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BEING A SIDE CHICK IS A WASTE OF TIME

He will spend hours with you and still go back to his wife. He will give you a hundred orgasms and tell you to take emergency pills. If you dare get pregnant he will tell you to abort. He will ask you to be faithful to him, when he has someone else.

While you are in the background, he will post photos of his beautiful family, talk highly of his wife and talk about how he loves his children. You are left to wonder about this love he talks about. If he really loves you, why does he make you do all those things to your body and still put you behind the scenes?

How can you even be comfortable being in a relationship that requires you to hide whenever you are with him? You have to keep quiet and listen to him talk to his wife while you lie on his chest.

How do you feel when you call him and he disconnects the line...only to send a text saying. .."Am with my wife, call you later"? Does he really value you? Does he respect you? Does he love you? The answer to these questions is NO!!

He is just using you, when he gets tired of you, he will throw you away. To him you are just another girl. Wake up my sister and break the curse of being a side chick. You deserve better.

IS THE VOLUME LOUD

LoL... LoL oOoOO lol,..lol OOO
Did dey tell you they are looking for Love ogbeni...

Gone are the days of true love. Do what you can, leave the rest for who it belongs to.

So true.

The man is the one wasting his time and finances. Don't make it look like side chicks are on the losing side...They gain financially and otherwise.



98.5871% of Nigerian girls would die of starvation or kwashiorkor if you remove married men in their lives.

IamKizzbrown10:
BEING A SIDE CHICK IS A WASTE OF TIME

He will spend hours with you and still go back to his wife. He will give you a hundred orgasms and tell you to take emergency pills. If you dare get pregnant he will tell you to abort. He will ask you to be faithful to him, when he has someone else.

While you are in the background, he will post photos of his beautiful family, talk highly of his wife and talk about how he loves his children. You are left to wonder about this love he talks about. If he really loves you, why does he make you do all those things to your body and still put you behind the scenes?

How can you even be comfortable being in a relationship that requires you to hide whenever you are with him? You have to keep quiet and listen to him talk to his wife while you lie on his chest.

How do you feel when you call him and he disconnects the line...only to send a text saying. .."Am with my wife, call you later"? Does he really value you? Does he respect you? Does he love you? The answer to these questions is NO!!

He is just using you, when he gets tired of you, he will throw you away. To him you are just another girl. Wake up my sister and break the curse of being a side chick. You deserve better.

IS THE VOLUME LOUD

Some woman rather be with a married man, because another woman has vetted him.
A single man with no prospects is not an attractive man.

Op it’s like uve been trying to take someone’s side chick and she’s not agreeing. Quit preaching to the choir, everyone involved are getting exactly what dey want from the arrangement.

Vagina people will skip pass this thread oo.. If money dey they won't care

kurlz:
So true.

Are you AFFIRMING from a STANDPOINT of EXPERIENCE?..
NAIJA GIRLS CON SUFFER

"While you are in the background, he will post photos of his beautiful family, talk highly of his wife and talk about how he loves his children. You are left to wonder about this love he talks about. If he really loves you, why does he make you do all those things to your body and still put you behind the scenes?"

Women would prefer to share a successful man than to be with a faithful loser.

Evilstorm:
"While you are in the background, he will post photos of his beautiful family, talk highly of his wife and talk about how he loves his children. You are left to wonder about this love he talks about. If he really loves you, why does he make you do all those things to your body and still put you behind the scenes?"

Women would prefer to share a successful man than to be with a faithful loser.

You sabi,lol

"He is just using you, when he gets tired of you, he will throw you away. To him you are just another girl. Wake up my sister and break the curse of being a side chick. You deserve better"

Are you serious about this ?
I think it's the other way round.

The side chick in question is actually using the man.
Or better still,the side chick is gaining more from the "situationship" than the man.
She gain the resources,which is the most important of it all,the freedom to explore other options,like go out with more admirers without the man questioning her , and the attention she's gaining every now and then.
The truth is that the side chick already know the relationship is going no where meaningful,so there is no way she will be invested in it ,fully,to start with,and when it ends,she already got another man to continue from where the other man ended.
The side chick concept is the most forward display of opportunitic loyalty among the female gender,but then, you're still claiming they are the one been used,lol.

What does the man gain ? Sex ? Which they both enjoyed ? ,So how exactly is the man using the side chick, especially in the case of a married man engaging in extra-marital relationship.
The man actually got more to lose, especially if he's married; his resources, his marriage,his reputation , exposure to venereal diseases ,his life ;in extreme situation like the case of Usofa Ataga, just for sex ,and you're still claiming the woman is being used ?

You're always playing the victim,and that speaks of someone who is not only a "perpetual kid",but also being economical with the truth.

inumidun2010:
Are you AFFIRMING from a STANDPOINT of EXPERIENCE?..
NAIJA GIRLS CON SUFFER

Guy you no well o.
I don't, I've never and will never do married men.
You don't have to experience this to know na. Common sense.

kurlz:
Guy you no well o.
I don't, I've never and will never do married men.
You don't have to experience this to know na. Common sense.

Lol, are you indirectly saying he doesn't have common sense?

YoungBlackRico:
Lol, are you indirectly saying he doesn't have common sense?

What I'm saying is common sense will make one know what OP is saying is true, even without experience.

kurlz:
What I'm saying is common sense will make one know what OP is saying is true, even without experience.

I know, just fooling around

In getting ladies, a married man has more than 400% chances higher than a single guy. Just look sweet, keep nice beards, get a clean car, look sharp and top it up with a gold wedding ring on your hand, you will see girls denying their boyfriends for you.
It seems this OP doesn't know that ladies are always attracted to what they can never have.

YoungBlackRico:
I know, just fooling around