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Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by dettolgel: 1:24pm On Sep 09, 2021
Village people monitoring how other people live their lives.
Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by confirmedniggae: 1:24pm On Sep 09, 2021
Because we have agreed to carry our cross come rain come shine
Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by Okortor: 1:24pm On Sep 09, 2021
because of the kids and men's nature however Women generally are manipulator's.
I give it to them, FEAR WOMEN.

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Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by Kobicove(m): 1:24pm On Sep 09, 2021
It mostly happens when the woman is the one who has more economic power undecided

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Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by Lovenorth: 1:24pm On Sep 09, 2021
They are afraid of divorce
Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by duro4chang(m): 1:26pm On Sep 09, 2021
Simply becatse we want peace to reign.
Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by Kajaard: 1:26pm On Sep 09, 2021
Klass99:
The answer to your question is in your own narrative - the kids.
Some married couples (emphasis on some) tolerate one another and endure shit for the sake of their kids.
Where is your uncle's wife now?



True, very true.

I see living in such homes as a form of imprisonment. Lots of men stay back because of the kids and endure all manner of rubbish. This leads to them suffering from depression, getting lean and performing poorly in the office. I see this everyday.

I love my sanity and will not live in a hellish marriage just because of the kids. Life is too short for that.

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Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by nick50(m): 1:26pm On Sep 09, 2021
It's very simple to understand...only simps condone rubbish in thier homes..wen I was young once we hear d footsteps of my father everybody go run go hide..he is a no nonsense man n her wife respects him

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Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by madridguy(m): 1:27pm On Sep 09, 2021
The flower tattoo she drew on her shoulder was already looking like an ugwu leave during harmattan.
Because she was beautiful, her thoughts everyday was maybe someone like dangote or otedola will just wife her.


grin grin grin

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Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by omonla10(m): 1:29pm On Sep 09, 2021
Simply because, no matter how powerful u are, (even buhari) outside, ur wife holds one of the keys to ur inner peace which money can never buy

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Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by alizma: 1:30pm On Sep 09, 2021
To start with, are you married? There is this saying in my place, the cricket says it doesn't has blood so it doesn't try to make judgment on issues that concern other animals with blood.

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Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by moodyguy: 1:30pm On Sep 09, 2021
OTUMOKPOR.......ORHISHIRISHI

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Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by BRATISLAVA: 1:31pm On Sep 09, 2021
Crossroad1:
alaye, tone down the insult. He moved to the states and he didn't take the woman back..
Have noticed most of your threads and they are mostly filled with insult..
We have mature men here, don't assume everyone is a teenager or below 30..
This is a man In his 60's you are talking about, show some respect

Glad to see some adults on the forum. I was waiting for your response to that hate filled character. Seems you have observed him already. If he couldn't deduce that you were describing an elderly man, it's obvious he's a lost cause.

These abusive small boys have made the place a battleground where anyone who doesn't feel the same way they do is insulted. Most of them are damaged, broken products of society. That is why civility is far from them.

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Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by zanshi: 1:31pm On Sep 09, 2021
The unruly black woman always want to be unaccontable, uncoperative Kevin Samuel talks about them a lot on his show.

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Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by humilitypays(m): 1:31pm On Sep 09, 2021
falcon01:
Because women whether you like it or not are thesame
They are all the same
Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by zanshi: 1:32pm On Sep 09, 2021
The better women know that marriage is about "Duty" not some Nollywood fantasy, the better for them.
Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by Realmi: 1:32pm On Sep 09, 2021
That is because

2 people no suppose dey mad at the same time...if one dey mad, the other one go dey same...


If 2 people mad at the same time things go spoil

Hot will get married to cold

Cold will get married to hot
Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by lolu2019: 1:32pm On Sep 09, 2021
Justbehave:
Only weak sissy simps takes such rubbish
he was a simp
Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by shadrach77: 1:33pm On Sep 09, 2021
The answer is simple. It's because the whole world has been cajoled to believe that the man must soak up pressure and endure so much pain just to keep the marriage going. But only a fool will believe that. There is no point risking one's health for a lady who doesn't care about you when there are several outside who will appreciate you for who you are.

Like Fela once sang, "If you die you die for nothing" so a wise man will drop the woman like hot potato and find another one or live his life like that so as to maintain his sanity and prolong his life. Trying to force yourself to remain in a loveless marriage for the sake of the kids is nonsense. You can only be useful to your children when you are alive

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Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by TWLifestyle: 1:33pm On Sep 09, 2021
You men are actually foolish hypocrites to be honest - the rubbish womwn our up with when they are married to you makes this nonsense you just posted pale I to comparison! Do you people know the torture women go through when married to you ? Mscheew . Imagine writing when egbon wants to " chastise" her is she his child for him to be chastising? You people will NEVER agree for a woman to be chastising you bit you think it's your right to chastise another adult like yourselves. I don't blame you though , it's the women that accept you people s rubbish I blame .

