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Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by Pumpumking: 12:10am On Sep 01, 2021
blessingchinny:
Good day,

I was the one that posted about having issues with my guy as a result of a text I sent to him out of anger. The text was about a girl he normally comments on her picture with lots of words of endearment even telling her that he loves her. I have confronted him about that before he told me is nothing, but i wasn't convinced, so i sent him a text that it is obvious he is dating her, that he should continue with her, and he blocked me after all the attempt to reach out to him. After giving him a little space as he said, I later tried with another, this time not to plead but to ask him if he still wants to be with me, which he replied that he's done.

I am heartbroken now, someone should please guide me on the tips to move on.


anyways, so u accuse yor man for yanshin yor friend...correct? fine, this is wot all womens do becuz u clearly insecure.
anyways, wot u simply do is DONT CALL HIM ...all u simply do is avoid callin him for a month & i bet u he will call u within a week. Callin a guy simply mean u will bring more stress. hold yor sef & coz we are natural hunters.. and truss me, he will come baccck.!! (REAL TALK 100%) wink
Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by drmikeadams(m): 12:11am On Sep 01, 2021
blessingchinny:
Good day,

I was the one that posted about having issues with my guy as a result of a text I sent to him out of anger. The text was about a girl he normally comments on her picture with lots of words of endearment even telling her that he loves her. I have confronted him about that before he told me is nothing, but i wasn't convinced, so i sent him a text that it is obvious he is dating her, that he should continue with her, and he blocked me after all the attempt to reach out to him. After giving him a little space as he said, I later tried with another, this time not to plead but to ask him if he still wants to be with me, which he replied that he's done.

I am heartbroken now, someone should please guide me on the tips to move on.
..if ur free for a bottle of drink trust me u will forget him..in a jiffy
Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by BREYZ: 4:55am On Sep 01, 2021
blessingchinny:
Good day,

I was the one that posted about having issues with my guy as a result of a text I sent to him out of anger. The text was about a girl he normally comments on her picture with lots of words of endearment even telling her that he loves her. I have confronted him about that before he told me is nothing, but i wasn't convinced, so i sent him a text that it is obvious he is dating her, that he should continue with her, and he blocked me after all the attempt to reach out to him. After giving him a little space as he said, I later tried with another, this time not to plead but to ask him if he still wants to be with me, which he replied that he's done.

I am heartbroken now, someone should please guide me on the tips to move on.

No Kee yasef oooo. Forget about him and move on.
Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by Michelle55: 6:09am On Sep 01, 2021
macho44:


We, we dey experience HEARTBREAK every now and then, once every 2 weeks, especially on Monday morning.
Tell OP say ayam presently unattached, make she holla @ me, if she get money.
Lol, wetin consign money with op's present state of mind? cheesy I guess you are used to be heartbroken, that was my first and honestly speaking it wasn't funny but I'm glad it's all behind me.
Meanwhile, how much would be enough to capture ya heart, let me see if OP has that kind of money in her account grin
Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by macho44(m): 7:50am On Sep 01, 2021
Michelle55:

Lol, wetin consign money with op's present state of mind? cheesy I guess you are used to be heartbroken, that was my first and honestly speaking it wasn't funny but I'm glad it's all behind me.
Meanwhile, how much would be enough to capture ya heart, let me see if OP has that kind of money in her account grin

A Gentleman never gets HeartBroken, we look for BROKEN HEARTS, teach them to LOVE again and show them what TRUE LOVE means. OP no go fit afford my AFFECTION, Genevieve NNaji & Ini Edo are queuing for it grin grin grin
Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by Michelle55: 8:12am On Sep 01, 2021
macho44:


A Gentleman never gets HeartBroken, we look for BROKEN HEARTS, teach them to LOVE again and show them what TRUE LOVE means. OP no go fit afford my AFFECTION, Genevieve NNaji & Ini Edo are queuing for it grin grin grin
True love indeed undecided I no go through that path again biko, make everybody dey dia lane cheesy
Myself is enough for me BTW, what makes you think that Op can't afford your affection? A trial will convince you tongue

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Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by abimic(m): 9:02am On Sep 01, 2021
Ndukings92:
fact sir, u just said it all. The problem we normally have is that we already know the truth but when the truth is not favorable to our desire, we start forcing things even when we know that we are building a time bomb. A bomb we know will eventually burst one day, a broken relationship is far better than divorce. The world don't care who the architect of d divorce is, it's already a stain in ur records

Couldn't be said any better bro.

