OP I will tell you what to do... But please, may I know the colour of your problem?

wyt:

and our relationship has been cool, she just told me all these within the last 10 days. she wants to change that is why she wants to get married. in fact, she is the one that wants the marriage more than me. even the parents are of the opinion that she is the one that wants to pay my bride price giving the way she is disturbing them to approve the marriage. again, it is quite important to me for her to change before marriage

She should change before marriage. You don't carry all these problems into a marriage. I wish you both the best.

What value has she added to you and your life that made you rush to propose to her.
Does her father who is a pastor know that she lives with you?
Pele

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if you dump her na somebody go still marry her!..



I will advice you to help her, change her to become the woman you want... (if you truly love her)



it's very rare to see a girl that will open up to you...

Hmm not a good one I must confess since you looking to marry her.
Masturbation is no deferent from homosexual practices by one party in marriage.
It is demonic and has destroyed many homes

You can’t change her bro,she won’t change if her father that is a pastor is not enough for her to change u no think your brokenness will?? Don’t jump into a dark hole u might just be swallowed up bro.. My suggestion is leave her….You don’t need to pray about this God ha shown u all these for a reason but if you choose to go ahead I can bet you in less than 2years you will regret your action

michael77777:
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if you dump her na somebody go still marry her!..
I will advice you to help her, change her to become the woman you want... (if you truly love her)
it's very rare to see a girl that will open up to you...

you cant change a person.... many have tried, all have failed!

Red flags here and there. I don't see anything wrong with the masturbation especially when you're away. As for the fact there's no orgasm, you can work on that.

The fact she's not working is worrisome especially with the way you describe your finances, sounds like a recipe for her to go back to doing runs that's if she's not at it already.

Fiancee in 2-3 months?

MrBrownJay1:

you cant change a person.... many have tried, all have failed!

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your thoughts tho!......


it's someone's daughter that changed me to who I am now! ....


I know my past!....... I know who I was! ...



you can change someone if you truly love the person!....



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wyt:


you don't need to be this hash... anyway thanks for the advise

He was really soft and nice. You need a dirty slap to reset your brain. Are you normal? Do you wish to ruin your life? Where do they make people like you?

michael77777:
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your thoughts tho!......
it's someone's daughter that changed me to who I am now! ....
I know my past!....... I know who I was! ...
you can change someone if you truly love the person!....

you are just pretending to be who you are not, in desperation to be with someone's daughter. they day you get tired of pretending to be who you are not (or have a fight with them), you will turn right back to who you truly are. IMHO

love doesnt make you change to how someone else wants you to be, love makes you accept your partner for who they are.

MrBrownJay1:


you are just pretending to be who you are not, in desperation to be with someone's daughter. they day you get tired of pretending to be who you are not (or have a fight with them), you will turn right back to who you truly are. IMHO

love doesnt make you change to how someone else wants you to be, love makes you accept your partner for who they are.

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funny thing is that she's my ex now!




she's in LA with her hubby now though we still talk and sees each other....



she really changed me for good and am always greatfull to her.



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Afi financee

wyt:
we have being in talks since January. we meet in late February, then she visited me in late March. we started talking of marriage. now she in my house for 4 months as she is doing her IT here. she found out I am not as buoyant as she wishes, as my business is dragging due to stuff I ordered that is coming through sea hasn't arrived, in fact, will arrive in late October or November. we schedule to get married last July but due to the financial issue and her parents saying we have to wait till she is done with school we have to change our plan but she is so bitter that she is not getting married as she planned. she will be going back to school in 2 weeks' time. since
Now, I have discovered that she hardly cum during sex, in fact, she hasn't cum while we make love. she once told me she makes herself cum that is before we are we meet in person around February which she promised to stop.
after she found out my finances is not strong, she got back into chatting with men for cash, yes she told me that is how she makes money to survive in school, that she presents an aura of relationship to men and they will be giving her money, and when she is tired or when the person insist in seeing she will block or just fisle out.
now she just told me she is lesbian, she is cos she can't get pregnant as her father is a pastor and can be satisfied without the risk associated with men/woman relationships. that she is attracted to women though she hasn't done that for a while as she has prayed against it. she still masturbates while in my house.
note: she has gone to see my parents and I have meet hers.
pls i want to know what i can do to stop her all these social immoralities.

You want to take all those baggage into marriage? You are looking for trouble

wyt:
we have being in talks since January. we meet in late February, then she visited me in late March. we started talking of marriage. now she in my house for 4 months as she is doing her IT here. she found out I am not as buoyant as she wishes, as my business is dragging due to stuff I ordered that is coming through sea hasn't arrived, in fact, will arrive in late October or November. we schedule to get married last July but due to the financial issue and her parents saying we have to wait till she is done with school we have to change our plan but she is so bitter that she is not getting married as she planned. she will be going back to school in 2 weeks' time. since
Now, I have discovered that she hardly cum during sex, in fact, she hasn't cum while we make love. she once told me she makes herself cum that is before we are we meet in person around February which she promised to stop.
after she found out my finances is not strong, she got back into chatting with men for cash, yes she told me that is how she makes money to survive in school, that she presents an aura of relationship to men and they will be giving her money, and when she is tired or when the person insist in seeing she will block or just fisle out.
now she just told me she is lesbian, she is cos she can't get pregnant as her father is a pastor and can be satisfied without the risk associated with men/woman relationships. that she is attracted to women though she hasn't done that for a while as she has prayed against it. she still masturbates while in my house.
note: she has gone to see my parents and I have meet hers.
pls i want to know what i can do to stop her all these social immoralities.

