Very selfish gender, his family are sucking him dry but your mother that is living with u and ur husband plus ur siblings are not sucking him dry, no be juju be that?���

Konection:


You are a FOOL

U mean a fool like ur mother?

Romanoff:


Is it not spos to be " me and my husband" when you're married?

What you do for family or friends should be discussed no matter whose purse it is coming from.

That's how a strong marriage is built. The man has 7 children, if the woman sees his spending is depleting his funds and reminding him that he has 7 kids, is she wrong?

Money is depleting? And remind him for cos of his brother and even not to spend for his own kids from another mother, but she refuses to remind him from his money that is going from him to her own family members.

Romanoff:


She has a paper that says she has more right over him.

Marriage paper don't mean much in Africa.

gnykelly:


Marriage paper don't mean much in Africa.

Rotfl.

Go Marriage registry go talk this thing.

KillMNKnow:
Hmm Igbos

U b bastard. How igbos use enter dis one

There not more important stuff get on in the country, abeg.

Romanoff:


Is it not spos to be " me and my husband" when you're married?

What you do for family or friends should be discussed no matter whose purse it is coming from.

That's how a strong marriage is built. The man has 7 children, if the woman sees his spending is depleting his funds and reminding him that he has 7 kids, is she wrong?

I guess u also read that idibia brother has also disown her. That tells you the type of wife she is

I repeat ,she is "me and my husband type".

Fiscus105:



Money is depleting? And remind him for cos of his brother and even not to spend for his own kids from another mother, but she refuses to remind him from his money that is going from him to her own family members.

Can't his brothers stand on their own?
Abi na him born them?

How long will he need to keep supporting able bodied men?

Let me tell you something, I cut my sisters off financially cause after finishing school, they became relaxed. They refused to learn a skill to find something to do cause at the end of the month, money go enter their account.

I knew long term, I couldn't sustain that nonsense so I read them the riot act.

RiyadhGoddess:
It is shocking to see Annie call out her husband publicly over his constant visit to his baby mama (Pero) & his 3 kids.
Who ever deceived Annie that Tubaba will stick to her only will never see Heaven's gate!
Pero is Tubaba's first Baby Mama (not girlfriend) and their relationship produced odindin omo meta. In Yoruba land, a woman who has a child for a man is no longer regarded or referred to as Ale - Concubine, She is now a wife. Forget religion and western culture now. She will be referred to as wife once she have a child for the man whether they are married or not. Also such woman is entitled to everything the man owns, she is entitled to attend family meetings and events etc let alone a woman who had a whole 3 children for a man!

Now Tubaba left Pero, went ahead to knack what is the name of this mummy GO again?
Their relationship produced 2 cute boys.
The only reason Annie isn't fighting this babe is because the babe decided to move on by getting married. If she hadn't gotten married, today, Annie would have had to contend with two ladies for life Because there's no way you would stop a man from visiting his children and of course, during visits, they must knack!

Children has a way of bringing parents together whether you like it or not. Pero's express way still belongs to Tubaba as long as another man hasn't started plying that route, she's still haven't gotten over him and the 3 kids will one way or the other bring their parents together and even instigate a fresh relationship.

Annie saw all these red flags but choose to play "I WON HIS HEART", " I WON" to pepper the rest. I be babe and we sabi as he dey go - manipulating tricks.

His children, baby mamas will forever be in his life whether Annie likes it or not. Pero son is the first son whether Annie likes or not.
Though she is his first babe but iyen o matter because na who first born be the koko.

She accepted to be his wife despite all that is on ground which means she choose to swallow whatever comes out of it whether it is sweet or bitter. She choose to bear the burns the moment she choose to say Yes I Do to a polygamous man. She should carry her cross for life. She should just chill! That cry that she should have cried when she had just a baby and then move on But refused to move on but rather decided to accept his ring, that cry isn't necessary now.

As for the in-laws, there's is no way they can be shut out of the children's (their nieces, nephews, grand children) Hausa man go say INA! They will not only love the children but their mothers whether Annie likes it or not.