The girl deserves her happiness just as everyone else, so it's in her best interest she quit, because no matter what, she would always be disrespected by him as she has showed she needs the relationship more. Happy New Month.
Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by macho44(m): 9:39am On Sep 01, 2021
Michelle55:

True love indeed undecided I no go through that path again biko, make everybody dey dia lane cheesy
Myself is enough for me BTW, what makes you think that Op can't afford your affection? A trial will convince you tongue

Perfect Gentlemen are RARE & Hard To Find. Just last week, i won the inaugural GRAMMY award for the world's best GENTLEMAN, my affection no be here. E dey mend broken HEART grin grin grin
Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by Palazee(m): 10:01am On Sep 01, 2021
Tuale to the guy

Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by Davash222(m): 10:20am On Sep 01, 2021
Romanoff:
He has been cheating on you for a while now, you've been the only one in the relationship tey try, e just dey find excuse to end am and thank God, it has ended.

You should be thankful to God. On Sunday, carry igba ope and do Thanksgiving, the dude doesn't love or respect you.
And how did you get to know he has been cheating or he doesn't love her ?

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Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by Romanoff(f): 10:25am On Sep 01, 2021
Davash222:

And how did you get to know he has been cheating or he doesn't love her ?

He's been commenting on the pictures of a particular girl, using words of endearment and telling her he loves her.

Abi you no see that one?
Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by Ndukings92(m): 10:29am On Sep 01, 2021
abimic:


Couldn't be said any better bro.

The girl deserves her happiness just as everyone else, so it's in her best interest she quit, because no matter what, she would always be disrespected by him as she has showed she needs the relationship more. Happy New Month.
I wish u d best brother. The problem with her type is that any relationship she venture into with this pathetic state of her will be a disaster, the new guy will suffer because he will be at the receiving end. She will show d guy pepper and the relationship will not be enjoyable, either d guy keep enduring or he will leave for a better lady. Then this same girl will start writing again ALL MEN ARE THE SAME
Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by Davash222(m): 10:29am On Sep 01, 2021
Romanoff:


He's been commenting on the pictures of a particular girl, using words of endearment and telling her he loves her.

Abi you no see that one?
Some guys are naturally romantic with no affection attached.
Just because I'm dating a girl shouldn't stop me from commenting on photos of anyone I admire as long as there's no affection attached.

The girl is just naive and insecure. Let her work on her self esteem first before engaging on another relationship.

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Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by Romanoff(f): 10:35am On Sep 01, 2021
Davash222:

Some guys are naturally romantic with no affection attached.
Just because I'm dating a girl shouldn't stop me from commenting on photos of anyone I admire as long as there's no affection attached.

The girl is just naive and insecure. Let her work on her self esteem first before engaging on another relationship.

If I'm dating someone who is that way and I let him know I'm not comfortable with it and he treats me the way he treated her for communicating her feelings, I'd consider myself single and end that relationship.
Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by Davash222(m): 10:41am On Sep 01, 2021
Romanoff:


If I'm dating someone who is that way and I let him know I'm not comfortable with it and he treats me the way he treated her for communicating her feelings, I'd consider myself single and end that relationship.
Relationship is all about tolerance, understanding and maturity.

I once dated a social media freak, she's always online 24/7. I detest such, but, I didn't allow that to deter my feelings for her. I only devised means to curtail myself from her social activities.


Unfortunately, she's the only girl I've ever loved.

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Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by Romanoff(f): 10:44am On Sep 01, 2021
Davash222:

Relationship is all about tolerance, understanding and maturity.

I once dated a social media freak, she's always online 24/7. I detest such, but, I didn't allow that to deter my feelings for her. I only devised means to curtail myself from her social activities.


Unfortunately, she's the only girl I've ever loved.

We should be able to accommodate each other.

To me o, a guy who comments on a particular girl's picture with words of endearment and even "I love you" is a strong red flag. No be until you see their wedding pictures you go get sense.
Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by Davash222(m): 10:56am On Sep 01, 2021
Romanoff:


We should be able to accommodate each other.

To me o, a guy who comments on a particular girl's picture with words of endearment and even "I love you" is a strong red flag. No be until you see their wedding pictures you go get sense.
I love how you specify that "To me o". cheesy

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Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by Mrlouis: 11:10am On Sep 01, 2021
THE LOVE PIT...WE LOVE WHO WE CANT GET, AND THE ONE WHO LOVES US, WE DISDAIN.
THAT NIGGA FORMING RED PILL FOR HER IS SIMPING FOR THAT OTHER GYAL WHILE THE GYAL LOOKS OUT EVEN FOR A MUCH BETTER, HIGH VALUE GUY.

