I have my car but my wife doesn't have yet and our routes are not the same so My wife's colleague used to pick her and drop her from work.
Sometime in January, my wife told me he asked her out but insulted him and stopped following him in his car. So this week she started following him again, her reason was the guy has stopped talking about it but I am not comfortable with it.
When i confronted her about it, she started ranting about how she has to take care of our 3 kids every morning and still come back to look after them when she gets home by 6pm. Saying what time does she have to rest after the house chores and work that she will now be following a man despite her busy schedule.

N:B she is not the only one the man takes to work

So where is the flirting part in the story?? Or you still dey try compose part 2

U get problem

In...
...out

No sense in your post

Whenever a woman gets defensive and gives answers unrelated to questions being asked, there's an underlying issue going on. The best thing to do is stop asking questions and start doing investigations.

Don't mind those commenters up there.

Your wife isn't doing the right thing. The fact that she's still following him after asking her out will tell the man that he can still try again later. Trust me, the man will still ask her out again thinking she's forming hard to get

If she cheat na u cause am, get her a car or u lose ur marriage. Because she wil do it one day, get a loan if u dnt have the money or u give her ur car, or u take it as ur responsibilty to drop her off everyday. Thanks

Cut her some slack, mate.[b][/b]

He's her colleague at the office and you don't expect her to shut him awt till God-knows-when.

Nonexisting1:
Whenever a woman gets defensive and gives answers unrelated to questions being asked, there's an underlying issue going on. The best thing to do is stop asking questions and start doing investigations.

the only sensible post here so far. Even the op doesn't know the meaning of flirting and he messed up asking her about it even if the lady have been following the man to work without telling him.

leksite120:
Don't mind those commenters up there.

Your wife isn't doing the right thing. The fact that she's still following him after asking her out will tell the man that he can still try again later. Trust me, the man will still ask her out again thinking she's forming hard to get

You're on point

What do men find interesting about peoples wife ? What if same is done to his wife ? With the plenty call girls around, olosho and hook up .. common men ! I am a guy but I think it's disgusting, assuming the lady ask for something I will consider it's 50/50 u can take up the chance even if we know it's bad but u asking a married lady out ...I totally condemn it .

IamKizzbrown10:
If she cheat na u cause am, get her a car or u lose ur marriage. Because she wil do it one day, get a loan if u dnt have the money or u give her ur car, or u take it as ur responsibilty to drop her off everyday. Thanks

No iota of sense in this comment.

Oluseunade98:
I have my car but my wife doesn't have yet and our routes are not the same so My wife's colleague used to pick her and drop her from work.
Sometime in January, my wife told me he asked her out but insulted him and stopped following him in his car. So this week she started following him again, her reason was the guy has stopped talking about it but I am not comfortable with it.
When i confronted her about it, she started ranting about how she has to take care of our 3 kids every morning and still come back to look after them when she gets home by 6pm. Saying what time does she have to rest after the house chores and work that she will now be following a man despite her busy schedule.

N:B she is not the only one the man takes to work

if your wife have been going to work since January without following him, let her continue going to work on her own, you need to sit your wife down and tell her that you're not ok with her following the man to work even if he's no longer asking her out. Your wife following him to work again without first telling you and her twisted answer only serves as red flags, she might be innocent in this case but she's not a straight forward person by character. I don't just understand why Nigerian women would always invite unnecessary problems to themselves over meaningless things like saving on transport fare.

As u no get sense u think say everybody be like u. Get out mak i pass abeg

IamKizzbrown10:
If she cheat na u cause am, get her a car or u lose ur marriage. Because she wil do it one day, get a loan if u dnt have the money or u give her ur car, or u take it as ur responsibilty to drop her off everyday. Thanks

So all men who doesn't have a car or can't buy one for their wives are responsible for their wives extra marital affairs? Your post lacks sense.

This post no make sense at all at all

She is not worthy in her decision, thus DNT start what you cant finish, btw I sense she is the bread winner as per contribution, if not sell your car and start a business venture together from small u grow..o save your marriage

abouzaid:
if your wife have been going to work since January without following him, let her continue going to work on her own, you need to sit your wife down and tell her that you're not ok with her following the man to work even if he's no longer asking her out. Your wife following him to work again without first telling you and her twisted answer only serves as red flags, she might be innocent in this case but she's not a straight forward person by character. I don't just understand why Nigerian women would always invite unnecessary problems to themselves over meaningless things like saving on transport fare.

You'll never see this happening anywhere. Where a wife will follow another man in his car.
A wife will have the mind to follow another man in his car.

The husband and wife have neighbours, friends staying around but the wife knows these things but decided to follow another man in his car to work everyday and back.

What fuckery is that.


That shit can only happen in the western part of Nigeria where they don't have respect for marriages. Only there I see married woman still having sex outside.

One woman showed me her husband then showed me her boyfriend in her phone.

I never had the mind to have sex with someone's wife but when you go there.

You don't see it as taboo anymore. You start getting curious thinking what does it feel like to have someone's wife in your bed.

Knowing that she's married and belongs to someone else but chooses to come spend the night with you.

You get to know what it's like to take someone's property without consequences AND THE HUSBAND KNOWS and doesn't care.

