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Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by hollas2jnr(m): 10:02pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
saphiere:He that findeth a WIFE... Not women are wife material; that bible quote applies to the worthy ones out there! |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Nauttyprof(m): 10:09pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
djon78: So, when a wise woman builds her home it means she is the custodian of favour. Read your Bible to understand the way God operates and stop coming up with examples that Bible never gave. I have asked you a simple question - Men don't have grace or favour, right? I will be waiting for your response to this question. Bible says ........ and obtains favour from God. Now, it is no more God but the woman. Na wa o..... When you find your own wife, you get the favour from God and not the woman bringing favour and then making the man look like one without favour. |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by saphiere(f): 10:33pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
Austineva2:I advise them to marry independent women. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by loadindre00: 10:44pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
saphiere: |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Mcfi(m): 10:59pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
Arda1000: You are a carried entity 1 Like |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by OdogwuToks(m): 11:40pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
flokii: You have said it all. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Atole26: 11:43pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
But wait ooo.. true true we know marriage with the right person bring blessings but shey this person don forget say na naija we dey ni. If you don't have money how will you pay for the marriage na. Abi it's now allowed to marry your bride just you and her family without any demands ni. If it's like that I second your claim. Guys go and get married |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by IJOBA11: 11:48pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
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Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Vision101(m): 3:58am On Aug 16, 2021 |
@saphiere Facts. I know some men who did not amount to anything but as soon as they got married they are now doing well. Two of them are landlords and all of them are car owners. Indeed women are blessings. @me Hahahaha.... it's not because of the wify. Life is a mystery. What worked now may not work later. What worked for Andrew may not work for James. There are instances where people were doing well before they got married and as soon as they got married they went down. Are you encouraging the broke boys to get married? The only solution is to cling to God. He will direct your path in storm and out of storm. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by iammarvellux(m): 4:18am On Aug 16, 2021 |
You don't just get married on nothing.. Hit the Facebook page link in my signature and readup my latest post. So you can take tangible steps. |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by ofiko123(m): 4:44am On Aug 16, 2021 |
OK..we have heard.. Mr preacher.. |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Gaddafih001(m): 5:35am On Aug 16, 2021 |
Hassanmaye:She can never be loyal to your authority. She fit chop your shit just because she wan enter. You will see this as the days roll by. This is my ten years in this fu***ng mess. Don’t try this road, you will get burnt. They are susceptible to use jazz on you bro just to keep her home. Look for someone that looks up to you as her senior and not someone that will be going to older men for advice because technically,she senior you (LOL). 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by ityP(m): 6:37am On Aug 16, 2021 |
Ladylawyer: Nowhere is it stated that a man or woman must get married. Before someone gets married, he or she must be emotionally, physically and financially ready to bear the responsibility of marriage. If at 50, a man still struggles to feed himself and cannot assist his relatives once in a while when they ask for help, he should die a single man. If he is also emotionally or physically not ready, he also needs to take a chill pill. Marriage is not for everyone. And no one is saying be Dangote before getting married. But to be struggling financially and still contemplating marriage is something I find very foolish. That's how boko haram started. Children given birth to by foolish parents who knew they don't have the resources to cater for them, only to send these children out at tender ages to fend for themselves 1 Like |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Hassanmaye(m): 6:39am On Aug 16, 2021 |
Gaddafih001:I will take this advice very serious sir, and sadly remain small for me to make this mistake, I have this girl she almost age to me, when I was in the university we didn't date,. All of sudden during NYSC she becomes an angel she wants me bla bla, Chai I started falling o, God has save me from jazebel. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by TripleAkutigi: 6:51am On Aug 16, 2021 |
Arda1000:Truetalk... 1 Like |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by ityP(m): 6:52am On Aug 16, 2021 |
Nauttyprof: Thank you. I see so many people misquoting that Bible verse and it pains me to the bones. If the lady was such a blessing, why she no make am before I marry am? Why must she wait to enter husband house before blessings would be activated? They talk like single men aren't blessed. Heck, Jesus was single and he is the greatest man ever to walk planet earth. I keep saying it, no woman holds my blessings. Any woman who comes with that mentality into my home would need to have a rethink |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by ityP(m): 6:57am On Aug 16, 2021 |
djon78: No one brings anyone luck. Stop deceiving yourself. When Prov. 14:1 says a wise woman builds her home, it didn't even connote financial building. No woman is tied to my financial success. There are so many single men who are financially successful. You people should stop misquoting the scriptures |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Ladylawyer(f): 6:58am On Aug 16, 2021 |
ityP:If you say so |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Hassanmaye(m): 6:58am On Aug 16, 2021 |
Nwaezehopr:This advice serious |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by TripleAkutigi: 7:01am On Aug 16, 2021 |
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Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Hassanmaye(m): 7:02am On Aug 16, 2021 |
Taywon:Hahah this one hit me, So sir we should not be carried away by their smiles on social media, lol things they occur 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Hassanmaye(m): 7:03am On Aug 16, 2021 |
ityP:Lol |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Hassanmaye(m): 7:06am On Aug 16, 2021 |
ityP:Who is the greatest man?? |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by ityP(m): 7:06am On Aug 16, 2021 |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Hassanmaye(m): 7:07am On Aug 16, 2021 |
ityP:Blood of Zachariah! You just replied me in the blink of an eye 1 Like |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by ityP(m): 7:09am On Aug 16, 2021 |
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Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Judybash93(m): 7:10am On Aug 16, 2021 |
This kicks logical reasoning in the balls |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by TripleAkutigi: 7:12am On Aug 16, 2021 |
saphiere:Are U still S or M? |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by TripleAkutigi: 7:18am On Aug 16, 2021 |
saphiere:And how will i get to know dat woman who hold dat key of success 1 Like |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Nauttyprof(m): 7:29am On Aug 16, 2021 |
ityP: Honestly, you just nailed it with this new point. If we are to rightly interpret the Bible verse it was referring to the man who will receive favour from God when he finds a good wife. Our tradition has only brought up nonsense teaching claiming the wife brings favour as if the man is an empty vessel carrying nothing. Just the way many christian homes are having problems today because our preachers chose to exalt the female gender on every sermon about marriage as if the male gender meant nothing in the marriage. If at all they mention the male gender, it is only in the aspect of fulfilling responsibilities. Whereas the Bible clearly talks about what the wife should do to her husband and the husband to the wife. In fact, everywhere the family is mentioned, the female gender is first addressed on her role to her husband before the husband to her wife. It is really sick how preachers have chosen to look the other way by bringing in tradition without teaching the real and balanced truth in the word of God. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Pimine: 7:41am On Aug 16, 2021 |
kay29000:Aswearugaaad Bruh, honestly it baffles me how some people reason. Anyway, I'm glad you could find the humor in it. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by samonak(m): 8:02am On Aug 16, 2021 |
Not in all cases, my elder bro was doing very well, but as soon as he married, everything just dried up. He's living from hand to mouth, even the wife is yet to put to birth since 2012! |
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