It's fine.
It also saved u some wasteful spendings, but u might be intimidated on bed as a novice, if your partner is not on same page with u as a novice.

Look for a better story to attack the church. This one is almost as dumb as the mind that conjured it up

Living in bondage

sijibomi33:
Brought up by Deeperlifer, graduated as a biochemist, with the indoctrination of the church, waiting for the marriage committee to sanction a relationship even when am yet to speak to the lady in question understandably because I dont wanna go against church rules... my fear is, its unheard of!! No relationship at 35 and isn't this ABNORMAL

This almost happened to me.
Wisdom is profitable to direct.

I just thank God for whom I eventually met otherwise the matter for hard oooo.
Very patient and understanding woman. I thank God for everything.

To God be the glory!

Tickles001:


If I were you. I'll stick to what I've always lived by. There's nothing in relationship that is worth going against your faith.
Las las, you will marry in a couple of years, so don't stray at this last minute.
It'd have been a different issue if it was your finance that is suffering.
Me sef dey wish I could go back to my churchy days and you want to troway your own because of relationship that will only give you pussy and take your rest of mind

Really!!! So relationships is now demonic right?

Tickles001:


If I were you. I'll stick to what I've always lived by. There's nothing in relationship that is worth going against your faith.
Las las, you will marry in a couple of years, so don't stray at this last minute.
It'd have been a different issue if it was your finance that is suffering.
Me sef dey wish I could go back to my churchy days and you want to troway your own because of relationship that will only give you pussy and take your rest of mind

We're all different.....this man is obviously seeking for a relationship which he considers as normal...nothing wrong in that.

falseprophet:
See what church religion have done to this one but his fellow sheeples runs their mouth against other religions like only them are civilized

I see them calling others religion of piss while they use part of their brains to pay tithes to their pastors.

This I have seen!

Pls help me tell them.

sijibomi33:
Brought up by Deeperlifer, graduated as a biochemist, with the indoctrination of the church, waiting for the marriage committee to sanction a relationship even when am yet to speak to the lady in question understandably because I dont wanna go against church rules... my fear is, its unheard of!! No relationship at 35 and isn't this ABNORMAL

Bible said, if you go to Rome, behave like the Romans. And also if you don't like the doctrine of a place, leave that place.


Damage has been done by not letting you have a social life, however it can be corrected by waiting for the marriage committee to sanction the relationship for you. Honestly it's taking a load off of ya the way I see it. You don't have to go through the stress toasting and impressing her. She knows your intentions and you know hers. For her to reach to the end of the sanction of the relationship means she is very much interested.

Chill brother, work done = 100%

Ishilove:
You want the church to sanction a relationship that is still in your imagination?

You are almost 40. Please let your foolishness end before you are 40 so it doesn't become permanent.

Aunty ishilove, you vex gan for the guy ooo. I wonder why people in this age and time go dey wait approval.

It is well

Bro please wise up. Take the bull by the horn and face your life squarely.

Yoruba have this to say '' To ba ko waju si e ko ta, to ba koyin si e ko ta. To ba ku wo nikan Koo tero arae pa''

Them no dey tell man, na man dey decide. And at 35, na man u be.

Someone is waiting for terrorists to decide for him

Religion was invented by man maybe out of ignorance or conspiracy.
It was designed to tame humans.
It's good when done in moderation but bad when done in extreme.
Anybody that sticks to over 80% of religious rules is just but a dummy that gave failed to use his/her brain.
Sorry, op, u have low iQ and belong to betas.
U need orientation gaskiya.
35year old virgin
Better be like Apostle Paul, don't lust after the flesh.
Rashes fit don full your pubic regions due to prostate cancer. #lol

People come to the forum to split rubbish so as to tarnish the image of the church. Did you bring any lady name and the committee rejected it or you expect them to chose wife for u u came here as if they were the one hindrance ur marriage and make people talk anyhow to the church because u came to ridicule the church u are not a true xtian if u are u will know that it is by praying to God that can give you good wife, u said u are brought by a deeper lifer not that u have experience true conversation please go to christ before it is to late to discover ur purpose of living it is not how long u stay as bachelor that matter but how u are able to build a happy home

Don't let culture, society, and some religious indoctrination rule your world. Make your mind now or never!

Kobojunkie:
His pride? Which kain award dey for his indoctrinated soul to claim?

I wasn't talking to you.

proclinician:
At 35 with a university degree and all the life experiences it presents u still allowed persons that u may even be smarter then to dictate ur life for u all in the name of chur h doctrine. Congrats.

