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Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by KensonAbule(m): 9:28pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
It's fine. It also saved u some wasteful spendings, but u might be intimidated on bed as a novice, if your partner is not on same page with u as a novice. 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Nobody: 9:28pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Look for a better story to attack the church. This one is almost as dumb as the mind that conjured it up |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Mistaglorious: 9:28pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Living in bondage |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Indispensable85(m): 9:28pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
sijibomi33: This almost happened to me. Wisdom is profitable to direct. I just thank God for whom I eventually met otherwise the matter for hard oooo. Very patient and understanding woman. I thank God for everything. To God be the glory! 2 Likes |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Verysmart101: 9:29pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Tickles001: Really!!! So relationships is now demonic right? |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by stonemasonn: 9:30pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Tickles001:We're all different.....this man is obviously seeking for a relationship which he considers as normal...nothing wrong in that. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Lovenorth: 9:31pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
falseprophet:Pls help me tell them. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Regex: 9:31pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
sijibomi33: Bible said, if you go to Rome, behave like the Romans. And also if you don't like the doctrine of a place, leave that place. Damage has been done by not letting you have a social life, however it can be corrected by waiting for the marriage committee to sanction the relationship for you. Honestly it's taking a load off of ya the way I see it. You don't have to go through the stress toasting and impressing her. She knows your intentions and you know hers. For her to reach to the end of the sanction of the relationship means she is very much interested. Chill brother, work done = 100% 2 Likes |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by GboyegaD(m): 9:31pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Ishilove: Aunty ishilove, you vex gan for the guy ooo. I wonder why people in this age and time go dey wait approval. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Nobody: 9:31pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
It is well |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Dapson73(m): 9:32pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Bro please wise up. Take the bull by the horn and face your life squarely. Yoruba have this to say '' To ba ko waju si e ko ta, to ba koyin si e ko ta. To ba ku wo nikan Koo tero arae pa'' Them no dey tell man, na man dey decide. And at 35, na man u be. 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Lovenorth: 9:32pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Someone is waiting for terrorists to decide for him |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by ThinkSmarter: 9:32pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Religion was invented by man maybe out of ignorance or conspiracy. It was designed to tame humans. It's good when done in moderation but bad when done in extreme. Anybody that sticks to over 80% of religious rules is just but a dummy that gave failed to use his/her brain. Sorry, op, u have low iQ and belong to betas. U need orientation gaskiya. 35year old virgin Better be like Apostle Paul, don't lust after the flesh. Rashes fit don full your pubic regions due to prostate cancer. #lol 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by ganiyud2001(m): 9:33pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
People come to the forum to split rubbish so as to tarnish the image of the church. Did you bring any lady name and the committee rejected it or you expect them to chose wife for u u came here as if they were the one hindrance ur marriage and make people talk anyhow to the church because u came to ridicule the church u are not a true xtian if u are u will know that it is by praying to God that can give you good wife, u said u are brought by a deeper lifer not that u have experience true conversation please go to christ before it is to late to discover ur purpose of living it is not how long u stay as bachelor that matter but how u are able to build a happy home 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Getdowntobiznes: 9:33pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Don't let culture, society, and some religious indoctrination rule your world. Make your mind now or never! |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by WeNoGoDie(m): 9:34pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: I wasn't talking to you. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Kobojunkie: 9:36pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
proclinician:Na real congrats abeg! |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Nobody: 9:37pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
ganiyud2001:You're more concerned about defending the name of a church rather than to address the issue op presented. The marriage committee has become one controversial topic even among deeperlifers , especially among the youths. How many times have there being constructive criticisms and calls for it to be scrapped totally ? Many young men and women from deeperlife had left the church to go marry outside and then return ,many occasions and you don't think that should be a food for thought ? The marriage committee is long overdue,and if the church is not willing to scrap it out completely ,it should be revisited and reviewed. Lots need to be looked into on the issue of marriage committee ,and amended if necessary,which it actually is.It's just a doctrine and it's not infallible. You can't keep having young men and women leaving your church every time to go marry outside and later return to the church without doing anything about it. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Nobody: 9:38pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
self-servicer isonu. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by TheRedpillguy: 9:38pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
sijibomi33:You should be glad, Women bring nothing but problems. 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by kareemkamil(m): 9:39pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Religion don bastardized this one 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by osazsky(m): 9:39pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Bachelor 1...chief bachelor...39 retired bachelor I hail o.na wah for una..how many years come remain for life..sorry to say u didn't enjoy ur life at all..last last all of us go dey heaven.it is well.this one go don masturbated tire.i hope it has not affected his brains and social life. The risk of u having bipolar disorder and aggressive postpartum depression is very high if this issue is not addressed as soon as possible goodluck 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by dingbang(m): 9:40pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Any babe available? I will pay you to disvirgin the op. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by torqque7(m): 9:40pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
daddytime: Exactly..this guy is not ready yet when he is ready he knows what to do. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Tickles001(m): 9:41pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
stonemasonn: That which he seeks is not worth that which he will have to give up. He's not missing anything by being in a relationship. Besides, he will soon enter that relationship that will now be labeled as marriage. Just in about two years or less. Having sex and confessing sweet nonsense to someone is not what I think someone should be missing. He's on the right and precious path. He'd better not stray to align with worthless societal expectations. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Kobojunkie: 9:41pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
ganiyud2001:Open Bible and show me where God said a marriage commitee must first approve a lady or a man for you to marry. God said a man will leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife and they both shall become one...but here una don turn God into liar install marriage committe in between wetjn God declared, still get mouth to talk church say. Stop deluding yourself thinking you do so on behalf of God.. 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by flokii: 9:42pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
@OP Are you sure it's church indoctrination that is affecting you and not your self esteem and fear of rejection? There are ladies in your church you can walk up to and ask out even though they don't slay or dress to kill. Infact it's the S.U girls that like anything intimacy and relationship most. You're a grown man at 35yrs.. the earlier you man up and start toasting those sisters the better for you. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Tickles001(m): 9:42pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
TheRedpillguy: Exactly. But sadly, he doesn't know. He thinks he's missing. I wish I can change places with the op on this particular aspect. 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by frozen70(f): 9:42pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
sijibomi33: Your religious background and upbringing was to model you as you grow and not to decide for you on how to live your life as a full grown man What if you see a woman you loves deeply and she doesn't want to go to Deeper life church with you and ask you to choose another church both of you will be identified with What will you do Move on, you already have the fear of God in you Change environment and mix up you will see the difference |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Nobody: 9:43pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
sijibomi33:RELIGION IS Truly the opium of the masses. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by NLKing01: 9:43pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
sijibomi33: Is it the church that makes you not to have relationship at 35? Are people not getting married in the said church. Are you just looking for attention here or what? 1 Like |
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