Follow her to make money from her olosho business until your business has been revived. After that, you can ditch her and move on with your life. However, if her olosho business is bringing in serious money, hang on with her so that you can reap more money to consolidate your business, but don't get her pregnant or marry her. You can let her take on a lesbian lover and, if the lesbian lover is cute enough, you can engage in threesomes with them and even reap more money from her olosho business as they can now do lesbian show.

Life is too short to be worrying about rubbish, so just be open minded and enjoy life with the opportunities presented to you now that you are young and strong. Trust me, one day you will get older, weaker, married with a lot of responsibilities and you will wish that you did more things when you were younger.

wyt:
we have being in talks since January. we meet in late February, then she visited me in late March. we started talking of marriage. now she in my house for 4 months as she is doing her IT here. she found out I am not as buoyant as she wishes, as my business is dragging due to stuff I ordered that is coming through sea hasn't arrived, in fact, will arrive in late October or November. we schedule to get married last July but due to the financial issue and her parents saying we have to wait till she is done with school we have to change our plan but she is so bitter that she is not getting married as she planned. she will be going back to school in 2 weeks' time. since
Now, I have discovered that she hardly cum during sex, in fact, she hasn't cum while we make love. she once told me she makes herself cum that is before we are we meet in person around February which she promised to stop.
after she found out my finances is not strong, she got back into chatting with men for cash, yes she told me that is how she makes money to survive in school, that she presents an aura of relationship to men and they will be giving her money, and when she is tired or when the person insist in seeing she will block or just fisle out.
now she just told me she is lesbian, she is cos she can't get pregnant as her father is a pastor and can be satisfied without the risk associated with men/woman relationships. that she is attracted to women though she hasn't done that for a while as she has prayed against it. she still masturbates while in my house.
note: she has gone to see my parents and I have meet hers.
pls i want to know what i can do to stop her all these social immoralities.

I can bet that you met this girl online.

What is wrong with this generation of men. It seems the value of marriage has been eroded. The only important thing people consider in marriages lately are good sex and beautiful kids.

Firstly, the girl is a scammer for fronting relationships with people that she has no interest of meeting. Do you know how devastated the guys will be when she blocks them after collecting their monies? Sorry to say, that your girlfriend is a yahoo girl (fraudster) and is cursed already.

Then she is a lesbian? Lesbians are masturbators by default or what's the difference? That's all lesbians do now. Using Love Machine and intimacy gadgets to pleasure each other which when the girl does it alone, is regarded as masturbation.

The only reason the girl is considering getting married to you is because of family pressure. I can guarantee you that her family does not know she's a lesbian.

So, she's just using you to fulfill her family and societal expectations. You're just a tool, a means to achieve an objective.

Know this: SHE WILL NEVER CHANGE. She will only pretend or accept to have changed just to get married to you.

YOU CAN NEVER SATISFY HER SEXUALLY. No matter how hard you want to try, she's already wired to derive pleasure from same sex and masturbation.

The only way you can go near to satisfying her is by indulging her in her masturbation acts through licking her pussy, using the vibrators on her and other nasty acts that the lesbian families engage in. So, I will advise that you start watching lesbian pornographies and start practicing how to lick plate.

Marrying this girl should be for the fun of it if you are someone that values adventurous marriage over morally instituted marriage.

wyt:
we have being in talks since January. we meet in late February, then she visited me in late March. we started talking of marriage. now she in my house for 4 months as she is doing her IT here. she found out I am not as buoyant as she wishes, as my business is dragging due to stuff I ordered that is coming through sea hasn't arrived, in fact, will arrive in late October or November. we schedule to get married last July but due to the financial issue and her parents saying we have to wait till she is done with school we have to change our plan but she is so bitter that she is not getting married as she planned. she will be going back to school in 2 weeks' time. since
Now, I have discovered that she hardly cum during sex, in fact, she hasn't cum while we make love. she once told me she makes herself cum that is before we are we meet in person around February which she promised to stop.
after she found out my finances is not strong, she got back into chatting with men for cash, yes she told me that is how she makes money to survive in school, that she presents an aura of relationship to men and they will be giving her money, and when she is tired or when the person insist in seeing she will block or just fisle out.
now she just told me she is lesbian, she is cos she can't get pregnant as her father is a pastor and can be satisfied without the risk associated with men/woman relationships. that she is attracted to women though she hasn't done that for a while as she has prayed against it. she still masturbates while in my house.
note: she has gone to see my parents and I have meet hers.
pls i want to know what i can do to stop her all these social immoralities.