Na real congrats abeg!

ganiyud2001:
People come to the forum to split rubbish so as to tarnish the image of the church, Did u go with a lady name and they reject her or u want them to pick a wife for u if u are truly born again u will know they are there to help u, every organization has it standard if u can abide go nobody will hold u so don't mention the church name to ridicule hef

You're more concerned about defending the name of a church rather than to address the issue op presented.
The marriage committee has become one controversial topic even among deeperlifers , especially among the youths.
How many times have there being constructive criticisms and calls for it to be scrapped totally ?
Many young men and women from deeperlife had left the church to go marry outside and then return ,many occasions and you don't think that should be a food for thought ?
The marriage committee is long overdue,and if the church is not willing to scrap it out completely ,it should be revisited and reviewed.
Lots need to be looked into on the issue of marriage committee ,and amended if necessary,which it actually is.It's just a doctrine and it's not infallible.
You can't keep having young men and women leaving your church every time to go marry outside and later return to the church without doing anything about it.

self-servicer isonu.

sijibomi33:
Brought up by Deeperlifer, graduated as a biochemist, with the indoctrination of the church, waiting for the marriage committee to sanction a relationship even when am yet to speak to the lady in question understandably because I dont wanna go against church rules... my fear is, its unheard of!! No relationship at 35 and isn't this ABNORMAL

You should be glad, Women bring nothing but problems.

Religion don bastardized this one

Bachelor 1...chief bachelor...39 retired bachelor I hail o.na wah for una..how many years come remain for life..sorry to say u didn't enjoy ur life at all..last last all of us go dey heaven.it is well.this one go don masturbated tire.i hope it has not affected his brains and social life. The risk of u having bipolar disorder and aggressive postpartum depression is very high if this issue is not addressed as soon as possible goodluck

Any babe available? I will pay you to disvirgin the op.

daddytime:
Nauseatingly irritating.

Exactly..this guy is not ready yet when he is ready he knows what to do.

stonemasonn:
We're all different.....this man is obviously seeking for a relationship which he considers as normal...nothing wrong in that.

That which he seeks is not worth that which he will have to give up. He's not missing anything by being in a relationship. Besides, he will soon enter that relationship that will now be labeled as marriage. Just in
about two years or less.
Having sex and confessing sweet nonsense to someone is not what I think someone should be missing.
He's on the right and precious path. He'd better not stray to align with worthless societal expectations.

ganiyud2001:
People come to the forum to split rubbish so as to tarnish the image of the church. Did you bring any lady name and the committee rejected it or you expect them to chose wife for u u came here as if they were the one hindrance ur marriage and make people talk anyhow to the church because u came to ridicule the church u are not a true xtian if u are u will know that it is by praying to God that can give you good wife, u said u are brought by a deeper lifer not that u have experience true conversation please go to christ before it is to late to discover ur purpose of living it is not how long u stay as bachelor that matter but how u are able to build a happy home

Open Bible and show me where God said a marriage commitee must first approve a lady or a man for you to marry.

God said a man will leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife and they both shall become one...but here una don turn God into liar install marriage committe in between wetjn God declared, still get mouth to talk church say.

Stop deluding yourself thinking you do so on behalf of God..

@OP Are you sure it's church indoctrination that is affecting you and not your self esteem and fear of rejection?

There are ladies in your church you can walk up to and ask out even though they don't slay or dress to kill. Infact it's the S.U girls that like anything intimacy and relationship most.

You're a grown man at 35yrs.. the earlier you man up and start toasting those sisters the better for you.

TheRedpillguy:

You should be glad, Women bring nothing but problems.

Exactly. But sadly, he doesn't know.
He thinks he's missing. I wish I can change places with the op on this particular aspect.

sijibomi33:
Brought up by Deeperlifer, graduated as a biochemist, with the indoctrination of the church, waiting for the marriage committee to sanction a relationship even when am yet to speak to the lady in question understandably because I dont wanna go against church rules... my fear is, its unheard of!! No relationship at 35 and isn't this ABNORMAL

Your religious background and upbringing was to model you as you grow and not to decide for you on how to live your life as a full grown man

What if you see a woman you loves deeply and she doesn't want to go to Deeper life church with you and ask you to choose another church both of you will be identified with

What will you do

Move on, you already have the fear of God in you

Change environment and mix up you will see the difference

sijibomi33:
Brought up by Deeperlifer, graduated as a biochemist, with the indoctrination of the church, waiting for the marriage committee to sanction a relationship even when am yet to speak to the lady in question understandably because I dont wanna go against church rules... my fear is, its unheard of!! No relationship at 35 and isn't this ABNORMAL

RELIGION IS Truly the opium of the masses.

sijibomi33:
Brought up by Deeperlifer, graduated as a biochemist, with the indoctrination of the church, waiting for the marriage committee to sanction a relationship even when am yet to speak to the lady in question understandably because I dont wanna go against church rules... my fear is, its unheard of!! No relationship at 35 and isn't this ABNORMAL

Is it the church that makes you not to have relationship at 35? Are people not getting married in the said church. Are you just looking for attention here or what?