And when Tubaba dies, Na all the women go wear Anko (the same attire) stand together along with their children to honor their Father.
Also first son will be given the privilege to take some decision during family meetings & events too.
Will nko, na everyone go inherit father's property.

Make Annie go take chill pill jor. What she should be concerned about is the welfare of her kids and her which Tubaba is really trying.

As for you ladies wey go see man wey don born scatter full ground still shook head enter in the name of assurance and love this will be your fate! Be ready to become watch lady, monitoring spirit and you will have to be on BP & anti-envy pills for life.

No amount of Jaruma's kayanmatta will save you.

I come in Peace!

Gush...this is what they call pragmatic wisdom.
You get sense no be small. Real life is different from fantasy. Tuface na House of Assembly. Na community property and does not belong to one person.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9PgiNyXttJI

BRATISLAVA:


Complications of baby papa and premarital sex. Nobody wins.

It's complicated because they later married. Why have plenty baby mamas when you still want to marry. If he didn't marry Annie. There wouldn't be problems or complications like where of whose child he was with at any time.

Fiscus105:



I guess u also read that idibia brother has also disown her. That tells you the type of wife she is

I repeat ,she is "me and my husband type".

There is nothing wrong with being "me and my husband type" to a family who doesn't like you.
How long will you keep forcing relationship with people wey no like you?

Romanoff:


Can't his brothers stand on their own?
Abi na him born them?

How long will he need to keep supporting able bodied men?

Let me tell you something, I cut my sisters off financially cause after finishing school, they became relaxed. They refused to learn a skill to find something to do cause at the end of the month, money go enter their account.

I knew long term, I couldn't sustain that nonsense so I read them the riot act.

If God design husband to be unbrella for his people and a self wife wants stop him.

Meanwhile, who told you brother is not standing on his own

HellAnus:
Na so Akwaibom and calabar people dey do. Their ladies are very useless when it comes to marriage. They are only good for fvcking and cooking

You have taken overdose today..

pele.

Romanoff:


There is nothing wrong with being "me and my husband type" to a family who doesn't like you.
How long will you keep forcing relationship with people wey no like you?

So u leave the husband and back to ur father house

Reap where you never sow

Fiscus105:



If God design husband to be unbrella for his people and a self wife wants stop him.

Umbrella for the rest of his life?

My dad set up his two brothers on several occasions.

He brought one to Abuja, rented a shop for him for two years in UTC, Abuja, also rented an apartment for him for two years so he could stand on his own.

This uncle of mine would sit in the house and wouldn't do anything till the rents expired. My dad's still gave him money for another shop, he squandered it.

When my dad died, as he was crying this man was saying "his life was over, how will he survive"?

There's a limit to what you can do for who no wan useful to himself.

Fiscus105:



So u leave the husband and back to ur father house

Reap where you never sow

Don't worry, experience go teach you say marriage no be like that.

JUST REASON THE MATTER

Iyaebe:
Annie is too soft for my liking, someone under your roof has the guts to come insult you and your mom on social media, heyyyyy! its like I should just borrow this matter tufia imagine the rubbish Annie is facing because she chose to reason with a wandering penis.This thing dy pain meeeeee!!!

Lol. Did the mother supposed to live with them? That man 2face is not happy man. A man can not be happy living with mother inlaw

MossLuv:



Lol. Did the mother supposed to live with them? That man 2face is not happy man. A man can not be happy living with mother inlaw

Don't you think his promiscuous lifestyle could be responsible for his unhappiness? or is he expecting his wife to still be loving and caring while he sleeps around with everything in skirt?

Iyaebe:
What is one sided here,please don't provoke me more

Where is the provocation coming from please? You can in least discuss the issue maturely and we can look at it appropriately. That’s what it should be.

[quote author=Iyaebe post=105444300]The idiot will be leaving my house that minute and not even his brother tuface can stop me else I'll take a very nasty step.Why insult her mother,has Annie not loved and tolerate tuface enough?why are people blaming her? [/quo

My dear, pero has three kids for Tufac so Anni, can't stop the continuous relationship between Pero and her husband. She should see Pero as her mate and stop fighting because she no-go win. Talking of kicking a grown man out of his brother's house, do you think if Anni has such powers, she wouldn't have done it? Am married and I know my limits in my husband's house. Now See the public disgrace, trauma and embarrassment, so much that her elder brother has even come out to disown her. So battles are better left unfought.

