There is this lady who recently joined our organization. She caught my attention but I wanted to take things slow. Later I got to know that my other colleague at work had already spoken to this lady and they had been having serious romance. I had to cut off every affections though the lady in question and I later became best friends.

Fast forward to the present day, they broke up and the babe had been trying to gather herself. I cunningly asked her if she could work things out with the guy but she bluntly said no.

The issue here now is that I've been developing serious affection for her again though during our chats before their breakup I had told her I developed feelings for her but my other colleague was faster than I in approaching her of which she said I should have told her about it.

This lady ticks every boxes I want in a woman.

Kindly advice me...

Of all the women wey dey this life,na your colleague ex you dey eye?

Guy, remove your mind from that side because you'll definitely lose the respect that your colleague has gat for you...

No talk say I no warn you cha..

Abbey117:
The issue here now is that I've been developing serious affection for her again though during our chats before their breakup I had told her I developed feelings for her but my other colleague was faster than I in approaching her of which she said I should have told her about it.

This lady ticks every boxes I want in a woman.

Kindly advice me...

Advice you on what though?

How to make a move on a woman you like? Or whether to ask a woman out even though she just got out of a relationship?

Honestly, I still wonder if people who come for advice like that of OP are robots or Ghosts

Like, how will a grown up man with hairy balls come online to ask for people's suggestion about his private life

So ashamed of OP

Avoid what will result to bad blood in ur place of work. Look elsewhere.

First of, don’t have any relationship with any girl at all.

Secondly, don’t have relationship with your colleague!! E no dy go well..

Also, if you dare fall for this girl so, under your very eye, her ex go dy gbensh her and you no go know.. them fit even get back together and you’ll just be a rebound.

Finally my advice... don’t touch her at all and if you have to do so then just dig her guts out till you burst!! And then move on.

#SLY_LIFESTYLE

My father used to say that before an eagle cast's its feathers away from its body there must be a very serious reason for that.

You get the point now?

you don't need our advice,

please do as the Spirit directs

Work romance


It's not enough that you compete for promotion at work, you will have to compete for a woman's attention as well

Bro how do you want to be buried, with complete body parts or some missing?

Let us know the outcome.

Abbey117:
There is this lady who recently joined our organization. She caught my attention but I wanted to take things slow. Later I got to know that my other colleague at work had already spoken to this lady and they had been having serious romance. I had to cut off every affections though the lady in question and I later became best friends.

Fast forward to the present day, they broke up and the babe had been trying to gather herself. I cunningly asked her if she could work things out with the guy but she bluntly said no.

The issue here now is that I've been developing serious affection for her again though during our chats before their breakup I had told her I developed feelings for her but my other colleague was faster than I in approaching her of which she said I should have told her about it.

This lady ticks every boxes I want in a woman.

Kindly advice me...

Give her some time to heal and get over her ex. During this period, try to be just a friend, don't show interest beyond that, so she doesn't use you as a rebound. Shoot your shot only after you are sure that she is completely over her ex. All the best!

After the first sex you will have clarity.

Juliearth:




Give her some time to heal and get over her ex. During this period, try to be just a friend, don't show interest beyond that, so she doesn't use you as a rebound. Shoot your shot only after you are sure that she is completely over her ex. All the best!

Which yeye time? U and the OP sef, you both belong to phylum mumunidae.

Abbey 117
OP,
1. Don’t fall in any stupid love
2. Don’t do any stupid relationship
3. If u must gbensh her, let her bring the puna to you on a platter of gold; fcvk her like the biatch she is without mercy, while fucking her, ask her who owns her; make sure she answers in the affirmative.


NB: if you don’t have a >6’ gbola, don’t try number 3

Goodlyhrt:
My father used to say that before an eagle cast's its feathers away from its body there must be a very serious reason for that.

You get the point now?

Nope. What's the point?

Office romance no follow for me, no wash your dirty linen for office baba albeit if you must gbensh but never a relationship baba mi

You're not in love, you're in lust!

I can guarantee you that by the time you've made love with her severally, the so called love would fade..

You better remove your eyes from there!!

Ladies are many everywhere, so like the beans from the stones, select carefully..

Don't betray your colleague! You might end up in hell, after several shots!!

Don't forget that we are living in a lawless country under Buhari, be careful!!!

Dem suppose just beat u sha

My Advice, move on.

The fact that she dated your colleague doesn't mean things may not work out between you two but my fear that your colleague may try to sabotage your relationship.

Another angle: You don't even know what your colleague saw that made him remove his hands from the relationship.

My opinion, Move on bro... But then again you can do whatever you like oo.

Wahala

Okay

First of all OP, I believe you're matured already and know what you want

Secondly, what caused the problem with the boyfriend, why did their relationship not work out?

Since you said she ticks all the box, I won't tell you not to go into friendship

Na wetin you see you go take

That's nonsense love... abeg come of it
don't be an EOP...

you need wakandakuna ass whooping

It's all in your hands.

U are lust, not love

Abbey117:
There is this lady who recently joined our organization. She caught my attention but I wanted to take things slow. Later I got to know that my other colleague at work had already spoken to this lady and they had been having serious romance. I had to cut off every affections though the lady in question and I later became best friends.

Fast forward to the present day, they broke up and the babe had been trying to gather herself. I cunningly asked her if she could work things out with the guy but she bluntly said no.

The issue here now is that I've been developing serious affection for her again though during our chats before their breakup I had told her I developed feelings for her but my other colleague was faster than I in approaching her of which she said I should have told her about it.

This lady ticks every boxes I want in a woman.

Kindly advice me...

There is this lady who recently joined our organization. She caught my attention


lust