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I noticed recently that whatever my husband likes is what I like, for example, I originally use FCMB and my partner uses zenith, immediately I opened an account with zenith... Another one, I listen to foreign classic songs basically while my partner's more into Tupac and Orlando owoh, I totally love those songs now... I don't eat fufu before but I'm liking it now lol.....

It's a bond. Once you share a bond with someone, you begin to like what they like.
Act and sound like them sometimes.

Even when they do the stupidest things, it looks good to you just because you have become a part of them and vice versa.

Love is a powerful thing.

OMNIVIRUS:
Its called Mirroring or the Guchais principle in Pyschology. This is the subconscious mirroring and Imitation of a another persons actions.
Babies do this, partners, children, even Pastors and Imans etc

Nope, I disagree. This type here stems from the affection in the bond you share with this fellow. Where acting, sounding and doing everything like them gives you that special joy. It's not just something you do with anyone you're not in love with or a casual friend.
There has to be a bond.

You no go understand.

Wow! First To Comment!

Celebrations galore for me.

Mercychen:
It's a bond

Well...

Na love dey shack you.

E go clear

For those of you quoting me below..una try.
Una don begin drink panadol for another man headache.

I was just kidding with the quoted sister.
I wish everyone love but my love dey see road nowadays

Maybe you didn't try out other options and stuffs before you were married. You stuck to what you knew. But now, you are trying them because someone you love is into them.

GorillaApp:
Well...

Na love dey shack you.

E go clear

What will clear?

You prolly never experienced true love before. Pele.

Lamanii22:
I noticed recently that whatever my husband likes is what I like, for example, I originally use FCMB and my partner uses zenith, immediately I opened an account with zenith... Another one, I listen to foreign classic songs basically while my partner's more into Tupac and Orlando owoh, I totally love those songs now... I don't eat fufu before but I'm liking it now lol.....

It is what love does.

Mercychen:
What will clear?

You prolly never experienced true love before. Pele.

I did. When I was a teen....and when I was in my 20s. Love was pure and innocent then.

Nowadays, calculation don enter the matter.
Brb

GorillaApp:
I did. When I was a teen....and when I was in my 20s. Love was pure and innocent then.

Nowadays, calculation don enter the matter.
Brb

Okey-dokey . That's for you though.

I really wish to fall in love (romantic) one day, I want to know how it feels like

mariahAngel:
It is what love does.

And she will be doing it unknowingly till it becomes part of her...ihe love na eme..

That's a good one. Very good bonding. I pray that it continues till Jesus come. Congrats!!!

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Richy4:
OP, is your husband a sports lover?.. how do you cope if he wants to watch say soccer for example... When situations like that occurs, was the chemistry still there or does it quickly change to 'geography'

he doesn't really watch football.... I enjoy football sometimes... I'm a Barca fan... I love Messi, since Messi moved, I aswell moved my love to PSG....

Vision101:
That's a good one. Very good bonding. I pray that it continues till Jesus come. Congrats!!!

Amen... Thank you very much hun... God bless you...

Lamanii22:
he doesn't really watch football.... I enjoy football sometimes... I'm a Barca fan... I love Messi, since Messi moved, I aswell moved my love to PSG....

You guys are soulmate... I wish we could see something like this on front page.. Not bad news on who divorced who.. who's relationship crashed...I guess they might think yea, it happens and not newsworthy

Wishing you the best dear..

GorillaApp:
Well...

Na love dey shack you.

E go clear

It will not clear in Jesus name.

Her husband would never do anything that would cause her to lose her sweetness and nectar. Amen.

Una don come

Lamanii22:
I noticed recently that whatever my husband likes is what I like, for example, I originally use FCMB and my partner uses zenith, immediately I opened an account with zenith... Another one, I listen to foreign classic songs basically while my partner's more into Tupac and Orlando owoh, I totally love those songs now... I don't eat fufu before but I'm liking it now lol.....

That joy that is making you eager to mirror him & identify with him will not disappear in Jesus name.

Like others have said, it is love

Neither of you would do anything to disappoint the other causing bitterness in your hearts.

Amen.

These are the kind of stories I love to see.

Marriage is sweet when there's understanding and love at its maximum.

Like I do tell people,that there's no magic towards having a peaceful marriage.... Sometimes, Most marriages we see today fail as a result of the fact that the couple failed to continue doing exactly what they did that sparked their love during courtship when they finally got married.......

Las las,love and understanding na two major spices wey dey add special flavor to marriage

bukatyne:
It will not clear in Jesus name.

Her husband would never do anything that would cause her to lose her sweetness and nectar. Amen.

Una don come

Abeg no mind me. Just joking. I wish her bliss always. Op you hia?

Lamanii22:
I noticed recently that whatever my husband likes is what I like, for example, I originally use FCMB and my partner uses zenith, immediately I opened an account with zenith... Another one, I listen to foreign classic songs basically while my partner's more into Tupac and Orlando owoh, I totally love those songs now... I don't eat fufu before but I'm liking it now lol.....

Congratulations. You are among the exclusive and privileged 1% who are really married...99% of so called marriages are basically two roomates cohabiting after wedding!

Its a good sign. Happy love. Not bound to happen or a mandatory criteria for measuring true love but if it happens its sure a plus. You both love and are happy for each other, and people who love each other influence each other one way or another. Does he like things you like too? Even if he doesn't don't worry no biggie not a problem.
And also don't be carried away by sentimencts always take time to evaluate and make sure the influence is positive and self improving or brings happiness for mental health. It should never be toxic or self destructive. So far what i can say about the examples of influencing you've mentioned all look okay no harm.

bukatyne:
That joy that is making you eager to follow him & identify with him will not disappear in Jesus name.

Like others have said, it is love

Neither of you would do anything to disappoint the other causing bitterness in your hearts.

Amen.

These are the kind of stories I love to see.

Amen! God bless you hun

Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright....
This baby girl op don't know that these are some the things that comes up when you bang a particular pussy for sometime without condom

This is just a tip of the ice berg

Watch how the two of you start to look alike

Lamanii22:
I noticed recently that whatever my husband likes is what I like, for example, I originally use FCMB and my partner uses zenith, immediately I opened an account with zenith... Another one, I listen to foreign classic songs basically while my partner's more into Tupac and Orlando owoh, I totally love those songs now... I don't eat fufu before but I'm liking it now lol.....

Newly married??

It wears off don't worry

Una bound wella

Gerrarahere

Can't relate

When you marry your best friend....less arguments, things will naturally fall into place and you find yourselves shifting positions and beliefs for eachother.

Chemistry