Cantonese:


Where is the provocation coming from please? You can in least discuss the issue maturely and we can look at it appropriately. That’s what it should be.

How come you all don't see anything wrong in tuface still sleeping with his baby mama? for Annie to come out it shows she can't take it anymore, tuface should have remain single since he knows he won't be able to keep and stay true to marital vows

RiyadhGoddess:
It is shocking to see Annie call out her husband publicly over his constant visit to his baby mama (Pero) & his 3 kids.
Who ever deceived Annie that Tubaba will stick to her only will never see Heaven's gate!
Pero is Tubaba's first Baby Mama (not girlfriend) and their relationship produced odindin omo meta. In Yoruba land, a woman who has a child for a man is no longer regarded or referred to as Ale - Concubine, She is now a wife. Forget religion and western culture now. She will be referred to as wife once she have a child for the man whether they are married or not. Also such woman is entitled to everything the man owns, she is entitled to attend family meetings and events etc let alone a woman who had a whole 3 children for a man!

Now Tubaba left Pero, went ahead to knack what is the name of this mummy GO again?
Their relationship produced 2 cute boys.
The only reason Annie isn't fighting this babe is because the babe decided to move on by getting married. If she hadn't gotten married, today, Annie would have had to contend with two ladies for life Because there's no way you would stop a man from visiting his children and of course, during visits, they must knack!

Children has a way of bringing parents together whether you like it or not. Pero's express way still belongs to Tubaba as long as another man hasn't started plying that route, she's still haven't gotten over him and the 3 kids will one way or the other bring their parents together and even instigate a fresh relationship.

Annie saw all these red flags but choose to play "I WON HIS HEART", " I WON" to pepper the rest. I be babe and we sabi as he dey go - manipulating tricks.

His children, baby mamas will forever be in his life whether Annie likes it or not. Pero son is the first son whether Annie likes or not.
Though she is his first babe but iyen o matter because na who first born be the koko.

She accepted to be his wife despite all that is on ground which means she choose to swallow whatever comes out of it whether it is sweet or bitter. She choose to bear the burns the moment she choose to say Yes I Do to a polygamous man. She should carry her cross for life. She should just chill! That cry that she should have cried when she had just a baby and then move on But refused to move on but rather decided to accept his ring, that cry isn't necessary now.

As for the in-laws, there's is no way they can be shut out of the children's (their nieces, nephews, grand children) Hausa man go say INA! They will not only love the children but their mothers whether Annie likes it or not.

And when Tubaba dies, Na all the women go wear Anko (the same attire) stand together along with their children to honor their Father.
Also first son will be given the privilege to take some decision during family meetings & events too.
Will nko, na everyone go inherit father's property.

Make Annie go take chill pill jor. What she should be concerned about is the welfare of her kids and her which Tubaba is really trying.

As for you ladies wey go see man wey don born scatter full ground still shook head enter in the name of assurance and love this will be your fate! Be ready to become watch lady, monitoring spirit and you will have to be on BP & anti-envy pills for life.

No amount of Jaruma's kayanmatta will save you.

I come in Peace!

When dem tell una make una dey travel una no go gree
Yoruba culture is yoruba culture
Other cultures are different

JovialJune:
Annie doesn't need all this seriously, all these shalaye ko necessary, when a woman realises her happiness doesn't depend on any man but herself, that's an A-game self awareness, she should take a que from Anita, she silently filed for divorce and damned the consequences, that's a woman who knows her worth.

I like this...

Liposure:
thats where i like them

Haaaa...yeeee

When I keep hearing, men are ‘polygamous in nature’, I just laugh. That’s a big lie! There’s a difference between being polygamous or promiscuous. A polygamous man, marries a lot of women and pays their dowry but a promiscuous man is one who jumps from one woman to another. The truth is there are men who have had relationships with women that resulted in a child out of wedlock. But they regret their actions and have nothing to do with the mothers but are still responsible for the child. These are men who learn from their mistakes. But when a man decides to put a lady in the family way (with no intention of settling down with her), not once but thrice, that man is promiscuous in nature. Take it or leave it Don Jazzy, D banj are the few men I respect in the music industry.

