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Romanoff:
Them plenty like that. Once one sibling is successful, the rest will become a leech to the successful person.

In most cases, the successful person will try to establish his siblings, to no avail.

They just want to keep taking and taking and once the person no get again or e die, they will abandoned him and his family.

See, I done see things for this life.

As for the brother that denied his sister, check well, he is probably also a leech

If they bcom leech is it the right of wife to start fighting everybody, even to the extent of other children his husband has with other women?

Go and read about Tuface and his wife, comment on that and not on experience that happens to u.

Better to comment on post rather than bringing ur ugly experience to the post.

Meanwhile, wen God raise ur hands, its ur duty to help others.

FashionCookie:
Akwa Ibom.

hmmm..i smell lies

Please, could someone tell Annies to keep shut. Those telling her , “go girl go girl “ are either unmarried or have broken homes already. Meanwhile, has anyone heard Tuface since the issue started? Sucking a full adult dry in what sense? Is Tuface incapacitated and cannot reason on his own? Annie, be careful

Fiscus105:
If they bcom leech is it right of wife to start fight every body even to the extent of other children his husband has with other women?

Go and read about tuface and his wife and comment on that and not on experience that happens to u

Better to comment on post rather than bringing ur ugly experience to post.

Meanwhile, wen God raise ur hands, its ur duty to help others.

I didn't see anywhere in her rant that she's fighting his other children. The way I understood her rant, she is defending the children. She only seemed to be against her husband sharing a roof with the woman he has kids with, and I believe she's within her right to be against it.

I am commenting based on the post and relating it with my experiences.

How is that wrong?

Liposure:
hmmm..i smell lies

Lol...I knew you were going to say that. Born and brought up partly in the west.
B4 My family later moved to Delta State.
Thought you're from Edo.

Iyaebe:
How come you all don't see anything wrong in tuface still sleeping with his baby mama? for Annie to come out it shows she can't take it anymore, tuface should have remain single since he knows he won't be able to keep and stay true to marital vows

Can you be sure that he ever or truly separated from his baby mama(mamas)?

Once you are married, you are expected to keep to your spouse only. Some men choose to go around with other women believing that it is the right thing.

The question we must ask his wife is what she saw in the man in the first place, seeing the he had children from multiple women. She sounds like a one man woman. In that case she should have sought someone of her preference and enjoy her peace of mind. Choosing to date and eventually marry the man was a very great risk she took. Secondly as long as she is married to the man she will always have the fear of losing him to any of the other women.

oldtruth:
Very daft reasoning. Annie herself is a mother. How will she feels when her son gets married and his wife don't want to see his siblings? The children she both cater and loved unconditionally?

Only daft and unreasonable human will try to separate siblings. Get that to your porous skull.

Thank you

if you weren't daft you will know that once you are married you are already separated from from your siblings. Even the bible supports it, whatever he owes you is morally conscionable. If that is brother or you are not lazy ,you would build your own home where others will come to eat

lonecatt:
Some brothers Sha with their overbearing entitlement mentality.you are angry that you cannot spend two hours in your brother's house,for what exactly?
If your brother want you in his home you will know ,stop bringing issue of his wife holding him down with juju.how about you going to build your own home so that your brother can come to spend 2hours there.

Don't want to take sides but Annie seems to be a patient somebody and that alone will buy people to her side.

But it is okay for Annie Mother to stay 24/7 in the house but entitlement for a brother to stay 2hours in his brothers house...
nor be today e start, make una continue the simping

A man can cater for his wife and her household for years no problem with that, but the day his relatives visit, they are trying to scatter his marriage...
Na overbearing Mentality Sha

HellAnus:
U mean a fool like ur mother?

No I meant you are a Big FOOL

Romanoff:
I didn't see anywhere in her rant that she's fighting his other children. The way I understood her rant, she is defending the children. She only seemed to be against her husband sharing a roof with the woman he has kids with, and I believe she's within her right to be against it.

I am commenting based on the post and relating it with my experiences.

How is that wrong?