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Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by fredoooooo: 1:33pm On Sep 09, 2021
For a marriage to survive you must act like a fool most of the times .. even if you divorce and marry another it's still the same process ..
You will see and pretend as if you don't see, hear and pretend as if you don't.
Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by MadeMan01(m): 1:34pm On Sep 09, 2021
1. Because of the mother of their kids. So the tolerate CRP because if the kids and would rather go outside.
2. Because the feminist movement has gained ground. Any action taken by a firm man would be seen as domestic abuse and blown out of proportion but when a woman does same, it is seen as emotional tantrums

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Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by BigYash: 1:35pm On Sep 09, 2021
Because they invested a lot and don't want to it to go just like that.. That's why its good to make the woman invest more.. She go dey comport herself. Another thing be say most of the men that are dumb in their home are bloody SIMPs.. I say it with no apology

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Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by TWLifestyle: 1:35pm On Sep 09, 2021
TheGidRedpiller:
@CrossRoad1 Because men of the modern age are not men!

Gone are the days when women dare not do nonsense, lets leave introversion out of this first, the men of the old were hard and the could take full control of their shiit no matter what!

Two things facilitate the stupid behaviours of the wife.
1.Egbon's weak masculinity
2.Shade's feeling of liberty.

Only strong men can keep a marriage in this age, ironically, they actually have to be stronger than the men of old because the women of this age got loose!
see this foolish womwn hating mongrel .

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Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by Ikwerelastborn: 1:35pm On Sep 09, 2021
Iyaebe:
How old is your Egbon I've been looking for a divorcee to marry lol.Bad attitude has nothing to do beauty so you dont have to associate the bad character with her beauty.
Zzor behave tongue
Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by Coronavirus1: 1:36pm On Sep 09, 2021
To avoid broken home.
Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by seyz91(m): 1:36pm On Sep 09, 2021
cheesy
CHoccolaTE:
I want to hear the wife side of the story first

Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by Babaheekmat: 1:36pm On Sep 09, 2021
Crossroad1:
Let me use my uncle as an example here...

This is a very hardworking man who doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, doesn't watch football and doesn't womanize.
An extreme introvert who doesn't even keep friends but he got married to a very temperamental woman but it wasn't so initially.
Shade (not real name) was very loving when they first met, it was love at first sight..
Though she was the outgoing, party starter type, but she was a good cook, and like egbon said, she can allow him have sex with her anywhere and anytime.

Her promiscuous side wasn't in the open all these while.
How she manage to keep it a secret is still a mystery though egbon is someone who is always busy at work and the wife though a graduate choose to learn hairdressing to keep herself busy.

Shade is a very pretty woman. When I mean pretty, I mean extremely pretty.. If you are seeing her for the first time, you will believe she is an half caste.
But she get angry for no reason, small argument or admonishing, she can just get angry, get out of the house and egbon will looking for her..
Maybe it was because of the beauty or the good food, or the not denying of sex, I don't know (egbon always believe with time, he can tame her) but she had a great influence over egbon..

Even when the family was beginning to notice her bad attitude, egbon choose her over the family cos he really love her, he loved her pass love self...

Egbon wasn't well to do when they met, he was living in a face me I slap you house wherr they share toilet with everyone..

While they live together, it is sometimes 1-0-1 or 0-1-1 or 0-0-1 but she stood by him all through that time..
So they got married despite almost everyone was against it.

The real problem started when she started giving birth.
She threw caution to the wind and became abusive. She was very strict to family members, manipulative and self centered...
She came from a broken home anyways, she was raised by her mother but in all fairness, her mother was a good woman who doesn't love trouble and she often wonder where her daughter got her own skuchy from..
Omo, shade get serious craze o..

After 3 kids, egbon couldn't tolerate her again.. She keep late nights and she doesn't even come home most times.
Egbon endured her for 12years before he let her go leaving the kids behind..

She was free to do whatever she wanted.
Let me just fast forward to years later when egbon has sent his kids abroad, he didn't remarry but kept a girlfriend after years of begging him to do so..

While egbon suffered the torture and torment of his wife, he didn't bring the matter to the family, though they know what he was going through..

Many years later, aunty came back using her kids as excuse.

The flower tattoo she drew on her shoulder was already looking like an ugwu leave during harmattan.
Because she was beautiful, her thoughts everyday was maybe someone like dangote or otedola will just wife her..
She is the lazy type that wants to live the lifestyle of alakija.

This is not a fiction.. How come I know so much?

I started living with egbon when I was 14yrs old. My own eyes too see pepper and shege..

Why egbon endured it all was because of the kids.
Most times, egbon said he wished he can run away but the kids keep holding him down cos even on her kids, she no dey get mercy..
My own wife too na dangbana choko and immediately she gave birth to the second child, I catapult am go abroad. The only diff be say, my own wife can die for her kids..

So let's have it. Why do married men keep quiet and tolerate nonsense in their matrimony?

What prompt me to write this story?
He just called me now from the USA and we talked and laughed about so many things he went through. Even him self now dey claim hard guy and redpill.



Your uncle is at fault. Right from onset.

Well, he has paid the price.

Fine woman doesn't make fine marriage.

Marriage goes beyond beauty

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Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by Ekugbeh(m): 1:37pm On Sep 09, 2021
Crossroad1:
alaye, tone down the insult. He moved to the states and he didn't take the woman back..
Have noticed most of your threads and they are mostly filled with insult..
We have mature men here, don't assume everyone is a teenager or below 30..
This is a man In his 60's you are talking about, show some respect
Don't mind that guy joor, they think everyone must see it from their lens

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Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by murchurat(m): 1:38pm On Sep 09, 2021
You can't understand.
Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by Klass99(f): 1:39pm On Sep 09, 2021
smiley

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