Op just give your wife your car and find your way to work. For your wife to stop following the colleague for a while, it means she hopped public transport to work. Do you think it is easy for a woman to hustle vehicle? She will take care of the kids in the morning and also in the evening while you do "The Boss". Give that woman your vehicle and find your way to work if you truely love her.

abouzaid:

So all men who doesn't have a car or can't buy one for their wives are responsible for their wives extra marital affairs? Your post lacks sense.

He is a fool bro

[quote author=Oluseunade98 post=105282284. I have my car but my wife doesn't have yet and our routes are not the same so My wife's colleagueused to pick her and drop her from work.
Sometime in January, my wife told me he asked her out but insulted him and stopped following him in his car. So this week she started following him again, her reason was the guy has stopped talking about it but I am not comfortable with it.
When i confronted her about it, she started ranting about how she has to take care of our 3 kids every morning and still come back to look after them when she gets home by 6pm. Saying what time does she have to rest after the house chores and work that she will now be following a man despite her busy schedule.

N:B she is not the only one the man takes to work[/quote]


Y not releasing ur car for ur wife and kids comfort?

The day man and woman who are married would start seeing their wives as their flesh, is the day marriage would start experience relatively peace .

malcom1X:


You'll never see this happening anywhere. Where a wife will follow another man in his car.
A wife will have the mind to follow another man in his car.

The husband and wife have neighbours, friends staying around but the wife knows these things but decided to follow another man in his car to work everyday and back.

What fuckery is that.


That shit can only happen in the western part of Nigeria where they don't have respect for marriages. Only there I see married woman still having sex outside.

One woman showed me her husband then showed me her boyfriend in her phone.

I never had the mind to have sex with someone's wife but when you go there.

You don't see it as taboo anymore. You start getting curious thinking what does it feel like to have someone's wife in your bed.

Knowing that she's married and belongs to someone else but chooses to come spend the night with you.

You get to know what it's like to take someone's property without consequences AND THE HUSBAND KNOWS and doesn't care.

You will surely have heart attack on Westerners issue.
Go to brothel and check number of tribe that dominate, ur tribe leads, go to hook up site and see how ur girls and ur women are being Bleep by anybody, I mean anybody, even goro people Bleep/rape ur wives the way they want

So where is the flirting element in the fable?? Or you still comin chance create element 2

Oluseunade98:
I have my car but my wife doesn't have yet and our routes are not the same so My wife's colleague used to pick her and drop her from work.
Sometime in January, my wife told me he asked her out but insulted him and stopped following him in his car. So this week she started following him again, her reason was the guy has stopped talking about it but I am not comfortable with it.
When i confronted her about it, she started ranting about how she has to take care of our 3 kids every morning and still come back to look after them when she gets home by 6pm. Saying what time does she have to rest after the house chores and work that she will now be following a man despite her busy schedule.

N:B she is not the only one the man takes to work

I don't think you have any need to suspect her

Treat a woman well at home

Help her in the house chores

Make love to her in a way that will humble her

Trust me, she will not give another man audience

She gonna get the dick! I promise you that.

The man will deploy new tactics to get through to her heart veey soon. He's gonna launch it soon.

You had better give her your car, get a new one for her or order Bolt/Taxify.

frozen70:


I don't think you have any need to suspect her

Treat a woman well at home

Help her in the house chores

Make love to her in a way that will humble her

Trust me, she will not give another man audience

All what you listed doesn't stop a woman from cheating. As long as the other man still have that car advantage she can still get laid. She's vulnerable!

golor:
What do men find interesting about peoples wife ? What if same is done to his wife ? With the plenty call girls around, olosho and hook up .. common men ! I am a guy but I think it's disgusting, assuming the lady ask for something I will consider it's 50/50 u can take up the chance even if we know it's bad but u asking a married lady out ...I totally condemn it .

LMAO

Bro, once the dick is doing the thinking, the brain will be hibernated.

Oluseunade98:
I have my car but my wife doesn't have yet and our routes are not the same so My wife's colleague used to pick her and drop her from work.
Sometime in January, my wife told me he asked her out but insulted him and stopped following him in his car. So this week she started following him again, her reason was the guy has stopped talking about it but I am not comfortable with it.
When i confronted her about it, she started ranting about how she has to take care of our 3 kids every morning and still come back to look after them when she gets home by 6pm. Saying what time does she have to rest after the house chores and work that she will now be following a man despite her busy schedule.

N:B she is not the only one the man takes to work

Oga why would you allow your wife enter another mans car in the first place... Nawa oo


You nor dey give her money for transport...

Your writeup tells the kind of husband you're careless one at that

Waiting for your premium tears...

leksite120:
Don't mind those commenters up there.

Your wife isn't doing the right thing. The fact that she's still following him after asking her out will tell the man that he can still try again later. Trust me, the man will still ask her out again thinking she's forming hard to get

Na mumu man d o.p be... You allow your wife for another man car... Why

Nonexisting1:
Whenever a woman gets defensive and gives answers unrelated to questions being asked, there's an underlying issue going on. The best thing to do is stop asking questions and start doing investigations.

You're the wisest man on this thread, with experience

The car is for both of you and not only yours, Mr. If you are so worried let her have the car so you can jump buses.

She's venting cos she feels unappreciated for the sacrifice she has to make as a wife, a career woman ,a mother and a homemaker.

Coming here to receive advice from unmarried and unhappily married folks will only affect the situation more.
Use your sense!