Several of her post on her Instagram handle. Update urself on it, you will under the type of wife she is

I hardly support man wenever issue of marriage problem crop up and still not supporting tuface on this too, but this woman with kind of posts since the issue came out show, she is type of me and my husband.

RiyadhGoddess:
It is shocking to see Annie call out her husband publicly over his constant visit to his baby mama (Pero) & his 3 kids.
Who ever deceived Annie that Tubaba will stick to her only will never see Heaven's gate!
Pero is Tubaba's first Baby Mama (not girlfriend) and their relationship produced odindin omo meta. In Yoruba land, a woman who has a child for a man is no longer regarded or referred to as Ale - Concubine, She is now a wife. Forget religion and western culture now. She will be referred to as wife once she have a child for the man whether they are married or not. Also such woman is entitled to everything the man owns, she is entitled to attend family meetings and events etc let alone a woman who had a whole 3 children for a man!

Now Tubaba left Pero, went ahead to knack what is the name of this mummy GO again?
Their relationship produced 2 cute boys.
The only reason Annie isn't fighting this babe is because the babe decided to move on by getting married. If she hadn't gotten married, today, Annie would have had to contend with two ladies for life Because there's no way you would stop a man from visiting his children and of course, during visits, they must knack!

Children has a way of bringing parents together whether you like it or not. Pero's express way still belongs to Tubaba as long as another man hasn't started plying that route, she's still haven't gotten over him and the 3 kids will one way or the other bring their parents together and even instigate a fresh relationship.

Annie saw all these red flags but choose to play "I WON HIS HEART", " I WON" to pepper the rest. I be babe and we sabi as he dey go - manipulating tricks.

His children, baby mamas will forever be in his life whether Annie likes it or not. Pero son is the first son whether Annie likes or not.
Though she is his first babe but iyen o matter because na who first born be the koko.

She accepted to be his wife despite all that is on ground which means she choose to swallow whatever comes out of it whether it is sweet or bitter. She choose to bear the burns the moment she choose to say Yes I Do to a polygamous man. She should carry her cross for life. She should just chill! That cry that she should have cried when she had just a baby and then move on But refused to move on but rather decided to accept his ring, that cry isn't necessary now.

As for the in-laws, there's is no way they can be shut out of the children's (their nieces, nephews, grand children) Hausa man go say INA! They will not only love the children but their mothers whether Annie likes it or not.

And when Tubaba dies, Na all the women go wear Anko (the same attire) stand together along with their children to honor their Father.
Also first son will be given the privilege to take some decision during family meetings & events too.
Will nko, na everyone go inherit father's property.

Make Annie go take chill pill jor. What she should be concerned about is the welfare of her kids and her which Tubaba is really trying.

As for you ladies wey go see man wey don born scatter full ground still shook head enter in the name of assurance and love this will be your fate! Be ready to become watch lady, monitoring spirit and you will have to be on BP & anti-envy pills for life.

No amount of Jaruma's kayanmatta will save you.

I come in Peace!

where do you preferred to receive your award, best Nairaland Analyst



you've said it all. it is what it is

Fiscus105:
Several of her post on her Instagram handle. Update urself on it, you will under the type of wife she is

I hardly support man wenever issue of marriage problem crop up and still not supporting tuface on this too, but this woman with kind of posts since the issue came out show, she is type of me and my husband.

There's nothing wrong with being a "me and my husband woman". The marriage is between two people, not a community.

However, wisdom is needed to deal with family so they don't intrude or exert themselves on your union.

Romanoff:
There's nothing wrong with being a "me and my husband woman". The marriage is between two people, not a community.

However, wisdom is needed to deal with family so they don't intrude or exert themselves on your union.

Nothing wrong for u abi, but it wrong for tuface.

Why can she leaves tuface house nah

What stop her to make her own money and stingy with it?

Konection:
No I meant you are a Big FOOL

Okay, like that ur mother.. No wonder U dont have sense. U took after her

Tubaba is a legend that everyone respects globally ,why watching your dirty linen on social media,if you have any internal issues why can't you people use your senses to resolve it amicably and stop dragging 2face Integrity on the floor, @ Annie u know that your husby get baby mamas therefore comot your eyes and live in peace .Once debe ,is continuity to debe forever cos there is bond which is the child. Eji ki orin yin kope oooo

Its actually 2baba's roof though.