Marry her. She is the one for you. Lesbian? No worry , E go better. See you in two years on a divorce thread

Leave student's gf for their fellow student. You guys won't listen. I don't take a girl seriously if she is still in school. Those set of girls toll wants to explore. If you looking at marriage go for ladies that s

Get yourself a graduate who is done with school and NYSC, and as well having something doing leave these girls in school for their school bfs.

wyt:
we have being in talks since January. we meet in late February, then she visited me in late March. we started talking of marriage. now she in my house for 4 months as she is doing her IT here. she found out I am not as buoyant as she wishes, as my business is dragging due to stuff I ordered that is coming through sea hasn't arrived, in fact, will arrive in late October or November. we schedule to get married last July but due to the financial issue and her parents saying we have to wait till she is done with school we have to change our plan but she is so bitter that she is not getting married as she planned. she will be going back to school in 2 weeks' time. since
Now, I have discovered that she hardly cum during sex, in fact, she hasn't cum while we make love. she once told me she makes herself cum that is before we are we meet in person around February which she promised to stop.
after she found out my finances is not strong, she got back into chatting with men for cash, yes she told me that is how she makes money to survive in school, that she presents an aura of relationship to men and they will be giving her money, and when she is tired or when the person insist in seeing she will block or just fisle out.
now she just told me she is lesbian, she is cos she can't get pregnant as her father is a pastor and can be satisfied without the risk associated with men/woman relationships. that she is attracted to women though she hasn't done that for a while as she has prayed against it. she still masturbates while in my house.
note: she has gone to see my parents and I have meet hers.
pls i want to know what i can do to stop her all these social immoralities.

You need to seat her down and talk to her about money and relationship

She has format her mind that relationships goes with money and she may not struggle hard but she will use her schimming to make money. But for how long.
She has to stop that

On the issue of mwsturbation, you need to find out from her, how exactly she wants you to romance and sex her that will make her get to orgasm

If she is not happy over the delay in marriage due to financial delays, she can bring the one she saved if any and you add it up

For her to be this indecent, can you go with someone that have such crazy and nasty way of life

1. If you can try and change her, do your best. Make her know the dancers of masturbation. As a pastor's daughter she should know better. She's just having sex with demons. It's loading like a time bomb.

2. You can let her go and find other reasonable ladies our there. That one get many wahala; lesbianism, masturbation.

God help you bro

1. If you can try and change her, do your best. Make her know the dangers of masturbation. As a pastor's daughter she should know better. She's just having sex with demons. It's loading like a time bomb.

2. You can let her go and find other reasonable ladies our there. That one get many wahala; lesbianism, masturbation.

3. She should give her life back to Christ, seems like her pastor father is not doing his work well. Or I can help her do it.

God help you bro

wyt:


for sure man. she was able to open up to me cos she sort of find a friend in me, but she is generally supportive

No wonder

Every suggestion here is highly appreciated.
As some people suggested here, I may try to see
if there will be a change in all these social abnormalities,
given that she opened up to me and she really wants to
change but if I observe her and she is not able to I will end it.
Note: I am a moralist and as such, I can't stand such.

wyt
My experience has thought me to care about the well being of my fellow man.

My brother; Please run for your life. You will cry in the future. This girl will make you cry.

He demon in her will possess your offspring. Please save your unborn children from the sins of the parents.

Because you I will create two thread

Lol

Guys, should we talk on this matter or just keep mute?.

..... Na me send you..........!

U no get money....u wan marry...lol...I pity u

wyt:
We have being in talks since January. We met in late February, then she visited me in late March. We started talking of marriage.

Now she is in my house for 4 months as she is doing her IT here. She found out I am not as buoyant as she wishes, as my business is dragging due to stuff I ordered that is coming through sea hasn't arrived, in fact, will arrive in late October or November.

We scheduled to get married last July but due to the financial issue and her parents saying we have to wait till she is done with school we have to change our plan but she is so bitter that she is not getting married as she planned. She will be going back to school in 2 weeks' time. since

Now, I have discovered that she hardly cum during sex, in fact, she hasn't cum while we make love. She once told me she makes herself cum that is before we met in person around February which she promised to stop.

After she found out my finances is not strong, she got back into chatting with men for cash, yes she told me that is how she makes money to survive in school, that she presents an aura of relationship to men and they will be giving her money, and when she is tired or when the person insist in seeing she will block or just fisle out.

Now she just told me she is lesbian, she is cos she can't get pregnant as her father is a pastor and can be satisfied without the risk associated with men/woman relationships. That she is attracted to women though she hasn't done that for a while as she has prayed against it. She still masturbates while in my house.

Note: she has gone to see my parents and I have met hers.

pls i want to know what i can do to stop her all these social immoralities.

She is not marriage material
A woman who always seek the "easy way out" is NOT wife material
It means if you marry tomorrow
And you fall into temporary issues
This unsavoury behaviour is what she will exhibit

Smh in dismay....Sorry to say this,but we use our hands to bring problems into our life.

With that being said....the post below will give you a great insight of How Masturbation and Artificial Hard Drugs Have Dealt Mercilessly With alot of people nowadays

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https://www.nairaland.com/6582256/