value.
After some months she called that she lost her babies(twins) while giving birth. I felt so bad for her.

Not quite long after the incident, I lost my job. Came to Lagos. Stayed few years at home, got another job in Delta......lost it within 6 months. Came back to Lagos again. Stayed some years jobless. Got another job, lost it within 2 years. While all these were going, all the relationships I ventured into, crashed. I got another job in Lagos and lost it within a year.
I had lost so many job opportunities....I mean jobs that I had almost gotten would just slip away!
Nothing has really been working in my life since then.

I tried calling the lady but for years her number has been switched off. I guess she doesn't use the number anymore. I have prayed and prayed for forgiveness.

It is really not my fault cos she lied, but then I should have been more careful. I should have paid attention to little detail about her.

Maybe the sex wasn't the cause of my misfortune.....I really don't know, all I know is that my life was going on smoothly before the sex with her.

Please, you all should desist from sleeping with married men/women.

That it didn't affect Mr/Mrs A, doesn't mean it can't affect you, if you try it.

…Firstly I don’t pity you cause you had to knack her just to give her a job..She came to you 3times but later gave her and days later you wooed her..Ogun go kee you..If you had been professional it won’t happen but because you gave her a job that’s why you had to guts to woo her..Ogun kee you again..

Lastly,by the time Ogun finish with you eh,you won’t even have a phone to type this nonsense…God gave you a position to help others but you wan use preek finish the lady..After Bleep Abi na then you start to increase supply for her!!…Thunder go fire you..Foolish boy..

Barbiturate:
"If you have no sin in you, then throw the first stone"

I never took advantage of her. Read the story very well pls.

You did bro..

Reex12:
@bolded are fvcking kidding me?

you went against your official code of conduct, took advantage of a helpless pregnant married woman who in the process of the adultery lost her seed because of such unholy and abominable copulation
And you come here to cry foul
Not everyhole you see you go chook preek, now preek don put you for trouble

Use the case of David and ask God for forgiveness

..I don’t pity him cause he took advantage of her but his stubbornness won’t make him accept it.

Barbiturate:
No. I only go to church on sundays

U should find solution asap bro

@op,
As someone said above, you may have slept with the wrong person not necessarily cos she is married, it can still happen even if she isn't married. Sleeping with married woman is no big deal. It is a sin like other sins. A sin is a sin in the eyes of God. That is why thousands of other guys Sleeping with married women aren't experiencing this. The issue is below

There are 3 categories of spirits that exists in people.
Group 1 - Positive: These ones carry positivity all through, they are special. If you encounter them, your life will be transformed for the better. They carry good luck all round, they succeed where other's fail. They don't even need to pray to succeed, everything they touch turns to gold without sweat.

Group 2 - Neutral: This is where majority of humans are. There is nothing spectacular here. They succeed and fail alike. They work hard, they succeed, they don't work hard, they fail. Life is a mix bag depending on what they put in. They are just normal.

Group 3- Negative: This is the opposite of Group 1.They generate negativity all round. If you encounter these ones, your life is finished. Nothing will ever work.

As a man, you should be careful with Sleeping with random women. Sexual sin is sweet until you jam group 3. They can be in church, club, office anywhere, it is not written on the face. There are some women their fore fathers initiated them to an idol to protect them and they don't even know and that is why they are in group 3. The jealous idols are the ones inflicting these pains on the unlucky man who chop their kpomo.

Guys be careful, all that glitters is not gold

Barbiturate:
I will like to shed more light on this thread below:

https://www.nairaland.com/6499558/ever-bad-luck-after-premarital

Yes. Sleeping with a married woman/man can bring bad luck.

My Story:

She came to my office seeking to be a vendor
for the company I use to work for. Black beauty, busty and good ass. After coming to meet me for about 3 times, I decided to make her a vendor with little supply; low PO(purchase order) value. After some days, I wooed her and invited her over to my place. I had asked ab initio, if she was married and she said No! No ring on her finger.