Iyaebe:
Annie is too soft for my liking, someone under your roof has the guts to come insult you and your mom on social media, heyyyyy! its like I should just borrow this matter tufia imagine the rubbish Annie is facing because she chose to reason with a wandering penis.This thing dy pain meeeeee!!!

Fiscus105:
Nothing wrong for u abi, but it wrong for tuface.

Why can she leaves tuface house nah

What stop her to make her own money and stingy with it?

She is not a liability. She started out as am actress and I'm sure she has businesses that she's doing.

Now, of the marriage can't be salvaged, it's a good reason to leave.

Marriage should be between a man and his wife, anyone who can't take this housing marry abeg. Stay married to your family and have multiple children out of wedlock.

shegz24:
Its actually 2baba's roof though.

Then let him marry his brother

RiyadhGoddess:
It is shocking to see Annie call out her husband publicly over his constant visit to his baby mama (Pero) & his 3 kids.
Who ever deceived Annie that Tubaba will stick to her only will never see Heaven's gate!
Pero is Tubaba's first Baby Mama (not girlfriend) and their relationship produced odindin omo meta. In Yoruba land, a woman who has a child for a man is no longer regarded or referred to as Ale - Concubine, She is now a wife. Forget religion and western culture now. She will be referred to as wife once she have a child for the man whether they are married or not. Also such woman is entitled to everything the man owns, she is entitled to attend family meetings and events etc let alone a woman who had a whole 3 children for a man!

Now Tubaba left Pero, went ahead to knack what is the name of this mummy GO again?
Their relationship produced 2 cute boys.
The only reason Annie isn't fighting this babe is because the babe decided to move on by getting married. If she hadn't gotten married, today, Annie would have had to contend with two ladies for life Because there's no way you would stop a man from visiting his children and of course, during visits, they must knack!

Children has a way of bringing parents together whether you like it or not. Pero's express way still belongs to Tubaba as long as another man hasn't started plying that route, she's still haven't gotten over him and the 3 kids will one way or the other bring their parents together and even instigate a fresh relationship.

Annie saw all these red flags but choose to play "I WON HIS HEART", " I WON" to pepper the rest. I be babe and we sabi as he dey go - manipulating tricks.

His children, baby mamas will forever be in his life whether Annie likes it or not. Pero son is the first son whether Annie likes or not.
Though she is his first babe but iyen o matter because na who first born be the koko.

She accepted to be his wife despite all that is on ground which means she choose to swallow whatever comes out of it whether it is sweet or bitter. She choose to bear the burns the moment she choose to say Yes I Do to a polygamous man. She should carry her cross for life. She should just chill! That cry that she should have cried when she had just a baby and then move on But refused to move on but rather decided to accept his ring, that cry isn't necessary now.

As for the in-laws, there's is no way they can be shut out of the children's (their nieces, nephews, grand children) Hausa man go say INA! They will not only love the children but their mothers whether Annie likes it or not.

And when Tubaba dies, Na all the women go wear Anko (the same attire) stand together along with their children to honor their Father.
Also first son will be given the privilege to take some decision during family meetings & events too.
Will nko, na everyone go inherit father's property.

Make Annie go take chill pill jor. What she should be concerned about is the welfare of her kids and her which Tubaba is really trying.

As for you ladies wey go see man wey don born scatter full ground still shook head enter in the name of assurance and love this will be your fate! Be ready to become watch lady, monitoring spirit and you will have to be on BP & anti-envy pills for life.

No amount of Jaruma's kayanmatta will save you.

I come in Peace!

You have said it all.
In conclusion, its the attraction of fame,status and money that makes some women follow and marry such men.

Do you know that Pero's father claims she n 2baba got married before she gave birth to the three children?
So technically Annie is even the second wife.

The way she is going about it, they may likely seperate and that is like giving Pero and those other women what they want.

