Tickles001:


That which he seeks is not worth that which he will have to give up. He's not missing anything by being in a relationship. Besides, he will soon enter that relationship that will now be labeled as marriage. Just in
about two years or less.
Having sex and confessing sweet nonsense to someone is not what I think someone should be missing.
He's on the right and precious path. He'd better not stray to align with worthless societal expectations.

Tickles001:

That which he seeks is not worth that which he will have to give up. He's not missing anything by being in a relationship. Besides, he will soon enter that relationship that will now be labeled as marriage. Just in
about two years or less.
Having sex and confessing sweet nonsense to someone is not what I think someone should be missing.
He's on the right and precious path. He'd better not stray to align with worthless societal expectations.

Verysmart101:


Really!!! So relationships is now demonic right?

GboyegaD:


Aunty ishilove, you vex gan for the guy ooo. I wonder why people in this age and time go dey wait approval.

Tickles001:


If I were you. I'll stick to what I've always lived by. There's nothing in relationship that is worth going against your faith.
Las las, you will marry in a couple of years, so don't stray at this last minute.
It'd have been a different issue if it was your finance that is suffering.
Me sef dey wish I could go back to my churchy days and you want to troway your own because of relationship that will only give you pussy and take your rest of mind

sijibomi33:
Brought up by Deeperlifer, graduated as a biochemist, with the indoctrination of the church, waiting for the marriage committee to sanction a relationship even when am yet to speak to the lady in question understandably because I dont wanna go against church rules... my fear is, its unheard of!! No relationship at 35 and isn't this ABNORMAL

Regex:

Bible said, if you go to Rome, behave like the Romans. And also if you don't like the doctrine of a place, leave that place.


Damage has been done by not letting you have a social life, however it can be corrected by waiting for the marriage committee to sanction the relationship for you. Honestly it's taking a load off of ya the way I see it. You don't have to go through the stress toasting and impressing her. She knows your intentions and you know hers. For her to reach to the end of the sanction of the relationship means she is very much interested.

Chill brother, work done = 100%

Oluvan:
It is a shame that the OP did not tell the whole truth, and he's making many people offend here.

The Church has nothing to lose because she is not responsible for your delay.

You need to examine yourself.

If at 35 you're still trading blame on the marriage issue, when you suppose to take responsibility then you still have a long way to go.

Please look to yourself.

osazsky:
so he will just meet a girl this year and marry her next year..without courting her..no go put ring for mami water hand o

Admiral49:
It is called church doctrine i.e pattern of the church, since you are a member and understand why they ask you to do it then please do what is good.....

And for those casting Deeper Life here...u know nothing, I am not their member but back then in UNIBEN, the Deeper life Campus fellowship always put up a program with the title " You Need a Spouse" for their Final year students.. this is to make them understand what it means to be in a relationship and marriage....so don't talk trash about them...abi u think say them no know say their members go dey date themselves? The program was to guide them on relationship and marriage

Jymsyno:
OP stop deceiving people here about Deeper Life mode of marriage. You are the one holding yourself not the church or the committee. I just attended a wedding of Deeper Life where the sister is about 22 year. I married in the church and I can boldly say that if you take a 100 samples of the marriages join in this country by churches it will be hard to get a higher sample of successful ones other than what we have in DCLM. The MC is to guide us as believers and not a stumbliy block like you are insinuating.
By God's grace and if not for the MC I would have married a disaster. I know this by hind sight.

sijibomi33:
Brought up by Deeperlifer, graduated as a biochemist, with the indoctrination of the church, waiting for the marriage committee to sanction a relationship even when am yet to speak to the lady in question understandably because I dont wanna go against church rules... my fear is, its unheard of!! No relationship at 35 and isn't this ABNORMAL

sijibomi33:
Brought up by Deeperlifer, graduated as a biochemist, with the indoctrination of the church, waiting for the marriage committee to sanction a relationship even when am yet to speak to the lady in question understandably because I dont wanna go against church rules... my fear is, its unheard of!! No relationship at 35 and isn't this ABNORMAL

sijibomi33:
Brought up by Deeperlifer, graduated as a biochemist, with the indoctrination of the church, waiting for the marriage committee to sanction a relationship even when am yet to speak to the lady in question understandably because I dont wanna go against church rules... my fear is, its unheard of!! No relationship at 35 and isn't this ABNORMAL

Kobojunkie:
I thought God is the one who decides that which is right and according to God - Genesis 2 vs 24 - everything about what this guy reveals of his life is wrong. So how did you manipulate this into a right and precious path without God's rightness? .

Tickles001:


That which he seeks is not worth that which he will have to give up. He's not missing anything by being in a relationship. Besides, he will soon enter that relationship that will now be labeled as marriage. Just in
about two years or less.
Having sex and confessing sweet nonsense to someone is not what I think someone should be missing.
He's on the right and precious path. He'd better not stray to align with worthless societal expectations.

Lordbinsmar:


But you wicked oo

See the kind of advice you dey give persin wey don reach 35years.

Make the guy wait till he becomes 50years old

sijibomi33:
Brought up by Deeperlifer, graduated as a biochemist, with the indoctrination of the church, waiting for the marriage committee to sanction a relationship even when am yet to speak to the lady in question understandably because I dont wanna go against church rules... my fear is, its unheard of!! No relationship at 35 and isn't this ABNORMAL

Kobojunkie:
Jesus Christ instead warned you against following the Doctrines and traditions of men . He informed you that they are nothing but lies, an abomination to God - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14