SUCH A VICIOUS CIRCLE
Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by Mrlouis: 11:14am On Sep 01, 2021
Ndukings92:
I wish u d best brother. The problem with her type is that any relationship she venture into with this pathetic state of her will be a disaster, the new guy will suffer because he will be at the receiving end. She will show d guy pepper and the relationship will not be enjoyable, either d guy keep enduring or he will leave for a better lady. Then this same girl will start writing again ALL MEN ARE THE SAME

WHERE DID YOU GET THIS FROM? THAT NURSE YOU CLAIM YOU ARE ABOUT TO WED, DO YOU TREAT HER BAD BECAUSE SOME OTHER GIRL IN YOUR PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP CAUSED YOU PAINS?
Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by abimic(m): 1:56pm On Sep 01, 2021
Ndukings92:
I wish u d best brother. The problem with her type is that any relationship she venture into with this pathetic state of her will be a disaster, the new guy will suffer because he will be at the receiving end. She will show d guy pepper and the relationship will not be enjoyable, either d guy keep enduring or he will leave for a better lady. Then this same girl will start writing again ALL MEN ARE THE SAME
But for one, why would the guy keep doing what his girlfriend doesn't like?
Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by bepositive11: 3:56pm On Sep 01, 2021
blessingchinny:
Good day,

I was the one that posted about having issues with my guy as a result of a text I sent to him out of anger. The text was about a girl he normally comments on her picture with lots of words of endearment even telling her that he loves her. I have confronted him about that before he told me is nothing, but i wasn't convinced, so i sent him a text that it is obvious he is dating her, that he should continue with her, and he blocked me after all the attempt to reach out to him. After giving him a little space as he said, I later tried with another, this time not to plead but to ask him if he still wants to be with me, which he replied that he's done.

I am heartbroken now, someone should please guide me on the tips to move on.

The love you want to give to him, give it to yourself instead

The fact that told another girl that he loves her in your presence is plain disrespect to you. And the fact that you tolerated it shows that you have low self esteem. The fact that you went after him after you confronted him and he blocked you shows that you don't even respect yourself

What you really need to do is take a look at yourself and see how you contributed to all this. Then work on yourself and become a better person so that you can attract a better partner

That guy was toxic. You should be happy that it ended
Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by younglleo: 4:48pm On Sep 01, 2021
come make we nack, life is too short to worry bout things of the heart
Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by Ndukings92(m): 9:49pm On Sep 01, 2021
Mrlouis:


WHERE DID YOU GET THIS FROM? THAT NURSE YOU CLAIM YOU ARE ABOUT TO WED, DO YOU TREAT HER BAD BECAUSE SOME OTHER GIRL IN YOUR PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP CAUSED YOU PAINS?
no I did not, I took my time to get myself and work on myself 1st.i wasn't expecting to enter into any relationship when I met her, I stayed years without any defined relationship until I met her. Still It was not my intention to enter into a relationship with her until she started getting me interested, so I gave love a chance. Is she ready for such? Am not concluding on her behalf sir, am just asking
Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by Ndukings92(m): 10:01pm On Sep 01, 2021
abimic:

But for one, why would the guy keep doing what his girlfriend doesn't like?
such is life bro, we human are unpredictable u know?(rhetorical question thou) but we have to be prayerful and keep working to improve our selves and not to impress others. What am saying is this sir, if she rush into a new relationship with the impression that the new guy is buoyant pass her ex then it may backfire. If she rush into a new relationship just for empathy (closing vacuum) it may also backfire. She need time, peace of mind, prayers and counsel to put her life back in track then she hope and pray for God's intervention bro

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Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by Nonexisting1: 10:05pm On Sep 01, 2021
You accused a man wrongly and dumped him. Later you resurfaced, not to apologize for your foolishness but to ask him a stupid question like if he wants to continue with you. What answer did you expect if not go fucck yourself.
Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by linearity: 10:11pm On Sep 01, 2021
You didn’t overreact!

You were the only one in the relationship before for a long time, and you are the still the only one in it now…The difference is, you are just realizing it now.
Re: Did I Overreact By Sending Him The Text? by abimic(m): 10:25pm On Sep 01, 2021
Ndukings92:
such is life bro, we human are unpredictable u know?(rhetorical question thou) but we have to be prayerful and keep working to improve our selves and not to impress others. What am saying is this sir, if she rush into a new relationship with the impression that the new guy is buoyant pass her ex then it may backfire. If she rush into a new relationship just for empathy (closing vacuum) it may also backfire. She need time, peace of mind, prayers and counsel to put her life back in track then she hope and pray for God's intervention bro
I agree in totality

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