[quote author=loliapoopy2013 post=105446702][/quote]Pero and her husband? or it was a typographical error. Since you are married maintain this energy when such thing comes knocking on your door. It shows Annie is a good woman for living with the so-called brotherinlaw this long,its out of her kindness and simplicity that the yeye brotherinlaw got the guts to come insult her mom on social media. I repeat if I'm Annie he won't spend one more night on the same roof with me.

You try! Love is just a feeling that means it's dynamic.

RiyadhGoddess:
It is shocking to see Annie call out her husband publicly over his constant visit to his baby mama (Pero) & his 3 kids.
Who ever deceived Annie that Tubaba will stick to her only will never see Heaven's gate!
Pero is Tubaba's first Baby Mama (not girlfriend) and their relationship produced odindin omo meta. In Yoruba land, a woman who has a child for a man is no longer regarded or referred to as Ale - Concubine, She is now a wife. Forget religion and western culture now. She will be referred to as wife once she have a child for the man whether they are married or not. Also such woman is entitled to everything the man owns, she is entitled to attend family meetings and events etc let alone a woman who had a whole 3 children for a man!

Now Tubaba left Pero, went ahead to knack what is the name of this mummy GO again?
Their relationship produced 2 cute boys.
The only reason Annie isn't fighting this babe is because the babe decided to move on by getting married. If she hadn't gotten married, today, Annie would have had to contend with two ladies for life Because there's no way you would stop a man from visiting his children and of course, during visits, they must knack!

Children has a way of bringing parents together whether you like it or not. Pero's express way still belongs to Tubaba as long as another man hasn't started plying that route, she's still haven't gotten over him and the 3 kids will one way or the other bring their parents together and even instigate a fresh relationship.

Annie saw all these red flags but choose to play "I WON HIS HEART", " I WON" to pepper the rest. I be babe and we sabi as he dey go - manipulating tricks.

His children, baby mamas will forever be in his life whether Annie likes it or not. Pero son is the first son whether Annie likes or not.
Though she is his first babe but iyen o matter because na who first born be the koko.

She accepted to be his wife despite all that is on ground which means she choose to swallow whatever comes out of it whether it is sweet or bitter. She choose to bear the burns the moment she choose to say Yes I Do to a polygamous man. She should carry her cross for life. She should just chill! That cry that she should have cried when she had just a baby and then move on But refused to move on but rather decided to accept his ring, that cry isn't necessary now.

As for the in-laws, there's is no way they can be shut out of the children's (their nieces, nephews, grand children) Hausa man go say INA! They will not only love the children but their mothers whether Annie likes it or not.

And when Tubaba dies, Na all the women go wear Anko (the same attire) stand together along with their children to honor their Father.
Also first son will be given the privilege to take some decision during family meetings & events too.
Will nko, na everyone go inherit father's property.

Make Annie go take chill pill jor. What she should be concerned about is the welfare of her kids and her which Tubaba is really trying.

As for you ladies wey go see man wey don born scatter full ground still shook head enter in the name of assurance and love this will be your fate! Be ready to become watch lady, monitoring spirit and you will have to be on BP & anti-envy pills for life.

No amount of Jaruma's kayanmatta will save you.

I come in Peace!

Prettychild:
When I keep hearing, men are ‘polygamous in nature’, I just laugh. That’s a big lie! There’s a difference between being polygamous or promiscuous. A polygamous man, marries a lot of women and pays their dowry but a promiscuous man is one who jumps from one woman to another. The truth is there are men who have had relationships with women that resulted in a child out of wedlock. But they regret their actions and have nothing to do with the mothers but are still responsible for the child. These are men who learn from their mistakes. But when a man decides to put a lady in the family way (with no intention of settling down with her), not once but thrice, that man is promiscuous in nature. Take it or leave it Don Jazzy, D banj are the few men I respect in the music industry.

Thank you for this