We had sex and after the sex I discovered she wasn't happy. I asked and she said nothing.
Later, I increased the value of the PO and even directed her to a bank where she could get loan for the supply. Bank marketers usually come to my office asking me to send down my vendors to their office for PO financing.

After some few months I was transferred to another state. She came to my new office with a bulgy pregnancy and I got so shocked. I immediately took her outside for questioning.
She said she was sorry for not telling me she was married. She said she did it cos she wanted the PO badly. Her husband lost his job and she wanted to do something to help out. She said she was pregnant the day we had sex and she was sad cos she cheated on her husband.
I prepared a PO for her to supply, with a very high value.
After some months she called that she lost her babies(twins) while giving birth. I felt so bad for her.

Not quite long after the incident, I lost my job. Came to Lagos. Stayed few years at home, got another job in Delta......lost it within 6 months. Came back to Lagos again. Stayed some years jobless. Got another job, lost it within 2 years. While all these were going, all the relationships I ventured into, crashed. I got another job in Lagos and lost it within a year.
I had lost so many job opportunities....I mean jobs that I had almost gotten would just slip away!
Nothing has really been working in my life since then.

I tried calling the lady but for years her number has been switched off. I guess she doesn't use the number anymore. I have prayed and prayed for forgiveness.

It is really not my fault cos she lied, but then I should have been more careful. I should have paid attention to little detail about her.

Maybe the sex wasn't the cause of my misfortune.....I really don't know, all I know is that my life was going on smoothly before the sex with her.

Please, you all should desist from sleeping with married men/women.

That it didn't affect Mr/Mrs A, doesn't mean it can't affect you, if you try it.

Boss the first step of healing or breakthrough is to accept that you are weak, a failure or mistakes. After that pray for forgiveness.
Accepting is 80% prayers is 20%

Barbiturate:
No. I only go to church on sundays

Good response. Don't ever go about kneeling before so called pastors for prayers. All you need to do now is change your mindset and see your difficult time as what it is, just difficult time and nothing else. If the woman had left you without telling you she was married, you would have moved on without all that happened to you. The moment you started blaming yourself, that was when your heart began working against you. Was she the first married woman you have slept with? The answer could be no because you might have fuccked many married and betrothed women without knowing. What you don't know can never kill you if your heart is right. Nigga, forget that incident and move on with your life like nothing happened. Do this and come back here in 6months and give me update. When a man will have serious problem is when he covets someone's wife and that is knowing that she is married and taking her from her husband because you have the power be it financial or political and telling the man he can not do anything. The cries of the husband is what will bring you misfortunes, not just the sex. Nigga, go and hustle with a good mindset and stop all these bullshit talks about badluck.

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
I have banged several married women and have never had such bad luck.

Your bad luck is merely coincidental or because you exploited her by using Your position to obtain sexual favours.

I occupy a powerful position but I have never used it to force anyone into having sex with me, all my sexual alliances are purely consensual

No be immediately the bad luck dey start.
It will start once you are about to get to the zenith of your success

Bukky001:
Personally, I think you slept with a wrong woman probably with bad luck... Remember you said her husband lost his job too. Some women are like that, they share bad luck like sweet once you sleep with them

I think same too

If you are in UK, where you could easily get a care job but couldn't get one for two years , then I'll believe your story. This is Nigeria, even those working are not different from you.

It's only a very few people that are doing fine here, I guess everybody slept with a married woman.

You need update to survive here and I don't mean fraud, enter street ASAP, find someone doing something right and join his hustle.

Brunicekid:
God has already commanded us not to commit adultery... No Doubt about that!!!

Even David, a man after God's Heart, committed adultery and GOT SERIOUSLY PUNISHED... The SON from the adulterous affair DIED, and one of his wives was slept with openly by one of his sons (this second one, am not so sure exactly)...

He was even OVER PUNISHED Sef for he is David, person wey know God well well. e no suppose do dat kain thing. So God lem am well well.