I just feel for the children.

FashionCookie:
Lol...I knew you were going to say that. Born and brought up partly in the west.
B4 My family later moved to Delta State.
Thought you're from Edo.

Thought you re from Delta State. We have several tribes. Which of the tribes in Akwa Ibom

If anyone mention Igbo
Name
Ogun kill am because we're different from each other I'm who I'm
Nothing can't change it

Any small news we go dey mention tribal say dem wicked


Hmmmmm some of people don't know (World) is different from (Word)
Oro_ word
But white people put L to confused us
In short make anybod, No dey mention tribal for here

You dont want his brother to come visit him for more than 2hours yet your mother literally lives with you guys, does that make sense to you?

Every Nigerian knows about 2baba's polygamous nature yet she chose to marry him; now she is complaining to us that he took his children n babymama to a hotel and slept overnight there.

Iyaebe:
Then let him marry his brother

Liposure:
Thought you re from Delta State. We have several tribes. Which of the tribes in Akwa Ibom

No I'm not.
Ibibio...

Onelove508:
One interesting thing I have learnt from this their family drama is that they all can't write with correct English.

I can't wait to hear from 2baba, na hm own go bad pass.

��� lol.. you are wicked

Iyaebe:
You don't even know their story,Annie was there long before his fame and money it was these other yeye baby mamas that came after his fame and money and Pero has refused to let go even when tuface dumped her.

The irony here is that Pero was actually 2baba's first love and gave birth to his first 3 children.

Her father even claims they got married.

shegz24:
You dont want his brother to come visit him for more than 2hours yet your mother literally lives with you guys, does that make sense to you?

Every Nigerian knows about 2baba's polygamous nature yet she chose to marry him; now she is complaining to us that he took his children n babymama to a hotel and slept overnight there.

Since he's polygamous (reason that doesn't hold waters) he should have stayed clear of the institution call Marriage, it is not fair to deceive her into marriage and continue living his philanderous lifestyle and still expect her to be at her best loving and caring for him.Men are insensitive to the pain they cause their wife when they cheat,very bad.

shegz24:
The irony here is that Pero was actually 2baba's first love and gave birth to his first 3 children.

Her father even claims they got married.

You know nothing, Pero came into the picture after he made fame and money,it was in a hospital they met when tuface had an accident, it started initially like an obsessed fan but later resulted into pregnancy, Annie was young then(in her teenage years) and tuface succeeded in deceiving her into forgiveness. He never at any point got married to Pero its all lies.Annie may have not been the best daughter in-law but I won't blame because tuface actions always brings her disrespect and ridicule while his family expect her to take all the bullshit because she married Almighty tuface.

I say nobi small thing oh

iamtardey:
We out here like : no be small thing o

Like I and my siblings will labour under rain, endure hunger and suffer humiliation and later I become successful..no woman can cajole me to hate them

That is what her father said though, not me.

Also its not just one child , she had three for him that are all older than Annie's kids.
That is obviously more than just a fling.

The truth is that Annie no really trust 2baba because her only evidence is that he slept overnight in the same hotel as his babymama n kids.
In conclusion, if he actual bleeped Pero, she saw the signs before marrying him.
In fact its more than signs with 2baba; man is an Abraham.

Iyaebe:
You know nothing, Pero came into the picture after he made fame and money,it was in a hospital they met when tuface had an accident, it started initially like an obsessed fan but later resulted into pregnancy, Annie was young then(in her teenage years) and tuface succeeded in deceiving her into forgiveness. He never at any point got married to Pero its all lies.Annie may have not been the best daughter in-law but I won't blame because tuface actions always brings her disrespect and ridicule while his family expect her to take all the bullshit because she married Almighty tuface.

Its not really about the man but about the family you are married to.

2baba's family especially his parents will be more of the traditional type.

FashionCookie:
That's how twisted an African man's mentality(Nigerians) especially can be.

[quote author=shegz24 post=105453561]Its not really about the man but about the family you are married to.

2baba's family especially his parents will be more of the traditional type.

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Yes...abeg marriage get as e be.
God help us all.